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the movie was deeper than that, it showed how she was complete and happy even without him and it was her choice that she decided to give him a chance. Beautiful message ❤
the irony is sundar doesnt even care a bit about mina's career , his family didnt let her do the job and she is sacrificing all her self respect for their son's job is just THE IRONY
It is this sacrifice that has made our India a far better place than other western countries as a culture. Women shape the society, men run it. When women sacrifice they pave the way for understanding. A family runs only when there's an understanding. Sacrifice is short in front of understanding. She forgave him and that's why she is better than other women who don't. She maintained the integrity and that's why she is above that man that's why we worship Goddess because they possess they rare element of forgiveness, care and love which makes a family binds it. If she hadn't forgave him then what would have happened may be she might have found another guy may be he also would have been like him or worse or better but the integrity of marriage would have lost. A marriage is not just between two people it joins two families. In India family is the most integral part of society. Family empowers oneself, positivity at its finest. The guy was able to work there just because of his wife but the only thing that needs change is that she must have been allowed to work at the firm too and that's what is needed and people are changing nowadays. He had taken her for granted and he realised his mistake and she forgave him as she knew he has realised his mistake. She didn't hate him she just wanted that he realise what mistakes he is doing and treat her right.
then men should sacrifice and women will run the country. the same way out president is a woman right now. you will mock up any excuse to mistreat women and treat them as slaves and toys. it is not just a woman's job to forgive, forget and shape the society so men can go ahead and mess up whenever they want and the women will pick up their crumbs. you guys don't want a wife, you want a mother who looks after you like you're a toddler. she's not better than anyone who would leave in this situation because they should be leaving after having such a disrespectful and unwelcoming family who only care about their son, and the son is plain old selfish piece of junk. @@velor_gaming
@takumiusui6667 nah i didn't mean the sacrifice was great 😒 I said the understanding was great Don't misinterpret And sacrifice becomes great if it's love, men do sacrifice also. But sacrifice of women is great because their sacrifice runs the world. It's not about the movie but never compare sacrifices between men and women both are done for a greater feeling. I am not talking about forced sacrifice, I am talking about willing ones. Love is sacrifice but it's a sweet one. U guys make it look like it's a havoc. And no need to care about my personal life I am pretty happy about it.
Nah the cafe scene was the last straw. The man clearly disrespected her and put the job above her. He took her for granted and what happy memories did she even have with him?
It is this sacrifice that has made our India a far better place than other western countries as a culture. Women shape the society, men run it. When women sacrifice they pave the way for understanding. A family runs only when there's an understanding. Sacrifice is short in front of understanding. She forgave him and that's why she is better than other women who don't. She maintained the integrity and that's why she is above that man that's why we worship Goddess because they possess they rare element of forgiveness, care and love which makes a family binds it. If she hadn't forgave him then what would have happened may be she might have found another guy may be he also would have been like him or worse or better but the integrity of marriage would have lost. A marriage is not just between two people it joins two families. In India family is the most integral part of society. Family empowers oneself, positivity at its finest. The guy was able to work there just because of his wife but the only thing that needs change is that she must have been allowed to work at the firm too and that's what is needed and people are changing nowadays. He had taken her for granted and he realised his mistake and she forgave him as she knew he has realised his mistake. She didn't hate him she just wanted that he realise what mistakes he is doing and treat her right. It's not always memories.
@@velor_gaming it is not shown if he realized his mistake in a genuine way or not. For all we know it could have been fake. I agree forgiveness is good but she had forgiven him so many times, she gave him more chances than needed this makes her a doormat. Women should not be the only ones always forgiving. And families are worth nothing if they're toxic, they're meant to support you and provide security not make you feel miserable and unwanted. Indians put family life on a pedestal and cover up all the bad things just to protect their honor and that's hypocritical if anything. She is giving her all in the relationship and he lets his family make her not work, never speaks up for her and later doesn't even pay attention to her. Women must realize their worth, if they are made to feel less then they must leave. They owe no one anything. There will always be a better man. Also stop copy pasting your comment everywhere
@@starlure well u see I said that women can do job is something that is being acknowledged but is still in process not everyone is ok but people are changing but slowly. And as for forgiveness, every person does do mistakes and people do forgive not only between people in husband wife relationship but also other relationships there are always some small mistakes and some big neither all mistakes are forgivable nor is it ok to go for break up and divorce for small mistakes. People are ignorant and as for job he wasn't informed that she went for it and was cancelled by his dad she never told him because of his dad's pressure his dad didn't stop her to say it but didn't let her go and that's what I said must be changed. And as for copy pasting, I am lazy I don't want to write this huge passages to each every individual but I wish to go convey my message so I don't think so that must piss you off because I am not offending anyone here. People who cover up bad things in name of family are scum I am not talking about them and neither is it in this movie so please don't bring that up here they are social evils not the people who understand, they commit crime and I didn't speak about them. I spoke about the crumbling understanding that occurs among normal people in relationships and the culture. Thanks for responding ✨
I'm an Indian guy, and trust me when I say this to you.. this is the LEAST that's expected from Indian women. Now you know why so many Indian women end up with white dudes when they leave the country.
@@drAq5951what do you mean "survive" relationships? They are aren't death matches, it's supposed to be about love and partnership, not abuse. Disgusting mentality
I'm finding it hard to see the "happy moments" that she's holding on to...they've not even consummate their marriage and she has already suffered too much
She has self respect and she ain't dumb. It is this sacrifice that has made our India a far better place than other western countries as a culture. Women shape the society, men run it. When women sacrifice they pave the way for understanding. A family runs only when there's an understanding. Sacrifice is short in front of understanding. She forgave him and that's why she is better than other women who don't. She maintained the integrity and that's why she is above that man that's why we worship Goddess because they possess they rare element of forgiveness, care and love which makes a family binds it. If she hadn't forgave him then what would have happened may be she might have found another guy may be he also would have been like him or worse or better but the integrity of marriage would have lost. A marriage is not just between two people it joins two families. In India family is the most integral part of society. Family empowers oneself, positivity at its finest. The guy was able to work there just because of his wife but the only thing that needs change is that she must have been allowed to work at the firm too and that's what is needed and people are changing nowadays. He had taken her for granted and he realised his mistake and she forgave him as she knew he has realised his mistake. She didn't hate him she just wanted that he realise what mistakes he is doing and treat her right
This whole movie just made me mad. Meena deserved SO SO SO much better. Sundary should have spoken to Meena and acted like a team. He never had her back and didn't listen to her when she had legitimate arguments to make. Also, money will come and go but a relationship once lost is lost forever. More people needed to keep Sundar accountable, not just lecture Meena on her responsibilities
having Ego problem always destroy relationship. If we love someone we should keep Forgiveness in our heart also.It's we human being not Angel and we always make mistakes knowingly and unknowingly.
Adjustments and compromise are two different things...... Western world thinks all about themselves in relationships and endup with multiple divorces and grumpy at old age
Misunderstandings aren't the same as abuse. This so called woke mentality you guys have is what causes you guys to seek perfect relationships and lose the regard of being a real human being.
This is such a nonsense movie why should a girl always forgive when a man and his family does nothing but insults her and abuse her . People should change their perspective about girls being forgiving . Please show a movie where a girl decides for herself
This is b*llsh*t. She always forgive him. I don’t like the ending. Do people really think that a girl should always understand their man. I won’t keep a man who won’t value me as much.
This is how they brainwash women into accepting abusive husbands and men to expect women to be his slave and behave like a loyal dog. If she doesn't want to put up with this BS, she's labelled a feminist 😂. A strong confident man, doesn't disrespect and humiliate his wife ever. Since, society is filled with weak men, this is how they want to assert dominance and respect by treating women like $hit since women are physically weaker and can't fight back.
Well what is difference between living life like this and being in jail?...he never did anything to deserve her...yes he is a good man but he never was a good partner, he was to selfish to be one...
@@Gzrigel I haven't seen this movie as of now. What I have observed from the above video is that the man wasn't cheating with his woman. I Have seen western movies,where a lady who is not satisfied with her man sexually,she goes to younger man, and fucks him. Is it love?? In this movie,at the end,the man came back to his lady. Sorry my English is not very good,I am learning,as I did my education in the vernacular medium. Please Don't laugh on my grammar 😂
Indian families play huge role in low divorce rates which west lacks. Initially people won’t have that much understanding Indian families acts as bridge until they stand on their own.
So true.. divorce rate in India is very low worldwide, family institution is very strong. I really admire that from Indian, and with this uphold their society will go a long way unlike the west
I've seen a documentary that showed that this rate of divorce is lower cause so the bride can get a divorce she needs to go through an assembly (something like this) that is formed just for man. If they don't approve the divorce she needs to stay married. If she wanna get out for abuse, for example, most man don't care for that, sees it like a normal thing in the marriage, she won't have much comprehension like would if women's took part in it too (people who went through the same experience tend to understand each other better). OBS.: sorry for the broken English🥲😅😅
Better to separate than stay in an unhappy unfulfilling relationship. Also, Bharat that is India may have low divorce rate but it is also the highest in dowry related deaths. That should explain a lot about it's system. Even in this movie, if the situations were reversed where female lead decided to focus on her career after marriage, then the male lead would have been projected as a victim, sacrificing and all.
@@Maya_heewhat better...having a child before marriage. Then either put a child in home care or abort. Either girl becomes a single mother. Or she marries to another man. Then child never gets a true love. Teen pregnancies, no emotional security for children.. Girls do also gets mistreated, beaten in the relationship even when they last 2 or 3 months. Having sex with so many persons just to know who is going to be your life parter and then divorcong each other after some years.. What is good in that. Whole life you are searching for peace, partner and just tangle in sexual relationship only.. Arrange marriage system is much better...
I have someone in my life with the exact same story, it's just that they(can't tell the gender) had to continue it because of certain issues, failed to live their own dream and it's heart breaking..
Sandar is selfish and dumb... The movie also doesn't make any sense .. Engineering graduate who also have skill can easily find job irrespective of marital status.
Coming from a guy thats setting the bar too low. Just because one doesn't cheat doesn't make all other toxic behavior acceptable. Dude here was never supportive, never present, never cared to know why, didn't have her back and straight up lied many times. If you think such red flags are green all the best.
i'm not completly mad she forgave him, more like i am mad of how easly she did it. after all the hummiliation and lies she has been put thru by him, i would let him marrinate in appology a bit longer, to reflect. i get it firsti mpulse would be not to fogive him but yeah, when you love.....is hard. you tend to fogive alot even when they don't deserve. buth yes, there are bounderies for everything
@@ProudTurkroachlol that's way too much for a wife to do for a shitty husband like him. He deserved a strict woman who would've shown him his real place and treated him the same Be shit... deserve shit. Simple.
Would you leave your wife if she always disrespects you, shouts at you, lies to you about her work, always takes you for granted and Puts her work before you? Would you live with her?
Now we know why marriage rate is getting lower in India and the rest of the world. Women should get clear about this. You are not sent by God just to sacrifice. You are also a living being, you have every right to be equally happy. Don't put this sacrifice tag on yourself and become the victim. Nobody really cares until it all turns into anger. So be selfish, others will adjust.😊
@@trishatulikakashyap3306 Being around women is dangerous they ruin lives with their feminine drama I haven't even spoken to my mother for the past 5 years because of that
Lol, This movie not in theater's even for week and this movie was based on south Indian marriage but director actor's produced by North Indians who have zero knowledge about South and portrait stereotype of South India, lol this movie got trolled by everyone.
@@raziyaunnisa7680 Virgin south indian - gets offended when you get a small thing about them wrong Chad marathi - gets called north indian by south indians and South indian by north indians doesn't give a crap about it
Dowry system n caste system in India forces the couple to stay together if man divorce a his wife he is eligible to pay alimony n result is man will stay in marriage even if unhappy but will have extra marital affairs
forgiveness is mandatory to maintain relationships but I feel it's should be from both the sides. If Mina made mistake by coming to the cafe according to him then he should have forgive her just like she did earlier. he could have handle the situation more calmly. I don't like the thing were her in-laws stop her from working instead wanted her to teach the child what about her dreams then. And why didn't Mina make sure that her in-laws will let work after marriage or not. And what with the foolish rule that married peoples are not allowed it's not close to the reality at all. Engineer graduate who also have skill can easily find job irrespective of marital status. Anyways it's just a movie we have to learn from it what mistakes we should avoid.
it's good that i have not watched this movie bcz now a days boys don't marry until they have a secured job or a clear mind for the career, they understand what responsibilities will be there , so the concept is 1970 era.
On behalf of Indian women, we don't like this movie , indian toxic men talk about how we have to sacrifice for the sake of family. it's actually how only women should sacrifice for family. These standards of sacrifice only apply to women ,sacrifices should be chosen, but here, if a woman doesn't do it, she is ridiculed. My father teached me how a family will never demand sacrifice. All these men in the comment section say how outside people won't understand Indias family sacrifice they themselves don't understand their mothers sacrifice even if they understand, they won't even stop them from sacrifices they will be like "ohh i respect for your sacrifices but you will sacrifice till you die and also you should listen only to the man of the house"
This movie was terrible ... and misrepresented South Indians (Tamil Nadu) and sprouted a bunch of stereotypes ... Why was this made? ... Who is it for? ... It manages to make everyone look bad.
@@gaya3sree virgin south indian - gets offended when you get a small thing about them wrong Chad marathi - gets called south indian by north Indians and north indian by south indians doesn't care
Everyone in the comments were like don't forgive him, divorce him, everyone is eager to seperate but not to mend the relation. It is all about being together over coming all the odds. Everyone does mistakes. It's fair to get angry too. But he asked for forgiveness. Divorce is not solution for everything.
and if the girl had lied about being single for a job that is high paying, and openly disrespected her husband in the public without hearing him out, she should have definitely been forgiven too
Hey you’re the same guys that supports husband that slaps wives in front of every one right? And then expects women to just forgive because ‘mistakes’ right.
Very bad story.. Turns out the girl is ready to forgive the guy if he comes back with a sorry. What a characterless female. I thought she was great. I hate the ending. This guy will repeat his mistake endlessly. I wanted her to have a beautiful life of her own. Not with a man who never values her. Very bad story
This story shows us that love is kind, forgiving, understanding, caring, trusting, love doesn't dwell too long on the wrongs done but tries to find solutions to fix the problems present... misunderstanding will be there but they shouldn't lead to an end of the relationship. Love isn't perfect it's complicated and hard to understand. In my opinion the movie has a beautiful storyline.
In my opinion the girl is colour blind as she can't see the red flags which is the guy. But somehow has the perfect saree for someone being this colour blind.
We know who are speaking about Menakshi career and self respect because they are all those who missing fucking seance bollywood shit , bikini things, if those things were there then Menakshi was respected
forgiveness is mandatory to maintain relationships but I feel it's should be from both the sides. If Mina made mistake by coming to the cafe according to him then he should have forgive her just like she did earlier. he could have handle the situation more calmly. I don't like the thing were her in-laws stop her from working instead wanted her to teach the child what about her dreams then. And why didn't Mina make sure that her in-laws will let work after marriage or not. Anyways it's just a movie we have to learn from it what mistakes we should avoid.
My home environment is very close to the movies setting. A little but same house also. Ancestral house where all my fathers sisters grew up. They were a huge family. Very family oriented but all of them are masters in their respective fields and held very important positions in their jobs. Some are even scientists. In the chandrayaan movie all the saree clad women had ID cards around their necks. All my aunts look ditto like that. But not one auntt would have tolerated if she was told to sit at home and do household things. They have kids and they grew up. But they never let go of their career. One of my aunt retired as director in DRDL. And one as a scientist in HAL. That is feminism. Being told to sit at home to only take care of children is not feminim. @raghu I am very sad for you feminism means only wearing bikini. It looks like you don’t have good women role models in your home. I pity you for that but traditional women can also have a career and self respect. They will do pooja in the morning and then approve budgets for projects in their office. It’s possible. Hope you see someone worthy of emulating soon.😊
So, she goes out on dates, accepts gifts & starts working with her Ex-BF while being married & we are made to believe that the Husband is at fault??!! Wtf is this?
@@serenajoseph6073 so find a friend, not cheat around with her ex-boyfriend!! That's not an excuse. Imagine if a guy would have said that, "Ohh I'm just going out on Dates & spending time with my ex-gf for emotional support while being married to someone else". Sounds stupid, right??
@@dinot1609BRUH, Mina was always loyal to Sundar. Anant saw her differently while mina saw him as a friend.Sundar literally pushed her away whenever she wanted to communicate.
so you gonna ignore the husband literally left his wife the day after he got married, and was drinking and partying with other chicks (while he pretended that he was lonely and sad), having the time of his freaking life? not to mention he was hiding the fact that he was married - acting like a single bachelor ? at least his wife was honest through and through. but sure go a head and blame the wife. the only stupid thing she did was take that loser back
Can understand her feelings but here boy tried the most to save relationship than girl, for a boy to settle in life girl should be on his side if he is as patience as him,
These people don't know a shit about Indians and their family culture they can just point out faults, no wonder many childrens are born without a father and many of them wants to join lgbtq 😁 that's the upbringing u have there, and u see the marriage here is not something like kiss and read some verses and its done 😂 it takes time in movie its different but in reality once marriage is confirmed it atleast takes 6 months for actual wedding day so yeah here both husband and wife try to workout their relationships and won't opt for divorce at first like west where if husbund misses the birthday or anniversary the another day lawyer is on their couch readying divorce papers 😂
@@divineflu34567 I didn't say we are the best but compared to the West we are good. Marriage is not about being happy all the time. Marriage is a duty and commitment.
Exactly our culture of forced marriage, extra marital affair , d violence is so much better than the west right. Where kids are traumatised and leave the house as soon as possible then haanng themselves in other city. So much better. Everyone suffering mentally. But appear to be all happy , so cool and amazing. We go through all financial issues , but dare our women work. Nope that hurts ego, no matter if kids have to drop out. Women should stay home.
