NO ONE should be okay with ANYONE yelling at them like this. If your relationship has gotten to this point, retreat. Just as you said, Marcus, this is not a gender issue. This is clear ABUSE.
@@DevinLittle-fb5plshe’s going into DESPERATION MODE!!!!! Those two little demons need to get away from one another! Marcus, please listen to ALL THE WOMEN ABOUT THIS! He’s got her cornered, in public, and she’s going all apeshit for a reason! And yes, they need to separate because they are very very very toxic towards each other! God Himself only knows what goes on behind closed doors with these two, but it’s very toxic! His eyes say it all! She’s a dead giveaway, but so is he! She’s a sociopath but he’s a dark triad.
Salvation first, and then this for sure. We live in a crazy world and these girls and a lot of women now a days are so unhinged and full of evil spirits, it’s disheartening. Jesus is much needed!
0:00 I Agree, Everyone is attempting to analyze this #Young Girls behaviour when the evidence speaks for itself , she full of irrational emotions. Without God none of us are nothing. I don't feel she should have been exploited, she did a pretty good job herself. This Soul needs healing and Prayer. Otherwise what good are the Believers and Saints? An opinion is only an opinion Smh, sending.ip Prayers 🙏 Peace Be Still..
I get it. It's demonic. I used to be like that until I was delivered and Jesus set me free. 7 n half years I've been free from those feelings and behaviors. Only God! 🙌☝️
Absolutely wrong of her!! And she doesn’t even look like she’s inebriated. Full blown ABUSE. And it’s true, abused ppl abuse others if not healed. Not acceptable. She needs deliverance/healing.
I disagree with you sis. Men are still being held accountable no matter what we do is bc we’re the strength of society, women on the other hand since y’all are the weaker vessel get let off pretty easy. Not a man vs woman thing but thats the reality.
It's difficult to see the other side of things because we look from our own eyes. Men see from their perspective and women see from their perspective. It's unfair to put the blame on just one side when we are one in one, and we are human. We all make mistakes. The issue can come from either side. Mature men and women of God can understand that. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 AMP [11] Therefore encourage and comfort one another and build up one another, just as you are doing. Christians are called to use their words to build people up instead of tearing them down, and to minister grace to one another by conveying kindness, blessing, and divine influences. Edification can be individual or corporate, and involves helping one another along the road to Christlikeness. Other Bible verses that mention edification include: Ephesians 4:12, 1 Corinthians 14:1-26, 2 Corinthians Romans 14:19 & 15:2 Ephesians 4:29 Proverbs 18:22 AMP [22] He who finds a [true and faithful] wife finds a good thing And obtains favor and approval from Lord. Ephesians 5:25-33 King James Version 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband
This made me feel sorry that he had to deal, with this kind of abuse while feeling pointless she did not have any right to scam in his face like that hoping he knew his worth after this.
As someone who dealt with this behavior from a narcissist and BPD person, this brings back memories of being treated like this. I was just as confused when this happened to me. Its not about doing anything to them. They want control. You can tell by his face, he is the one being gaslit. Making him feel less than, so she can control and manipulate him. I feel bad for him.
I could honestly see both sides… I definitely believe one of them is a narcissist. From somebody who is generally very easy-going and levelheaded… When you are under severe narcissistic abuse, it can cause very out of character reactions that can look just like this. I don’t say this at all to defend her behavior… I’ve had to repent of my own for sure. But there are narcissists and psychopaths out there who are very cunning and subtle in their abuse tactics and it causes your reaction to the abuse to seem completely over the top. No matter what the situation, both of these people need to separate and get deliverance and healing.
@@Shawna.Michelle I understand and have compassion for what you are saying. As I have experienced both Covert and Overt narcs. There were times that I was out of character too because of the abuse was so intense. However, if you listen to what she is saying, I personally discern that she is the one blowing this out of proportion. She is name calling, degrading him, in my opinion, to manipulate for sympathy and control. As well as causing a scene, over something that should have just been a conversation between the two of them in order to in my opinion embarrass and manipulate. You can tell all that because she even feels the need to try and control some other woman who's reacting to her overreaction. Narcs throw tantrums, not healthy people. That's what I see at least.
That is severe mental abuse when shes screamin like that! Ive acted this way before to a man who was actually really good to me bcuz I was totally unhealed n took it all out on him! Women should take accountability! Amen!! It is very embarrassing and sad for both parties ! God bless them both n Jesus name.
She’s trapped. She’s freaking out in public, because she feels safe in public. God only knows what he does to her mentally…. Bcuz she is a wreck. That boy is a true monster….. and getting away with it. These comments are ridiculous. No one can see he’s the monster. They only see her…… just wow
The fact that she had so little control over her emotions makes it evident that she doesn't need to be in a relationship with anybody but Jesus. She needs help and He needs to leave her alone. Period. Her behavior was absolutely outrageous and unacceptable.
She’s trauma bonded and yes she needs to get away from that joker. He’s truly evil, enjoying the mental anguish he’s bestowing upon her and in public too. He hasn’t been caught yet, that’s all. And see how all these women snub her? And then go in and take her manster (you can have him, he’s a woman eater, ladies). This world is backwards and upside down. Jesus is coming………
I think the bigger question is why is the guy dealing with this? What kind of deliverance does he need in order to stand against this type of foolishness and keep his peace? #Toxic
@TheTrueTrinity888 A true man can not truly rule until he leads with the love of Christ. ... Ephesians 5:25 KJV [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; ... Colossians 3:18 KJV [18] Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord.
Immaturity and clearly lack of self control. 2 yr. Old tactics. Immaturity is attracted to Immaturity. Brokenness is only attracted to brokenness. Women, stop putting ourselves in these situations and break the cycle of dysfunctional relationships. Get yourself some help and stop the blaming. Get healed. God bless.❤
The behavior is clearly influenced by demons. She suffered trauma as a child and is reacting as if the trauma is happening again or will happen again . She is convinced she has to be like this.
Closest comment to mine so far. People are being quite harsh. She has clearly suffered trauma and is triggered. She may definitely regret this deeply later. it's not a blame game who did what to who, we should all be able to handle u9s and downs and honestly we are all still learning if we ourselves suffered as a child we are still allowing God to shape and transform us.
We don't know if the guy did something or not to cause her to react like this, but he respectfully shouldn't be taking that. And whether he did do something or not to cause her to feel this emotional, she should feel shame and embarrassment lashing out like that in public. There is a severe lack of maturity in both of those individuals.
This is so degrading it’s impossible to watch 😢 I hope his parents get a hold of this video and have a sit down with this young man. Please everyone pray that he removes himself from this person for good. She need deliverance🙏🏽
The poor guy. I used to yell at my ex boyfriend constantly. I hate myself for it. I'm asking God to make me a better woman. I would never treat another man like that. It makes me not want a husband, because I feel so bad.
Do not hate yourself. Hate your behavior. You are loved and you are a work in progress. Learn from your mistakes by making changes moving forward. But, plz sweetheart, do move forward. God does not want for you to remain where you are or remain as you are now. The Bible is given to us as a help for us. We can learn from the mistakes of others and see how God used their weaknesses to do great things. Your past does not define you. Learn and grow and some day you will become a wonderful wife and mother and you can then point all the glory and honor to God for His hand in transforming you.
Yes, hate the behavior. And I encourage you to pray and ask the Holy Spirit to fill your heart, mind, and soul in every way. When we are filled with the Holy Spirit, we find the fruits of the Holy Spirit begin to be present in our lives; love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, and temperance. And, those around us can't help but be blessed by that fruit of the Holy Spirit. If you have been reborn in Christ, and abide in him, the person and sin that "makes you feel bad" are no more. We are new creations in Christ Jesus! Praise his mighty name! Be encouraged, and filled with the Holy Spirit. Read the Word of God, and draw close to him. Be blessed, peace. Galatians 5:22-23 KJV But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance
Agreed.. This woman is out of control. Doesn't matter what happened. Totally Unacceptable, so disrespectful in a public environment. But.. still unacceptable in private. She's having a mental meltdown. Will probably not seek help 😔
he wasn't cowering from her he was cowering from the person recording them they kept looking at the camera phone they knew they were being recorded he was embarrassed and hoping that wasn't posted she didn't care as much
@@ashleyelabo1714nahhhhhhh! No one is going to be in an airport traveling with someone whom they are going through very tumultuous times with.... Doesn't make sense... But, I could definitely be wrong. Stranger things have and are happening in our world today!
@@92_lolo She doesn't need compassion, she isn't having some emotional meltdown she is abusive. If she were truly overwhelmed with emotion and unable to regulate it she would not have just gone still and silent when security came up. People who are really having a meltdown don't have the ability to just shut off their rage and go silent instantly. Abusers on the other hand do have that ability because they had the ability to control themselves the whole time but don't think they have to do so in regards to their partner.
This and the fact that "women" finding this acceptable is absolutely disgusting! 1st SHE GOT A DEMON OR 5!? Why in the WORLD would anyone blame him! How is it that no one thinks a man can't be beaten down just as easily as women! Like you said, if he had done this to her in public, dude would've been taken out! You KNOW the enemy is losing (as always) and panicked! Way to many manifesting!! God help us 🙏
@@DevinLittle-fb5pl I guess its like abuse but in this case he is so indoctrinated/subdued and scared of her anger and verbal abuse(hopefully only verbal) that he is 'trapped' in his mind and maybe is being made to feel he is the problem.Shame
She is not crazy. She is off the rails crazy. And you can tell that this is common cause he is totally not reactive nor surprised. I feel pity for them both. Clearly she needs deliverance. But he also needs help and he should be made aware of his own worth and that he does not have to tolerate this kind of abuse.
This is disturbing and there is no justification for her to act like this. This man needs to let her go and she needs to get some sort of therapy because this is not ok.
So, if we hear between the yells about him rushing her through the airport to the point she got sick (it could easily have been sick as in panic or anxiety), but note he softly says, we were going to miss our flight. I know that still doesn't answer much, but there is context here, BUT there should also be awareness on their part that there truly is a time and place for everything. This outburst maybe could and should have been more private. Just an opinion. Lord, have mercy on humanity. 🥺
She’s not crazy, she’s lost. And the guy- he’s lost too.. bc he’s been abused in the absolute WORST way imaginable for a man: - emasculated & disrespected - by “his woman” - in PUBLIC - filmed & uploaded onto INTERNET *(and he doesn’t know what to do, as he desolves from humiliation and fills with rage
No matter what he did as an adult she shouldn't be carrying on like that. Screaming at the top of her lungs in his ear is just awful. And why was he just taking it?? He not so healthy either.
Marcus, that was served with Grace and Love. My son often talks to me about his experiences dating women. I admit that I tend to defend the women. I am an old school, Christian woman and just don't carry myself that way and a bit out of touch with reality. Thanks for the confirmation and reminder to not be so defensive but to listen and watch with open ears and eyes constantly in prayer. I attended the zoom Bible study, Tuesday for the first time and thoroughly enjoyed it. I realized (too late) there was a women's Bible study the following evening. Will definitely try to catch that one next time as well. Thanks so much for allowing God to use you to change lives. Juanita from OKC!!!
As a victim of abuse, this 100% is the display of an abusive relationship, where she is the abuser and he is the victim. She is attacking him verbally, insulting him, and humiliating him while he is unresponsive and non-reactive. Victims learn not to respond as a form of self-preservation to not escalate the violence of the abuser. It doesn't usually help though. He needs prayer to get delivered from the yoke of a demonic, narcissistic woman. She needs deliverance and, probably an exorcism. Men can just as easily be victims of abuse as women, it just is less commonly heard of. I say that as a woman. Praying for everyone's deliverance. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
As a woman, I totally agree. She does not know how to control her emotions!! This woman has some spirit's in her sadly. This man needs to get away from her. If she hates him so much, this relationship is toxic. And if its truly him, he would be doing her a favor by leaving!
regardless of what he may have did she is out of line it’s never okay to act like that in public or private.we also all have free will so if he was so bad why doesn’t she just leave she is at the airport about to catch a flight with this man. in closing,jezebel hates accountability
You just named my life Marcus. That's exactly what I go through and that's exactly what her situation was before she was abused by her previous boyfriend's. I come along, I'm a nice guy and now she became the abuser. I don't get it ❤
I don't think shes crazy, she is very young and clearly immature. I think she needs Jesus and to heal from trauma. We all handle trauma differently so we should pray for her in my opinion. She definitely shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone but Jesus until she has healed from whatever has gone on in her life.
the crazy part is I didn't see not one comment in here talking about how maybe this is a build up of something he could've been doing over and over and she just mightve lost it right then and there. and don't start with "if the roles were reversed" thing or the "women can do no wrong" thing either because it's wrong from either gender. but no one in these comments maybe thought, this is an explosive moment because maybe she put up with a lot from him all the time and it was just the last straw? because on instagram there's a lot of people I saw talking about how they were in a relationship with someone who always pushed them to being mad and eventually they got pushed over the edge and had reactions like she did. I was one of them and I'm blessed to have come out of that situation. some people just might be the culprit but "play" innocent and stay quiet like he's showing. don't assume like you know them. I'm not assuming either but I'm saying,,,, u never know what goes on in people's relationships so stop just jumping down her throat calling her a "devil". as if most of the people in these comments never exploded like this before. whether it was behind closed doors or in public.
Brother Marcus’ perspective on this is perfectly on point. I don’t agree w/him on absolutely everything; but on a lot I do: this is one where I absolutely do. I call it “inherited hurts” when a person deals with drama from trauma that they didn’t cause, yet feel the brunt of it. You’ll find yourself being blamed for soul-sores & scars that you didn’t cause. That came from some stranger that was with your partner 2 & 3 relationships ago!
Soo true pastor Marcus, women DO NOT want to or know the importance of taking accountability for their actions. That behavior is unacceptable. That’s crazy behavior. I don’t know what people are thinking in these times. I couldn’t agree with you more. I am a woman I could see that behavior is crazy. Seriously! In a public space!! I don’t care what he did unless her life is being physically threatened then that’s an exception but to be carrying on like she’s literally demon possessed that’s just NOT tolerated IMO.
THANK YOU SIR? THANK YOU. Finally someone who publicly acknowledge this. Recently divorced from toxic behavior from ex wife. I absolutely agree with your perspective.
Ugh!! I feel so triggered by this! You’re right no one knows why she’s behaving this way. However, there’s a great percentage of narcissistic men who’ve studied the legal system, women and people in general and scream DOM violence. Many times like attracts like. The demons in her could triggered by the demons in him.
I’m just curious what did security do? That’s just a grown up temper tantrum. I’ve been seeing and experiencing this with the younger generation. They lack self control. I don’t care what anyone did to me, I’m walking away. I’m not going to act out in private or in public. I sure hope he gets out of that situation. I would definitely tell any male relative of mine to run in the opposite direction. If someone tells me they hate me, I’m believing them!
@@DevinLittle-fb5pl I must say ANGER is NOT A Sin It is Written Be YE Angry n Sin not can be used by GOD 2 Do the Right Thing in this world !!! N Laughter is Not Sin Either LordJESUS Help US ALL !!!
Marcus, thank you for touching on this subject and not backing down and telling the truth. So many "men of God " lie, cater, pander, and idolize women while bashing men
Pastor Rogers I agree of what you are saying about men being abused out there . Ive seen it . That woman could be bipolar. There's women out there that also provoke men too. . Ive seen that too. And it was happening to a family member , I praise God that God removed her from his life. She had been hurt before in other relationships and never healed . That girl at the airport needs Jesus in her life.
She could burst his ear drum, and she could lose her voice. This is way too much chaotic energy she is putting out; he is so calm about it. This is not a heathy situation.
