Women Love To Be Wanted

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Many of the men I work with seem to be confusing being too needy & simply wanting a woman. There's nothing weak or needy about wanting & desiring a woman. In fact, part of woman's attraction for a man she likes is his desire for her. Women love to be wanted & desire to be desired!
In this Attraction Tips video I'm going to be discussing the difference between wanting a woman & needing a woman, as women love to be wanted, but despise being needed. #WhatWomenWant #FemaleNature #MensDatingTips #attration
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@SkillofAttraction 2 года назад

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@BrownBoy-xv4xr 5 лет назад

Man.. This is the best channel I came along on youtube.. & the least number of followers I believe you deserve is 2 or 3 millions But I don't know what's wrong with people following every other channel(no desrespect to them either) but why don't they follow this caliber of a channel!!! Just keep it up your good work coach.. Two words for ya... THANK YOU🙏

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Thanks for the great compliment, man! My channel is building slowly, but surely...

@jameshuffmar1765 5 лет назад

these are very honest and insightful details. watched hundreds of videos but never heard before some of the things you said

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Thank you!

@LD-ns9sg 5 лет назад

Another gem. Good stuff

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Thanks man!

@hanzohattori2492 5 лет назад

@@SkillofAttraction truly sir you are a jedi master when it comes to this sort of thing.

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Thank you!

@RetroCaptain 5 месяцев назад

I made the mistake of gifts flowers too focused on her. She felt like a princess and walked off with a bad boy, following mother's advice. Today she is miffed that the men she is meeting in her mid 40s aren't interested in marriage anymore (marriage to her specifically, because she threw herself at Chad and co. in her younger days). I also found a couple women who were obviously interested in me and because I didn't instantly jump up and run after them they changed their minds.

@SkillofAttraction 5 месяцев назад

Well, women LOVE the chase, despite what you've been told or led to believe. If you're too easy, they lose interest quickly. They enjoy it initially, but it gets old quickly. So the bad boy becomes attractive, because she has to work to win his heart. As far as women changing their minds...you have a small window to make a move on a woman & if you don't, the window closes & never opens again.

@LINKGT23 5 лет назад

Great video coach 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽!!

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Thanks man!

@pinoy122793 5 лет назад

5:10 got me laughing. Man you are lucky to have lived with a stripper for 4 years 😂😂.

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Haha! It was quite nice having her & all her stripper friends running around in my place in their underwear all the time. 😉

@johnkay8778 5 лет назад

OMG Heaven and Stellar learning curb

@monkeybubblessupperdude1016 5 лет назад

@@SkillofAttraction me..."I'm sorry master but this dating thing is taking longer than I thought" Master Yoda..."patience,you MUST learn patience"

@vibz0911 5 лет назад

Hey, at one point you're saying women love to be wanted but also give a conflicting insight that indifferent men are more attractive to women. How can one make her feel wanted and be indifferent at the same time. Please explain

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Well, by 'indifferent' I mean, that you want her, but you don't NEED her; you're happy whether she's with you or not. You should always see women as a complement to your life. It's okay, in fact it's imperative, that you show her she is wanted...but you also want to be indifferent to whether or not she chooses you. A confident man of value knows that there are plenty of women out there that would be happy to give him her love & attention. Does that make sense?

@vibz0911 5 лет назад

@@SkillofAttraction yes got it. Thanks.

@fitnesswithwasif3995 Год назад

Hey coach either is show too much intrest or I am cold or dismive . Either are not working please make a video on how to fix it and find a balance beacuse it frustration need your help

@SkillofAttraction Год назад

Yes, you need to find balance, because going too far in one direction or the other will work against you. But I'll add that topic to the list.

@fitnesswithwasif3995 Год назад

@@SkillofAttraction yes please do a complete in depth video . Being too intrested makes her feel like she is the prize and dump me for her own prize. While being cold does make me the prize but she feels neglected and unloved . In first case she chooses a guy who is bit more of a challenge . In 2nd case she chooses a guy who is more affectionate , loving , and gives attention . I either get stuck in 1st or 2nd what's the way out of this nightmare

@fitnesswithwasif3995 Год назад

Need you help it hurts to lose a girl I really care about and see a future with beacuse of these 2 extremes

@user-np2oq8xn6t 2 года назад

Hi coach! When I hug my girlfriend warmly, she starts crying. Is this a good sign for attraction? In other words, is crying when hugging or cuddling her related to attraction or affection? Is that good thing to maintain in relationship? Thanks

@SkillofAttraction 2 года назад

It's difficult to say for sure what it all means, but I would think she's crying due to experiencing strong emotions in your favor.

@user-np2oq8xn6t 2 года назад

@@SkillofAttraction Thanks coach I just hope this experiencing strong emotions will not affect attraction, especially sexual attraction

@SkillofAttraction 2 года назад

@@user-np2oq8xn6t It's part of "affection"...& you need both affection & attraction for a successful relationship. A woman experiencing deep emotions for you is a very good thing.

@yell50 9 месяцев назад

Don't squeeze her so hard that may help lol

@davidscott5266 5 лет назад

This is good, glad I found it

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Thanks man! I'm glad you found it too!

@rejectwokeness1314 4 года назад

This is confusing. Do not show interest and she gets turned off, show some and she runs. Different women have different threshold, this is hard to gauge. Women expects men to have their own life yet want them to read their minds, its just so hard

@SkillofAttraction 4 года назад

Once this all click for you it won't seem so complicated. Yes you DO want to express your desire & sexuality to her. Women must see you as a sexual option before any romance can happen. So, creating some sexual tension & COVERTLY making your sexual interest in her known will really help you. However, what you do not want to do is express interest in a commitment until she begins hinting that she wants a commitment from you. You may want to check out my recommended reading list: www.skillofattraction.com/books/

@mohammed96011 4 года назад

Coach what do you think of the book 5 languages of love? And the principles it teaches. Does this build attraction in a relationship if you know your partners langusge of love?

@SkillofAttraction 4 года назад

It's a great book that can really open your eyes. It really doesn't build attraction, but it does build/maintain affection. You need both attraction & affection is a LTR/marriage, so it's important. If you're interested in a book on how attraction works, I recommend "Atomic Attraction" by Christopher Canwell, which is really the very succinct basics of attraction. Another really good one which dives deeper into the psychology of attraction is called "Attraction Isn't A Choice" by David DeAngelo. This book partly pioneered the men's relationship/attraction advice movement. Many dating coaches use the title quite frequently in their speeches, "attraction isn't a choice". It's only available as an ebook at the author's website: vg201.isrefer.com/go/AttEbookRL/attractionskills/

@mohammed96011 4 года назад

@@SkillofAttraction coach i noticed by spending more time with my Mrs things are getting better. She is talking more to me and generally being nicer. Pulling back and giving her less time was just making her go colder and distant. Do u know why this is? She still doesnt show affection physically or verbally but i think this is because that is not her language of love. I mean even when we're on good terms she never iniates affection she always waits for me to do so. She has never been a cuddling kissing type of girl. Should i continue to give her time and just initiate sex? Or will that drop her attraction

@SkillofAttraction 4 года назад

@@mohammed96011 It's difficult to pinpoint the exact reason, but there's a good chance that she was seeing it as 'war' of sorts; basically feeling, "Well if he's not going to do it then either am I". And perhaps just feeling that you don't care. This is one of the reasons I suggested making some dates. It's very possible that's not her love language & that being a part of why she's not initiating affection. However, if she does feel like you don't care she's not likely to be putting herself out there, fearing that any affection would be rejected. Risk taking is not part of feminine energy. This is why men typically initiate the courtship. Plus, if being affectionate was never really part of who she is, she's going to wait until you take the lead before she reciprocates. I still feel that you should give her time, but in this case; give her time to come around after you've taken the lead. So, perhaps start lovingly touching her, very occasionally at first. As an example, when you're walking by her place your hand on the small of her back for just a second, give her a kiss, brush her hair out of her face while looking into her eyes; small gestures of affection done with confidence. She may pull away or not reciprocate at first, but don't get offended or take it personal for now...just give her some time while you consistently escalate your touch & affection. Then look for some reciprocation from her, whether that be physical/verbal affection from her, or maybe even her doing her love language for you. Once she becomes comfortable (& as long as there's still something there for her), you should notice some form of reciprocation, even if it's just a little at first. She will most like start small, like dipping her toe in the water to see if it's safe for her to open up again.

@mohammed96011 4 года назад

@@SkillofAttraction great thanks coach!

@mohammed96011 4 года назад

@@SkillofAttraction hi coach. Just a quick one. Does sitting your mrs down and calmy telling her what you want from her and what she is not doing for you comes across as needy and insecure? I need to express to her clearly she is not putting effort in the relationship. I dont have patience with all these different tips and tricks. I need to speak to her as an adult calmy.

@Kingofleos822 5 лет назад

So how important is it for you to have a strong bond with a female?

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

It really depends how important she is to you. If you're interested in a LTR with her, then it's quite important. However, you don't want to force it either...let it unfold naturally. On the other hand, if you're just with her for fun & sex, then it's not that important.

@Kingofleos822 5 лет назад

@@SkillofAttraction man your the best guru/teacher to go to thank you 🙏🏾💯

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Thanks, man! I appreciate that!

@dietyadjacent3200 5 лет назад

What if she's an ex and needs your attention.

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

She doesn't NEED your attention...she simply wants your attention. If you want her, let her have your attention, but only AFTER she shows you that she'll put in effort to make things work with you.

@dietyadjacent3200 5 лет назад

@@SkillofAttraction she only flirts when she sees me but never call me. And if I may ask what kind of efforts an I looking for.

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Next time she's flirting with you, tell her something like, "I can tell that you miss me. Why don't we get together & we can continue this flirting then. When are you free?" If she's flirting with you tha's a sign that she still has attraction for you. And if she agrees to go on a date with you, that is the effort that you should be looking for.

@dietyadjacent3200 5 лет назад

@@SkillofAttraction i asked her once how she feels about me and she said she just wants to be friend yet she will flirts with me everytime she sees me and will always check on my phone, she is so insecure becuz of her previous relationship in which she got cheated on. I told her we're not meant to be friends and will never be and she's free to call me anytime but not on friendly term, she asked what are we meant for so I said to be together, she didn't declined, i know she wants to be with me again but want me to ask her out even tho she ended things really bad with me. I want her to learn her lesson and show me she really changed . I do show her interest but I don't want to confess my feelings to her if she can't tell me how she feels but can only flirts. Many girls flirts with me yet I still see them getting laid with other guys so flirting only communicate attention seeking to me.

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

You never want to ask a girl how she feels about you. Women don't communicate the same way us men do, so she'll never tell how she feels when you ask her. It's good that you declined friendship, but now you have to re-attract her. Try what I suggested above. It conveys confidence & women find it very attractive.

@ch1bob 5 лет назад

Is it needy if i get upset because the girl didn’t want to sleep with me and wanted to sleep over at her friends house after a date lol

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Yes..

@ch1bob 5 лет назад

So hard not to get upset when you only have 1 option (always good to have a backup)and after a long date she says that. At this point she has lost a lot if not all attraction because of this. Bah..

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Yes, having options is important. I have a video about how it's best hat you be dating several (at least 2) at a time until you & her are ready to commit.

@nickblacksoul4318 3 года назад

Hm interesting one time I like a girl and so because feels like I told I want you and nothing else ,and she stuck with me for 8 years

@SkillofAttraction 3 года назад

The trick, at least part of it, is to continue communicating your want & desire for her throughout the years mostly through your actions; courting her, arranging dates, physical/loving touch (not only sexual), etc.

@nickblacksoul4318 3 года назад

@@SkillofAttraction Wish I could she isn't exactly ok she had a psychotic episode and still is a condition that she isn't all here ..

@ch1bob 5 лет назад

Is it needy if i say “let me know if u want to see me 😩” when she starts bringing excuses on a meet up invite

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

It's not 'needy', but it gives her the power & women don't want the power deep down...

@ch1bob 5 лет назад

Skill of Attraction well i sort of had no other option, maybe i could’ve just said ok and be indifferent and maybe try again on the next week.

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

Normally you don't want to push if you told her to contact you...typically you want to wait till you hear from her. In this case, though I feel you're wasting your time on a girl who has a boyfriend, wait a week & tell her that you would like to see her & then ask her when she's free to get together...

@ch1bob 5 лет назад

Skill of Attraction i’m gonna go no contact tbh. If she reaches out this weekend i will agree if she comes to my place. If it doesn’t happen i’ll stay no contact and next week same thing maybe i might even go MIA and meet her at the music festival so i don’t have to pay for her ticket. At this point i am disenchanted anyways, so it will be easy to let go. Tbh i just wanted to have a constant lay in my bag...Thing is the ego is hard to control sometimes.

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

That's really best. Plus, I was going to recommend that you aim for a friends with benefits situation, rather than any sort of serious relationship.

@yell50 3 года назад

Its very confusing women despise needy men yet they love to be wanted, all I am hearing is just contradictions after contradictions which only leaves me more confused lol

@SkillofAttraction 3 года назад

No contradictions. Women LOVE to be wanted & desired, but despise being needed by a man. They want a man who can be happy & confident with or without a woman, who doesn't need a woman in order to feel good about himself.

@123sanoon 9 месяцев назад

Wanted by who? A loser or a winner? A man who secures their primal biological need of security and survival for hers and hers children. A man who is strong, confident and competent to deal with life to succeed and win. Or a man who is a waste of time to date and will be like a boy to carter and look after. She wants to be wanted by BY WHO?

@EbikeAdventures667 Год назад

We all love to be wanted!!!!!

@SkillofAttraction Год назад

You should watch the video, because you missed the point.

@JakeTheCatGamer Год назад

actually everyone wants to be wanted but *no one* wants to be needed.

@SkillofAttraction Год назад

You're misunderstanding...women actually get off on being desired...it turns them on. And men actually love to be needed by their girl.

@larryrubin5150 4 года назад

The woman on your shirt is hot

@SkillofAttraction 4 года назад

That's my girl. ;)

@GusBrunson 3 месяца назад

Women love to be wanted? Actually the more you ignore them, the more they want you!

@SkillofAttraction 3 месяца назад

The more you ignore them, the more they chase your validation, because they love to be wanted & desired....but ONLY if they already like you. Ignoring a woman who doesn't know you exist will do nothing.

@darylcampbell5952 5 лет назад

I let her know that so I back off.

@SkillofAttraction 5 лет назад

If she's not sure about her interest in you, then that's all you can do. Let her come to you.

@samihaboubi6366 3 года назад

Well a narcissist want to feel wanted as much !!

@SkillofAttraction 3 года назад

You can't be bitter with women if you want them in your life, even if it's purely physical. Yes, they have a dark, ruthless side to their nature, but there is also a very beautiful side to their nature. Learning how to balance that will have it working in your favor.

@samihaboubi6366 3 года назад

@@SkillofAttraction it has nothing to do hate or love , I'm just saying that craving for been desired is a symptom of narcissism , I'm neither with or against women , and I believe that the only positive side when you're in relationship is the physical act (even bonding is physical act ) and I believe that most men will feel the same with at least 50% of the whole population of women , as for myself believe it or not since I was a kid I never was able to tolerate female behavior or been willing to join the rat race with other dudes !!

@SkillofAttraction 3 года назад

@@samihaboubi6366 Like or not, that's what turns a woman on...or I should say one of the things that turns them on. The point of this video is to teach men who want to attract women what it takes. Most men who are new to this information believe that if they're just aloof that women will swarm to them. Of course there's plenty more to the equation, but it's a start.