@@bravojonny999I'm a woman and I will say that the woman who said that is either trolling or actually means it, but if I were to divorce, it wouldn't be a cash grab. It would be if I needed to leave for other reasons. Greed is a thing but not everyone is greedy...
I always say that the one thing women need in order to rule the world, is a wife. If all women had wives we would be just like men. Unlimited. A wife carries all the baggage so your hands are free to climb up the ladder of success. So absolutely marriage is better suited for men.
Lol marriage is better suited for men lol... most marriages end in divorce the results is the man losing most of his assets ...a good portion of his future earnings to the CSA....he also loses access to his kids with women getting perental responsibility in 90 percent of all divorces ...with another man raising his kids ....alot of men r estranged from there kids not by choice......and if u look at the suicide rate among men it consides with the average dirvoce age of a man around 40...and what r the chances that an average women will even look at a man with that type of baggage.....men have started to catch on to this and r not marrying women in fact there not even getting into relationships ...over 66 percent of men under 40 r single ....there r now more females over the age of 30 childless than under 30 ....there's going to be a lot of old lady with cats in the future ....
@@LouLouLion The human biological experience with testosterone and male chromosomes is fundamentally different to a female one. The male motivation is about perseverance with satisfaction found in service of his legacy while the female experience is also about legacy but through self satisfaction. So men also ask himself "Am I good enough now to provide/protect/add Value to be worthy of respect" while the female experience is "Is this the best I could get,could I do better". That is why in a relationship sense female motivations often lack the cooperative qualities for long term relationships and hence the high divorce rate, especially amongst lesbian couples. Virtue signalling aside, natural innate tendencies are best predictors of long term behaviours at an aggregate level. Men are the serving class but requires respect and women are the self focused class that requires satisfaction. We are now in a relationship market where 80% of men are never respected and 80% of women never satisfied.
My husband wanted to keep a king sized bed, but we bought a new mattress when we were getting married instead of using the one from his first marriage.
Interesting questions for open discussion but too much joking and laughing can ruin the talk and make it sound quite annoying, especially when there are statistics to discuss.
Some women may do most of the housework but not pretend like men don’t wash the dishes, take kids to school and more important studies show men work more hours on average, make more money, pay more bills and spend more money on his wife and kids. It’s very rare that the women is earning more and proving in the same way.
@@nntflow7058 - That’s not how the world works. Most women are not ok with making significantly more than their man. A man who is a lawyer and makes 100m a year is quite happy to have a stay at home wife and be very happy with that. A female lawyer who makes 100k a year is not happy with a man staying at home.
Woman paying 100% of the bills here, doing 90% of the cooking and cleaning, working full time and spending 3-4 x on him than he does me. My bank account and my heart are empty.
That’s false. Most men aren’t doing extra work once they get home. Statistics show that women work both outside the home and still do the majority when it comes to childcare and home duties too. So that’s not true at all. The fact that men only do ONE thing is actually what makes a lot of women realise how replaceable they are. Pull your weight and if you do, then you must understand that this is few and far between.
I would genuinely like to know how men benefit from marriage? What can we do in a marriage that we can't do outside of it? I would say most men marry women, because the woman wants it and pressures him, not because he actually cares.
I have been having difficulties with my marriage for sometimes now but with the help of this Sorceress, I have been able to put my marriage back together.
I know women who were influenced by friends who were jealous to point faults that were not there. Also women chase happiness that sometimes ain’t there. Also the financial benefit of leaving is great. The man rather stay as it is cheaper to keep her. That is what they say
Sorry but let me say what everyone is actually thinking. Women initiate more divorces because they benefit more from it and they have less to lose by doing it. Surprised men consider marriage... No benefit to them at all... No difference to having just a partner. Why bother. If you are a young man take this advice seriously DO NOT GET MARRIED. Dont go university and ambition if you're gonna just get married and jeopardise all your hard work. *I've never been married but I can smell the coffee*
There is no benefit to marriage for women. And most women aren’t getting hefty settlements. Thats very rare. Most households are DUAL income and considering the fact that ‘financial difficulty’ is one of the top reasons for divorce in the first place… tell me, what is she taking? Anything she takes is half hers anyway. 😂😴🚮
What planet are you on... Pluto? I never said anything about taking half but I note you mentioned it.... True isn't it? Since it affects men a lot more than women on average it doesn't go into the equality debate does it? Taking half... Lovely jubbly. Of course women want to get married. Men would never consider if they weren't constantly asked by their partner or partners mates. If it goes wrong, women enjoy 100% of sympathy and support with the professionals.
You do realize women get abused ? Also if you’re not happy and you’re not getting along it’s not good as partners or for your children. That’s not a good environment
Dude. You cannot behave anyway you want and think she is forced to stay with you. No woman is leaving a good man. If she left. There is a really good reason. Be better people. Pull your weight. What’s so hard about that?
@@gailainsley6939 - Why is it always on the men? Women are the ones that overwhelmingly want marriage yet the “modern women” is very quick o divorce and leave the man for dead. I’m not saying men and women don’t need to self improve but leaving isn’t an option working on it is.
@@jameshumphries5059 Women only want it because there truly is no benefit to being with a man otherwise. Like, why would she waste her time with only YOU if she can just be single and get the same exact thing that a relationship provides anyway? Women do not pay nor need a relationship to acquire companionship, babies, intimacy, dates etc etc. this is all free to a single woman. So if a woman is dealing with a man and they want kids or his taking up her time etc. there needs to be an incentive there as to where the relationship is going/ why she should be with you. That’s why it’s called taking HER off the market. Women don’t want it just to want it. It’s marketed heavily to women and has been socially as well as religiously upheld by the patriarchy that it’s what women should do. Any woman that didn’t do that was shamed. It’s only now that women are becoming more honest about not wanting it nor seeing the benefits of it and are empowered to be single. But in the past, men hoarded the resources from women and told women that in order to gain access, she MUST entertain/ be with a man. This was decades/ centuries of conditioning but women are getting their rights now and access to their own resources. Once a woman has resources, there is nothing else that she truly cannot have. Thats why it was kept away for so long. In the future women will demand it less. Probably just go to the baby bank and call it a day.
Women don’t want 50/50. If a man breaks into the house you expect your husband to go and deal with it. That’s not 50/50 and he’s got to put his life on the line.
@@lisab9541 - It’s not about how often it happens it’s that the risk is much greater. To give another example if you go out anywhere and someone touches you inappropriately, says something sexual which unfortunately happens to women often then you’ll expect that man to do something about it. Most women expect a man to pay for the first date that’s not 50/50. Most women won’t even date a man long term unless he makes more money and spends more on her than she does him, women. I could go on all day but women don’t really want 50/50. In relationships we have certain roles to fulfil but unfortunately in many modern relationships men are told their roles are none negotiable while a womens roles are negotiable.
Women put their lives on the line all the time when pregnant carrying a baby for 9 nine months and dealing with postpartum after that. A man protecting his wife, home on the of chance that somebody breaks in is a low bar
@@Babemovac - That’s her choice to get pregnant. I’m talking about something that isn’t a choice. Only 50% of women have kids but 100% of men are expected to put their life on the line for a women.
Once upon a time, family's were being abandoned and it was men who were doing it. This was not funny. This was shameful. Today, family's are being shattered, and it is women who are doing it. This is not funny. This is shameful.
Haven’t watched yet but I’m sure it will be men’s faults. The reality women have deluded standards for the men they want. They also have divorce which heavily benefits them. When a man goes through a divorce it cripples him.
