It’s not games rlly it’s just you gotta know how to be a pimp she gotta know how to be a *** it is what it is unless u think 95% of the girls u meet u are gonna click with and have instant chemistry no that’s the 5% so unless u don’t wanna talk to any girls and figure them out and have them figure u out then u won’t win
Guys, never take woman seriously! No matter what age of the chic, pretend you are dealing with the emotional maturity of a 12 year girl. How many times has a chic you are with , said no to something, and later she is doing it? Use few words with most chics, show them what you expect with your actions. I believe this is part of a masculine frame. Cheers.
Wowww sooo cool of you guys! This shows you guys are just being losers with women. No men who is succesfull is making such a stupid comment while some men are even more childish then women. It's the same when dumb chicks say all men are animals or something.
Sup guys, I need some advise. For the past 3 weeks on the weekend I’ve been hanging out with my best friend and his gf and recently his gf has been bringing her friend along. I’ve seen this girl 3 times now, we all go bowling together, eat out, sometimes chill inside etc. I like this chick but she seems to be playing hard to get or maybe just not interested. She’ll touch me, let me touch her, we get on well, joke around etc. I usually drop her home at the end of the night because she doesn’t live far from me. But whenever I go for this kiss she gives me the cheek, or her neck, I don’t get it. Most of the time it’s pretty easy for me to get with girls as they make it easy for me and giving clear signal they like me but this one is tough. Any opinions or thoughts? As I’m going to keep seeing this girl since we all hangout together but don’t wanna keep forcing, I don’t know weather to keep trying or just back down before things get awkward for her
@@kings7244 you already can kiss her neck tho 😂 tell me about her behaviour, is she hanging out with others too? Does she look at you? Or wait tell me is she kinda shy with you? & do you want something serious or casual?
The game is always the same, the only difference is you get more chosey as you get older. When you're young you fancy anything in a skirt, roll on 15 years and you like half that amount, hit middle age and the amount that appeal to you you can count on one finger.
Being direct and real with women is the best thing don’t hold back just say what’s on your mind ! Don’t be mr nice guy he’ll always be friend zoned. No apologies 👌
Yeah, unless your an average or less than average guy. In that case being direct with women will get you into trouble. They want the Chads and Tyrones to be direct and real with them.
With the MeToo movement we got to be careful. For example I have a no fishing off the company pier policy for this reason. You can be accused if she drinks at any time for assault. Scary shit
Men only make moves on women they like so if a man does not make a move on you, he is not interested in you other than what you give him for putting out no effort. The hard part for men, especially as we get older, is trying to find a woman truly worth making a move on. We too often settle for someone we dont even like and our effort and passion just disappears. Its better to go all in or do nothing when it comes to women.
Loool as a woman I’d say it’s boring when people ask for picture all the time but it’s nice to share like one or 2 because we know the person wants to see us through out the day ❤
TRYING is the key to success in life. Yoda lesson has been misinterpreted. Yoda wasn’t telling Luke not to try!! He was telling him, don’t LET ON that you’re just trying. But try!!! Don’t fail to try!
I’m a beer drinker also ,I’d enjoy killing a 24 pack and talking with this dude a whole day and sharing wisdom a I’ve always known a good friend worth far more than thousand women
Reject you? Can a woman really reject you?? A woman cannot reject an Alpha male..... She can only show her inability to accept the offer of the Alpha........ But yeah, a Beta can get rejected...... A feminine man is gonna get rejected for sure! May be she'll use that beta as her dog for some time, but at the end he's bound to get kicked away
@@newhope5729 This " alpha, beta, and sigma" labeling is a bunch of crap. Any guy can be rejected at any time. Woman's nature is unpredictable. They themselves don't even know what or who they want most of the time. You may think you're a respected " alpha, but if she's looking to monkey- branch up a little higher, ( and trust me, there's always someone higher) then you also will be history in no time. It also depends largely on what she's looking for in a relationship. That alpha attitude may be appealing to her for a short time, but like most other females, eventually she'll get tired of the game and either dump him or get dumped, thus leading to the pre-wall or post- wall " where are all the nice guys?" phase...
@@jdemarco What? If a woman leaves you, you become history? What a weak feminine man are you? What happened if a woman left you? And yeah there's always someone better, so, would you not marry then and stay unmarried throughout your life? BTW what you wrote is your opinion and the reality can be different....... And yup, I agree Alpha Beta labeling is just crap but it is actually used to give the idea about type of person...... You got the idea, that's enough!
@@newhope5729 I meant you become history in her eyes, Not necessarily yours. So let it be. Women have rejected me. I'm still here doing fine, my friend. And I'm happily married 43 years. So I do know a couple of things about women's nature and unpredictability. It's got nothing to do with "weakness or feminity" Again with the labels.. It's about both sides being honest and communicating...But I think you know what I meant, you're just being argumentative. My main point is that there are a lot of variables in relationships, and to categorize is a waste of time and energy. Sometimes we just have to take a good long look at ourselves and stop blaming others...Maybe it's us that need to change. That's what real strength and masculinity is.
@@jdemarco Nah, I'm not being argumentative...... And yeah, you're mixing up rejection and cheating lol........ Rejection is when the relationship hasn't even started yet....... And cheating is something else....... And respect doesn't always mean you need to go and ask her for a relationship....... Respect is when people know how to behave with you. I think you're just all over the place and couldn't properly put your point........ Or maybe you do not even have a proper point..........
That does go with his "traffic light" analogy. You, as the man, get to decide if you want to take the green light. If the "traffic light" comes around again. LoL! You don't take it personal! It's just a "traffic light." LoL
Anyone who does nofap can gain this confidence. I’ve seen dudes who were ugly and short get all the chicks. They had an intoxicating aura that women desired.
What is nofap? Ugly dudes who aren't wealthy. What planet?😆 Anyone realise how shallow women are from dating apps and social media from endless attention from endless men
Well, I guess I went about it entirely the wrong way. I regularly go the gym and am one who pushes himself to absolute limits of endurance. I can literally run almost two hours on a treadmill, and still train intensely after that. But no woman ever approaches me. In fact they skidaddle when they see me. I usually dress all in black with my hood up. Now I can easily strike up a conversation with guys who respect my athletisim and extreme workouts and when joking one time with one that women seem to run away when they see me, he said it's because I was waaaayyyy too intense and way to mysterious and unavailable to women. The dark hooded image sends creepy vibes, the intense workouts send a message that I am not available, unapproachable and that a womans attention is not won by a show of athletisim. Been doing that for five years. In the best shape of my life and always wondered why no woman and only guys spoke to me at the gym.
@@eladbari assuming the sale, keep going until they say no. Abundance mindset, not showing desperation. Every move is made intentionally to set something up like LFA explained. Being a leader/authority. Breaking down barriers.
For me it's when I'm completely clueless then I get text, selfies and knocks at my door 👀 I'd rather just keep it at that instead of getting cancelled reading into things and making a move. And I want to be alone... 😅 Good luck to others who try tho.
Why do women say "no hookups" or "I'm not here for sex"? I feel 90%of online dating profiles for women say that now. Yet they want us to "hold a conversation" lol. Tbh I'm not really interested in flerting yet because I just need some basic information first like is she married or is she located near me or whatever. If this is true then women are so backwards or not genuine about their intentions
Really looking forward to the workplace video brother, would like to see how I did. I think I did pretty well but time will tell she is upward on the chain of command please include that dynamic Worthy to note I am well liked and rising fast at work
Sup guys, I need some advise. For the past 3 weeks on the weekend I’ve been hanging out with my best friend and his gf and recently his gf has been bringing her friend along. I’ve seen this girl 3 times now, we all go bowling together, eat out, sometimes chill inside etc. I like this chick but she seems to be playing hard to get or maybe just not interested. She’ll touch me, let me touch her, we get on well, joke around etc. I usually drop her home at the end of the night because she doesn’t live far from me. But whenever I go for this kiss she gives me the cheek, or her neck, I don’t get it. Most of the time it’s pretty easy for me to get with girls as they make it easy for me and giving clear signal they like me but this one is tough. Any opinions or thoughts? As I’m going to keep seeing this girl since we all hangout together but don’t wanna keep forcing, I don’t know weather to keep trying or just back down before things get awkward for her
Prolly just using you for the attention. Next time your out I would cut attention and act aloof to her. She’ll notice and then try to work her way back to getting attention from you. Don’t give it to her until she goes along with what you want
I love to intimidate men and women , both of them , keep sharpen myself each single day to separate myself from majority of peoples ! Never be my pleaser dad ! Never as a masculine man ! I've been cursed by my dysfunctional family ! No nononono
The game hasn´t changed, bitches have.....yes I´ve got plenty of results Vet out the time wasters and be clear on your intentions, either she´s with it or not.
LFA's pick up video got me into limbo. How do we pick up / date casual once we know the damage it causes to women and society? How does a guy reconcile gaming / dating casually and 'alpha widowing' women ie being so good that you leave a emotional imprint on her, causing her dissatisfaction in her future relationships? You can say to leave them better than you found them, but it's the fact that you leave them good because your such a good guy that hurts even more that they lost a catch of a man. Red pill knowledge is double edged. Whats bad for women/society (promiscuity leading to emotional baggage, family and emotional breakdown) is described, but whats prescribed is pick up, spin plates and have rotations, causing the very society complained about in the end. LFA has a video against plate spinning as it wastes time and hurts feelings and that he's a a zero or 1 guy. But if your just seeing one girl at a time with no intention of taking it somewhere serious that can still hurt them. One can make a case that it’s more hurtful as the longer you see just one girl the deeper the bond, the deeper the cut when it ends. Multiple short term relations is less deep, but it’s death by a thousand cuts. Both can be painful and offer pain, just in different strokes and degrees. Morally you can clear your conscience if your upfront about your intentions and what you want, but even we know women will try win the commitment of a free alpha guy and get hurt in the process of failing that. If a guy doesn't want or isn't ready for a relationship (other pursuits, self development, likes freedom, has personal issues to deal with), won't go celibate as that takes one to transcend his nature and you still need to practice dating skills to eventually get a relationship later down the line even if thats in a few years when older and you want to settle down, the only option left is casual dating. But how do you do this without guilt knowing that women can be alpha widowed, or that the dating game causes emotional collateral damage along the way. We complain about high body counts then are contributing to that. Maybe your preferred lifestyle choice is casual dating as you enjoy that independence or don't want to risk marriage/kids, cohabitation. Saying this to women will put a lot of them off as usually most want the white picket fence in the end. We know they love they game of trying to change a alpha guys mind on these things and will feel hurt in the end. If they are the emotional ones and we the rational ones (ie rational male) are we supposed we to act rationally and as the natural leaders lead them and society somewhere better for all of us. A sub group of men enjoy the pleasures of the dating market taking the women away from the average guys, and ruining the women when these women settle for less than best which they got to have a taste for. We pick up, but women don't want to be dropped off by a guy they want, every drop hurts be it a drop off in relations or lifestyle, humans don't go backwards. We appear to live in the present, but live in the past. How can a guy pick up, knowing dropping these girls off hurts ?
@@asheikh7775 the people who use game without considering how that impacts the other person long-term. Using game to obtain consent is essentially psychologically manipulative rape to me. Using “game”, lies, or withholding one’s true long-term intent to obtain access to someone’s body should be a crime. If you’re on the same page, cool. But if someone receives consent based on how-to videos just to get sex, that’s mind fuckery.
@@N.j.4711 such a superficial answer to a profound thought... You are the one who do not care... And for the message, those are some thoughts that I have always had,yeah, kind of everything is a contradiction, you cannot make one without the other. Maybe it is just a matter of balance... You should not be in pickup all the time because it is bad for society but you should do it because if not, it would be harmful to you. I find that the only way is to always be coherent with your actions with women... If you know that you do not want a girl seriously, tell her your real intentions and from then, everything is easier to process
@@PipeRiosL I am the one who do not care? 🤣 I do care. I care equally about the people who want connection with another badly enough to seek guidance (props) AND the people they “learn” on. As it should be. As long as your intent is made upfront and you don’t lie just to have sex with a particular person you know would otherwise never sleep with you, all is well. I’m not sure what you find superficial vs profound, but I sensed it as a dig and that’s lame, too lol
@@LFA its a long story but she was pulling back and playing games so I played along and focused on gym. Now we dont really talk normal since 3 weeks. I might have to mention that we sit next to each other in class every period which doesent make it any better.
Just do nofap. Everything will fall into place. She may or may not be right for you. Honestly what you did is logical and is the right thing to do. The ball is in her court, but does she want to play? Can you make it so that she does want to play? Entice her by doing nofap and exuding confidence and excitement. It will happen, bubba
@@blackpillfitness9136 nah bro i did nofap for a whole year and i dislike it for personal reasons; wont do it again tbh. But regarding her: I found out today that shes afraid of relationships and shes very bad in communicating so I just accept the way things are and move on in life. It was still cool: i never thought i would make out with my crush tho so I enjoyed the moment while it lasted. But thanks for the advice i respect it.
