Women Share When They Realised He's Not Their Type Financially | ShxtsnGigs Podcast | Patreon Clips 

"... I suffered and I won't do it again"😭😭😭 girl same.

I can relate to the "high maintenance" one. I asked a guy to by me a snack. He said "I would, but you're not a gold digger"....the snack was $2 🤦🏾‍♀️.

Nah!!! We are not skipping the "Making her own wedding ring payments!". LOL

i was with him for three years and every year he made sure we fight before my birthday..and he said he didn't believe in Valentine's Day "its a day for prostitutes" he said.

The high maintenance one 🤣 I was planning out groceries and my paycheck so I could make myself surf and turf for dinner one day and this coworker I wasn’t even talking to said, “wow you’re high maintenance.” To which I replied, “I’m only high maintenance to those who can’t afford to live my life” and he got BIG MAD 🤣🤣🤣

I always thought money doesn’t matter, but it truly does… my ex had way less income then me, but I didn’t care. So if I said let’s go out eat, I would pay since it was me wanted to eat at the restaurant. But everytime he would say next time he would pay. He never did. It made me feel a little uncomfortable, but the real realization came when I found out I was pregnant, paid for all visits and medication myself and also for the procedure after the miscarriage, while he kept saying he would give me some money after he got his salary and then at the end just ignored and ghosted me. So being financially compatible, has nothing to do with being a “gold digger”, but making sure you are not a burden to your partner and are able to support yourself and the lifestyle you want to have.

“All you need to know is I’ve suffered and I won’t do it again” 😭

My ex used to pay rent and his car only, I paid everything else, everything, even his clothes and gifts for his family. Then he has the audacity to be upset when he cheated (while planning our wedding) and I moved out with everything I'd bought, which was essentially the whole house of stuff, and he realised how expensive furniture, appliances, nice food, entertainment and clothes were. He lives in a spare room with his family now wahaahaa. Sucks to be him lol.

You should feel embarrassed when you try to LOOK like a provider and you’re not one. These are the types of dude who will try to boss you around and control your finances while you pay 50%+ of the bills.

If you don’t want to be embarrassed, don’t be embarrassing 🤷🏽‍♀️

The guy using his girls' card to pay for the bill can't be that embarrassed cause he got dressed, left his house and went on the date.

He embarrassed himself by asking for the card in the first place. No one would even notice she paid or care if it was pointed out to them

"he just sat there like a baddie" 🤣🤣🤣

The one paying for her own wedding ring needs to run

When he whined to me about how thirsty he was (more than 3x) then complained refills were $0.50. I offered to buy him the refill and he declined saying he just could not believe how much of a ripoff it was. Confirmed when he told me he had a twin bed (he was 6'5") and his feet hung off the edge with no plan to change until he got married. I asked where his lady was supposed to sleep and he said in a sleeping bag on the floor. Like we were camping. 🤣🤣 Boy bye.

😂😂😂I refuse to believe some of these are grown men. Olive Garden is “relationship stuff”😂

Before my husband, I didn’t have one man who had any $…I made excuses for them thinking we are all just young, who the hell has $ when you’re going to college and working a shit job with no family money to back you up? But then I realized, I’m a young college student, I had to pay rent to my own parents, my own car, insurance, gas… and yet, I flipping worked 3 jobs and STILL paid for dinner so we could go out on actual dates. My husband is 4 yrs older, had his own house and we’ve made every purchase based on his income only. 1st date he cooked me dinner and we played scrabble. 2nd date I sat on the back of his Harley as we rode to a concert. Took me on a winter weekend hiking trip with cabin and hot tub. I moved in after 1 month. 13 years now and 2 boys. He’s hot as F. Women (and men) need to know their worth, stop settling, and provide as much value to their partner as done for them.

bruh why does it feel like this video is recorded in 16k?? Crisper than ever!

He haggled the price of Lobster. He asked for a Lobster that had been in a few fights and was missing some legs AND he tried to pay for our movie with expired coupons and then acted offended when they said, "Sir this coupon is expired, but we do have military discount". He just didn't want to pay.

My friend called Olive Garden the “Italian Dennys” 😂😂😂😂 It’s literally a basic American Italian food chain with BASIC food

So back in my single days I went out on a adate a friend set me up on 😒. He was handsome had good convo. He ordered 2 pails and a pint...big steak like 24 ounce and a tail (lobster) also it came with mash and vegetables . He was eating like he was starving. I assumed since my friend said he was a gym JUNKIE I was like okay gains for the day. Also he ate 9 of the 10 rolls and asked for MORE. I had fish , salad and soup( I am not a bird I literally had a long day and so much water I didn't want to eat heavy I got to hit gym later.)Bill comes I am okay with splitting it. Nope he looks at me and says oh I got next time 🤯🤯🤯🤬🤬🤬 his side ALONE 130$ mine was 25$ including the tea I had. I said I gotta go pee and found our waiter slide him 40 $ and said say nothing for ten minutes and then say she left for an emergency. He said I got you love I saw him slide you the bill. The waiter also said he heard him in the bathroom saying yeah I am so gonna smash it later she is into me it will make up for the bill. Naaaah FA-MI-LY !! I called my girlfriend and said thanks for the grenade you tossed at me.

If you're broke broke, hold off on relationships. Work on yourself and situation first. You not ready boss man/lady.

"Babe, I treated you." 😄

I dated a guy who didn't like when the cashier at my fave station would give me free coffee. But when we'd go to the grocery store he would separate my coffee and creamer and say he's not paying because he doesn't drink coffee.

I took a girl out on a date, I dont drive so I got a uber and picked her up and then to the restaurant. We were about to pay and I told the waiter, yeah I'll pay by card. But before that the woman I was on said date with went to the bathroom. I knew exactly what happened and was thinking "lol nah, this crap actually happens irl?". So I paid for the meals, its cool. It was my date, my booking, course I'll pay and left. (cause yea, she had already left lol) Fast forward a day or so, she messaged me and said "sorry for leaving, I didnt feel too good and just wanted to go home. I would've split the bill with you". I said "all good, I paid for it as I planned to pay since I asked you out". She then said "what? I thought you would've asked me to pay or didnt have any money cause we didnt drive here and it was fancy". Fastest block and delete I've ever done.

When he asked me to quit 1 of my jobs because and I quote "I am making him feel less manly" I was working 2 jobs and doing night school.... sir I am building myself I don't care with you 😐😐

The whisper got me wheezing

I was hanging out with a guy once and we were at a manga cafe where you pay by the hour. He payed for 2 hours plus our coffees and we went to find a cubicle to chill in. After the 2 hours was up we both wanted to keep hanging out but he sed he didn't have enough money to pay for another hour so I offered to pay for the next hour. He sed no and looked at me like I had 2 heads. I tried telling him I really didn't mind paying if it means we get the extra hour but he refused. We walked around outside instead. I was so confused cuz I'm used to seeing things of guys being mad girls don't pay for stuff so I figured he'd appreciate it. He looked at me like I'd suggested something diabolical 😅

1. When eats off of your plate and actually finishes your food for you 😂. 2. When he says get what you want but he orders only an appetizer. 3. When he asks what you normally eat. You then proceed to tell him and watch the smile drain from his face. 4. When he asks how are you living so glamorous.

he asked for “his” £1.50 he gave me because I had no change on me just my card, he also worked part time because he “likes to have time for himself” 🏃‍♀️

Not Olive Garden being relationship stuff!!! Ms.Big Money could afford it. 😂

Asking for her to give him the card so it looks like he's paying is absolutely bonkers. Like, really? You're more concerned with how strangers view you than the woman you're dating? Asking her to do that is _less_ embarrassing and shameful for you?! Crazy.

Remembered the guy who insisted to buy me £5 meal, got mad I didn’t want to do him and accused me of using him for a meal 😅

My favourite was sis who said: I've been there and suffered, I'll never do it again! 😝 A clear END to the story of entertaining comfortably broke boys

Plasma is removed from blood and can be donated a couple times per week here in the US. I believe they pay you between $30 - $60 for every donation. And Olive Garden is definitely a chain Italian restaurant here and the MOST you would pay for a seafood pasta entree is like $30...they even have a buy one entree, get one free deal and that's like $15...and the salad & breadsticks are all you can eat, lol.

This one guy kept hitting me up every month to borrow 20-50 euros promising he would pay back. He never did and one time when he asked for money I told him I know where he could get a second job because I was asking around.. he blocked me 😂

I once had a guy who I was dating very briefly ask me who helps me pay my bills now at the time I was working two jobs and I was in college full-time and I said what do you mean he was like I mean does your ex-husband help you with these bills This is a nice area and this is a real nice place and I’m looking at this dude and all of a sudden he started looking like a roach to me. He was implying that I was sleeping with someone to live nicely. 🤦🏾‍♀️

The time I realized a man was not my type financially was when he had two kids, had a good job, but not enough to take me or pitch in on dates or vacations. Now, I'm not talking about paying for the whole thing, but go half and half. He only had money for his children and child support and that's ok. Also he asked me if I could work while he stayed home and take care of his kids. Yeeeaaa, on to the next.

Second conversation with a guy and after telling him I bought a townhouse his response was “must be nice”

I got us each a sub, he had a 12 inch and I had a 6 inch. After taking one bite, he’s like you know you don’t want that and kept talking about my sub. I said “you sound like you want my sub” He took it from me and starting eating my food after he finished his, was eating like he was starving. I asked him why didn’t he pay for it, if he was going to eat mine too. He said he left his wallet at home. Something hit my foot when I went to sit on my bed and it was his wallet hiding underneath my bed 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

A guy used to only take me out to cheaper places and still would make sure to ask over the table "so how are we handling this financially.."

Dating anyone who can’t afford to take you out on dates or go on dates is a drag. It’s a waste of time. You’re not enjoying life together just getting by together. It’s a no! Run! Ladies and gents runnnnnn!

My ex told me he was taking me out for an extravagant date. It was a restaurant I hated and a movie that sucked. Then he stole my credit card to pay for everything

I got one…he asked me if he can go door dashing with me so he can make money for our dinner. He spent the whole days pay on dinner for himself while I did all the work. I didn’t need the money but I’m not taking care of no broke fool.

I work at a plasma center. We have a lot of people who actually don't do it for the money. When you donate, you are 100% guaranteed to save a person's life. Plasma is used for all kinds of treatments and is in desperate need. It takes about 1200 donations to produce enough medicine for one person with type A hemophilia. It's a win-win to donate.

My ex brought me a value cooker [80 quid] then decided that was the only thing of value he was going to buy. I brought everything, food clothes weed the lot. I paid the rent, he spent all my money on fancy foods and lived like a king rent free for 4 months. Until I made him get a job then me asking for electricity money became "unreasonable" and he literally left me in the dark.

A male 'friend' of mine had been showing interest, and I was honestly entertaining the idea. We had an outing with mutual friends. He's constantly losing his card so he asked me to cover his drinks & the club entrance and promised to send me the money the next day. Then he offered me a ride home at the end of the night, pulled into a gas station and neglected to mention that I'd be covering that bill as well till it was time to pay up. So the next morning I send the niqqa his bill and he has the audacity to charge me 'cab fare' to try lower the total. I was soo put off I actually gave him more than the amount he asked for. This was in July. He still hasn't paid me a cent of the balance. He also wonders why we aren't 'vibing' anymore.

He thought buying me food was spoiling me and expected something in return, to put this into perspective the food he got me was $25 or less in the US that'll be between $8 to $10 USD. When I'm eating out I spend between $50 to $100 USD on myself.

All stress, anxiety, depression, is caused when we ignore who we are, and start living to please others.” Paulo Coelho,

My ex boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship. He had no car or a driver's license. My car was very old and not built for long drives so we traveled by train to see each other. I did training/an apprenticeship so I didn't earn much. It was a full time job plus I put myself through online study school which I had to pay off. I was pretty much overworked. I talked to him about how I'm struggling financially bc of the train tickets and being the only one paying when we'd see each other. He told me to get a part time job to help us out. That lazy f*cker worked part time (20h/week) and took money from his family to buy take out bc he couldn't pay for it by himself at the middle of the month and he wouldn't eat the meals his brother cooked. I lost all of my savings bc I was stupid and blind. I learned my lesson

He said "I can see myself staying home to raise the kids". This is the 5th date.

Plasma is the liquid part of your blood. Without the red blood cells. They put it through a machine to seperate it and put the red part with some saline back i to you. 25€ per donation. You can go 5 times in 2 weeks. 125€ for laying down and looking at your phone for 45 minutes. Don't see the problem

I over heard him ask the representative what was the minimum he could pay to keep his lights on. Now he’s in my dark pass.

When he said I don’t need an $800K house, as if he is would be contributing to the mortgage and living in the house, when the time came…. Mind your bank account, sir.

olive garden is definitely basic 🤣

He kept our child’s child benefit and said it was for her rent … “I’ve suffered and I won’t do it again….”

The quality improvement is insane.

Had a man on 50k a year tell me I was too rich, posh and wasted money because I had matching luggage. It was basic Tripps from Debenhams.

I know a married couple where the husband was hard on cash for a while. Whenever they went out to eat, they would take a trip to the ATM so that she could give him the money prior to going to the restaurant. She was a registered nurse and he was self-employed.

so i was talking to a guy for few days then he asked me to go on a date with him i agreed the we went out but first we decided to just hangout and see places (centrallondon) he then suggested if we shud go get mcdonald that we was walking past i said no and the he took me to an alright resturant, he asked me to order food for us as he uses the toiled which i did, he came back looked at the menu asked me what i ordered for him and me i showed him it was total of £50 he had the oudacity to ask me to cancel one meal so we can share one i refused to cancel it coz it was a bit too late but then he said okey and paid for it. till to this date he makes me sick everytime i remember it eew someone pple are so cheap if you cant afford it dont take me out

The card thing depends on the dynamics of the relationship. Me and my ex took care of eachother, when he lost his job I had his back, paid off a loan for him till he found a new one. When I was struggling he had my back. And now we've separated and we were living together he's helping me to get stuff for my new place because we both put into a place together.

Me & my husband donate plasma together. He hates it but I can’t pass up $2k a month for just sitting for an hr 2x a week.. we’re def not struggling but helps fund our vacations ❤

He asked me to remove my 6-piece Mcnuggets from the Uber Eats cart because they were too expensive.

When he asked me how much I made on the second date just to later tell me he was under a $2500 a month bankruptcy payment so that he could “keep his stuff”. I’ve been debt free for years…. Boy bye ✌🏽 we are not compatible

My fiancé and I have a joint account and I still get embarrassed to use her JOINT card that I put money on🤣

He asked me out on a date and sent me a text a few hours before to tell me we wasn't going to get no drinks or nothing just sit and talk😂

When he said I was uppity for going on one vacation a year. 🤷🏾‍♀️

My mom and dad have been divorced for over 30yrs and she still talks about how she makes more money, Her mentality thaugh me to never go anywhere with any women without money cuz even if they don't post about it they'll still bring it up to their friends for the rest of their life

Donating plasma is a HUGE thing in the United States. People who live in poor neighborhoods donate plasma up to three times per week and they get a different amount of money each time they donate. The plasma center gives them a debit card and they don’t find out how much they will make until after they’ve donated for that particular time and it could take anywhere from 20 minutes to 24 hours for the money to pop onto the card. How do I know so well? When I was 18 I was in a struggle relationship and I had to take my boyfriend to donate plasma (I was in eligible because my veins were too small. I knew he loved me because he would be ready to pass out afterwards and let me use the money for whatever I wanted to lbs 😂 One time it was really bad, they only gave him $25. One time they gave him like $140, but typically it’d be around $50 (appointment takes ~1 hr). This is something that poor people, drug addicts, and homeless people do. Every now and again somebody who cares about the cause will choose to donate plasma as well but not typically. You get much more money for donating a kidney or donating eggs as a female. It’s also practice in the United States to donate sperm. I hear that you get more money for donating sperm than you do plasma, but if you could donate a whole kidney (privately) you could get like $100,000. I’ve heard of girls getting $60k for healthy viable eggs (I think we have over 50 on average but there are strict requirements pertaining to genetics, age, weight, and iq). I talked to my lesbian cousin i about donating her eggs because she’s always asking me for money and she’s not doing anything useful with them at the moment 😂

I think someone commented on one of your recent videos that they like the camera angles and that they think it would be better if it wasn't so zoomed in, so that it shows more of your torsos and you really listened. Props for that man and love your content.

When I gave him the rent money to pay the land lord and he gambled it in a dice game I was livid

I have a great mans rn thank god. But mine is, I met this man on a bus, after I got off on my stop he continued to his destination we continued talking and eventually I moved him out to my home state got us an apartment and paid for everything. He was on social media talking bout “ballin”

He has never taken me on a date, on my birthday it's his friend who celebrated my birthday, bought me cake and a bottle of wine (my bf was just tagging along) he has never given me any thing he said he would give me. Mind you I never asked.

If you can't afford to take someone out, don't do it.

I just found these two and god damn! Thank you youtube recommandations 🙏 Imma binge watch their videos 💯

Nope. Someone can’t tell you not to accept gifts yet they can’t afford to buy you those things. It’s a no. Live your life and stay single out here lol!

the second to last guy sound like a smart man to me 🤣 if MY friends wanna argue to pay the bill, then why would i get involved?

We were at the supermarket and I took 4 cartons of milk to last the month. He reached into the trolley and put 3 back on the shelf while saying that's too much milk.

Not financial, but I had a guy want me to lift a really heavy box and when I said would you mind getting that he said "I thought you women wanted equal rights" I said no I just want a man to be a man but if you can't manage it, that's fine. He then lifted it for me.

When he stole $20 out my purse. Block!

why would you leave the house and take someone on a date when you don't have money to pay?

Immediately No!

How did they just skate past the lady who was PAYING FOR HER OWN WEDDING RING!? 🤯🤯🤯🤣🤣🤣 Also, I felt secondhand embarrassment for that Olive Garden guy. 😅😅😅 My dude, if you need to split the bill, just say that.

This should just show everybody, to date within your means, date according to lifestyle.

These mans are jokes 🤣

Honestly I’ve had the big money big house comment so many times I have PTSD and I don’t invite boys over anymore cos I’ve realised you’re all poor

I rented an Airbnb for my bday and bought a bottle of liquor for us to share. He flexed on IG about how much money he had and how he’d rented such a nice place 🤦🏾‍♀️ Oh and he was shocked that my car had Apple Carplay. Like he kept talking to Siri through the car because he couldn’t believe it worked that way 😂

Oh one time I dated a man with no car no bed he had a mattress on the floor worked full time as a gas station cashier and had a weed addiction.... Yea I was dumb at 25. Had to pay for everything. One day we drove to the mall and he asked if I was hungry I said yea let's something at the food court. He watched me order my food sit pay and sit down. Then he ordered his, paid and sat down. Then had the nerve to say oh I had money today why didn't you let me treat you?! Like was I supposed to to ask you if you could treat me? Why didn't you offer to pay if you wanted to?? There was other stuff but I didn't break up with him until my dad had to sit me down and tell me he was a bum and I'm better than that

When he asked me to send him R200 even though we had just started speaking after a week. 🤦🏾‍♀️🙄🤦🏾‍♀️🙄

You guys just make life better😂❤

If a "male friend" is giving you Chanel bags, he's tryna be more than friends 😂

First!!!😍😍🤣 Also you two cause trouble. I'll be laughing in a quiet space and people look at me like I'm mental🤣🤣🤣😭

Of course it's on tiktok. She had to fund the card he was charging! Lol. Brother, don't bite the hand that's feeding me to feed you. 😂😂😂. Sensitives don't get fries with the order.

Selling plasma here in the US is DEFINITELY a thing 💀

What ‘male friend’ is giving you a channel bag as a gift?!

***Once, I had to split a $5 Subway footlong with a dude. No chips, no drink. As a teen, I asked the guy I was seeing for bus fare and he gave it to me in pennies. I threw that sh*** Needless to say I have suffered and I will never do it again. Life is better now*

That suffered and won't do it again was me twice 😅 Ex husband and ex fiancé. Me paying for everything 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

Olive Garden literally has coupons & commercials… if that’s fuck!In RELATIONSHIP STUFF, I’m kool 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🙊🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ hilarious 😂 🤣🤣🤣😂

The tiktok one is just wrong.

0:52 OH LAWDDDD THIS IS SO MY STEPFATHER. BUT FOR EVERYTHING. IMAGINE!!!!!! I genuinely cannot wait to leave with my sister and mum. Pray for us.