My husband was in this situation recently, didn't know I was behind him grabbing our bags and he said he was flattered and married. Told her have a nice day disengaged the conversation and turned around and saw I was there the entire time. I had the biggest smile on my face. He makes me feel so wanted and that feeling is beyond words.
I guarantee you made that man's day, even if he was married. I had a girl stop and tell me I look good years ago and I still think about it. Compliments are huge to us!! You're a god damn queen!
You can tell he’s a good man, he didn’t even hesitate, but still tried to be nice and give the girl a compliment by saying if I wasn’t, I’d get with you
@@tomaslopezsavoy1520 very unlikely that it’s her first rejection, because everyone has experienced some rejection in their life. Only entitled people get angry if they are rejected.
@@justonetime6179I reckon I’m so entitled that I went from mad about it to making it a game to see how many times I can get rejected in one night. My average is about 14.
A beautiful woman that goes for it...we need more women like you. Also respect to that dude. He was honest, charming and respectful and she definitely uplifted his ego.
She should be.....you think we are robots or something? Just because YOU get this everyday of your lives (women) men dont! Not even the best looking of us do. Ya'll just take it for granted. I'd say she's DAMN LUCKY in his response. Many wouldn't have admitted to even being married!
@@usaman7358wtf? My brother imagine your wife said to a guy i would be after you if i was single. Miss me with that hoe shit. Either be single or act loyal
@@justincarter1950 THANK YOU any female on a bike would have to much ego they couldn’t let go of it and that’s hard fuckin truth I accepted that money doesn’t buy all but definitely a status symbol but majority of these women trynna act like men a big turn off
@@justincarter1950 You can’t be serious. I can’t really fathom how you could believe this never happens. In this giant world of over 8 billion people, you never think it happens? Women do go after men, hit on them, flirt, just like men do to other women… Humans are generally attracted to one another, so how you could think not is beyond me
Thank goodness, I thought I was the only one that easily picked up on this! Most of these commenters just missed it! Most likely they’re young and need time to mature.
@@TURTLEORIGINALyeah seriously, all the comments are supporting what he said and how it was a nice interaction… it really wasn’t tho, the “if I was single I would be after you” still gives off unloyal husband what some know as “micro cheating”.
I work at a carwash and a girl was washing her bmw with a friend. I looked at them funny because both of them both didnt seem old enough to drive (18 in my country) They paid. Coworkers washed the car. Half an hour later i was talking to another customer, turned around and saw her and her friend smiling with a pink sticky note in her hands. She didnt say a word and gave it to me. I saw the note "I like you =)" Litterally wrote =) Still did NOT say anything. I told them i was very busy at the moment and give her a call later. She smiled, nodded and left. Turned around at the customer i was talking to and he looked at me like "the fuck?" Threw the phone number in the trash and never saw them again. One of my weirdest interactions with a customer i had.
Love this for so many reasons. 1. A woman having confidence like that is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 2. Guy stuck true to his marriage and was polite. 3. Hands out a compliment so it's not awkward. Edit: "Compliment" sets off sensitive people on RU-vid, driving views up for the video. 🤣 Shout out to all the people in secure relationships that knew what he meant. 👍
@@Jose-ek2nr It's not a red flag if you have complete trust in your partner and they have made it known they are married. Red flag would be hiding a wedding band or failing to mention you are with someone, but proceeding to try and hook up.
@@teetersalad I'm with the other guy bro, saying that if you weren't with your partner you would go for them, is wrong on so many levels, they're your wife, the only thing you should be saying is "yeahh I have a wife" or if it you so desperately need to tell them a compliment for some reason "yeah I have a wife but you're pretty I guess", you're in a relationship, it makes you seem like you're miserable and like you are forced to be with your wife and suffering cause of it, bad look on the husband
Curios… have you ever made a joke about an actor being your husband or found another man attractive ? He was basically giving her a compliment without going to far. He is human not a robot. It’s not like he was saying he would do stuff to her or anything like that.
@@THEOTHERGUY4421 never lol. I look at the floor when other men are around. And run to my man if I see a guy eyeing me at a store. Or I’ll call him on the phone when I feel like I’m going to get hit on. I see happy couples joke a lot in front of each other. But I don’t think any man would be ok if their wife told another man “I’m married but if I wasn’t …” that’s flirting. flirting is cheating, to me at least, because that’s how it starts. Crumbs of Attention is not worth hurting the other person.
I like how she was so straight forward with him and even after he said he was married she was very respectful and went about her way. She didn’t continue the conversation or mope about it. GO HER!!! Lol
@@JessR1desI retired from street bikes in 2018. Had a bad accident. I owned the baddest r1 on the world. It's documented on my channel and everyone agrees. But more importantly I have met ladies just like yourself. And I am honored to have shared the roads with y'all.
@@nw7630 🤔 I don't get it as much, I'm in my 40s, still get some compliments sometimes as i take good care of myself, usually younger women, but it's not a rare thing. Or can be it that in my country women are more forward
Guys I hate to say this to you but most women F around with the same top same guys so if a guy is attractive it actually isn’t to uncommon but it does take guts to come up as a woman. Personally never liked a woman coming after me though
right all these comments from men saying “cry about it” like serisouly they have no respect? my man would never say some dumb shit like that to another woman
@@becca5703: The man said if he was single, what is wrong with that. He is honest. If he was single you wouldnt be his wife so he would be free to be with her. You ladies trust and self confidence are very low. SINGLE, HE SAID SINGLE!!!!! 😂
@@t1mmyd238 so you have never seen an attractive person besides you significant other? He basically just gave her a compliment without going to far. He is human not a robot. I
This is a great way to let someone know that it’s not cuz they aren’t good looking but rather they already have the love of their life. Also a good confidence boost.
Lol says who? He pretty much said the same...he coulda acted like he wasn't with someone and said yeah let's hook up. Lol there is no correct response...only an honest one.
@@the.bank.teller I love the self-righteous commenting that hints towards misogyny. As if you and I both don't already know that his wife will over emotionally react in the future because of this video. Higher emotional response warrants lower logical reasoning. Welcome to reality lol.
@@revenge9618 do you think telling a women who is mad at you, and saying that you aren’t something valuable? ( stay with me) that she should keep ( stay with me now ) and that she can do better as far replacing the guy ( I know I’ve lost you, but this is the best part )… he can then bring this video up, literally show the video to his wife, to win the argument…. That was the context of my comment, which you did not comprehend #Autismawareness
I agree. The wife is treated like an obstacle. “If it weren’t for my wife,” kind of scenario. Complimenting would’ve sounded a whole lot better like ”hey, you’re pretty, but I’m married” something around those lines. It’s just sounds disrespectful to the spouse.
@@Useful_failure read the comment before yours then rethink your statement, also the “womp womp” tells me you are a young uncultured swine that probably says “what the sigma?”… The door young one, the door👉🏼🚪
I cannot believe the people who are okay with that comment he made. What the hell... when did it become cute to full blown flirt with others while married???
This kinda shows how genuine and good the biking community can be. People always thing SON'S OF ANARCHY, but it's almost never that. Bikers have a code. It trump's many others in the way we treat each other and show respect.
@@DoubleOhSilver Your statement can be translated as ‘you’re my type’ whereas the OP’s statement was more like ‘I’d rather be with you than my wife’. Those two statements are not the same.
@@mr.wildcat405 Most cases, but not all. That is true. Now she was kinda strong with it whereas most women who approach you, you will need to read between what they're saying. Women tend to say stuff without actually saying it. That's their approach.
@@nickz5849 but when it’s the other way around you guys say the girl is for the streets lmao it’s always okay for men to be whores but the minute your wife is flirty you guys trip out
so many people butthurt bye the comment, he said something probably factual it's not a big deal. he was faithful, any woman locking the doors over that is insane lol
Bro you’re a POS if you go around telling other women “oh if I wasn’t married I’d be after you” because for one you ARE married. Two a “GREAT MAN” wouldn’t even interact with some random girl that doesn’t even know you.
If he was truly respectful, he would not have said he'd be after her if he was single. that shows he's thinking of what he would do if he was single, and a committed man shouldn't be entertaining such ideas even if hypothetical.
He rejected her in the nicest way possible. He said he was married, which set the boundary. But he made her feel nice by telling her that she’s a catch in his book.
i hope you guys feel the same for married women who tell other men “if i wasn’t married, i’d go after you” but you’d prolly just she’s for the streets 🤷🏻♀️
Respect all the way around in this video. First because she shot her shot. Second he was real and didn’t try to cheat. And last she took the answer and respected it then left. Real adult shit here.
You could definitely look at it as a compliment instead of the guy allowing the opportunity to cheat. It all comes down to perspective and insecurity. I see it as the dude giving back the compliment. He said "If I was single, I'd be after you". He didnt said "but if". And if I have to explain further, he's just basically saying that she is attractive enough to get a cute guy as well. It's just that simple for me. If the tone and words were slightly different, then it could definitely mean that the dude likes to hit on girls while still married.
Its also how you damage the sanctity of your relationship and be the opposite of polite to your partner. But whatever right? People pleasing for the win 🎉
Y’all are reading to deep into that last comment. Y’all act like you don’t ever see another attractive person. He was being faithful by being honest that he is married but that she is attractive. He is human not a robot. You can pay someone a compliment without crossing the line.
She's empowered she ask for herself. That's not rejection. Compliment for compliment & may the universe bless his family just because he stayed in his lane. A punk wouldn't have told the truth and stood up like a HUSBAND!
He basically gave her a compliment that she was attractive not going into detail what he would do or anything. He is human not a robot. People act like they can’t see another attractive person or something. You can pay someone a compliment without crossing a line.
Sad part is those moments only come around when you’re married. Kudos and respect for honesty and loyalty. Some men would seized that opportunity without thinking twice
thats why u don't marry until ur in ur late 30s as a guy. a 30s man is just hitting his prime and can sleep around easily whereas a 30s woman is well in her downfall
@@M16xDr0pSh0tzwell i disagree with sleeping around 100% but I'm tryna preserve myself for the right woman and improve my career, and keep working out and being healthy.
@@M16xDr0pSh0tzwhat a complete idiot. many women including my mom took off in her 30s career and relationship wise so quit this misogynistic stereotype.😒
It's badass seeing a lady on a bike. It's more badass being approached by a lady on a bike. And even more badass finding out first hand that the badass lady on the bike is respectable and has manners that live up to her calibre of style. Kudos!
Ladies, please keep shooting your shot. I know the embarrassment of not succeeding but I cannot tell you the feels when a random girl compliments you. We need it far more than you can imagine.
@@JessR1des Since when your future happiness & relationships are their concern!? Give zeros to those comments, they will hold your shots and opportunities back. Just don't. If you have 10 relationships in 1 year, it's none of their business. Live your life to the fullest, please. This short was awesome and even if you are afraid to publish it, do take the shot and don't upload the short, that's easy 😅
@Jess R1des disregard those idiots! You have the right idea. Keep being yourself and go after what you want. We men are so rarely approached like this, you made his day i guarantee, nothing wrong with that
@Jess R1des disregard those idiots! You have the right idea. Keep being yourself and go after what you want. We men are so rarely approached like this, you made his day i guarantee, nothing wrong with that
@Jess R1des disregard those idiots! You have the right idea. Keep being yourself and go after what you want. We men are so rarely approached like this, you made his day i guarantee, nothing wrong with that
Women, it’s hot to do this to men. Just be sincere about it, it’s known that there are few good men available (many do prefer to stay single so they won’t ask you out after MeeToo shaming). Keep it up!
Nah, he wasn’t “rejecting” her. If he was saying “no I’m faithful” he would have left it at ”I’m married, but thank you.” Nope he had to take it further by saying “if I was single, I’d be after you.” He said that to see how she would react, check to see if she’d be okay being the side piece. She’s not like that so she moved on. He would have been open to “something” if she had persisted. He was flirting. Faithful partners don’t flirt.
It’s sad that’s that’s the caliber of men you surround yourself with. I’m bad hombre so to speak. But I once head a story about a mob boss of bosses (Gambino) asking a soldier if he loved him (gambino). And the dude was like yeah I love. And the boss was like o hole you don’t love me like you do the wife. You bring here here as well as your side piece. How do you think your neighbors look at this woman you claim ia your equal.
he already took the first step by saying “if i was single tho…”. he could’ve just said he’s married and thank you but he HAD to make sure she knew that he would fuck her if he didn’t have a wife. that’s definitely being loyal and being respectful of your wife who also happens to not be around lol. as long as you’re okay with married women telling hotter, richer men that if she wasn’t tied to her husband, she’s go after them then we don’t have a problem. but something tells me you all would just say she’s for the streets 🤷🏻♀️
