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@ResinateByChanel
@ResinateByChanel Год назад
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@dinkvjr
@dinkvjr Год назад
You can't be having a grown ass man complying with ridiculous house rules like 8 pm!! And when he eats? Girl please you controlling.
@ResinateByChanel
@ResinateByChanel Год назад
Ikr!!! These rules are RIDICULOUS!!!
@petsrgr8t
@petsrgr8t Год назад
Awfully controlling! Not respecting the rules…get a life!
@rosalynduckface1149
@rosalynduckface1149 Год назад
dude then he can get his own house
@yanetquesada2165
@yanetquesada2165 Год назад
He can move out then since he's an adult and can work
@dinkvjr
@dinkvjr Год назад
@@yanetquesada2165 true
@eveyaspaas3667
@eveyaspaas3667 Год назад
He’s a grown man, he doesn’t need a curfew. If you don’t want him to wear earbuds at dinner and stuff like that, fine, but you can’t enforce a curfew on an adult, if he’s not doing illegal or bad things that effect you.
@justmythoughts5775
@justmythoughts5775 Год назад
Truly grown people have their own home. If he’s living under that man’s roof then respect his rules.
@unscmistressgaming1132
@unscmistressgaming1132 Год назад
@@justmythoughts5775 why would I respect someone who doesn’t respect me? Also, the kid could be in college or working to save up for his own place. You can’t assume, especially with the cost of living now a days. If he going to treat him like a child, then he’s going to act like a child.
@ResinateByChanel
@ResinateByChanel Год назад
Ikr!! This guy is just doing too much!!!
@eveyaspaas3667
@eveyaspaas3667 Год назад
@@ResinateByChanel he seems to be really into control for the sake of control😬🚩
@rachelh9071
@rachelh9071 Год назад
@@jazz626ja No, adults have things they want to do at night. I can understand certain rule... no smoking/drinking in the house, no swearing in from of the kids that type of thing. As an adult he shouldn't have to follow a child's curfew. When I was 20 I worked retail I didn't even get off of work until 10pm since I was in class during the am. Also when we had a group project sometimes we couldn't meet up until 8pm when someone got off work. Eating at random times yea off shifts do that to you. When I did night classes I worked unloading Target trucks and stocked shelves I was up at 3am, worked until 12 (that would make my 3rd meal at 1pm) I slept until 4 got up went to class from 6pm to 10pm got home by 11 and went to bed. Rinse and Repeat. We are only getting one perspective here. I get the earbuds is kind of rude when sitting with family but I also understand that they aren't always on but can be turned on whenever, I don't like engaging in small talk and audio books is how I got through some of the books I had to read for school. Kid just experienced a traumatic loss he could be grieving still. Seeing his brother in-law and kid together could be emotional for him.
@unscmistressgaming1132
@unscmistressgaming1132 Год назад
So, you offered your home to an adult and expected them to be treated like a child? If you’re going to treat me like a child, I’m going to act like one. Respect me and I’ll respect you and we can have a conversation about your concerns, but don’t you dare try to control my life as an adult. I don’t care if I’m living with you rent free. It doesn’t give anyone the right to disrespect and treat someone like a child. It’s not even his brother, it’s his wife’s brother. Maybe let her deal with her family or do you disrespect her and treat her like a child too? Does she have a curfew too? Do you dictate what she eats? He just sounds controlling.
@ResinateByChanel
@ResinateByChanel Год назад
Yeah 8 o'clock curfew is definitely outta line 💯💯💯
@imthatpotato5152
@imthatpotato5152 Год назад
“eats at random times of the day” ima head out😬
@MissBanks777
@MissBanks777 Год назад
She doesn’t like the boy … it’s personal
@ResinateByChanel
@ResinateByChanel Год назад
😂😂😂
@Oiamh_TheWolf18
@Oiamh_TheWolf18 Год назад
Same 🥲
@lani6700
@lani6700 Год назад
YTA for sure. The earbud rule is fine, but he's an adult and he's going through it so let him eat and move freely so long as he isn't like making a mess or waking people up. Kids understand "when you're a grownup you can stay out later" just fine What's maybe even more jerk behavior is laying down these rules without even consulting the wife first. She clearly disagrees and it's her sibling. It's fine to have house rules but discuss them amongst everyone, don't just lay them out yourself like a dictator
@uninspiredartist921
@uninspiredartist921 Год назад
The curfew rule shouldn’t have to apply to him, but when he’s wearing earbuds around the kids, it’s kinda rude, since he’s just ignoring him. He should be able to snack throughout the day, just as long he isn’t bringing a ton of attention to the kids that he’s eating.
@ceeejay9112
@ceeejay9112 Год назад
Totally agree......can't give an adult a curfew lol.....might be kinda nice to know around what time he will be home! The earbud thing is rude tho..
@Jessi-Love
@Jessi-Love Год назад
Hes grown and doesn't need a curfew. He can eat when he wants. Ask him NICELY to not wear his earbuds everytime he's with the family, but let it be sometimes, again, hes grown
@inlovewithdr.pepper
@inlovewithdr.pepper Год назад
okay he's a grown adult. i understand that you don't want him to be a bad influence on your kids, but he should be allowed to come and go when he wants and eat when he wants, as long as he's not bragging to the kids or making a big deal about it. just cause he lives with you, doesn't mean he needs to follow the same rules you children follow, key word being *children* .
@diddykong138
@diddykong138 Год назад
The problem is that even if the brother isn't trying to, he's being a bad influence. The kids notice his behaviors and will eventually start copying it. Even if he doesn't make it a big deal, the kids will notice and mimic it
@xxangeljessicaxx6392
@xxangeljessicaxx6392 Год назад
If he ain't paying rent and there's house rules then it doesn't matter, if the dudes so grown up then get out and have your own space instead of bothering the house owner by violating the rules..
@unscmistressgaming1132
@unscmistressgaming1132 Год назад
@@xxangeljessicaxx6392 you’re such a privileged b*tch. You sound like a Karen.
@thetruthinmasquerade1920
@thetruthinmasquerade1920 Год назад
The earbuds at dinner or while with family I could see but the 8:00 pm curfew on an adult seems like power tripping. At 10:00 pm your kids should be asleep. I don't see the problem with him coming in at 10:00. Is it a home or some type of institution🤔
@omarmalone2690
@omarmalone2690 Год назад
I ve read half the comments....sounds like they fucing...or has some feelings for dude
@hangsthemighty912
@hangsthemighty912 Год назад
Bro what? 10 p.m. isn't even late he's not a kid and has no obligation to your kids they are your kids and as long as he's cleaning after himself then what's the problem? If he is not being disruptive then the only problem is you.
@klee56
@klee56 Год назад
I think that for some rules that makes sense but making him come back at eight is extremely extra so yes you are in the wrong here
@hilliardgirl6147
@hilliardgirl6147 Год назад
He is a adult...don't treat him like your children
@diddykong138
@diddykong138 Год назад
If the brother is living with his sister, her husband, and her kids, but can't respect the house rules he should move out. The problem is the kids are going to start copying what he does and he needs to be a role model for them.
@rorywoods9075
@rorywoods9075 Год назад
My aunt lived with me and my family for a year and we never copied her behavior because my parents took time to explain she is a grown-up not a child like me. It's that easy
@xxangeljessicaxx6392
@xxangeljessicaxx6392 Год назад
If he's so grown up hen why doesn't he move out and find his own space where he can do whatever he wants instead of being a pain in a butt of the house owner by violating the rules, doesn't matter if your an adult if you living under someone's roof rent free then you have to follow the rules unless they told you you don't have to. If he's paying money for staying there then it is okay.
@rorywoods9075
@rorywoods9075 Год назад
I don't get why a grown man has to make a bedtime for another grown man that's just insulting.
@diddykong138
@diddykong138 Год назад
@@rorywoods9075How old were you when your aunt lived with you? Under 10 or over?
@PuppetFNAF85
@PuppetFNAF85 Год назад
I understand having house rules, but he's a grown man, he can be out as long as he wants
@xehardy4573
@xehardy4573 Год назад
As long as he is quiet coming back in
@PuppetFNAF85
@PuppetFNAF85 Год назад
@@xehardy4573 yea
@candacel3305
@candacel3305 Год назад
Sounds like this guy is looking for a fight. Who puts rules like this on a grown man? Is this guy running a halfway house?
@shadow_reaper6953
@shadow_reaper6953 Год назад
I don’t think he has to come home at eight but he should definitely respect the rules other than telling you where he’s going and when he’s gonna be back because he is an adult
@yehawchucklefuck5632
@yehawchucklefuck5632 Год назад
Yes, Being home at 8 is fucking weird
@eggswalking4895
@eggswalking4895 Год назад
Give the man some grace, he just lost his dad. Compromise or something they’re both grown
@reverrage
@reverrage Год назад
While otherwise there were rules but all I ask of my children when they were older was I didn't need the entire plans for going out but I needed the first stop. After that someone from where that went needed to know next place/ next activity & so on... that way if needed to find them or what last place seen in case go missing... leave a trail!
@leashy1204
@leashy1204 Год назад
Yes. You are being a control freak. Sorry for putting it so bluntly. But he is grieving. Secondly, he is an adult. And 10 pm is a reasonable time. He may be on his phone for many reasons. None of which are your concern if he's not breaking any laws or is a danger to himself or others. Lastly, he is not your child. You need to raise your own children & police their behavior. If they act out in a way that they mimic his behavior - their cell phones - then its the kids you need to talk to. And at 20 he can either pay you rent or move out if he can't be more respectful during family dinners.
@iW34Rglasses00
@iW34Rglasses00 Год назад
Is he paying rent? Grown men pay bills. If he's living in your house for free than he needs to live by your rules if not he can go. Otherwise leave him alone he can do whatever he wants.
@starbuckslover792
@starbuckslover792 Год назад
If he moved in with you that means he still lived with his parents give him 10 months to get back on his feet and after 10 months be a momma bird and kick him out out of the nest so he can learn to fly
@melissawardjohns220
@melissawardjohns220 Год назад
Now the curfew is a little more flex cause he is an adult and needs a job. Otherwise still your house your rules.
@dominicaibodje8197
@dominicaibodje8197 Год назад
Yes. Stop treating him like he's your kid or something. He's a grown man and can take care of himself. It's not like he's drinking or smoking in your house or something. He just uses his phone at the dinner table and comes home late. I don't see a problem with that. He's just trying to live his life
@jennynguyen2593
@jennynguyen2593 Год назад
I agree 🐹
@kaylanichols1736
@kaylanichols1736 Год назад
To me he is grown and not your kids. They should follow the rules, but as an adult he can do what he wants. He isn't teaching bad influences when's he's doing what adults can do. They are kids who need to follow the rules and their parents house until they are grown. It's about respect now. I hope it gets better for you all.
@rizzlerofozzgya
@rizzlerofozzgya Год назад
but he’s not paying rent-
@kaylanichols1736
@kaylanichols1736 Год назад
Then he should but like I said I hope it gets better
@sugar_.official4551
@sugar_.official4551 Год назад
is he your child?...
@ScarlettTon0211
@ScarlettTon0211 Год назад
I think this could really be looked at both ways. yes, be is an adult and shouldn't have a curfew, but if they have little kids and he's coming in late all the time it could disturb the kids sleep. So even if the person is controlling, it's still their house and he should respect that
@stormysummers401
@stormysummers401 Год назад
Yall, it's their house, the bil is a guest, who the allowed to live with them. He should listen to those rules, or at least make a deal. Not be rude to someone who gave you somewhere to live
@t3m077
@t3m077 Год назад
YTA. This man is a control freak. If you have loud ass kids, I'm definitely going to wear earbuds around you. Doesn't matter if you're family or not. Btw, amazing resin art!!
@cryofpaine
@cryofpaine Год назад
So there was a similar story where the son (23) was upset at his mother's boyfriend for trying to enforce new rules on him. This is a great illustration of why that guy was right. In that case, it was someone coming in and trying to change the established rules of someone else's house. Here, the rules were already established by the guy that owns the house, and his guest is ignoring them. So no, not the asshole.
@gollygoops6693
@gollygoops6693 Год назад
I don't think that she's the bad guy in this situation, the curfew thing is a bit understandable to me, but I can see why it would be ridiculous because he's a grown man and he still has his own life. Although, he shouldn't listen to music 24/7 when he's around her children because that's rude. If he wants to be a good uncle, he has to spend some time with the kids or help her with the kids. I feel like he's using the "going out" thing as an excuse to not do his responsibilities, which is irresponsible.
@askimbeatrix8245
@askimbeatrix8245 Год назад
10 pm isn’t late… he’s an adult and there’s no way you can stop him.
@kurapikaseyes800
@kurapikaseyes800 Год назад
yes, you let him move in with you, and he is not being rude in any way, he just has basic human rights, How does it bother you if he doesn't listen to the curfew you set for him, you gotta understand he is an adult, He is not invading your privacy, or straight up being rude, he is not being chaotic or anything so just let him be, If you don't want him in your house, you have the free will to kick him out, but being problematic about it, and setting a curfew for a grown ass man, is just stupid, he is not being problematic at all, but if you don't want him living in your property that is your choice, there is no need to be problematic about a situation that is not in any way bothering you.
@anivijudi
@anivijudi Год назад
There's layers to houserules. Behaviors that give the impression to the children in the house that they can break the rules set for them, is one thing. So not wanting him to have earbuds in when spending potentially social time with the family is fine if the point is to teach the kids that's not socially polite behavior, expecting some help around the house is adulting so acceptable. There is an example to be set for the younger family members, and as an adult it's not unreasonable to ask him to show that good example. But you can't set a curfew on an adult. You can ask him not to stay out super late too often because it might wake up the kids, but you cannot enforce it, and 8 is way too early for any adult anyway. That's just not gonna happen.
@supernolofanpennylane3401
@supernolofanpennylane3401 Год назад
He should be following the rules it makes sense that coming home after acertain time doesnt work for the family cause the children are probably asleep and the parents might need to be at work early in the morning hes living in their house as a full grown adult he can either follow the rules or find a new place. An apartment has rules as well
@annalisabeery
@annalisabeery Год назад
This is just some power trip what grown man gives that much of a crap when another grown man comes home
@megmcmillian2382
@megmcmillian2382 Год назад
I think that it’s fine if he stays out a little longer but needs to be respectful to you and your children ESPECIALLY if he’s living there rent free
@IsabellaKayful
@IsabellaKayful Год назад
Okay this is obviously personal… ridiculous controlling rules
@katelynsimpson105
@katelynsimpson105 Год назад
"he came home super late at 10pm" .. 10pm is late??????
@yuraraina
@yuraraina Год назад
If he is a grown man a curfew?? No! The earbud thing I can understand. You are doing to much!
@SomeRandoDum
@SomeRandoDum Год назад
Yta he's an adult. Quit controlling his life
@qtpi6268
@qtpi6268 Год назад
I feel like I'm the minority here, but like... it's his house, and if BIL is gonna act like a teenager, he can be treated like one. Should reasonable adjustments be made? Sure, but ultimately I dont think OP is in the wrong, especially if BILs not paying rent or groceries, and it doesnt sound like he's doing house chores either so...
@CeCelia1978
@CeCelia1978 Год назад
YTA. He’s an adult. He can do what he wants. He’s not a child.
@luckyducky610
@luckyducky610 Год назад
Okay he doesn’t need to follow house rules but he’s a grown ass man and if he’s putting a bad influence on your kids you should just kick him out. Your kids are the priority not some grown ass man.
@nbitsme1629
@nbitsme1629 Год назад
He can't be serious 8:00 my curfew was later than that when I was in school I think the home owner has a power/control problem
@jorgevalencia1641
@jorgevalencia1641 Год назад
I agree with some things and don't agree with others one he's a grown ass man he should tell you what time he is going to be back her respect to your house but he's a grown man and other thing it is rude that you're All in the Family area and he has headphones in instead of talking to your wife you should talk to him man to man
@rizzlerofozzgya
@rizzlerofozzgya Год назад
if he isn’t paying rent then it’s not his house and he can’t choose anything. If he’s paying rent than he can do whatever he wants in his house.
@abilaidamiguel
@abilaidamiguel Год назад
At first I was like "yeah he should respect your house rules" but when I actually heard the rules I was like "bro he's not your kid you don't get to tell him what to do unless it's actually hurting you, your family, or anyone else" like he's an adult he doesn't need to be policed like a child.
@starbuckslover792
@starbuckslover792 Год назад
If he's grown enough to make his own rules he's grown enough to get a job if he has a job he should be paying rent or getting his own house
@hanayamamoto4239
@hanayamamoto4239 10 месяцев назад
Rules need to be adjusted for age and respect for the maturity of that age. That being said at my house. There is a blanket rule that everyone says where they are going and when they will be back and calls or texts if anything changes. It isn't a point of control. It is so if you aren't back by a certain time. We know where to send the search party.
@crystalartz5812
@crystalartz5812 Год назад
:0 The colors are so pretty! The end result probably looks amazing ^^ 🤩
@ResinateByChanel
@ResinateByChanel Год назад
Yeeeesssss TYSM bestie 😊
@sambodyknows
@sambodyknows Год назад
Some of the rules make sense. Some don't. However, if he isn't paying rent I can get the "my house my rules" idea. But also, he's an adult and not even your kid. As long as he's quiet and respectful and not causing issues, some of those rules are ridiculous
@kiaraaev
@kiaraaev Год назад
i always keep my ear buds on because i have sensory issues and i just can’t deal with noise and kids being kids WOULD make a lot of noise so that rule won’t work for everyone 💀
@0russia
@0russia Год назад
I was gonna be like damn of Corse he should be following the rules .. untill I heard them lol
@monst3r_en3rg3gy_gun
@monst3r_en3rg3gy_gun Год назад
I always get ur videos and i realky think u need to chill THIS DUDE IS A GROWN MAN HE CAN DO WHATEVER HE WANTS AS LONG AS HE AIN'T DRINKING OR DOIN DRUGS AROUND UR KID 😭😭
@urs2hold21
@urs2hold21 Год назад
It's not her story it's something she got from reddit
@monst3r_en3rg3gy_gun
@monst3r_en3rg3gy_gun Год назад
@@urs2hold21 well ok still
@celiseorozco5126
@celiseorozco5126 Год назад
Yes U are!
@tkiesailastname4656
@tkiesailastname4656 Год назад
Honestly, kind of yeah the AH. Like, I get having rules, but those rules sound like rules for the children. Why are they treating a grown adult as a child? and how is not wanting to he social a bad influence on the kids?
@KaySkywalker
@KaySkywalker Год назад
Yes and no. Curfew should not apply to him but wearing air buds around the kids is sending the wrong message.
@RandomQueen11
@RandomQueen11 10 месяцев назад
NTA hear me out, he is a grown ass man living in YOUR house, if he isn’t paying rent or helping around the house then he must fallow the house rules. Like one he has air-pods in when talking to him, he’s being disrespectful and the kids might think that’s ok and that they can do that to two coming home late even though he knows the curfew is 8 or if he’s going to be home late he can call to say “hey I’m coming home a bit late so don’t worry or get mad”. So you are not the asshole.
@melissawardjohns220
@melissawardjohns220 Год назад
Your house your rules. Period.
@star4life822
@star4life822 3 месяца назад
You tryna enforce a curfew on a 20 year old who is not your child is crazy … also tryna control his eating habits or wanting to know where he is going etc… when he said he came in late i was thinking 2am or something he said 10pm 😅😅😅 like what
@beckyjones6172
@beckyjones6172 Год назад
So, he's a young adult going through the hardest time of his life. His sister has graciously taken him in as he needs family close at the moment and the BIL is treating him like on of his single digit aged children. He eats when he wants, comes and goes as he pleases and won't be in my home locked away by 8pm. YTA big time. Let this young man have a life and start to heal from his lose by being with friends and loved ones and unfortunately sir right now you are neither. Don't be surprised if he feels unwelcome at your house. Did you even want him to move in because it doesn't seem that way.
@NoahSterecrax
@NoahSterecrax Год назад
Pretty✨😍
@ResinateByChanel
@ResinateByChanel Год назад
Thank you boo 😌
@clararose1795
@clararose1795 Год назад
A grown adult is not responsible for helping raise their room mates kids or following their rules. As long as they’re paying rent or contributing in some other agreed upon way. It sounds like a bad fit tbh, but if they want to make it work they gotta respect each other’s autonomy.
@bejayjackson1610
@bejayjackson1610 10 месяцев назад
Wearing earbuds and stuff while spending time with people is something I’d say you could talk to him about but if he’s pitching in with the food you can’t control his eating and you DEFINITELY can’t give a grown man a curfew… wtf?
@LohenArc
@LohenArc 9 месяцев назад
YTA. Where he goes is his business. Ask him to be quiet if he’s coming home late, but don’t act like you’re his parent.
@Just_Sophiee
@Just_Sophiee Год назад
This is so pretty this is art!❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊😊🤪
@laurenjones9924
@laurenjones9924 Год назад
…. Don’t curfew an adult. As long as they’re quiet not waking the kids, coming in after 8 shouldn’t be an issue. As for being a bad influence, yeah, I get that. Kids are impressionable and you don’t want them growing up thinking it’s ok to completely isolate from a group setting by wearing ear buds and ignoring everyone. So 1/2 yes, 1/2 no.
@littledancingfawn
@littledancingfawn Год назад
Your house your rules no matter what rules you make.
@evashah8389
@evashah8389 Год назад
10pm is not late!
@SG_ShadowGamerBoy
@SG_ShadowGamerBoy 8 месяцев назад
He is a adult not a child if he is not starting problems in the house leave him alone
@Your_Local_Moron
@Your_Local_Moron Год назад
I get no earbuds when hanging out with family, but come on, a curfew of 8 for a grown ass man? That's ridiculous
@itz_kim.
@itz_kim. Месяц назад
wtf are those rules man. Omg he was wearing earbuds while your kids were around wow
@evagaxiola3439
@evagaxiola3439 Год назад
you are the bad influence on everyone showing its ok to be controlling and a crazy person
@kaygirl2016
@kaygirl2016 Год назад
You know I was with OP until it got to the "you have to be home at 8 part" like ffs legal curfews exist if the kids ask why BIL can be put late but they can't you can literally say it's illegal for them but not him
@paigehanna6183
@paigehanna6183 Год назад
Haha good luck with that
@Choaticsibling1111
@Choaticsibling1111 Год назад
I can understand not wanting them to cuss around children or be Exetremly noisy when coming home late bc of kids. But curfews and when he should eat is fcking ridiculous. He's a grown man
@Lexusirizarry
@Lexusirizarry Год назад
Wth. He's an adult. Only thing I would agree on is ignoring folks. But he doesn't have to tell you anything
@DANG3RCHILD
@DANG3RCHILD Год назад
He is an adult he can go wherever he wants and for however long he wants that's petty
@ashleyvogt4449
@ashleyvogt4449 Год назад
I would have left the second I heard your rules
@NepTvnes_
@NepTvnes_ Год назад
I understand how these things might be bad behaviours but you have to think that maybe he is going t through something tough. You should always ask and try to understand someone before enforcing rules on them that could make them feel uncomfortable and upset. You should also negotiate the rules so everyone is happy in the end. Also have you even talked to your wife about this?
@boredom8203
@boredom8203 Год назад
I would say get a house but houses are damn expensive nowadays my mom and me still live with her parants because we can't even afford to put a down payment on a house its annoying but besides that he barley just came out of his teenage years so it's understandable why he's acting like that
@FierceSinnnamon
@FierceSinnnamon Год назад
He's ya brother in law. NOT. YOUR. CHILD! let him live also non of the things you said are necessarily bad behaviour so he's not teaching your kids anything bad.
@xxangeljessicaxx6392
@xxangeljessicaxx6392 Год назад
Bro I'm seeing so many YTA comments on the top, imma just remind y'all, if he ain't paying rent he can't do what he wants if there's rules. Its the dudes house and aslong as it's rent free it doesn't matter if he's an adult, if he's so grown up hen maybe move out and go to an apartment or get your own house??
@unscmistressgaming1132
@unscmistressgaming1132 Год назад
How old are you? I feel this is a very boomer way of thinking. If you don’t treat me as an adult, then I won’t act like one. You can’t demand respect while treating someone like a child. He isn’t your child. You have every right to kick him out but, honestly I think OP is just getting off from the power and dominance.
@bear8985
@bear8985 Год назад
I mean its his house he is letting his BIL live there they should compromise to a better time
@castingstorms
@castingstorms Год назад
no if I moved in with my parents at almost 40 their rules still applt
@socks1204
@socks1204 Год назад
You know what's funny? I just saw another similar story and there people were all for house rules enforced on an adult. I wonder what's different?
@michellealjunaidi8471
@michellealjunaidi8471 Год назад
Sounds more like the husband didn't want his brother in law living there. So he has these rules so when broken he has a reason to kick him out. But really he doesn't need a reason. Just give the brother in law a time frame to move out. A grown man should not be living with his other family members. He should be living on his own. You can if you have time help him find a place within his budget.
@yasminebrown1963
@yasminebrown1963 Год назад
Sounds like someone have control issues
@daystarllc5740
@daystarllc5740 10 месяцев назад
Your home your rules. But 8pm for a 20 eold is a bit much. Again your house your rules.
@ronaldfrank4597
@ronaldfrank4597 Год назад
He a grown man the ear buds yeah inforce it but don't treat him like a kid
@blane6592
@blane6592 Год назад
Your house rules are absolutely ridiculous!!! Power Tripping FOR SURE!!! Now WHY TF a grown ass man gotta be home at 8pm. You’re nutty AF! I hope your wife done set you straight!
@jodrew1845
@jodrew1845 Год назад
Your work is fabulous and you're inspiring me to try that medium. As for this young man, living with you. Obviously he is either grieving or depressed but even more importantly, he's not respecting your home. If he is "grown and an adult," then he should get a job and live on his own. However while residing under your roof, your rules must be respected. It's time for you and your spouse to come to an understanding and discuss what is expected of him. Home is where peace reins not chaos.
@diddykong138
@diddykong138 Год назад
He doesn't live with her, she's just reading a tweet/reddit/etc of someone sharing their story. So it's her voice but not her story (sry if this sounds rude just thought you should know)
@jodrew1845
@jodrew1845 Год назад
@@diddykong138 okay, not rude, I guess I was just confused 😐 thanks. I need to watch her clips with the sound down.
@diddykong138
@diddykong138 Год назад
@@jodrew1845 Well have a nice day 😁
@cidschnubedubaubau6781
@cidschnubedubaubau6781 Год назад
Girl please, no one likes control freaks. Yeah he has shitty behaviour that needs be called out. But he's an adult and as long as this is his home, he can come and go as he pleases. Behaving like a helicopter mom is telling him you're not willing to cooperate and gives the impression that you don't respect him, so why would he be interrested to hear anything you have to say about him?
@-Sketchy-Feline-
@-Sketchy-Feline- Год назад
I want to know what all the rules are
@jimmeishawilliams171
@jimmeishawilliams171 5 месяцев назад
Seems like a pissing match
@Achilles7117
@Achilles7117 Год назад
Does he expect his wife to also follow the rules made for children? Does he follow them himself? its so weird trying to make a grown ass man follow a curfew and rules. 10 isnt even that late either
@starbuckslover792
@starbuckslover792 Год назад
Is he paying rent? if yes then ask him politely because if your paying for let's say a hotel you don't want the manager to tell you being out late and wearing headphones isn't allowed but, if he's not paying rent or doing anything that's benefiting you then he needs to respect your rules if he doesn't tell him to get his lazy ass out of your home.
@fruitygals
@fruitygals Год назад
he's an independent adult, not your son. stop being so controlling.
@armandvanjaarsveld2364
@armandvanjaarsveld2364 Год назад
Yes
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