Would you support your husband getting a tattoo of his deceased wife? | Dear Future Wifey S5, E517 

In agreement

My sentiments exactly!

Amen 🙏🏽

Amen!!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Yes!! I believe she is closer then we think! The lord will most certainly lead him! In Jesus name

wow! Beautiful comment. I truly believe that even marriage takes a village.

Definitely not the only one. I LOVE to serve and I'm excited about getting to serve my future husband.

@@IAmJamieAlexander yazzz Queen

Same 🙋🏽‍♀️

The right man Sis. Yes!!

@@juliarandall869 This is love!

That part!! 💯💪🏾

Amen!!!!!

Amen. We don’t have to understand, God did it, that’s understood!

@@ttatum7101 exactly! It wasn’t for everybody to understand and that’s ok ♥️

@@izealliaeldridge1441 I stand firm with you on this. He may as well continue to wear her ring.

Messed me up

Very well said, this show is just good for the soul ❤

I love that - digital hospital! You need to copy right that!

@@DearFutureWifey Laterras, may I? You remember in Job (3:25) when what he feared actually happened to him? Don't fear! Perfect love casts out fear. Just say a prayer in faith and don't make an idol of your wife. And maintain the position that even if God allows her to pass, He has the right (think Abraham/Isaac). God allowed an idol I had to be taken, and it was pretty bad. I realized that if it wasn't an idol to me, maybe He wouldn't have allowed it to be taken😒 When I can handle it, I'll get it back. . .don't want that to happen to you or anyone else🙏🏽Sorry for the long post 🤗

This has been an inspiring episode. Man u got a strong woman there.please pray for me not to miss my partner when God sends me one. I am also a widow & wish to marry again.🙏

Touch my Heart ❤️ Also ❤️❤️

Look at God! I love it

Yes 🙌🏾

Same! That’s how I came across this channel and this channel is EVERYTHING!

@sandyaramkisson595 that is when I started following too 😂

With all due respect we need to get to a point where we just got to understand that we do not understand the working of God. God's ways are higher than ours. Whatever god's will let it be done. It's all on him n them n their process.

Interesting take on this. I just heard from someone whose sister died 2 years ago, that her brother-in-law is engaged. I understand that he (and a preteen daughter) had counseling, as the wife's death was sudden. Still, everyone heals differently. I'm wondering if it's a case of men not wanting to be lonely?

It was a True BLESSING

I wonder what you would have said to God directly(if afforded a chance) when he asked a prophet to go after a prostitute and love her. God is just too big to can figure out. You dont have the slightest idea of what he is cooking, you are out here taking orders 🤔🤔

@@shanettaforbes1788 I understand. I just think that too many times we fall in love with the idea of love or the euphoria of God's great miracle in bringing the pieces together. And we SHOULD celebrate that. This story was amazing to me. On the other hand, we are not honest about what it looks like when you settle into it. I knew my comment wasn't going to be popular with many (lol) but I have lived through this and I know what it can look like after you settle into the work associated in love. I don't think she isn't his wife, I just believe that God can show you and tell you but still not be prompting you to jump in. Their situation may end up totally different. I'm not against that. I wish them all the best. ❤️

Same here! But with God and prayer one day we will be the proper wives 💕

I’m so sorry for what you two have had to go through. May God continue give you all strength and continue to cultivate you all as wives for his glory.

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Sister, God bless you. When I think of your story, I think of Sarah and Abraham. Sister hold on and trust God.

Continue to put your eyes to Jesus sister! God is faithful and in due time he will fulfill his promises. We sometimes miss the mark because of our disobedience, as you could listen to this testimony…..she didn’t question God! She was obedient to the voice of God and never question despite of the naysayers. The prophecies always comes with conditions that involves walking in faith. Anyways, I know that God haven’t leave you or forsaken you. He is still doing something new in your life today. God bless you woman of God!

Not everyone is born to be a husband or wife. It also annoys me to hear so many people speaking on your life stating “God told me”. God didn’t tell you a thing about me, He speaks directly to me. As for Laterras, it pains me to witness soooooo many people speaking into his life and over him. This has caused him to recently trust the wrong woman, who broke his heart to shreds. I personally believe she did it purposely. I also believe she is a WITCH! He thought she was his wife because his Pastor friend and wife said they were aligned. All the while, the woman was turning a knife in his heart. Continue to listen to God and be ok with being single. That may be where your peace resides. Be well. 🌺🙏🏽

@Keep The Change According to other subscribers & comments that I've read, the womans name is Armoni & they have reconnected again. Apparently he is refusing to let her go! But I don't know!

Agreed

Yeah cause I’m not looking at that.

Agreed! Was looking for this perspective.

I was looking for this comment toocuz I'm like getting a tattoo of ur widow now ur remarried is disrespectful to ur current as well as still living in the past. If he already had it before they met, is another story. As long as he's healed

Exactly. This is like idolism to me. Dead wife, child, whoever. I don't believe we should be permanently inking an ode to ANYBODY on our body. Period.

My husband died 3 years and 2 months ago. I can understand and relate about the chest pain. For 24 years My husband took the responsibility seriously of caring for my heart, mind, and spirit. He was truly a man of God. We poured into each other. My relationship with him NEVER felt like work but it indeed felt like a fairytale that I experienced each day. He was proof that I God was looking after my heart. For 24 years, I was happy. The only time that I was sad was when I watched him die right in front of me. When he died, I went immediately to my body experiencing a nervous breakdown. I was actually hospitalized because the doctor told me that I could possibly have a heart attack. My husband died the day before Valentine's Day. It was the very first time that I didn't have his physical presence but I had the memories of his heart. Each day I would ask God to just give me strength for the day.. To hold me and guide my feet adjusting to a new norm. I miss my husband in every part of life because we shared life with each other. In life we never know when it's going to be our last day with our husbands or loved ones. I am thankful to have experienced such great love. I smile because I love him and cry because I miss him. This particular story lets me know that I can be blessed with someone that will understand that I will always honor my husband's legacy while honoring the gift of loving the new person that God sends. Because truly I couldn't be who I am without all that my husband poured into me. So my future is still being blessed by him. My sincerest condolences and prayers are with you. I am living witness that God will give you everything that you need on this journey. He keeps the promise of comforting us as we mourn. This episode helped me realize that all the love that I inside of can still be poured into giving whomever God sends all they need. My deceased husband always told me that my love was the connection to his strength and I know that I still have that love within me. Even in our grief God will never forsake us. He is always a present help. Grief counseling is a blessing because it gives us healthy tools to navigate the journey.

I agree

Same

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Agree 👍🏽

Sis strong bc everyone not built like that. I can help you grieve but we can only be friends until you have healed completely from your ex wife. God bless their marriage!

Nnnn

I am witnessing this in real time GOD SPEAKS and his voice is clear for those who are STILL enough to listen. 🙌🏾

Your comment is confirmation to ME! I'm so thankful for seeing it. Amen! #restorationseason

Amen!!🙌🏾🙏🏽

Amen indeed! This is Revelation and Restoration Season. BUT GOD! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

It was so powerful! Thank you for watching

Listennnn....I am at work and I had to leave and come in the restroom to get myself together. My God my God my God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️

I totally agree with you!

Yes - I think it was the birth place of the Pentecostal movement.

Correct, their was a Azusa conference given every year in late 90s in Tulsa at that time Pastor Carlton Pearson

When she said Oklahoma, I was like no it was California. I use to belong to a church named New Azusa.

To each it's own. Your opinion is very valid and I am sure many feel the same way. But see what she is ok with, others may not be ok with. Just like some things that are considered red flags to us may not be considered red flags to others. People have their own things they are ok with. If it works for them and they have an understanding then may God continue to keep a hedge over their marriage.

Exactly 💯

@@commonsenseprevails1433 Very true. That period of time has ended. There needs to be a letting go and moving on. There's no need to have a third person, other than God, in a marriage. That represents to me that the husband has not truly moved on.

I agree and while I completely believe in the most high and his abilities, the story is rather interesting. Particularly the financial aspect he said was fulfilled for him. Abba brings us way more than the tangible.

You that woman some women are threatened by another. He loved his wife dearly you have to be secure that everybody's life much peace to you my sister

Thank you for joining me on this journey. So sorry about your loss

@breenylee This episode brought tears to my eyes

I said the same. There is so much missing. It all sounds wonderful, but where is the rest? Is she saving it for a book? I have so many questions.

I wanted to know the same thing...ending a 17 year marriage had to be traumatic

Yes!!!