This black widow already showed her true self right from the start.. not sure why you didn't see it... someone who tells you that they need to see if you are "qualified" first is not worth your time..
Tsis yog poj ntsuam xwb, yawg ntsuam los ib yam os. Tus txiv tsev no hais yog lawm. I'm struggling with mine bc his wife of 12 years passed. And the family is not accepting and welcoming at all for the next one. Tu siab kawg.
Yog kawg li os! Peb yog niam tog txiv nta los peb nyias yeej muaj nyias qhov kev phem yeej yuav tau hloov thiab yoo xwb.. koj tus niam 2 ko nws yeej tseem hlub nws tus txiv dhau ces cov los hloov nws tus qub txiv yuav tsum uv thiab yoog nws xwb.. li no mas yuav nrhiav txiv nyuaj heev lau!
Sounds like your 2nd ex haven't gotten over her husband passing and not ready to move on. Plus she was expecting her next husband to be like exactly the same as him. Starting over can mean being flexible and meeting someone half way.
Marital status classification has nothing to do with it. A bad seed is a bad seed no matter what pot it falls in. But dude, you try to paint yourself in a positive light, but the words in your story that you said to your second wife are really cruel too. I think you both have some blame and you are just as unkind to her as you say she was unkind to you.
Haha yog hais li koj hais ko ces nej cov txiv neej mus tham cov poj ntsuam nej xav ntsoov txog lawv pob nyiaj xwb ntuj aw.. cov txiv neej nim no mas money li money xwb os yeej tsis muaj kev hlub tseeb tiag!!❤
Kuv yeej pom ib cov poj tshuam yeej coj tus cwj pwm li no kawg vim lawv xav tias lawv tus txiv yog lub ntuj qee lawm xwb es lawv yeej neeg zoo2 hos cov poj nrauj mas tus txiv muab lawv nrauj vim lawv phem xwb no poj nrauj los yeej muaj ib cov zoo kawg li thiab os
Her poj ntsuam status does not determine that all poj ntsuam are bad. It depends on the individual and their character. Can’t blame on the poj ntsuam title.
Sorry to say but perhaps the widower was so mean to her husband that she killed him? Glad you found someone who is willing to make changes to herself to better the relationship. Good luck to you.
Zoo siab uas koj muab nrauj lawm os cov neeg tsis kam txo fwjchim tsis kam hloov ces cia nws mam ua neej nyob nrog tus tuag lawm xwb thiaj zoo os zoo siab nrog koj os koj twb tau tus tshiab zoo los hlub koj yuav li ntawd xwb
Why do you want her to change to fit you? Why can't you change to fit her? If you did, you 2 would get along. You lecture too much. It has nothing to do with what you said. You 2 just have different personalities, different ways of thinking. As the saying goes, "You can't teach old dogs new tricks". You want her to change for you but you yourself can't change for her that's why you 2 don't get along.
Pov tseg khib nyiab. Pojniam muaj coob. Niam txais tog txiv txais nta ces yog pheej muab ob niag qub los sib piv kawg ua neej ya qab ha thiab rog quav dev sawv txhua hnub xwb tiag
Nrauj kum nrauj thiaj tsis muaj chaw tib rau txoj kev sib qaws los ua ib lub neej nyob ua ib cuab ib yig ua ke. Nov kuj tsis apply rau txhua tus poj nrauj los yawg nrauj. Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj tau lub tsiv koob ev los yog lub npe phem ris los vim lawv yeej tsis txawj sib yoog los yog sib hwm nrog rau lawv cov partners.
Yuav tsum hais rau tus Poj ntsuam hais tias tej zaum nws phem lis no es nws nyiag txiv thiaj lis tuag lawm no ma ! Tsis muaj ib tug yuav perfect lis os. Nws tsis tau move on hauv nws lub siab. Tseem muab yus piv rau tus tuag lawm ces kuv los yeej tsis yuav tus pog no thiab. Tsis yuav nws zoo dua.
Tus brother aw....ntsuag yuav ntsuag yeej muaj kev tu22 siab thiab tsi sib haum qees os. Qhov zoo ces yog txiav txim siab los nyob ua ke lawm mas yuav tsum sib yoog tiag222 li. Yus tus pojniam/tus txiv zoo li cas los yuav tsum accept who he/she is. Txojkev sib nrauj mas mob tshaj ib tus tuag tso ib tus 100 npaug. Twb yog vim li no es Tswv Ntuj thiaj li kom tsi txhob sib nrauj vim Nws yeej paub hais tias mob npaum li cas.
She will never going to find a husband due to her attitudes, no wondering why her husband died. She will die alone or will find a guy will do the same n will treat her to become his slave.
I am going to side with your widow wife because your story has been all about you since the beginning. According to you, you’re the best husband, the best man, the best brother, the best of the best!!!! You stated all her negatives and your ex wife’s negatives but you cannot accept any responsibility of why your life didn’t work out. The actual truth is that both of you are mature and have developed stubbornness and set in your own ways. This is why second marriages dont work out either.
Tus npawg los yog tus kwv tij. Kuv kuj zoo li koj thiab kuv kuj kawm tag 1 lub tsev kawm ua Dr tib neeg lub ncauj uas txawj hais lus mob neeg thiab kawm txog tus neeg tseem ciaj tab sis lawv ua phim nyoos vais es twb muab yus siab ntsws plab, plawv raum noj tag na , zoo li koj 2 tug los ntawm ko thiab tiag ua zoo muab xav mas kuj tu siab Chim ho vim nkim yus lub cev txiv neej laus tag caij nyoog li os. Kuv hais koj tias nyiaj hnub niam no tej tib neeg no siab phem heev lawm os zoo thaum tshiab uas yus tsis paub nws lub hub pam lem xwb ces zoo li nws kuj zoo zoo kawg tiag. Kuv twb ib yam li koj thiab os mog ua ab tsi ceev faj os mus qhov twg ua zoo saib zoo mam tshais taw mog.😮😮😮😮
Poj nrauj mas ib co tej zaum tus txiv siab phem mus nrhiav tus tshiab lawm tso lawv pov tseg ces lawv ntshaw ntshaw txiv lawv txo txo hwj chim kom los haum tus txiv xwb , hos ib co poj ntsuam ces lawv tsav tsav fwj chim lawv tias luag ob leeg yeej sib sib hlub sib sib zoo yog vim ntuj qee xwb luag yeej zoo txaus lawm kom cov sib nrauj no yuav tsum yog cov los nyoo lawv los yoog lawv lawv kom ua li cas ces kawg ua li lawv hais xwb cov sib nrauj no yog cov phem ces kom txhob muaj cai xaiv ua yam lawv xav ua li no ces kuj tsis haum rau cov yawg nrauj peb yeej hnov ib co tias yog yuav yuav poj ntsuam ces xum yuav poj nrauj thiab .
Cov poj niam no mas lam hais tias yog neeg zoo xwb. Coj li no mas yeej ib txwm tsis yog neeg zoo. Yog dhau koj lawm ce, tus poj niam no kawg mus nyob qab choj xwb.
Cov xaiv poj nrauj yog qhov yuam kev ntau dua. Vim lawv yog poj nrauj lawm lawv muaj tswv yim lawm lawv tsis uv nej txiv neej lawm. Nej uv lawv , nyoo lawv ces lawv hlub nej, nej tsis nyoo lawv ces lawv haj yam tsis khes uv nej lawm vim lawv twb nrauj txiv dua lawm ces lawv lub siab twb tawv txaus lawm. Hos nej Tus niam nkauj txhav qaib nej yuav thaum mos2 los ces lawv twb tsis tau paub dabtsi ces lawv los uv nrog nej nyob puag thaum lawv ruam2 qauj los , Tus ntawd thiaj yog Tus hlub tseem mog.
Yawg ntsuag thiab poj ntsuam tsis txo hwj chim li qhov koj hais no mas..lawv ua phem npaum cas rau koj los .lawv yog tus yog..hos koj ua zoo npaum cas rau lawv los. Koj yog tus phem xwb mas..
not going to work out. she expects you to change but won't do the same. it's all about her and her family. such a hypocrite. it goes both ways to make it work. glad you got out of this toxic, fantasy life.
I don't get what the problem is. Sounds like you're part of the problem too. You said she's mean but didn't state any specifics. You complained she went to cry at her former husband's grave, you complained she wouldn't share her money with you... On your first complaint, I don't see what's wrong with that. If you're the one who died, wouldn't you want your wife, even if remarried, to come visit you and cry too or you want her to forget all about you like you want her to forget all about her former husband. On the second complaint, I say she's smart and not end up like the other stories where the widow gave all her deceased husband's life insurance money to her new, divorced boyfriend now husband and his children even paying off his child support, he then went to Laos and got a teen bride, dumped her and he lived happily ever after with his teen bride. I recall one recently story, the widow lost $400k of the $500k from her husband's life insurance and even 1 of the 3 houses her former husband and her had. How? Because he's penniless so he insisted they get a marriage license so when they divorce, even if he's the one who cheated, remarried when they're still married then wanting divorce, he can still collect because they law splits everything in half in legally married. In some states that accept common-law marriages, you still need to divvy things up even if there's no marriage license.
Ohhh god. I hate people who think they are perfect. They will not listen to your advice , thoughts, etc. so very annoying when you do your very best to make them happy but they will not give you 2 percent of their brain. Too selfish, and does not have a heart.
Listened only half of the story and it got very boring.🥱 I want to hear the other side of the story to see what this guy did wrong as well because nyias yeej always hus nyias kwj tse xwb. It’s got to be a reason for a couple to be divorced. Well, at least you found someone that you satisfied with.