Xoli Mfeka & Philani Mthembu Define Intimacy | DEFINING Intimacy S1:E3

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We put ‪@XolisileMfeka‬ and Philani Mthembu from ‪@TheJooceza‬ in the hot seat! They unpack intimacy, girlfriend allowance, sex work and MORE ! Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed the conversation. #DEFININGIntimacy #RoadTo200k
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Producer: Dennis Ngango & Noma Plaatjie
Videographer: Gigabytes Productions
Directors: Bongani Baloyi & Dennis Ngango
Editor: Dennis Ngango
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@DEFINING Год назад

Give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed Xoli & Philani on the channel🔥! What was your take-away from the episode ? 🤔

@behlumatheezali Год назад

What can we possibly take away from it.🤔

@DEFINING Год назад

@@behlumatheezali did you watch till the end?

@Ms-lb7lb Год назад

Can we have two conservative people in the next episode. Please and thank you!

@DEFINING Год назад

@@Ms-lb7lb Who would be your ideal guests 😄

@behlumatheezali Год назад

@@DEFINING ofcourse not!! Judging by the comment below mine I did not miss anything.

@KayMahapa Год назад

My boy Philani is at home with topic. I’ve never seen him this excited. Even at the birth of his son he wasn’t this excited 😭😭

@bathob3625 Год назад

🤣🤣🤣

@elnotickschit_chat9904 Год назад

Ye ke hit😂😂

@DEFINING Год назад

😭😭😭😭

@nolusizodlalisa5573 Год назад

😂😂😂😂

@qiniso_9ix467 Год назад

😂😂😂😭😭

@monalisandlovu7390 Год назад

She looks so goooood in this comfort outfit and the natural skinnnnnn😍😍🔥

@DEFINING Год назад

💯💯

@davislubekokashweka8475 Год назад

Too much the natural skin is so clean

@johanneskhanyi7349 Год назад

Not natural

@johannesmothiba9056 4 месяца назад

Can u pls stop saying skin thats ASS..n big ASA

@phumudzocharlestshinyani5721 Год назад

I really pray that you find Jesus Christ earlier, He is the only thing that matters..we have normalised sin forgetting that the wages of sin is death..Ask Jesus Christ to come onto your life and He will purify you .. John 3 v 16... Everything else will parish... Every eye will see Him, every knee will bring bow before Him and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is the Lord,for the glory of God..i pray for all of you to find Jesus before it's too late

@kimandyamandakunene3262 7 месяцев назад

Is the only religion?

@NandiphaMbaligontsi 5 месяцев назад

Jesus people though 🤒🤒🤒🤒😷😷, everywhere they be feeding us him. UQamatha uMvelinqambi, uMdali wezinto zonke nezinyanya zam are who I believe in 🤗🤗🤗. Love and peace to you though Mkrestu❤

@savela_bethi_za 5 месяцев назад

Jesus is overrated yazi

@TheunDaed-qb7ii 5 месяцев назад

Jesu

@donaldmampuru9153 5 месяцев назад

You are high 😂

@nokwandahlongwane8286 Год назад

When Philani heard what a "Golden Shower" is. He will be scarred for life😂😂😂😂😂

@tamiratmanamo2400 Год назад

Tbh what they’re busy talking about is interesting but there’s nothing related with true meaning of intimacy.. we can call it affection for sex 😂

@lisa.k1969 Год назад

True

@nkosazanahlatshwayo3948 Год назад

Xoli looks beautiful

@theunknownone18 Год назад

Ubudoda abusekho, ubuntombi abusekho, amahloni yinto engekho kanti whats going on with us, were pandering every kind of toxic behaviour out there?

@conceliamaila8995 10 месяцев назад

This lady is beautiful

@Freaknik_anarchy Год назад

This world is broken

@thatomanaka323 Год назад

Jesus is coming bro don't u worry

@lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 дня назад

Thula wena

@lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 дня назад

@@thatomanaka323Then what, is he gonna give us a hiding?

@lexioko Год назад

Defining is such a great channel. 💖

@DEFINING Год назад

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

@crosbymakhalimaiv931 10 месяцев назад

Xoli man, I look at this nigga and how excited he is. Wish i was the one asking questions kid u not!!

@tshepohope7948 Год назад

I like phelani's "younger self advise"

@hlakaniphanicele6059 Месяц назад

After I'm done watching this... I'm watching one of her vidz🥱

@loadview Год назад

if i hear lies i leave because why are we here?

@ntandohz Год назад

Mnisi wemvula 🙌🙌🙌super proud 🙌🙌

@TheJooceza Год назад

Bhuti ❤

@romztechtalk 5 месяцев назад

I missed out on so parts due to language, but the podcast was fun 😊

@mikemudimba5531 12 дней назад

Philani stand up. I want to confirm something 😄😄

@karabomkhulise6944 Год назад

What a wholesome interview ✨

@thandondima1150 4 месяца назад

Philani you should try being a naturist with your girl the lifestyle is very enjoyable trust me I know😊

@SbahleNgobese-y1p 2 месяца назад

I've learned a lot guys I think l needed to hear you guys talking about these things

@mzansifamilyvalues8040 Год назад

Lol no ways she has made 400k a month...that means she has seen atleast 4 mill in two years if she is making between 100k to 500k a month...but you have no car and live in boulders Midrand...Cap...

@saintpablo9707 Год назад

Nah getting pissed on is wild

@nonkululekontshangase6217 5 месяцев назад

Why Xoli not getting the big buck like Wandi Ndlovu I feel her relationship is pulling her back 🤣🤣😂🤣🤷‍♀️

@KwaneleSiko 2 месяца назад

Wow where can i watch xoli's video's?

@thabanifakudze388 6 месяцев назад

Imnandi lento yenu, niqhubeke nayo💚

@Somblackyodeeja 4 месяца назад

The way Philani says u have seen your videos😂😂

@firemanr5 7 месяцев назад

YALLS COMBO IS THE ONE

@gwin8463 9 месяцев назад

She looks familiar

@vovobani1708 2 месяца назад

Vovolitians 1:1 Just like Senzo and Jason was pushed down our throats; so, will they push and normalize ukufeba, immorality and lawlessness. 1:2 i care not what you think about my comment if uzothethelela ubufebe nawe usisifebe.

@sonwabilemelato2913 5 месяцев назад

Bakhona'bantu abangamoyikiyo uThixo suka 😢😢

@KhuselwaZiyanda-od7hf 3 месяца назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I ddnt even know there's something called golden showers 😂😂 laze lalihle igama kakhona nanti kukuchanyelwa aybo weeee😂

@Tatesecrete Год назад

Bro's tryna smash

@khulekaninyuswa721 Год назад

This guy looks so different from Tiktok😅😅😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@womandesign6928 Год назад

Filters will be the end of humanity 😂

@PhilasandeMadlala 6 месяцев назад

Philani so far✌🏾

@NoloMamps Год назад

For the kids: this take on intimacy is called sexual immorality.

@Toki_M Год назад

How can we pin this comment?🤔

@thabomoyo2701 Год назад

I love you for this ....

@TumiMokone Год назад

Where is Defining headed vele😬 think it's slightly getting confusing because I personally (which can be unfair perhaps) hold this team to a certain regard - Dennis with his other channel, Bongani being married .. but at the same time - are they merely mirroring society and sometimes its just "relevant content " Eish ku tricky. But I guess thats were our agency comes in as viewers...we can totally skip some videos 🤷🏽‍♀️ or give the team constructive critique. That's my 2c's

@chotachota3536 Год назад

Thankyou so much. The first thing is thought was, are they really describing intimacy?😢

@nomfundomathebula528 Год назад

@@TumiMokone📌

@forbezofficial Год назад

Asking a porn star and a dude who learnt about sex through porn to define intimacy is crazy! This channel is wild'n😂

@Kamoomonslay Год назад

Honestly

@omphemetsephemie5819 Год назад

Listen!

@forbezofficial Год назад

@@Kamoomonslay bruuh!

@forbezofficial Год назад

@@omphemetsephemie5819 to what? distorted perceptions?...you trippin

@cityboycityboy7620 Год назад

It like asking a bank robber and someone in debt about financial freedom

@thobilemhlongo6456 Год назад

I can't believe porn is normalized nowadays. Says a lot about about the times we're living in

@jonasmaseko9194 Год назад

People who say such often have the most interesting browser history😁

@thobilemhlongo6456 Год назад

@@jonasmaseko9194 You don't say

@tshiamo009 Год назад

@@jonasmaseko9194 don't say that I am guilty

@ndwandwewasendwedwe7964 Год назад

Kuyefana ngoba abantu badlana strong kulezinsuku

@cyberpunk5507 Год назад

People will never agree that porn is ruining their lives

@DEFINING Год назад

You wouldn't believe that this is the first time Philani & Xoli met 😅

@pearlmbatha3673 Год назад

Toomuch chemistry laba

@nonjabulobaloyi3943 Год назад

No ways! It's like they've known each other for some time

@nonjabulobaloyi3943 Год назад

Wow! What a VIBE! 🔥❤️

@CACTUS_Riico Год назад

Philani saw her vidz...me too I would be this excited 😅😅

@anastasimankesemokgobu1724 Год назад

Ohh wooow, really ? You would swear they knew each other before

@lelethulukhozi9429 Год назад

This channel is facilitating open, non judgmental conversations about real life things and topics, that most people don’t talk about or acknowledge, and you some of y’all hate to see it. Loved how real this episode was, the conversation of sex is so important and I loved that we got to learn about it from different lenses and perspectives.

@lindokuhlemadiba-tr2yo Год назад

Shame...

@jacksonmpala7870 Год назад

that thing called non judgmental is what is destroying planet earth

@lokishvibes202 Год назад

Shame...

@thatomanaka323 Год назад

💔

@jacksonmpala7870 Год назад

prostitute and you come here talking about the so called non whatsoever

@Karabo_xo7 Год назад

She needs Jesus in her life✝️🚶🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

@mpendulombhele5036 Год назад

Bro😢

@NaledzaniTshifhesi-hm9fy 11 месяцев назад

😂

@lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 дня назад

Shut up wena

@lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 дня назад

Everyone has sex

@nonjabulobaloyi3943 Год назад

Philani is so outspoken and he makes the conversation very fun. I really enjoyed this episode. 🥰

@wewemhlaba7593 Год назад

Right?!Such a vibe😂❤

@nonjabulobaloyi3943 Год назад

@@wewemhlaba7593 yessss! 😹❤️

@its___Möra02 Год назад

This generation is messed up! BIG TIME

@andrewvitalis3682 5 месяцев назад

I tell you ,that's why today we have old men running governments coz this Generation is confused lost touch with reality 😢

@andrewvitalis3682 5 месяцев назад

I tell you ,that's why today we have old men running governments coz this Generation is confused lost touch with reality 😢

@abrahammacamo3763 4 месяца назад

The truth

@lwelimakhaga4459 10 месяцев назад

People praise sexual immorality and it’s leading many to hell Seek Jesus and you shall have victory

@kagisokodibona1127 Год назад

It's really boring me when We justify what is bad, evil and sinful🤷‍♂️we promote what is bad, evil and sinful 🤷‍♂️

@SibonisoIsrael 10 месяцев назад

Imisebenzi kaSathane.Abantu abanamahloni ngamanyala abo.Impela izikhathi zokugcina lapho amadoda okufanele abheke imizi yawo ebizwa ngama clients e sapota imisebenzi yokuncola.

@luyandamthembu5678 Год назад

They have really good chemistry. You would swear they have known each other for years.

@BenjaminMalatji247 Год назад

It's not chemistry, bayarhalelana nje. The dark side nje justified

@BoipeloModise-gl2hf 5 месяцев назад

You don't what's the meaning of chemistry 😂

@siphelelemjwara Год назад

First Question! What is intimacy. The guy says touch n i hv a type. I was bored immediately 😂😂😂

@kwetsephetla3597 Год назад

Dude 😭

@nthobzamkhize2911 Год назад

I think I've found myself a new favorite channel on RU-vid, y'alls chemistry is insane, big ups guys 🔥❤️

@khulekaninyuswa721 Год назад

Isn't it different people every episode

@chadwyn1107 Год назад

I like philanis honesty,he wasn’t afraid to say it infront of xoli that he would tell his younger self not to watch porn..that time Xoli does porn

@lesediseemela9856 Год назад

Intimacy isn't only sexual. Kante what kind of dictionary are they reading from? But the conversation was thought provoking.

@RefentseNosi 10 месяцев назад

Welcome to United states of South Africa We've normalised the abnormal this generation and the next is doomed

@zuzilemtembu2910 Год назад

My elder sister is Xoli Mthembu and her Husband is Philani Mfeka. Therefore my sis is now Xoli Mfeka🤭

@smith_got_keys_1738 Год назад

Yo .. mind sharing ur instagram?

@VivianKuvare11 Год назад

Philani's message to his younger self is everything ❤

@ladyqngomane Год назад

Literally ❤

@zandilemfeka1530 Год назад

I love that he acknowledges those mistakes hhey.

@bareng-refiloepatriciatheb4134 11 месяцев назад

She is sick. Sex with another woman by her guy and she does not see anything wrong with that?

@siviwengcwabe6005 Год назад

Philani is alwayyyss a vibe 🔥🔥🔥

@theunknownone18 Год назад

This is what we call progress in the black communities, adopting every destructive notion out there in the West.

@pitsimaema5434 Год назад

True

@baneleTngcobo 10 месяцев назад

Amanyala I progress?

@lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 дня назад

Westerners also have cultures.

@Khumalic Год назад

Didn’t know I needed to watch this. Enjoyed every bit of it.

@Chidzy.M Год назад

"Shuthi umnandi wena"🤣🤣🤣🤣 yoh philani😭😭😭🤣

@victoriamokwatlo345 Год назад

😂😂

@joylinemudzingwa9801 Год назад

😂😂

@Rocklee-db4xj Год назад

Telling her you watch her adult content is wild

@baratangmokwana2877 Год назад

😭😭

@BenjaminMalatji247 Год назад

Gents listen up! Ayikho indoda ezalelwe eBank. Don't be trapped into thinking you have a responsibility to give anybody money 😂😂. Stay away from that kind of manipulation n you'll be more happier - imali yakho yimali yakho

@victoriamokwatlo345 Год назад

The golden shower part and Philani’s reaction 🤣🤣🤣

@phumlanindlovu5653 Год назад

Xolie is so hardcore Durbanite the accent and slang is on a 💯 😅✌🏾

@ShawnJunior-m7p 8 месяцев назад

The relationship she have with her bf is not love, its a fucking body relationship

@thandekam9065 Год назад

I love how excited he is...its like he's BEEN meaning to have this conversation but couldn't find the right candidate. DEFINING just said BINGO!!!!😂

@babalosono9970 Год назад

Lol no this is so stupid Shem the analysis is so off ......they just saying what they think is acceptable

@beast9052 Год назад

It's stupid to define intimacy with a prostitute...

@RebaoneMaine Год назад

True.

@XolisileMfeka Год назад

Let’s Goooo 😂😂😂😂📌

@DEFINING Год назад

It was so much fun having you on the channel 🤩

@bokanisenda7361 Год назад

Lot's of love ❤❤❤

@bongekagumbu5027 Год назад

You’re beautiful Xoli and this was so much fun

@boichokophiri7867 Год назад

Are you ready to shot content with dude?

@innocenttatenda5826 Год назад

Ukuphi siyakufuna eh Durban 🎉🎉🎉🎉

@kamoganopule Год назад

When she said “another form of intimacy is money. Give me money mna” 😂😂💯🙌

@easydot3313 5 месяцев назад

😂you Xhosa neh?

@vuyeyaleticia6312 Год назад

Philani is shocked🤣

@DEFINING Год назад

completely 🤣🤣🤣

@chuenemasoga1935 Год назад

They're going to have it this two 😂

@lulufierce01 Год назад

Are they friends? The chemistry is insane 😍❤

@Fiiloe2.0 Год назад

Giiirl they dont khow each other, they only meeting for the first time😊😊😊 So crazy

@Toki_M Год назад

So true!

@cebompanza3860 Год назад

Best combo for such conversations 😂😂👏🏾🔥

@memzfashions9479 2 месяца назад

Find Jesus before its too late

@ntombi-yensimbinarrates7297 Год назад

And just like that, DEFINING hits 200K. Congratulations. Here's to defining yourselves and our community more and more.

@PureBrand-xh5wp 6 месяцев назад

even marriage will destroy your life, everything has an potential of destroying your life.

@cassandrayolanda4220 Год назад

The spark in Philani’s eyes mekhuluma ngaleTopic😂😂😂😂Priceless😂😂

@Being_cool_aint_enough Год назад

He saw her videos 😢😢😢😢bruh didn't lie

@thokozilekene4890 Год назад

The urine part😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the way he is so shocked

@bathob3625 Год назад

I'm traumatized

@mangazamushaba3904 Год назад

@@bathob3625 Me too😢

@thembacebo-zd6gi 11 месяцев назад

Ikhona vele into enjalo guys??

@RaymondZulu-e4h Год назад

What a sad generation

@yawesambo Год назад

This is the duo we never knew we needed😂

@Pamela_MrsMike Год назад

It's when Philani asked "so you pee on him....."😂He was sooo shoook.

@lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 дня назад

He got turned on you mean?

@mbalib2694 Год назад

She’s pretty 😍

@wewemhlaba7593 Год назад

Umbuzo umile Defining fam what are we doing for 200k subbies?

@liamwhisprs Год назад

Thank god she aint xhosa omg

@AkhamahleGxagxama-wu2pq Год назад

Thats my reaction too like xhosa's are already damned

@templebeesilent 5 месяцев назад

wait till your kids finds out all about it when they get to high school…🤦‍♂️then you will all be surprised why the rate of sue-side is high and try to justify it.

@nokwaoo Год назад

Uih okay .... maybe if they introduced these personalities we would've understood maybe what this particular context of intimacy could involve. A bit brash though at the outset.

@mmangalisotreasure8958 10 месяцев назад

Philani is a super star. I did not notice this when we were in High School. Big Ups bro. Keep it pushing.

@TheJooceza 6 месяцев назад

Thank you bro 🙏🏿

@Lunar.cipher Год назад

I would like to be on this show. I'm polyamorous and think that Poly relationships aren't really talked about.

@nkibanemasenya213 Год назад

So true n ALOT OF US WOMAN ARE OPEN TO THAT IF WE PUT IT TO VOTE U WILL see 50% of woman are up for it.

@simthandilebhengu9409 Год назад

😂😂😂😂😂tjo hhay

@victorlebza 8 месяцев назад

I'm also Poly, and the world just isn't easy ready enough bra. Cheating is more acceptable at this stage.

@mbalib2694 Год назад

I love how she speaks, mean they both are good for this topic

@phumlatenacious Год назад

This was fire🔥 🔥 Philani and Xoli should consider starting a podcast. Even the crew was blown

@a_carefree_butterfly Год назад

a podcast thats about porn and sex everyday? okay lol. 😌

@Nkosikhonamasemola9100 Год назад

100percent behind ur back❤✌️😅😚

@lokishvibes202 Год назад

Shame

@lesegogaebeeyn4005 2 дня назад

✊

@xolajonas3424 Год назад

When ever you have sex with another person you exchanging energies, so you have people with good and bad energies,some using good Muti others bad Muti, sex is physical n spiritual also and affects you , same time your ancestors too. The rest you can think for yourself. Because in future you claim you have bad luck , while you gathering it in your early lifetime. "Wat goes up, comes back down" when you least expect.

@JuniorPhethani 5 месяцев назад

Some relationship are fucked up what the heck is golden shower 😭 how do you allow some to pee in your mouth 😅

@KhanyiiDlaminii23 Год назад

"But igirlfriend allowance where I need to take out idebit order"😂I truly agree with him on the girlfriend allowance part...this was a great video and the chemistry between them was unmatched 😭😭😭we need part 2❣️