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All I can say this Drama is very true to life. I thought wife. Absolutely wonderful. Very calm no screaming, no shouting, just deep hurt of what he did to the Family. This is a lovely drama to watch. Well done Admin
It's always like that. They regret only when they're at their dead end. It does not have anything to do with being remorseful for the hurt and damage caused to the person they cheated on. There are wives who cheat on their husbands too, but mostly, wives are always the best life-partners to their husbands.
She lost almost everything, all because her husband just couldn't see what she was trying to do is to make a brighter future for the family. He falls for the sweet whispering of a young, know nothing girl and destroyed his life and almost his family's future but luckily his wife Gu Jia had the vision to buy a second business to make their future stable but ended up saving them from total financial destitute.
@@sudeeplohi6346 I don't feel that sorry for him. He knew what he was doing was wrong but he sought out the younger woman just to feel validated like Gu Jia did when they first met back in college. Basically she matured and he didn't. He should have grown also and not be needing his ego stroke constantly.
He became dependent on her because he could not resolve the problems he caused to happen. They did have discussions, however he made many mistakes in his work and it was her who had to deal with the consequences of his errors, after sometime, she had to make most of the decisions what should be done and what not and he resented her for that, not remembering how many times she had helped him fix his problems. Just take a good look at the blue firework's development. She told him that it would be pretty much dangerous if he'd continue to do it, but to please his mistress, he went against his wife's warning, which resulted in the exploding of the firework facility and him ending up in prison.
Him getting imprisoned asap is kinda an easy way out for him. He should've gone to the mistress after he lost everything, and then he'll suffer because there's no longer a capable wife taking care of him, then his health deteriorates because the mistress enables his bad habits, they lose their money, and the mistress leaves him, his son is disappointed in him, THEN he goes to prison.
@@iagreewithyou3478 Most of the money he spent on his mistress was taken from his wife. When the firework company ran out of cash to pay for the supply, the manager had to tell his wife about it. It was good for him that he went to prison before the divorce took place, otherwise he would be in great debt, but Gu Jia became penniless when she had to sell all of their assets to settle for all the damages caused by the explosion. The price to pay for his adultery was extremely great.
@@iagreewithyou3478 but why do i feel like they still love each other. In real life, there’s a chance for reconciliation after the husband’s sentence in jail. What’s important is he reflected his mistakes.
He ruined his life because of his ego, poor decision making, cowardliness, incapable behavior, lack of loyalty. It literally cost the jobs of so many and got workers seriously harmed or killed. All over some broke, thirsty, 23 year old tail who was obsessed with trying to leach off the coattails of another woman’s efforts.
His pitifulness made me cry when they were talking in prison omg. These Chinese dramas are the best and the worst. They make u happy and make u cry A LOT lollllll
S really .. I ll cherish this drama in my life. When she felt sorry for her side and said anything can be restarted again ...I thought they ll get back again ...but he in the peak of guilt accepted the divorce ... Anyway cheating is cheating. No justifications are there . But his eyes there was the real guilt ...he accepted his mistakes.. Pitiful eyes ...I was broken ... If I were his wife ... I would let him in the prison for three years ... Once he comes after I ll definitely take him again .
I like the character gu Jia, her husband cheated on her but she in the rage didn't do any stupid things neither do as her husband did, she strong herself for her own and her son sake, and that's like a girl ❤️💙❤️🤔🤔
That is the way that we should be dont take shit from others,we have to be prepared for all this scenario, in live nothing is secure man they can pretend that everything is nice meanwhile they have other family.
I got married at 29 I had my best 20’s Best married life at 30’s Husband passed away at 44 (we are of same age) Depressed and anxiety Turning point at age 47 See what 50’s bring
He said “I’m sorry” when he hangs the phone and stand up, I’m crying. I know it’s his fault, but I still feel sad for this loved couple to be like this.
@@tinavilla4212 essentially the chemical used to produce the blue firework was dangerous to store (in moisture I think). But Xu produced it anyway, despite his wife’s warning, to please his mistress. The stored fireworks exploded eventually during storage, and he was responsible, hence.
@@samantham743 Plus everything he said was his fault he never communicated this during their marriage and just expected her to know?? Honestly I’m glad she decided to take some responsibility because it comforted him but like y’all really think she’s as fault. LOL
@@aiaanab9876 just because the 'flaws' arent depicted doesnt mean they arent there. Remember that everyone is human. And 'perfection' is just a perspective.
Good story, they are 30, I almost 40y/o and single..I don't even remembered what I did when I'm 30,LOL,..the good thing being single is I can traveling with my single ladies too😘😘
Look where he ended up and the mistress just went on with her life, no where to be seen, single, taking no responsibility for any of this. 😭🥴 his wife still caring about him.
@@k-drama.holics7425 the family owns a firework company, the husband is a designer. He wanted to produce blue firework but his wife stopped him because this type of firework is highly flammable. But his mistress encouraged him to produce the blue firework, so he did it for the mistress. Then the warehouse exploded, 2 workers were killed. The company went bankrupt from paying compensation and the husband had to go to prison.
Lied, Lied, Lied. Cheated, betrayed his devoted wife, ruined his happy family, was too dependent on her problem solving abilities, then hurtfully accused her of being too controlling after cleaning up his messes. Even had the audacity to ask his wife to help him get rid of his young mistress whom he financially cared for with families money. Had he spoken to his wife about his true feelings the damage done might have been avoided.
@@kittie479 He’s in prison due to the deaths of some of his employees in an explosion in the fireworks factory where he was instructed not to make “Blue” fireworks which were unstable. He told his wife they were destroyed, but In actuality he kept them at his mistresses request because she liked them and her initials could be seen when they were ignited (U U).
El marido parece que ha madurado y pide el divircio, me alegra que ella comience una nueva etapa sin él, hombre que no son leales mejor que vayan por otro camino, él perdió todo por egoista, infantil y por un ratito de gloria. Me encantó este drama, tanto guión como actores ha sudo mágnifico y los temas musicles, preciosos!!! 👌🏼👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💙
LOVE is like glass, once broken it will never be the same again as well as TRUST . broken glass can't be fixed.. So handle it with care.. Good job for being a strong woman.
Texting from So Cal beach area USA. This show is one of my favorites. Cryed, laughed. So much meaning in true friendships. Thanks for this lovely show!!!💞🤗
geez! wait til you reach your 40s... being 30 is still young and still has lots to learn. well, learning is a continuous process and it doesn't stop whatever age you are.
Why would you say it like that” his perfect wife”. She’s not perfect but she did her best, she has her faults in this marriage. She never think he was not worth it. I think man, can’t stand tough women ( smart, strong, independent, ), their ego does not allow it. Sorry my English is very bad.
@@myrlandejacques4723 well he went to jail for something she told him not to do and its not she thinks he's not worth it she's knows when a terrible decision and idea is a terrible decision and idea she told him that she did nothing wrong
@@lyzrhill4765 the women always forget is man when they are not above you they think something is wrong with them or they feel inférieur , not man enough. Men live for power . Things that men fear in a woman 👩🏻. ( independency , power, intelligence, money, ext…) that makes them equal , they don’t like that. My english is really bad sorry.
8:36 It is interesting to see many people consider 30 years old as a turning point. I am also living on my own till now. When I turned to 30 years old, I am still in very high spirit, running catching bus, jumping to the bus, jumping from the bus. There is almost no significant impact of knowing that I turn to 30 on my spirit. Turning to 40s is actually more difficult as I find that my body sometimes do not do what my mind ask it to do. The spirit is still there but even more spirit and more self motivation is required to survive.
Every age is the best years of your life, if you make it so. When you get older and your physical capabilities are lessened, there’s always your mind. As long as you’re positive and accepting of life throwing bricks and bats at you (good n bad times) each year will be the best for you. I’m 70 and talking from experience. I married at 19, widowed at 21, with a baby, was married again at 30, to a husband who was abusive (emotionally and physically) but I survived. How? My guiding mantra, a Buddhist teaching - “This too shall pass” ie nothing is permanent. And an English proverb - every dark cloud has a silver lining.
@@annaa.mabior1423 Her husband have another woman , so she’s find is cheating on her. And about the blue fireworks was dangerous destroyed the fabric and kill or hurt employees, her husband was in jail because the blue firework.
No puedo creer todas las cosas que el hizo, desperdició todo el esfuerzo, el trabajo, el amor de su esposa y destruyó su familia, por estupido y ambicioso y todo por nada, hasta en la carcel terminó 🤦🏻♀️ y lo peor es que en mi vida de 40 años, he conocido gente así de tonta
I love the naration at the end by the three wonderful ladies. Besties for life people. This is the friendship every woman deserve to have. This drama is awesome, lots of lessons about womanhood. Todays society expect capable and independent women can do every thing but at the same time labeling them as selfish, overbearing and coldhearted. But well, they actually just want a good life.
This drama “Nothing But Thirty” demonstrates the strength that women have to deal with the numerous complications life May bring. The three female friends never waver in their convictions regarding their lives and the path taken. Excellent drama which I have watched 3 times.
NO NO NO he's in jail cause he's weak, had no self control, a spoilt little boy who wanted to feel important. The mistress did not hold a gun to his head and say bang me or else. Why make excuses for his immaturity.
when you love some one... respect their decisions which were the results of your wrong acts... it shows how much chaos can be created by a wrong thought or move in a happy family😶... really heart breaking💔 hope it will make them unite and make them together again with more strong bondage...
Walau hanya menonton sepotong2, saya bisa menyampaikan bahwa dalam drama ini banyak sekali pelajaran yang bisa kita ambil, dari sudut pandang masing2 karakter. Banyak hikmah kehidupan didalamnya.
@@Emy4316 tapi kalau di Indosiar banyak didramatisir, banyak tambahan pemeran dan konflik baru yang kadang tak nyambung, dan terlalu lama penyelesaian sebuah masalah 🤔
I've watched this, very, very good. What a strong wife she is, I admire and am in awe with her role. Never see this kind of female lead in scripts, job well done.
Absolutely agree! Why in most Chinese dramas are females still portrayed as acquiescent and long suffering? It drives me nuts! I have several female Chinese (or mixed race) friends/acquaintances and they are not that soft, believe me! 😘
I feel watching them having the telephone conversation that they still love each other. Those glances are so full of love. I think they will reconcile later on though in most of my comments about this drama, I say the wife should not take him back. Well, he has learned his lesson and maybe they will again be a happy family. The wife said she also had mistakes in their marriage. I think at this point she has forgiven the husband. Too bad the son will not have a father in 3 years. Sad.
Na minha opinião quem trai uma vez e é perdoado sempre vai trair pq pensa que vai ser perdoado e também quem trai nunca pensa no sentimentos da outra pessoa por isso que gostei desse drama que ela não aceitou ele devolta
Love each other dont make me laugh. When a man cheats on his wife he does not love her because if he did he would not get involved with another woman full stop. Dont delude yourself.
Absolutely agreed with these three ladies' stories. Age before thirty and after thirty. Before marriage and after marriage. I used to (and still had some) hatred about Shanghai. Many years ago, before I was married, I was been send to that city by my previous corporate firm, temporary in charged of Shanghai branch office's management before they finds a suitable candidate (a CEO) for that position. And I was in my early thirty's and just a COO. I was willing to took up this temporary position and based there for within six months the most before the right candidate took over. And I was single at then. Before with that previous corporate firm, I was a cabin crew. There was uncountable European routings or long haul flights, Shanghai was a stop over city for us the fleet crew. It was very much landed there at night and straight away checked into the assigned hotel that was nearby to the airport for us to get a night's sleep before the next day we continued on our routes. At then, Shanghai was a city that sort of fascinated me, I wanted to visit but due to the tight schedule of flight time, I didn't got that chance. Until my contract with that airline had fully served, and I had resigned and joined that previous corporate firm. So when the management assigned me to be based at Shanghai for a temporary duration of within six months, I was sort of excited and looking forward to ventured into that city, understanding and exploring the cultures, lifestyles and peoples. Simplified, I was full of life before I went. And so I went ahead. At there, my story begun. My story, I was playing the role like in this drama the mistress "Lin Yo Yo". Honestly, I really didn't knew at all. My differences compared to "Lin Yo Yo" was, I was unaware this guy that I had a short "crushed" was indeed a married guy / man. In fact, I was been fooled by the entire branch's colleagues. Because I was a foreigner, an expatriate that managed that entire office there, as the COO, their superior. But just for temporary. This guy, he's one of (considered as a) subordinate under me. No doubt, the attractions between us was fast. Similar mindset, mentality, interests ... etc. But I knew clearly that we couldn't be long forever together, and somehow the day comes, I'll be still returning to my homeland. So I wasn't taking things in between us too seriously or with too much hopes. Needless to mentioned intimacies. We hadn't gone till this part yet. It was more on casual till formal datings / outings. There was no sign at all about this guy was married. He lived alone, and everything about him was totally like a bachelor. But the truth was, his wife was residing at his village or the state he was from, and he came to this metropolitan city to pursued for a better career with with better pay range compared to the pay range in his state or village. That's why he portraits exactly like a single eligible bachelor. And worst, in that branch office, several of his colleagues actually knew his real “status”. No one had told me a single word about it. They were like watching a "comedy" of me. Because I'm a foreigner, I'm half Asian with mix ethnic. Perhaps for him, I was like a “trophy” for him to date, it's like dating an Eurasian (European with Asian ethnic), like a "show off" when we goes out. And the rest, it's almost 90% similar like how in this drama the cheating husband "Xue Huan Shan" lied to me. Exactly the f**king same ways of lying. Until things got into the end of the fourth month. Out of the sudden one day, his village wife came to this metropolitan city to visit him. And it was blunt. She came straight to the office there and showed up to him like a surprise visit. And everyone was waiting to looked at my reactions, as seem I was their clown, their joke to laughed at. I then realized, what a messed I'd caused. Not just it hurts me, I was almost hurting another lady as well without my knowing. In just that brief one night at my own condominium, I'd realized what a cruel joke these people played on me. This bastard played on me. They was hoping I'll crashed, torn, broke, or jealous and angried like a fool. Fortunately, I wasn't that category of people that they thought I should be. Remember I'd mentioned earlier, way before I was a cabin crew. As cabin crew, we was trained to handled situations with the most sensible, logical ways, regardless how annoying a passenger could be. So yeah, they had underestimated me. I didn't felt for their cruelest joke that they waited to see. And I also realized, I almost hurt another women, just like in this drama "Gu Jia" the wife. Fortunately, things hadn't gone too far deep developed yet between us. Coz I'd mentioned, I knew I won't be long in that metropolitan city, I'm just there temporary, and what can I expected much from there ? Somehow I'll still needs to return to my country. And next my rational thoughts - I really need to take a move out of that city as soonest as possible. I ain't gonna be their joker or his joker. So I contacted my chairman, the owner of my previous corporate firm. And I requested an immediate return back to my country, reasons being “I'm Not Used To The Working Culture and Lifestyle There”. I need to retrieved immediately. Fortunately, my request was granted instantly. And the following week, as I packed up both my personal belongings and wrapped up my work, I left this sh*t city with myriad emotions. Angered, Hatred, Vengeance, Regretted, Exhausted and Devastated. They thought after I'd left, the "comedy" was over, and they had enough fun on me. When I returned back to my country where the head quarter office I'm based at, I was then beginning to felt emotional, upset. And I was on leave for two weeks, absent from work. My chairman / boss had noticed something ain't right about me. The following week, I was been called in to his office for report. And so I told the truth. It was clearly I was been humiliated, insulted, deceived. The conclusion - The chairman resend another more higher ranking officer, a Caucasian male CEO to be based at that branch office with his family (wife and kids). I was just a COO, and by my tasks and rank, no doubt I should be reported to the CEO. When this new CEO took over the position at that branch, his first priority was to terminate that bastard and quite several few staffs that was involved in this humiliation game they placed on me. Not just for me, it's an unwanted culture and attitude of work the corporate firm expected. It was been ordered to executed so by the chairman to that new CEO, and he was been pretold about their working cultures and attitudes. Ever since then, I can't denied, I hated that city. I hated their culture. I remained with that corporate firm for another three years then I resigned and move on to joined another multinational firm as CEO of S. E Asia & Asia Pacific Regions. But I'll never forget that lesson I'd learned. And this drama, I didn't watched it, I was just watching here several short videos and I got the whole story what was all about. It reminded me that unpleasant experience. But thankfully, I didn't hurt another women. That's the differences between my story compared with this drama's the mistress "Lin Yo Yo". And I also believes in retribution as well. In my experience, I think I have the right to says, it ain't my fault coz I really didn't knew. The retribution should goes to him, not me. Now looking back, certainly it doesn't felt any much, and I'm happily married with someone, at least my current husband if he lied, he knew his "limits". But usually are common lies, nothing too cruel or ruining away this marriage. Coz he too knew my this unpleasant experience. And he knew too well, if it's something too "over" he'd done, I'll be capable to walked out this marriage just like "Gu Jia" did so in this drama. And this experience, it was about two decades ago. Today, I'm a retiree and doing my freelance work from home.
@@xayxayasmile5737 Excuse me ? Novel of myself ? You didn't get it don't you ? I was sharing my old time experience what I'd went through, and sort of a little similar with this drama. I'm saying there's another "category" being the "secret mistress" as we ladies. Which is, when I realized I was being placed on this unexpected dirty secretive role unknowingly, my choice of category was, to leave before I hurt others. This is the category I'm saying, instead of continued on and caused more damages. Why ? You think my story was too dramatic is it ? You think it's nice to goes through this sort of ugliness is it ? I'm sharing a truth of what I'd been through, in case any other ladies / women are going through somewhat similar, I'm saying there's another option here. Is to leave before causing too much of damages, not only to others but to ourselves as well. I didn't expect this is the way you viewed my comment. My goodness me, you're so shallowed and narrowed minded. My novel ? I'm laughing my way to the top that, your mindset is so naive. Probably you haven't or had never been through this type of situation, being fooled and played by others. But you remember, if should your day comes one day when you're facing this sort of sh*ts, don't you regret. You may say "Oh I won't", but let me tell you, long ago I too though oh, it won't happened to me coz I'll knows. But I had underestimated destiny or fate. But I didn't blamed it, in fact I'd learned something, a hard lesson. So, you may comment anything as you wants, but remember, don't be too over confident. What you'd criticized about my story, I hope if should one day you comes to this sort of sh*t with your man, you have the guts to face it yourself.
Acho que só o tempo pode ajudar. Ela esta magoada . Ele ainda a ama. Situação desafiadora. Ela sempre o protegeu. Ele errou feio, mas ela sempre foi autosuficiente. Sem desculpas, mas o arrependimento tem valor e o amor também. Ninguém é perfeito.
Her smile saying all things she can't say she is hurts so much in her heart 💔💔💔 she still can't say anythings he said that 'Let's Divorce ' 😥😥😥 I no she feel really bad but his is the ending I was not sure about it . he is still love her that much he forced himself to divorce and he love his son very much this is so hard for both of him 😔😞😔
You guys all right 🤗 I no he is do some mistakes that he is cheat his wife I also feeling really bad for that 😥😭😢and thank you for much to telling me all the true of this drama thankyou😊 and I got it now thanks guys ♥️💖♥️
There’s always the possibility that they’ll get back together as they share a son, so the contact is still there. Besides they still love each other, admitting too, to their own faults in the relationship. It’s just that he finally agreed to divorce her, unselfishly, so it frees her to have someone else in her life if she so wishes. It’s his ultimate proof of his love for her. She could have instigated a divorce even if he was unwilling, as she has grounds. However, they both waited for the other to decide, out of mutual love.
This lady deserves so much more than getting back together with his ex who leeches on her talents n now losing everything only starts regretted his actions. This guy is not worth for her to be back together
No. She could no longer trust him. As she said, it was like a thorn in her heart that if she tries to remove will bleed meaning she is constantly reminded by his cheating.
Hola 👋 no conteste por qué el título estaba en inglés y la vi a esta historia a medida que iban subiendo en español y no eran consecutivos los capítulos así que espero que lo suban desde el principio hasta el final gracias 🤗
