@@venusa4871 He a run of the mill Harlem project bum. She had an actual job. I mean if he was alreast attractive I understand but he so average looking
@@shenitagriffin2786 Word! If so, the world would have looked at him differently. Those allegations shouldn’t be taken lightly. Children don’t lie about things like that.
I used to admire Yandy when she fist stepped on the scene. She was a beautiful, young, professional, smart woman. However, as the years went on...I realized she was a bird. Ultimately the man she chose made me lose respect and admiration for her. She dealt with drama, baby mamas, cheating, prison etc...All For A Man That Admitted He Wouldn't Have Done The Same For Her. Just sad. 😢
In addition to that I think money, fame and tv changed her now she’s a sneaky conniving big bird! Look at how she treats all the other women around her nothing but mess and drama she falls out with everybody. As much as I can’t stand Chrissy her, Rah Ali and Kimbella was all right about Yandy 1000%
Not to mention Mendeecess baby mama’s the other 2 get along but nobody likes Yandy. I really believe them rumors that’s he only got with Yandy for money so he could stay out the streets and use her legal money and that’s why he gave her kids to keep her trapped
LOUDERRRRR. That’s why you gotta know your WORTH and cut it off completely!!!! Unless he’s the father of your child.. then co parent to the best of your abilities. Period. Not hard yall.
Some mothers are threatened by their daughters youth. Instead of seeing it as her child being abused, she saw it as another woman taking her man. According to her, the child did something to take the man's attention from her.
@@ntombikayisefaithmajola6217 yup! Her youth, beauty, 'you made my man look at you'.....same reason a woman will fight the woman (women) her man cheats with? But will stay with him 🫤
It’s so obvious Mandeecee is not into Yandy like that, but she is a very useful asset and would move heaven/earth for him so of course he’s holding on for posterity.
That part! I once met a ninja who was in that situation..after his sugar mummy moved heaven and earth to make all.his dreams come true, he left her as soon as their youngest moved out for university....after 25yrs..now this woman who always walked around like she had "the price" forever posting about narcissists on Facebook..yep Facebook.. that's how ancient everyone is😂..ps..he was a cheater cheater pumpkin eater...she acted blind..HE STILL LEFT...this man will leave her when he is old old old and done...he will get a woman half his age with HER money!!!!
He is intimidated by her success. He wants her to submit to him as a wife and be passive but on the other hand he enjoys the Benefits her business drive brings him
That's the mentality of a lot of bm. Many can't provide for sh*t, their woman oftentimes outearns them and still have to take care of the house and kids alone but they have the audacity, the unmitigated gall to demand submission. They're not the man of the house they're just the adult male in the house, there's a difference. A lot of bw accept that b.s. unfortunately and it's sad af. They don't realize that they're the man in the relationship and that these 🥷🏾 don't deserve any respect and/or King treatment.
Ryte perfectly said I always felt he wasn’t into her like that just seen a opportunity and took it he wants to be this rapper too late for that move then wanting to divorce he done got enough money up now lol he ready to exit yandy need to let him go back to Harlem back to the streets and never look back
So he touched a 15yo girl, who was the daughter of his ex and mom kicked HER OWN DAUGHTER, the victim out of the house?! I can't stand mothers like this, she could have reported that to the cops!
@@sarossamitha8094 A 15 year old is a CHILD. He was a fully grown man with an adult brain. He had no business texting children. You need to be on a watchlist right next to him.
That was reckless of him. What if he got into a uncontrollable situation where he couldn’t show back up to the plug in a timely fashion? His momma wouldn’t been gone just like that.
I just don’t like the fact that Yandy was up there screaming “I’m the wife!” and throwing it up in the baby mamas’ faces and she and Mendeecees aren’t even legally married. Yet, they had a televised wedding ceremony.
And it’s not like Yandy or Mendecee are even that great-looking. 😂 They don’t scream “power couple” to me. Yandy’s storyline of being ride or die for Mendecee, while he was in prison, was the only thing that kept her relevant.
@@TamESQHer storyline tired me out. His mama was doing wayyyy too much, the baby mama was doing wayyyy too much. Yandi was a "suffering wife" type and I was over it. I stopped watching after that.
I always thought that Mendecees doesn’t love any of the women he’s been with…he treats them like he treats the drug game…they are a means to an end. He’s with Yandy because she provides the kind of life he wants to live and the other baby mamas don’t. That’s why he feels stuck with Yandy.
Because the strong and independent men ("high value men"🙄😒) don't want a strong and independent BLACK woman. They won't "exotic" stay at home moms who cook,clean and take care of the children. There are a lot of pookies waiting to run games on the "strong and independent" women.
I was always on her side but Chrissy didn't lie she was trying to get in front of the camera and snake 🐍 her life on the low. 🤞🏾🤞🏾🥴🥴😏😏😏 Chrissy mean as hell but I think after that she became that way actually. 😢😢😢
I always thought Yandy was fake and she consistently tried to make that relationship sound like more than what it was. She does seem like the type to stalk a man's girlfriend. I believe that part and most of all, Yandy has proven herself to be a huge liar.
Im glad you brought up the case with the 15 year old it always made me side eye especially when yandy took in that other teenager girl and he was acting funny around her…like bruh why you so nervous
Because that same girl was dating a very older woman who was making nasty allegations against Yandy abusing her kids , etc. And he didn’t really have a say on her being adopted.
@AggravatedMan365 Yeah she’s cool, especially to men. Men , especially BM prefer BW who enslave themselves to them. Ride or die, all that hood booger mess. Fighting against other women, not holding the man accountable- treating him like their son… that’s a “ good woman”, to most males… BM anyway.
Only black women do this! Let me rephrase is black women do this more than anyone else no sane person would stay with someone in prison. So I wouldn’t expect black man to do it.
But she didn't necessarily hold him down emotionally. She could've sent an email or two to that man while he was in prison. If you never been incarcerated you wouldn't understand how a message is so important. Ive been on both sides and sometimes a random joke or I love you got me through the day. its little things like that can mean the most.
@@so.many.obstacles Of COURSE he did!! MEN SECRETLY HATE WOMEN from here to the MOON and back again, with a NUCLEAR INTENTION!!! Men are HIGHLY, HIGHLY ORGANIZED, JUST like bees and the ant kingdom!!!!!!!!!! They THINK & OPERATE AS A SINGLE UNIT!!!!!!!! From city to city, state to state ALL ACROSS this UNION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ONE DAY, women will REALIZE/UNDERSTAND this!!!!!!! Men are ADAM and women are perceived as EVE!!!!!!!!!!!! In their INSANE, SADISTIC & CRAZY minds!!!!!!!!!!
@@AnnaDimples yes I gave up watching almost 10 years ago and its mind blowing these people are still living in shambles. Its like you don't miss a beat with social media. I feel like I stay in the know lol
"Big tooth bastard" "You like Tommy from Martin; what do you do for work?" I love it!🤣 On another note, something about Mendeecees has always seemed 'off' to me
I know he’s her husband. However, I do not feel as if a man should tell a woman to do with her body. He also left her to become the main breadwinner and fully responsible for all of the household and business duties while he went to prison. She found her independence and wants to make the most of her life now. Basically he wants to take her independence from her because she has more going on than him. (which is why he doesn’t want her to get into politics). She took care of them kids and held it down while he was gone, the least he could do is support her in her goals. I’m wishing them all the best though!
Mendecces looked like he was happier with Erica but had to make a business move to get on the show with Yandy. He needed that check baby. Yandy was dealing with a lot behind the scene with other women, court cases, paying for his legal fees and making sure he was good in jail. That’s why Yandy was so upset with his kid’s mothers she was taking her frustrations out on them.
It’s crazy cause Lil Mandeecees has a RU-vid channel where he does pranks on his dad and let’s just say the Christmas video showed a lot of Yandy & Mandeecees tea. They definitely don’t f*ck with each other fr ☕️
At first, I thought he was like a legit street dude. However, I feel Yandy brings ALOT of masculine energy to their relationship, which makes him feel small. Also, Ion care what nobody say, if he could still be with Samantha, he WOULD.
@@carolynswan1171 I don't either his vibe towards her has always been a I'm only here for money. And he checked her for how she was doing Erika. I knew then that's who he wanted.
When Yandy first got on the show I thought she was a boss about her business. She was messy from the start but she still seemed down to earth. When the baby mama drama started I was so shocked to see how much of a BIRD she was 😅 Then for Mendeecees to be accused and basically acquitted of being inappropriate with a minor. Oh hell no. 🤢
3:41- Yandy knew he had a girlfriend, she was cheating on her boyfriend with him, she knew her husband was a pervert, a convicted felon, was a drug dealer, with her good stalking ass. Had the nerve to be doing the MOST getting married on TV, when her marriage wasn't even legal. She was jealous of Chrissy, and Jim Jones relationship. That's why IDK why Chrissy never put them paws on her ass. Mendeecees was ONLY using Yandy, and she was cool with it being that she's a trick. She ain't nothing, but a pathological lair. Also, Yandy ONLY took in Infinity just to make herself look good on the show, to use her as a babysitter, used her for a storyline, and kicked that child out when Mendeecees came home.
I agree with last part, but I believe her and JIM were fukn, CHRISSY will never admit it because Yandy always had one up on her, in top of they didn’t really know each other. I think the jealousy was the other way around.
@@nancyfischer4875Agree wholeheartedly! I always said the issue with Yandi and Chrissy was because Yandi was fuckin Jim! Why would she tear at Chrissy like that and she knew too much of their personal business because of Jim pillow talking and his mammy and family running they’re mouths too
Biggest red flag was when she told him she didn’t believe in divorce. In an episode of L&HH he admitted that made him interested in her more. I wonder why 🙄
Nonstop cash flow for him plus he can do what he wants with whoever & she'll accept it. He feels NO remorse at all. She probably Dying inside. Hope the children help her feel better
I have neeeeever had to pause any of your videos..but today I did, halfway to LITERALLY catch my breath! My blood pressure is UP cause whaaaat in the messiness is this!!!
RRG, since Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck announced their second marriage coming up to an end yesterday, I'm waiting for your opinion on their unsurprising divorce. 😅
Same. I’m not surprised, I knew that they weren’t gonna last the moment they got back together. Jennifer wanted to work through their problems whereas Ben was completely checked out of the marriage. In Jen’s mind, she thought that by doing random pop-ups, spending time with her step kids and visiting Ben on his birthday that everything was gonna be peaches and cream and guess what? Things weren’t working out. What did you expect, Jennifer? The man didn’t show up for you on your birthday and done already moved out. If I had a husband and I knew that our marriage was over once he didn’t show any signs of working things out nor spending time with me on my birthday, then I’ll be out the door. They got back together too quick and I’m surprised they even lasted like three years together. And she kept flaunting her wedding ring like girl! Put that shit up, he does not want you. He’s OVER this toxic ass fairytale.
I forgot all about those allegations about that 15-year-old girl. And then she had the nerve to adopt that girl when she was a teen and tried to force them into some pseudo-father-and-daughter relationship. Yandy is weird!!!
@@mochagoddess24 No, it's not the young lady in the court documents. She's not the ex's daughter. It's the fact that she placed both of them in an uncomfortable situation. The girl was in the foster care system. And to put a man fresh out of the penitentiary with a teenager knows that allegations of his past are questionable behavior, in my opinion.
I always felt like he was jealous of yandy. She's goal oriented and a natural hustler and truly can do it without him . He knows that and it bothers him but she needs to wake up
