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Who wants to get divorce settlement from a RITUALIST, especially knowing that the MONEY FROM YOUR DAUGHTER'S DEATH???????? Only a LIAR, a SCAMMER !!! That lady is way OLDER than this man and had a sinister objective to make money from this marriage from the beginning.
As a South African woman I really felt for her but now I believe this guy, the fact that she hid her 2nd child & pretended to have 1 says it all. Am proud of this guy for coming out & speaking his side, if all she had said was true, he wouldn’t have come out🤞🏻 As modern women we do not like taking accountability for our actions, she must also tell us how the other Babydaddy died. This guy seems like a responsible Man, she’s insecure & was in it for the materials. She’s also disrespectful by leaving the house while her Mother In Law was present, that says a lot about her🤞🏻
Believed this guy 10minutes into part 1. She is capitalizing on the trending stories of woman being scammed. She is using other woman's pain to push her narrative. This is perfect timing for her to come up with stories so she can get money she didn't work for. He had the right to know what he was getting himself into and he was never granted that. Marrying a woman with 2children is not something to be taken lightly. As much as a woman with kids (myself included) deserves to be loved again, a man deserves to know what he us getting himself into. Her credibility is gone from the jump cuz she kept such a huge thing from him. He was patient with her even though she had more to gain. Let this man rest yho ha a!
From my perspective. This guy has been a player and Linda was like “not with me” especially after having 2 baby daddies. She got attracted to this guy and made sure she gets pregnant whereas the guy was not there. She was desperate for stability and settling down which I feel sorry for her. So it affected her, she went extra miles to make it work and she relied so much on traditional healers. She also took advantage that this guy is a foreigner and now wants him to pay for getting a permit through her. All I can say is these two shouldn’t even gotten married or even moved in together but spiritual controls physical (only God knows what happened).
True she should have also worked on herself she has childhood traumas they she should have also seeked help maybe they could have grown to love each other
Married a South African. my brother them don't care where you re coming from once you are making money. the storys to take you to court and take over your things will come out. i here passing something like this. but yours is deep. leave it for God
Someone asked this lady on tiktok tht how come she wants half on her divorce yet she claims it was frm sacrificing their child. Now she wants to get to get things frm this marriage to support the other kidz she had b4 meeting this guy. Ai ai she mst get it right so tht we dont support the wrong side, we wont take side or hate this guy jst bcz he is Nigerian no
Him being Nigerian should not be a factor. He is a human being and has the right to be heard. Something is very off about this woman's entire story. She herself was a red flag from the start. She had more to gain from the beginning more than this guy ever had to gain.
@@lulamalemoen5500 yes nana, so true and she is nt working, so if she claims half ,she will get things she never worked hard for ,all she wants is money without working
@@mellowdeemukabi8901 true ,her staying with someone who is a ritualist doesn't make sense and she still calls him and ask to sort things out , Hai khona
I knew she is a liar.She just wants money the guy is giving her a house that she would have never owned cause she is a failure mara she is still fitting😂As ladies we a busy making our own money she is busy claiming what she never worked hard for😂
This guy looks very cool. I think I believe him. You can't just disappear like that for a week and come back and your husband don't know her where about often and often?
*I said this before & I'm still saying it, this guy is innocent his crime was to meet a gold digger. I thank God he didn't end up being killed by izinkabi njengabaye abafwt*
@@edithozobia6989she is a goldigger who hid two previous kids, threw away morning after pills and didn’t drink them because she was digging gold. Disgusting!
😢 There Are Loopholes Here The Lady Lied About The Other Child 🙌🏽😮She Is Driving Porche And Wearing Expensive Clothes But She Was Not Taken Care Of 🤦🏽♂️ I Think She Is Taking Advantage Of This Guy Because He Is Nigerian
It is a game lol, divorce can be messy. She cleary wanted sympathy from the public and she got it. But she was hoping he does not come out with his side
@busisiwemichelle5391 Yes , she did mention it, but she never mentioned her son she had before meeting the guy, too. Basically, she had two kids before meeting the guy, who fathered her 3rd born. The lady has 3 kids in total.
So she’s using TikTok and other platforms to get his attention since he blocked her?. 😭😭🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️😮💨 She’s on a smear campaign. 💔
Now it'd seem like, Ms. Linda just hated the fact that she fell for a guy who just wasn't into her, so she fought tooth and nail to stay in his life, but this further aggravated the problems because they already weren't jellying...kuningi bo!
l hear you , he was never into her and Linda did say when they met he was quiet..after some time it became toxic ..there's was no love ..it was clear we know when we are loved as human beings
I also see that this is the problem. Girl forced this relationship. Obvs when you force things, you will feel mistreated when guy isn't affectionate and stuff. I am not saying she wasn't mistreated. Men can be very mean when they do not like you. From her side she also made it seem like this guy trapped her.
I agree with you, I think she is doing all this because she feels she wasted a lot of time trying to get this man to love her and it didn't happen. Now she wants to get something out of the time she invested. There was never love here they both said it.
Don't forget at the time he was illegal in the country and she helped him legalise his stay. Maybe that's how he was able to legalise his "business" as well coz they were partners so it was convenient to take her to business meetings. Why did he prefer keeping his money in the house rather than the bank and pay bills in cash especially dealing with big amounts of cash
There’s a lot I can say on my TikTok page and I chose not to I can tell people what you did to my mum and what you did to my sister and how you would remind me that my mum is a bitch and how when you and my mum have fights you would go crazy to a point where even your own son is afraid of you
I believe everything this guy is saying, this is what South African ladies are doing to Nigerians, once they buy properties and having expensive cars, they start making up stories of this guy is this and that, why she didn't leave the guy when they were still staying in a flat not having what he has now, ai
@@evabanda8504 I honestly feel sorry for Nigerians living in south Africa, cus this ladies use power of police towards them cus they know most South Africans hate Nigerians
Love or hate Owami but my gosh you cant ignore the growth in every facet. From her use of the english language, her reading ability (she used to joke about how she reads English), video quality, confidence, nje the glow up. Im so proud of this woman especially when you know how she started. GROWTH!!!❤
I believe this guy because Owami didn’t prep him on the questions that will be asked, he is consistent with his story and answers. Anyone speaking for over 2hrs will have a dry throat so comments talking about him clearing his throat and his body language is just being bias because ubhuti wabantu is Nigerian so as SAs we conclude without listening that he is lying haiboooo
However, the lady had already created the content of the story, his just replying to what was said about him. Also, his just painting the lady as a bad person and him been the good person, his just a narcissist. I'm not in favor of the lady, listen to him he contradicted himself multiple times. Anyways, the two of them deserve each other mara ubuthi unamanga.
@@leratolebethe6699 please state the contradictions he made, be specific, someone pushed the owner of the house out and claimed his properties and then brought in children she got from another man to humiliate his children in the father house, he suffered and built, put false accusations on him that he is a ritualist without proof, do you know how painful it’s to lose your first child, Is she your friend, show me your friends and I will tell you who you are. I pray what happened to that man never happened to you, South Africa the world is watching you.
It's always better to hear the other side of the story...big ups to the gentleman for availing urself and tell Ur side...kanti guyz y'all shud accept when things are over,the whole drama was so unnecessary
..and I'm afraid most of the fingers are pointing at mama's. She just became bitter after realizing the guy wasn't into her at all. Actually, now it seems like she even trapped him with the first pregnancy, knowing how naija men love their kids.. ayyy Linda
@@saeedamahomed4969 even she said the guy was player wara wara ,but it's sounds like she was not a wife material at all,how can you slept with someone and blocked him with no reason, hiding her 2kids ,informing her husband's friends to use muti,going out groove ,hayiii it's a lot shame selfishness, manipulation, deformations for character as well
The only reason she's accusing him of being a ritualist is because she went to check at some spiritual place, and the marabout told her "he is a ritualistic and he killed their two months old daughter for money ritual".The baby probably had what is called " Cot death" (due to aspirations of fluids into respiratory tracts, when a baby is laid flat in a cot/ bed, immediately after feeds). But yet she wants to keep her "daughters blood wealth by a ritualist"..! Isn't that ridiculous! She is much older (streetwise girl, with secret 2 old children, from 2 different fathers), wanted money & love by (assumed rich) Nigerians, and she trapped him with a pregnancy on "a one night stand " forgetting that he must have his own lovers then. Unfortunately, he loved & wanted to have children, hence appealled she kept the pregnancy...probably hoping love may come in, along the line. She was enjoying the wealth, except lack of love, (they were incompatible - different orientation and unmet expectations), and of course, the man has to purse where his heart & love is...which is definitely not with her! Now when the reality sets in, the relationship can't work, coupled with the unfortunate loss of the two-month old child, she's now on revenge mission...defamation, to get back at him..."if I can't have him, I'll destroy him, no woman can have him" kind of! All these years, Linda never saw any ritualist acts nor tendency by him, none wgatsoevein the house, over the years. Even all the cars & the house were gotten before the birth of the late baby! . Accusation is now simply based on her "visit to a seer, to find out the cause of daughter's death" (Isn't that fetish of Linda too?), and claimimg she was "told by the seer that he's the killer & a ritualist"..! What a sweet destructive revenge; greedily collect all he's ever laboured legitimately for, and "since he doesn't love me, if I can't have him, no woman will have him - I'll destroy his reputation"..! At any rate he's a Nigerian - "call a dog a bad name in order to destroy it"..! But remember Linda, you have a son between you both; think of his future & reputation, when he grows up & gets to know all this your manipulation of a "younger" husband..!Internet sure does not forget!
To my understanding the lady came in this relationship with lies about hiding kids number 1 , she wanted home in this young man , that's why she never drink the morning pill and she just wanted to control him which was not working for her and this guy is hurting inside I can tell he stayed with this lady because of his child not because love , and he was doing all out because he just wanted to stay what ever because of the child
I’m a South African lady and I know wherever there’s a situation involving a South African lady and a Nigerian man, a South African lady will play victim whenever she can’t get her way because the root of their relationship is the lady trying to benefit from the guys finances. This isn’t fair and we should hold our sisters accountable for being abusive and manipulative to these men. We should call our sisters out
It is VERY GOOD for the Nigerian man. Some of these foolish ones boast in Nigeria that they prefer non-Nigerian women😂😂😂😂. A Nigerian woman BUILDS HER MATRIMONIAL HOME, she will HARDLY do a quarter of what this South African woman has done to him😂😂😂. So, let him enjoy his non-Nigerian wife😂😂😂😂😂. Meanwhile this showhost STOP EATING TOO MUCH DAIRY, you are irritating our ears with the constant throat-clearing.
@@NokwaziButhelezi-vd8jw True hey and what more worse is him doing it again coz ppl already fallen for his lies when he never loved her from the beginning..
If he doesn't end up suing or getting some form of retribution, this will allow more women to continue this kind of manipulative tactice - which would be devastating on a social scale.
Sue on what grounds? In the end he paid lobola and he has a child with the lady. They lived together as husband and wife. So unfortunately the lady will benefit from this 'marriage'
@mecharamorula4660 on the grounds on defamation. He's in the media space, any false rumors or information could harm his bag. If he has proof of certain things she had said that are false. He can sue.
@@norahmaleka-lt8uv yes, I don't like someone who is nt working to claim 50% on divorce, knowing she did nt contribute, she had a house help yet not working ai ai, she was a liability in this relationship and she want a luxurious life
Eish guys kunzima, after this episode they should now both come together😂 but im serious, for the sake of ngwana (the child)...they should come to the show so that we can now properly solve the problem
They need to come be interviewed together. At this point even a lie detector test is needed coz my jaw dropped in both their sides of the story. Don’t even know where I stand now. But what’s clear is that they both had their own demons and weren’t ready for that marriage!
Are all Christians without sin? 🤔🤔... I want to meet the saints you are referring to. Some have not yet done it yet/still "V" but not humble,not respectful or treat others good, or maybe not having pure hearts,some still do it by themselves and maybe not with someone... In simple words...👉🏾..not yet doing it doesn't proof that one serves the living God....
@@ramonaramona9477 I am one one of those Chriatians that sin. The point here is about Spirit of God. My point remains that the man said he is spiritual. That can be any spirit, If I operated in the Spirit of God, which is the Holy Spirit, I will not do the things I do. I am let by my flesh and that makes me a sinner. I can never changed God's truth.
@@tinychefness3546 The spirit of God can be there but we are mortal beings and we can fall into sin. Even those called woman and man of God sin,yet their God given gifts remain... So I think that he can be let by it and still fall weak to an attack, plus the lady had her agenda (like a spirit of Jezabel at work) which is why she didn't take the morning after...
Ufihla abantwana bakho endodeni yhoooo hayi, Let's (as women) normalize working hard for our kids. You are a mother of 3 kids but you're busy following indoda ephandayo around instead of focusing on building an empire or a warm home for your kids!
Baninzi who hide their kids if it’s more than one yah I know such ladies especially laba badyola with very traditional men.that time laMadoda abo baya Abuser
In the video, she posted whilst calling him out, she sounded strong and powerful. She came on the show, played the victim, and spoke softly. She narrated her story in a suggestive manner. And most of the people who believed her did so because he is Nigerian.
Part 2 got me. My question to the woman is why do you want things from a sacrifice of your child? Why not leave this man with his dirty money if its dirty. Also you two seems like you just have fights. Yall go for counselling and solve this problems. Yall have a child for God sake. What is this....
The way I felt sorry for the lady 😳 at this point I'm just in shook! I'm so happy that this guy was given the opportunity to tell his side of the story🙏
@@slindilemahlobo5934 did she love him? They just met, fucked and got a kid. The marriage was for convenience for their child cos she threatened to abort Haiboo wena!!!
She wants to be seen as rich yet she cameto this guy for money due to this mentality of falling for Nigerians bcz they are supportive and do give money .
As a Nigerian, its so painful that being a Nigerian has become a crime especially in South Africa. No one created themselves and no one chose where to be born. I pray God helps him
This was a union of two toxic people who I doubt they ever loved each other, it was all about convenience & it back fired terribly to both,....I MUST ADMIT, I don't know what to believe here! 😮
I think we don't need to blame the girl or this guy because we don't know who's telling the truth 🤞 both of them are defending themselves, and it's rare to hear a witch admitting that I'm a witch, that's my 2 cent advice
The man is a ritualist he sacrificed your daughter but you still want 50 percent of what the man owns which comes from rituals and sacrifice make it make sense plz
One thin about "other" street girls no matter how hard u try they can never change,,Im glad this guy came out to give us his side his story and i believe him
When it comes to him saying she doesn’t want to work; she just wants money. I’m sorry, but I agree with him. At least he did admit that his verbally abusive and short tempered.
As a man, sometimes i think we should not be given voices or an opportunity to speak for ourselves...rather, we should learn to quiet and act on solving our problems....if he is innocent, i think he should give the wife 50% of what he owns and move on... talking or explaining himself will never solve anything
Okay now so far I feel like these are two people who got married with intention to gain something from the relationship, the guy probably just wanted spousal Residence Permit and the lady seems like she has self esteem issues, so she needed validation, money and the fancy life. The lady knew that this man doesn't love her. If a man loves you, he'll definitely make time for you and not give the phone to a friend to talk to you because he's busy?😅 Probably now that the guy has his permit, has been in SA long enough and have a child, he qualifies for a permanent residence, he wants out but the lady doesn't want to lose the riches, more so apparently she doesn't want work, so she doesn't want to let go. This is a toxic relationship, they both aboused each other, especially emotionally, both of them are dodgy with the physical abuse question. This is a Nigerian like movie script, they must just make a film and make more money and leave us out of it. Ladies Owamie has been saying, be financially independent so that when these 666s decide to leave, you still can start life somewhere.
I know both of these people and all I’m gonna say is this woman was a control freak.Anyone who knows them know that it looked like he’s scared of her whenever they were together Secondly she used to drink and smoke when she was pregnant(I have proof)…might be why they lost their child at two months old Btw I’m South African so yall please don’t think ke buwella the guy because ha ke mo buwelle Ngwanyana o was just there for vibes
Also the woman’s daughter used to tell almost everyone she comes across how terrible her mom is and how she always wants everything done her way..She used to tell people that the mom doesn’t take care of them,doesn’t do things around the house and how much she hates her for abandoning her The girl only started living with her mom about two to three years ago..They tried staying with her like four years ago but they took her back to Linda’s mom’s house because she(the daughter) was disrespecting linda’s husband
Haibo...where's the lady's proof that she brought?, the two people are both not make sure, why does ugirl want money of a ritualist...personally i dont think that he is a ritualist but might be involved in selling some not so legal substances coz which business afforded them all these luxuries in just 10 yrs
And stuff, and stuff. Lol 😂 You don't need a lie detector. This guy is a pathological liar and only came on this program to protect his image. He never cared about his wife and used his baby daughter as a sacrifice for monetary gains. I don't buy what he says about being a Christian or having people pray for him. I don't believe anything he says. I would need to see proof.
I think she didn't drink the morning after to trap the guy into marrying her and later took the guy to her sangoma friend and tell him he needs to marrying her. Nah fam
Am a Nigerian but I will never make this sought of mistake pregnant or no pregnant rather buy tickets go back home Nigeria marry from my town not even from Lagos go to my province and get a woman of my statue I don't want no drama and heart break or disappointment no disrespect s.a but will never marry from here I have seen a lot and heard a lot I learn from other people mistake and save my self the drama. I have 3 friends in Durban that married the best women ever in s.a and happily married for more than 15years but the percentage of those good ones is too low maybe 15% out of 100% I can't gamble with my future.
Don't do this...because South African women who have been victimized can talk about Nigerian men and it won't be nice...it's not a nationality thing, it's individuals..
This guy's intention was very clear from the get go, she was not in love with the lady but doing it for the child, hence they were not intimate most of the time, well according to the lady. I don't believe he is a ritualist because during the interview he mentioned God. Nd he could have done it with the first child.
Sangomas it must be clear people they do pray in whatever they do. Some they are taken from church through spiritual gift. Not all sangomas are doing evil.
Yesterday in Sizokthola a Nigerian drug dealer was using God's name, even had a jacket written Jesus is Lord but the amount of drugs they found in his place... So don't be naive
Me just finished an arbitration case. Driving back to the office and listening couldn't wait for after working hours. Addiction to the queen ninjas scoops❤
This guy is a liar. Y is he avoiding discussing about the passing of his daughter, his a real Narcissist. The girl is not totally innocent her self, I blame her for forcing the relationship to work out I blame her for not telling the truth about her son.
mmmmmmmm, I am not buying this man's cool aid! He seems like he is lying a lot. I do think to a certain extent that girl kind of forced/trapped this man into a relationship, though.
Your sister is the one telling the truth right? Tell her not to collect anything or property from a ritualist as she claimed. Bunch of manipulative women.
