I couldn't take this seriously when Yoongi was eating he's such a loud eater and every time he went closer to the camera or had a confused look on his face made me giggle from how adorable he is. This also helped with getting my mind away from everything I Wass struggling with in the past hour. Basically helped me more then therapy. To all my survivors to all the people who are battling I urge you to rise against your worries, overwhelming thoughts ect and push I love you all 💜
when my dad found out about my cutting (or as he calls it, "scratching"), he got mad at me. He said I was stupid, he was pissed, and I could understand why. But it made me wanna cut more, because as much as I hated myself and wanted no one to know about it, I also wanted to "break free". I knew it was a bad habit, but couldn't stop. I'm about a month clean. The last time I cut was when me and my step mother got into a physical fight. (About a month ago)
Not stupid, like I mentioned in the video, it's an understandable human reaction, even though everyone can't fathom why someone would do this, because everyone reacts to the world and things around them differently. It's a bad cycle that's difficult to stop. Many congrats on one month clean, so well done x I wish you gl to continue and don't be too hard on yourself if you relapse and also don't take your dad's comments to heart
this may be fake, but to see this and imagining Yoongi being so caring is not far fetched, I needed this and it is actually helpful, I love Yoongi enough to feel that he would do this for anyone he cared about.
I’m grateful to have someone who understands my self-harm in a similar way. He hates to see me hurt but he hides it so well that sometimes I wonder if he even cares. There was one night when he found me crying in bed. He asked me what was wrong and I said I just felt sad. He didn’t understand it but he held me all night. That’s how I know he loves me. Everyone, you are loved and even when the dark times hit, we have each other 💜보러해
When she said comfort, she really meant comfort. This has helped me, I needed to hear these things, but i have no one to talk to about this so I never really hear anything. I feel alone so this helped me somewhat. Thank you so much
This video is so sweet! I'd love to see a second part to this in which you go to Yoongi when you get the urge. I would be curious to know how he would approach that.
I remembered i was doing self-harm too, for a reason that i couldn't feel anything like i felt numb and what i could felt is only pain. Physical pain. It helps me that i still could felt things. Until i found my escape. A year ago. Still tears me up when i thought about it. Thanks for this video!
This is so helpful. As a former cutter who is trying to not do it anymore this helps a lot. My parents and family get mad and they don't understand why I do it. They don't understand the mental illness concept and how it is not easy to stop. It went to a point where I was cutting in some dangerous places so they wouldn't see. This helps so much when I have the urge to do it. For someone to just listen and understand and just let you talk and doesn't judge you. The sad thing is that it is not real I don't actually have him to cuddle with and watch movies with at night
Unfortunately, it's the case with parents (and majority of people). Unless someone really experiences it themselves, they usually don't understand, and there's still a lot of stigma to crush. I'm glad it helps 💜 and you're right it's not real. But Yoongi cares about you, obviously you can't be close to him as in this video, but BTS care about ARMY's well-being. And hopefully, one day, you can find a person in your life that gives you unconditional love and support and doesn't judge you, like we all deserve. Until then I recommend to hug a Shooky plushie, that's what I sometimes do ☺️💜 hope you take care of yourself and stay strong 💜
(sorry for my bad english) i cut myself cuz i wanted someone to recognized it, not for feeling relieve. didn’t cut too deep, but it hurts. i just worried about every single things that happened to me eventhough is not that big. i don’t want to harm myself, it hurts a lot, but i rlly can’t talk to anyone about how i feel, i’m afraid they’ll judge me and then ignore me. then yeah, i just keep hurting myself even in my thoughts, i want to d!e so badly. i hope someone can find out about it, and then comfort me, say that i’m loved. but how can anyone recognize that when i’m just smilling and joking around, not telling anyone about it. i feel so stupid and childish. when bts are trying to teaches us how to love ourselves, i just hurting myself more for attention. but this video helps me a lot. i cried, then i felt like i’m not sinful anymore. i just wanna say...thank you 💜
I hope maybe you could gather enough courage to tell someone close to you. Sometimes we assume they will react badly, when in fact they might be more understanding than we think. Hurting yourself is never for attention - and if it is, its okay. It's a human thing to do. Our brains and emotions are complex and sometimes escape in destructive ways, but it's not sinful, weird or anything like this. Just human. But it's also dangerous, obviously, so I hope you can try to take care of yourself 💜 and get through this. Ily 💜
I saved your videos in a playlist called help.... For me to convince myself to stop when I'm thinking about it. But everytime I forget about everything. I just get into a panic attack and can't think about anything. And after I've done it and calmed down I'll be so angry at myself. Watching this after I've done it. Wow. I'm just wonders right.
It's common to react spontaneously to anxiety or panic, such an automatic reaction. Don't be angry at yourself, try to work in small steps instead. Try to be a bit more conscious each time and focus on staying safe even when you S-H, and eventually you will learn a bit more control over the situation. It's a long journey and being free from S-H doesn't happen overnight for anyone. For me it took many many years and I still get urges but now I know I can overcome them with better coping mechanisms, and you will too. Relapse is okay 💕love you 💜
I still do self harm cause I always think its my fault when things happen around me ...But now I know I don't need to always hurt myself but I need to think about myself and breathe.. my doesn't know this but if she does , she would call me crazy but thank you for this video and the people in the comments who are sharing their stories
thank you so much for this video. It was definitely one of those much needed videos. Unnie, can you make more such videos, they are really helpful. Love you always
Glad it helped you and I will definitely make more like this. If you have any specific situation, theme or member you'd like to see in future video don't hesitate to tell. Ily 💜
@@taky1329 thanks alot!! Can you make more on self harm or suicide attempts, if possible for taehyung or namjoon. There's no hurry. You can take your time. Thank you once again💜
@@ritapuri4444 absolutely 💜 I'm working on a suicide attempt themed imagine but it was a request so it'll feature Yoongi, but I will make the other ones with Taehyung or Joon 💜
if i could give you a Million 👍 I would. I really loved this, every person's feelings is valid. I hope everyone who feels the same way as Y/N have a yoongi that could understand them in any way possible. 🌷🙋
Well...for me...now i don't cut my wrists now....as i cut my legs...where nobody can see. I know...its...not good and even i feel disgusted when i see those cuts. Some of them become really deep. But i can't just stop myself....
don't feel disgusted. I used to cut my legs too and hated how they looked, but they've faded now, and your skin will always heal up. It's really hard to stop but I believe you. Set small goals for yourself - try to go one day without cutting, and increase to a few days, and a week, and so forth. And when you relapse you try again 🤗 take care of yourself 💜
@@taky1329 yea...now i try my best....if bts wasn't there...i would've...i don't wanna say that. But I'm really stronger than before...and i love it....how i could control myself nowh....
I wish I had someone there for me when I was cutting myself till this day I feel stupid for cutting myself but I was just in such a bad state I was depressed I’m treated horrible and my family always calls me stupid I was just stuck then my hands just got the blade and cut
I’m going through a lot of stress rn bc of online school .. it makes me wanna kill myself so all of those gets off my chest but I don’t think that’s the right. Bc I would miss my friends and BTS.. . Tysm for making this video it helped a lot I hope you’re doing well
I've been thinking about asking this for a long time now. Whenever I get angry or something bad happens, I always blame myself and sometimes I even imagine myself getting beaten up by someone in an inhumane manner. It kind of calms me down tbh. Also, sometimes when I feel like crying but I don't wanna show myself to anyone, I always curse at myself, again imagine myself getting beaten up, also sometimes I pull my hair, and also punch myself by knuckles on my head. All of this is increasing day by day. I wanted to ask if this is also considered as s€lf-h@rm.
Hey there! Yes, what you're describing falls under the category self-harm. There's so many different ways to S-H aside from the obvious ways that people usually think of, and sometimes people don't fully understand it. No matter what form S-H takes, physical or mental acts, the underlying thinking pattern remains the same. The reason why harmful thoughts or physical acts bring relief also remain the same. You believe you should be punished, and that's the concerning part because if you live under the belief that harming yourself is deserved whenever something bad happens or you mess up. And that can obviously lead to more and more severe self-harm, when you have to keep doing it more intensely to achieve the same feeling of relief. And mental S-H, repetitive thoughts or patterns, aren't any less severe because they instill in you a sense that you deserve these things and that can be just as harmful for your psyche as physically hurting yourself. BUT if it calms you, it doesn't have to be all negative. It all depends on how you react afterwards. Can you realize that you don't actually deserve the things you imagine in your thoughts, and that they're just a way for you to cope with negative emotions? Eventually with time you can find other ways of channelling that frustration that you feel, that doesn't involve unleashing it onto yourself. Drawing your feelings can help, or writing them down. The main thing is that you work on trying to get rid of the idea that you are to blame for everything because you are not. Hope this helps 💗
@@taky1329 thank you so much. Even though it wasn't real, I felt so emotional watching this video. I've watched all of your Yoongi imagines and I seriously love all of them, but I always end up feeling emotional that there isn't anyone like Yoongi to take care of me. I'm actually scared that I might end up doing all the things in real life that I've imagined. Honestly, I haven't told anyone about this, not even my best friend. So it feels kinda good to let it all out here. Thank you so much 💜
The words are too small for me to read. I have cataracts and diabetic retinopathy so I have a hard time reading this. I have to refer to the comments to get the story line
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