I "learned " this or figured out the lesson of choice last year..when I ACCEPTED THAT I CHOOSE I could no longer blame ANYONE for ANYTHING ever again. Scary but so FREEING! THANK YOU P .S I wrote this before I heard the whole thing and it alllll resonates with me.
lol sounds simple, however I haven’t reached that juncture just yet, just when you feel good…more & more challenging ones arise. No matter, I still go for it but can’t say I’m there…I don’t think anyone can fit there are many many layers we aren’t even aware of. Keep up the good way!! 🙏🏻
Harsh truths revealed today. Ty Brian for everything. So grateful for this particular video. To me, you are the humble mentor that changed my life. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 🙏
In the bible, adam was given dominion over the earth but when god asked adam what had he done, adam says the woman gave me the apple, so he gave his power to eve.. when she was asked she blamed the serpant (satan). Who remained silent. So adam by not taking responsiblility gave dominion off the earth tio eve and she then gave it to satan. When jesus was on trial even tho he was innocent he remained silent thereby taking on the sins of the world and taking back dominion.
Living in the solution is the best thing ever! If I'm not the problem there is no solution! When I found out that I was the problem rather than everyone else, it turned out to be the best thing ever, although very painful, because I knew I could change it. If it was everyone else who was the problem it would be impossible to change so I was so happy to learn that it was me! I have not had a problem since & going on 6 years of only opportunities! Love y'all ☮️❤️☯️👽
Shalom from Orlando Florida. Gracias gracias gracias for your dedication and been that light so needed for our here and now. Gracias I bless you , your loved ones and the millions that this video will assist in their evolution. Shalom Ahava Behreeoot Bereshit and Shefa Shefa Shefa to you Brian.
Thanks Brian for another great episode ! I’m going to send this to people I know who I think need to hear this message. I’m going to tell them to pay attention to 18:18(victims) and the time 22:28 (health) and of course the very end with the affirmations Thanks
I don't know what everyone else believes but i do know through a long process of trial and error that i make all the errors in my life. And i watch the errors disappear once i get my thinking right. Sometimes very quickly because i understand that it's me who made them. Everyone else can do what they like. Good luck.😅
Many people are not ready to hear this, though it is true. I struggled with the concept when I first heard it...changed my life for the better once I accepted that it is a fact.
It's never a question of taking responsibility. This idea in itself in contradictive, for if we look closely, it can only disempower the individual. It's more about doing what you feel and believe is the right thing for you to do -- not what you're told is right and should be, but what you know, feel and sense from within you is right for you to do. Responsibility is nothing more than another of our limiting human concepts. It many times forces us to do things that aren't in alignment with what we know is right for us. It makes us compromise ourselves, and to some degree enslaves us to what is believed 'to be' and 'must be.' Thus, to the question: _ must we not take responsibility for ourselves and our actions?_ Again, it's more about doing what we know (an inner knowing) and feel is the right thing for us to do......and not what we're told and are taught is the right thing to do. Thus, i say: stop taking responsibility and rather start acting from what you know is for you. LOL :) Go within and start listening to what is for you. :)
Thank you that was some helpful information- I needed to hear at this time, I’ve been working on quitting smoking, I’ve quit many other addictions recently and this is my final one I’m tackling right now, I did the others with relative ease though not unpainfully. This one though is harder because it’s linked to my self doubt, and inability to care for myself instead of others, many others lies I tell myself as well- I thank you for this timely advice🙏
Important question I would love to hear your take on, Brian: If we are responsible for everything in our reality, then it would follow that even society, culture, and our upbringing which you mention would also be our creation, so then wouldn't there not be anything "influencing" or "ingraining" things in us except ourselves? This is where this theory never makes sense to me, because it seems there must be something more to it where a higher power or karma or whatever must be creating some foundational aspect of all this. Just the fact that we come into this world unaware of these concepts to be purposely molded in a certain way seems to be proof of this to me. Most go their entire lives never even learning about it, so what must they have done to live such a fate? What about less conscious beings as well, such as animals, insects, plants, etc.? There must be a hierarchical order of some kind to explain this, in my opinion. To me that disproves the idea that we can be responsible for everything.
We are also responsible for the way we as a world have allowed the world to never get right. Blame your own self worth, if you think it's 1970 forever, and other people can be poor.
Back in the day when I was service to self, I had thoughts of lack and negativity, which incurred a home robbery, and how do I forgive the older lower energy me? This incident affected my whole family, and it was my fault. How do I forgive myself Brian?
Researched Korean language structure order & connectivity to Universal-Quantum Science, Yin/Yang, then World Languages placement of > I Am < as first; checked so far. I Am infinitely Abundant in All Things! I manifest To Be The Difference I Seek, Gg
Sorry but I don't believe in soul plans for innocent children to be abused and murdered, no way anyone would choose such suffering, not just to yourself but to any loved ones in your life as such traumatic experiences often end in suicide. Some people just shouldn't have children. Nothing will ever change my mind. I'm an adult now and it took me years to get over my PTSD which meant leaving my entire toxic family. Wish I did it much, much earlier. I still think about them and the few good times we had together as a family. I try to do revision and just hold on to the good memories, but I could never go back to any of them.
I am sorry Brian, but how can one be the cause of sexual abuse and trafficking when you are a child, when your parents are your only safty net, and your abusers How could this be my fault, I didn't ask for it, and nothing I could do about it.
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Excellent episode. One play is not enough. Thank you for sharing this. Taking accountability, responsibility and stepping up for ourselves is so important. The affirmations are great. I will write them down and place it right by my bed!
This a very hard thing to accept, but it’s necessary in order to take control of our lives and direct it. Thank You Brian for standing on business! I needed this! ❤
I have another perspective. Years ago I went to a personal development conference only a few weeks after a physical trauma. I heard the leader speak about how we create everything in our lives. For YEARS, I was consumed with shame and guilt that I caused this thing to happen. Then, as I listened to other thought leaders I understood that yes, there is random shit that happens in the world. All energy can have glitches of sorts. I know my soul did not create that trauma. What I’m responsible for is how I dealt with it. This is much more empowering than believing we are the cause of horrible things. You cannot tell a child victim of crime or the person who got hit with a stray bullet or a worker who becomes paralyzed after a fall, that they created or caused those events. Random exists in nature and science. So for anyone reading this who might feel awful about themselves thinking they created the trauma; it is not true. Take your power back by doing the work to heal, learn and grow 🧡
@@Pattybluehayes yes it’s the mindset we take after an experience like that, that dictates what comes next- it’s all about perspective- not blame- you have to love yourself out of every situation, with compassion, grace, and accountability of what IS yours- which is how you handle or don’t handle it
From what I've learned, we set ourselves up for certain experiences while we're in the spirit realm. We choose based upon what our soul needs in order to grow and learn. There's no judgement on the other side. Just experience. It's a completely different experience here in the dense energies of the 3rd dimension. The most important thing to learn here is that it is all happening FOR us, not TO us!. Victim mentality will stabilize us in moving beyond the trauma. I'm sorry for your traumatic experiences. I've had many as well. It takes inner connection to align with your higher self in order to realize that you are the creator of your existence. Whether you know it or not, we are constantly manifesting our reality here on the Earth plane. Hope this helps. Sending you love and strength. If you're here on Earth today, you are stronger and wiser than you or I know. I search for that wisdom every day by going within. Remember you're here for a reason and you've got a lot of strength within ❤ Much love and gratitude to you and all!🎉❤
@@MariaGennetti1111 Yes, life happens for us to grow, evolve into the higher consciousness, absolutely. Much more empowering than the passive ‘to me’. I just believe there are random acts in life. I guess I’m creating that reality for myself 😌
❤ Exactly ❤ point on. Blaming is a “cop” out. We all have our shadow work. This is a hard truth to comprehend but necessary in order to learn from your choices. Ignorance is bliss they say, I’ve never been able to stick my head in the sand.
We are all in different spaces, just as our fingerprints all differ. If you are feeling that life dealt you a traumatic hand, perhaps you aren’t feeling that you created it, but you can accept that dwelling on it hasn’t helped you to move forward and perhaps you can accept that an effort towards letting go of resentment might help you to move ahead and find more serenity and joy in your life.
The way I feel it is that it’s the I AM power that takes responsibility, not the egoic victim mentality that the unconscious ego is running when awareness is outside of knowing “I AM the Creator” ⚡️✨💚✨⚡️ I am the one infinite creator expressing as a Lucid Poet ☕️ Cheers
It's my fault. I created this horrible, unfair economy I take full responsibility for the endless wars and all of human stupidity for doing the same things over and over Instead of just making technologic adjustments to improve human existence as a whole. It was me You got me.
@heerosanosyuy1173 You know, I don't really think it.All that's what he's saying... I can tell you that the last 7 years has been a living hell for me.I have every reason to be negative and angry fearful. My children were kidnapped, I've been made homeless multiple times, Falsely arrested, My vehicle stolen, I had to put every rest on my.I had into a court battle to fight against my children being kidnapped by their sexually abusive father who works for a company that Embezzles money through car, dealerships and funds.All of this corruption that literally is destroying so many people's lives... And my life has been literally destroyed and made into ruins.My children have suffered terribly and are still suffering.I still don't even have my kidnapped children back. But I'm choosing joy because they feed on my english and fear and sadness.Those things are real things that we Exude out like a wireless signal.And they get absorbed by things that it comes in contact with and And then it can even be amplified depending on what it reaches first. I'm not saying that we can't feel things.We have to feel the sadness and the pain.We do have to feel them and we have to process them but in a healthy way. When we let these things control us, we're not being responsible for our circumstances.We're not putting up healthy boundaries, We're not keeping our lives in balance, We'll becoming toxic and that is our responsibility to keep in check.No one else's and I think that's more what he means. Is that no matter what your circumstances are?You have the right and the power if you so choose to choose joy and happiness regardless of what you are going through. And i'm living proof of that. I can smile Every single day even though everything that I cared about has been stolen from me unjustly. And I can't do anything to get.What was taken from me back in this moment?So I choose to bless other people with what I've learned through my trials rather than sit and be salty and negative.And both be a debbie downer and be completely ineffective and just let the evil win, And let them feed off of my sufferings and gain power from it So they have the energy to go and find and harm other victims. Now that I fathom that that's what's happening when these mental, emotional, physical and spiritual parasites latch on to us, good people I refuse to give them suffering, I refused to give them fear, I refuse to give them spite, Or anything negative. I do remind them that i'm going to hold them accountable under the law at the earliest time possible But I don't Allow them to have any of my headspace whatsoever, And rather I focus on the things that I can do To help improve my situational circumstances and help as many people as possible along the way. If you don't give them anything to feed off of they eventually go away and try to find another source. Very simply When you Withdraw consent They can't do a thing to you anymore.
The more attention we give it the more it grows. It’s why they overload us with fear and hate on the news. Choose the world you want to live in! If we all really understood this and only focused on it the world would be a beautiful place…
The more attention we give it the more it grows. It’s why they overload us with fear and hate on the news. Choose the world you want to live in! If we all really understood this and only focused on it the world would be a beautiful place…
@@amywicihowski8959 Yes, I couldn't have siad it better!!! Fear when not properly dealt with is extremely toxic, but when it's properly dealt with and and you can learn to harness that energy and put it into something positive it's one of the most powerful forces on Earth that's where bravery and courage come from!
Everyone Is You Pushed Out and Revising can be a though road. Its not that easy as it sounds even if you know it is the Best to do. And we are dealing with others that have their own energies etc they are not objects
This is what I needed to hear. I realized that I needed to embrace accountability and responsibility. Once I did this I saw my power in shaping reality returned. Thank you, Brian.
Choices always defeat fate, doesn’t matter what they say. Compass breaks Directions vanished away Lost and wander Into the woods; lush yet grey🌲 Someplace I’d never touch nor dream If my broken heart hadn’t led me Here
I always explain...the one impossible thing is to see 110% through someone elses eyes. That would meaning giving up urself completely. There for i am ultimately the one who sees things like i do...why wouldnt i want to see love and beauty and truth? There will always be negative energies that come my way however it is only, completely, and entirely up to me how i precieve them. It is a process however i embrace it whole heartedly and doing all i can to evolve on my path...thank you brian
Around 4 and a half minutes, you say how easy it is to say that things were out of our control. But it's not easy. It can be very hard to shift from self-blame into acknowledging that we did the best we could and that some things are truly out of our hands. I don't know if I can stomach listening to the rest. :'(
Listen as a melanated person, where my ancestors went through chattel slavery in the US, even l believe l chose to come here and be apart of that narrative. No one, no group is exempt.
I take full responsibility for all my actions and circumstances & face them all head-on to create more change I have felt like I have hit a plateau so I go back to the start of the beginning of RR first video & beginning again! Thank you All 🙏🥰🤗🫶♥️ 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
Here's the thing… When you say it's my fault… You're indicating a mistake a fault… But taking responsibility is a totally different thing. It's saying to yourself how I wonder what my part in this is… Because obviously, there's a lot of us here and there's a lot of layers… But very interesting conversation.
I used to love your thoughts , but car accidents are not designed by our goals and values. I love your vocabulary, but I feel like you are becoming confusing to digest.
Thank you is not enough. This message should be heard by anyone suffering as i had most of my past until i heard the secret, when my journey of healing and learning how to love myself began. today many years I ❤ having your presence in my life.
And what an inedible gift it is to realize that I’m responsible for everything in my life and my perception of it!! It’s given me so much power and my life is more incredible now than I ever could have imagined
It is one thing to create my day good or bad happy marriage or divorce, then there is war refuges and loss.How would you tell an Ukraine orphane that he/ she is responsible for the death of the parents ( could have witnessed) That this tragedy was created by his mind so he better take responsibility for his choice.Something is missing in this concept of everything that happens to us is our responsibility .
God bless us all. Let us be guided and healed to become the best versions of ourselves and to manifest the best future as well. Lets try to be more grateful and kind. Hope you all have a prosperous, abundant life ❤
Sometimes you just need a freaking Miracle. The average cost of a house in my city is over half a million.. I know that I'm responsible for my career choice...no job i qualify for is going to afford me that...? Been studying neville for 7 years and still haven't figured that one out... Oh I forgot there's always a lottery $$$$.
Love this episode man. This is my ethos. You have formulated it in a way that will help people cut through there conditioning to realise/start on the journey that we all have the divine power to create our reality. The swing to positive polarity and union of our social memory complex in the love and the light.
Some paths that we have travel in this illusion have been selected by our higher selves to help in our growth but also to help growth in the others that were part of it. Wether the outcome came at this moments or in the following path is mixed due to the free will and the vail that we have in this human experience. Mirrors work both ways. The creator experiencing it self in various ways
