You Can't Age If You're Unproblematic... Right? 🤔 Self Care Sunday Chats

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@CanadianChick811 3 месяца назад

It's the same problem with how Disney villains are portrayed. More often than not they are old or have some sort of physical disability. Kids see that and equate those traits with being "evil".

@holisticmaya 3 месяца назад

Also for the longest time, villains in children’s movies have dark hair and dark eyes, whereas the princess always has blond hair and blue eyes or overall lighter features

@smiel__ 3 месяца назад

I used to think like that when I was a child, I am proof that this is true

@Sarnarath 3 месяца назад

@@holisticmaya Lady Tremaine from Cinderella (1950) has blue eyes and so has Gaston from Beauty and the Beast (1991)

@traceycrawford9938 3 месяца назад

I’m 55yo (Generation X, not a Boomer lol) and you are making some really important points. Especially about kids seeing these sort of posts (and the world’s general over consumption of ‘things’). You are wiser than your years Hyram. And aging IS a privilege (one not given to everyone). 😊❤️❤️🇦🇺

@norakingaforgacs7767 3 месяца назад

I am a Gen Y Girl from Hungary, Budapest, and I totally agree❤

@celysehernandez6862 3 месяца назад

I could listen to this for an hour, is hyram in his podcast era? The passion is here and so am I ✨

@Hyram 3 месяца назад

I'm so glad you love it!! Lots more commentary videos coming soon :)

@sarahpresciutti9464 3 месяца назад

When I hear "unproblematic" I think about the Picture of Dorian Gray, where the protagonist essentially ages well (lol) because all of the problematic things are absorbed by his portrait. But I agree with you, we should not think that beauty=being good. Maybe we should just find another word to describe a person who obviously takes care of herself like mrs. Hathaway, she probably doesn't smoke or drink heavily, wears sunscreen etc, but is also very privileged and has access to the best doctors. I won't lie, I'm almost 34 and seeing some fine lines on my face makes me think that maybe I'm not doing enough to age well. But then I remember I'm just a regular person and I look ok lol. (Sorry if this paragraph is a bit incoherent, English is not my first language)

@cherylreitz4779 3 месяца назад

Perfect analogy!

@steelcutoaths3033 3 месяца назад

I find it interesting that the criticisms about celebrities not aging well is directed more at a generation that also didn’t know (or wasn’t taught) the impacts of sun exposure, smoking, etc until later in life. Not to mention, the “fight against aging” is a no win battle. Either you age naturally and aren’t up to cultural beauty standards or you “have work done” and then people comment on it, as if it’s a moral failing. I distinctly remember women in my life telling me (as a young person) that someone looks good for their age and then adding “but I think she’s had some work done.” That sends the clear message: We don’t want you to look like you’re aging, but we’re also going to judge you if you do something about it. It’s honestly exhausting. Your take on this is very much appreciated. I would love to hear more about what you’re passionate about!

@claudinecam 3 месяца назад

Kudos to you, hyram, for intellectualizing it enough to fully understand it. In today’s fast moving superficial culture especially on social media, this is not often done.

@calculatedspaces 3 месяца назад

💓this. It's a conversation that is necessary. Choosing to only comment on someone's aesthetic qualities can be damaging. I like, "being so happy to see them" and other talking points for balance. *Thanks for reminding me to watch that movie.

@Michellelipstick 3 месяца назад

I am here for these chatty videos! I am always reminding myself that aging is a privilege that is denied to many. Helps me be so much more grateful for every day that goes by and not fear physical signs of aging as much.

@ANeal-gq5qz 3 месяца назад

this was fantastic, hyram!! we love all skincare content but this helps us see the big picture too. we also forget that it's literally the JOB of celebrities to look good, like when we make fun of politicians' appearances - they have other priorities!

@saphna2095 3 месяца назад

I didn't expect this to hit as deeply as it did:) "negative mental health repercussion" is such a great way of describing what you were expressing and I fully agree: the specific content and type of content we consume does not just affect us in the here and now, but the inputs to the brain will reverbarate in our neuronal wiring to the future

@amycrown1 3 месяца назад

yes please make more videos like this i like the random chat w skin care because it made doing my skin care less daunting w you in the background doing your skin care as well

@LaQuintero00 3 месяца назад

What an important topic to address. Good job Hyram you went deep! This should be a Ted Talk.

@Freeflyingpigeon 3 месяца назад

Was discussing this with my friend last week and to see a video about this from someone influential like you. LOVE IT ❤

@beccak8166 3 месяца назад

"Beauty is not good capital. It compounds the oppression of gender. It constrains those who identify as women against their will. It costs money and demands money. It colonizes. It hurts. It is painful. It can never be fully satisfied. It is not useful for human flourishing. Beauty is, like all capital, merely valuable." -Tressie McMillan Cottom

@Hyram 3 месяца назад

Such a resoundingly good quote!

@elsvanzwoll 3 месяца назад

Yes. Just yes! 🙌🏼 love from a 43 year old dutch girl 😅🫶🏼

@Jasmine215100 3 месяца назад

I like the way that you are FORCED to watch these preview videos, you can't skip over them!

@gayatriborah1879 25 дней назад

Can you please do more of these? I recently broke out beacuse of the season and lack of sleep. But I have been treating it like the end of the world leading to frustration and self criticism. Watching your video made me realise that I have also fallen pray to the idea of perfect skin all the time everywhere. I have also been getting anxious lately about my appearance since I will be hitting thirty this year. And I didn't even realize how seeing this kind of comparisons online have effected my thought process about the so called " looking young for one's age".I feel comfortable about my skin and appearance now thanks to you. And I also feel like the burden of thrities have been lifted in terms of appearance. Thank You. Love you❤

@stephanieobrien7504 3 месяца назад

Love the deep dive & especially your commentary about how it affects younger people seeing theses memes as well as how commenting about appearance ALWAYS hurts someone. I self cared on Monday & was using the I’m From Honey Mask I learned about from you! I’m on my 3rd jar I think? Leaves my skin feeling so soft & hydrated!

@ervicito77 3 месяца назад

To me, aging is not sweating the small stuff. Enjoy the things that give you pleasure, but in moderation. Be kind to others. Offer wisdom and generosity. And care less about those who are careless about your inner peace. Be good to yourself. And please take care of your health, especially your skin!

@clauddiamartinez9411 3 месяца назад

Great video Hyram! Is so sad these days to see young people been so scared of aging and also so worried how they look. To me is just so sad, as there is so much in life. Admire your maturity and knowledge ❤

@iunik_official 3 месяца назад

Dear Hyram, Thanks for sharing our centella gel cream !! 😍🥰😍🥰

@Hyram 3 месяца назад

Of course!! One of my favs :D

@daphny.xavier 3 месяца назад

I LOVED THIS! You can do any type of content, and it’s always entertaining, fun, respectful and refreshing. The only thing I disagree with is: giving compliments to people and worrying if others might take offense. I feel like if someone has trouble accepting a compliment that was given to someone else, they have some inner work to do. We’re all beautiful in different ways, so a compliment to someone different than us shouldn’t necessarily mean an insult to us. But I do understand where you’re coming from, and it’s very thoughtful and sweet 🥰❤️

@coleygyaluv 3 месяца назад

This is my favorite video of yours that you’ve made. Such an important topic that hasn’t been talked about! Thank you!

@fabianapeers8636 2 месяца назад

Thank you so much for doing this, Hyram! So incredibly true! X

@julianatudda4090 3 месяца назад

I LOVE commentary videos❤

@cindypalumbo7503 3 месяца назад

Thank you!! This needs to be talked about more!!

@ElleGoulden 3 месяца назад

Such an important topic to address, very insightful and definitely something we need to be talking about

@skgpk24 3 месяца назад

This new concept is so fun! :)

@KaylaAvitabile 3 месяца назад

This is such a thoughtful video Hyram, would definitely love to see more like this! Videos like this is one of the reasons why I really enjoy and prefer RU-vid to other social media platforms :)

@jadehepburn2389 3 месяца назад

Fab video. Loved this little chat and skincare duo ✨️

@sarcasticmama2692 3 месяца назад

Hyram, you are so beautiful inside and out! You are intelligent and kind AND won the genetics lottery (no matter what you say). Thank you for talking about this. ❤

@lenapawlek7295 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for talking about it!! Its so annoying how this keeps coming up in different ways

@arlenewilliams4731 Месяц назад

I really enjoyed this conversation. The perspectives and insight were really thought provoking. Shared it with a few friends so we can chat about it

@aamyko 3 месяца назад

Your thoughts have power; your words have power; if you go around spreading hate & division in both your thoughts & words; it will eventually catch up with you and manifest on your face, body and health; you can not spew all sorts of nastiness out into the world & not expect to get it back.

@lovisaloy 3 месяца назад

I truly agree with EVERY single word in this video

@cupiedoll9759 3 месяца назад

I love this style of video. Please do more. We all need to think more about how we treat others. Great video Hyram!!! ❤

@kiwi8157 2 месяца назад

100% loved this video :) I agree that society does capitalise on beauty and lack thereof. I think it is actually designed to do that when it comes to the so-called beauty industry - their business model is to make money off of people's insecurities - and to invent insecurities they can subsequently "fix", preferably with a product, or products, that require ongoing investment over one's lifetime. ie, the money train. So good to hear someone saying the things you're saying here, please do more :) with love from New Zealand.

@sevenblueprints5276 3 месяца назад

Love this video format from you! Been waiting for this type of content!!!

@vicky46652 3 месяца назад

Wow! Loved the insight you shared in this video, Hyram.

@mbelle221 3 месяца назад

I love these types of videos, Hyram!! I love hearing your opinions. You could just talk away while getting ready, driving, whatever works.

@ieatmarshmellowpies 3 месяца назад

I love this kind of video! Your personality and viewpoints are why I love watching your videos. You made great points and things to consider in this video, I can’t wait to hear more you have to say!

@GLAMGENX 3 месяца назад

Turned 50 this year! I’ve always loved experimenting with skincare, so glad b/c although the routine has changed and products changed over the years, but I’ve always had a routine. Great vid, thx for the insight!

@jennthefierce 3 месяца назад

LOVE this new series! Always appreciate your product recommendations but your perspective is also really authentic and I’m so excited for more Self Care Sundays!

@chrisjakob5781 3 месяца назад

this is a great form for you to keep playing in. definitely keep em rolling!!! thank for getting my skin together, girl. ✨☺️

@Hyram 3 месяца назад

Thank you!! I really enjoyed filming this and have many more videos like this coming soon :D

@lisapetrison-beautyreviews 3 месяца назад

That was really great! I'd like to see more videos like this and also for you to focus more on skincare for people who are a little older (e.g. 35+).

@vickitherkildsen350 3 месяца назад

You're adorable. And I loved the food for thought. Thank you for the inspiration.

@malinstiernborg7522 3 месяца назад

I loved this video! I'm a folklore student, and it sort of reminded me of trolls in Swedish folklore. Stay with me, lol! In Swedish fairytales, trolls are depicted as these ugly creatures, right? Those are fairytales, told to entertain and not to be believed so to speak. In Swedish folktales however (told as a truth), if you were out in the forest and you met a really beautiful person, often a woman, you needed to be on your guard because she could be a troll. There was this notion that being "too beautiful" was something to be feared, something odd and something to be suspicious of. I'm obviously not saying that is something to be believed in either, just that there's been a parallel between morality and beauty for as long as we humans have existed.

@Saadya16 3 месяца назад

Not commenting on someone’s physical appearance can be good but it can be bad too. I personally lost 145lbs and I will admit it was frustrating sometimes when people wouldn’t “notice/comment” on my progress… I feel like nowadays we have to be so careful that we forget positive/constructive feedback is good.

@beccak8166 3 месяца назад

Personally as someone with an eating disorder history I would never compliment someone's weight loss. Not just eating disorders, but many health conditions can cause weight loss. While your hard work is commendable, I don't want to compliment someone on their body when that's such a sensitive issue.

@archervine8064 3 месяца назад

I can see that, but unless we are reasonably close I wouldn’t know if your weight loss was intentional or not. I have - thankfully - not had to deal with an ED but during my times of worst health I was at my lightest or my heaviest, depending on what exactly was going on. It’s a lot safer to say “that’s such a great color on you!” or “you HAVE to show me how you do your eyeliner!”, etc.

@Kaylaleavitt 3 месяца назад

Ironically getting “older” has helped me accept aging even more. I remember being pretty stressed and unhappy in my twenties. Since turning 30 three years ago, I have found much more peace and comfort in myself as a person, and I’m hopeful that it’ll get even better with time, regardless of how my face ends up looking.

@lora17 3 месяца назад

Good ideas about the comments. All well said. And everything you said that is going on is so true is causing a lot if mental issues. It is slow and insidious and we have to take a stand now so the younger generations don't suffer

@Maryyyschka 3 месяца назад

Wow, that’s a very intriguing title. Got my attention for sure! lol

@vicsolimo 3 месяца назад

OKAY Hyram, I love this👏

@kathleenchild 3 месяца назад

Definitely enjoyed this type of video and would love to see more from you.

@reesa8573 3 месяца назад

This is way off the topic..but.. Hyram you’ve been my saviour! I just want you to say that you’re really great and never feel bad about any trolls because there are a lot of people like us who are very grateful to you.

@makinka0cp 3 месяца назад

Same old same old. If you're pretty, you're a good person, if you're less pretty, you're mean. 90's Disney approves this victorian message

@faebaby122 3 месяца назад

"OMG you're Glowing! Success looks great on you 😘"

@celinepope 3 месяца назад

I absolutely adore this concept of video. Thanks for keeping me company on my self care bath!

@monastroms 3 месяца назад

Loved this!!! Always so happy when you’ve posted a new video, take care 🤍

@ecastalia1 3 месяца назад

Love you, Hyram!

@mariamangion21 3 месяца назад

So glad I found your channel 🥰

@ineta46 3 месяца назад

It was verty interesting to listen, thank you for talking about this topic!❤

@Meilums42 3 месяца назад

I do agree that we need to stop judging peoples' character by their physical appearance, and this is extra true for celebrities or anyone who has access to expensive treatments. That said, I also think there is truth to the idea that people who have chronically problematic viewpoints (racism, sexism, homophobia, etc) are also more likely to have chronically elevated stress with all the hate they express - and chronic stress DOES have a physiological impact on our health and the way we age. Obviously there is so much more nuance to this, but I think that is what this trend is expressing. Also PS, Henry Ford made factory automation and mass production the gold standard; the industrial revolution began in British textile mills in the late 1700s. The US took over about 100 years later with the production of steel, oil, and electricity. Ford was at the tail end of this era. ;)

@ShakiraSmylie 3 месяца назад

Beauty is pain 😢 and people are still beautiful the way they are

@BambiTerrible 3 месяца назад

I really like this Kind of Video ! It is a very good idea !!

@auddie6639 3 месяца назад

This topic sort of runs into all sorts of class issues. When you're poor, you're exposed to more stress, which can also age you. You also can't afford good skin care.

@user-bf6mb9pv4b 3 месяца назад

well thought out, thanks for this!

@annydrobet2906 3 месяца назад

Love the new topic!

@ariel1120 3 месяца назад

I think you have a lot of good points, but when i think of "problematic behavior" especially in reference to celebrities, I think of excessive drinking, smoking, other drug use, which are all things that do age you faster than normal. So at a base level there is some truth to "unproblematic" = age slower than someone who is "problematic." But like you said that does not mean unproblematic = beautiful. Beauty is so much more complicated than just how you age.

@ilse1 3 месяца назад

Love love love this!!

@Harley0555 3 месяца назад

love these types of videos!!

@LoveSheeeeena 3 месяца назад

Amazing content Hyram

@HalloweenNightmare-wo6xm 3 месяца назад

Please do a review on meaningful beauty and Dr Nassif skin products!!

@inasillygoofymood 3 месяца назад

love this series' idea!!!

@daniellemorrison1427 3 месяца назад

Love these!!

@chumpgump 3 месяца назад

Actually it's a fact that people who are not considered conventionally attractive receive harsher sentencing when convicted of a crime as opposed to a "beautiful" person. Even how the public reacts to a criminal is impacted by their appearance. So it is a real problem in society unfortunately. Though to be fair I really see that we are moving past that mentality as far as I'm aware that it.

@NusratJahan-su5wu 3 месяца назад

Love this!!

@RheaMighty 3 месяца назад

Loved this one 🤍

@ChristinaBMunchkin 3 месяца назад

On another note, I would love to see some reviews of some Hawaiian skin care. 😊

@sireeshakarri6021 3 месяца назад

Love this video!!

@leizylromero 3 месяца назад

That’s a very cool take because it reminds me of libra - justice and beauty.

@mbelle221 3 месяца назад

I generally don't make negative comments about people's physical appearance. But I have noticed that people who LOVE to make comments about people's physical appearances aren't exactly the most attractive either, which I find interesting. I've always just taken the high road and not say anything, but I think this also contributes to the problem. Since no one challenges their behavior, it ends up becoming normal behavior and worse, it teaches other people that this behavior is ok. Long story short, sometimes people need to be taught a lesson and now, my intuition tells me that insulting them back about their physical appearance is usually the best way to get them to realize how hurtful their actions are.

@mishellarox 3 месяца назад

can you do a juice beauty review?? They have a retinol that has been working for a lot of people I know and I need to have it Hyram approved!

@lucyhalamova2713 3 месяца назад

Yess more of this ❤

@ashleefayelamb2284 3 месяца назад

FANTASTIC VIDEO! Love the idea and your insights! So needed, refreshing, and compassionate. 🥹🤍✨🫂🫧💕

@jayniestanley4730 3 месяца назад

I agree with you 💯% .

@Alisha23456 3 месяца назад

Love this video ❤

@natgars 3 месяца назад

Yes to videos like these

@meganwatts1772 3 месяца назад

Omg! Yes, yes, yes!

@SpaceMermaid86 3 месяца назад

This video reminds me, I've gotten lots of ads for Miracle Balm from Jones Road Beauty. I'm curious what your thoughts on it are regarding their claims & the ingredients, of course. I have 2 problems with these ads, I'm only 37! & I don't wear makeup, except for special occasions. I was never taught how to apply it & I work a blue collar maintenance job, so I chose to spend my time & money on skin care vs makeup.

@anonymoussss_ 3 месяца назад

I’m on spironolactone and doxycycline for acne medication and I’m literally so sensitive to the sun I get burnt within 20 minutes of being outside in 60°. What’s a good sunscreen?

@mattylh5646 3 месяца назад

Come on Self Care Sundays!

@mercury8077 3 месяца назад

Something I find interesting is in Latin “Consumer” translates to “dolor” but translated back into English is “pain” (ik google translate isn’t always accurate but it had me thinking for ages)

@user-um6vf4bn2l 3 месяца назад

Can you do a video on kind science And thoughts on it ...... I'm 33 this year At and trying to start a skin care routine... I've tried both the origins ginzing products annnnnnd the kind sconce brand too... idk which is better

@martinxavier4631 3 месяца назад

For men even if we are unproblematic, but biology wont lie to us especially our hair follicles that response to hormones

@godzlegendz 3 месяца назад

7:16 Bro you are super handsome wdym

@MadzGorna 15 дней назад

The trend has started with Keanu Reeves and Paul Rudd, I think.

@arya0553 3 месяца назад

Aging is like 80% about Genetics. So thanks to my Asian (Turkish) parents because I still look like 16 although being 29 😌 BUT i am also taking care about my skin folks, don‘t forget about the 20%🤣