I literally prayed asking God to bless me with a man who is spiritual, respectful and just a good person. Approximately 2 weeks later I met this man in Vegas and everything that day led to me meeting him out of nowhere. Ever since we met he has not stopped calling or texting me. Yes those things you just mentioned I am going through. I started conversations to hear his thoughts on certain issues. I never did this before. Sometimes I do feel like it’s not real so you do know what you’re talking about. Thanks for your videos! I also have to say in ALL those moments I started having doubts, there he is calling or texting! It’s amazing 😊
I mean… I def prayed the same thing and I thought I met that man. Seems like as soon as I expressed the heat behind being intimately involved due to spiritual complications smh things def flamed out the window. I swear it was nice to finally actually feel so so close! We had all of the things listed smh! It’s weird but I’m over it
Wonderful! Just be sure he is not playing you like narcissists do. They shower you with attention, only to keep you hooked. After a while, they take advantage of you at the point at which you are not able to say no anymore. They first hear you out about how you tick, to get to know how to get under your skin. Just be aware of this possibility the first couple of months.
I for a long time believed that everything happens for a reason, and that reason being cause and effect. I didn't believe in Fate, only coincidence. Then I met the man I'm with today, with how everything that happened that lead me to him, there's no way it can just be coincidence! I am setting out to look into Faith and religion because there is no way I just stumbled into this man. I believe there is a God or some higher power out there and they seem to care, which has been an alien thought to me my whole life. Thank you, Stephan, your channel and videos really helped me get on this path.
Your comment reminds me that GOD is sooo gracious…that he was able to draw you in using something that others are still praying for! Wishing you guys a long, strong healthy relationship
Same thing happened to me. I met this guy by coincidence. My friend invited me to a party at his house. The next day I saw him out we exchanged numbers . We barely dated for 2 months. Now we don’t talk. I rejected him bc of my insecurities of him bringing up his ex. Now tables turned he said “he doesn’t want to date me anymore because he mentally can’t deal with me , and thinks that I’m a nice girl “ he apologized and called a week later. My feelings hurt I barely responded. 😩
@@tashamack8701 Thank you! You might find the book "Married in 12 months or less" helpful, if you need extra resources, in addition to Stephan's material. 😊
God has truly gifted you with spiritual insight and practical understanding in how women and men work and think in relationships and how to communicate that to others. Every video I watch speaks to me and helps me. Is what I need to hear to keep me grounded, on the right track when dealing with men, and in waiting for the right one God has for me. Even when it is hard, it can be a struggle with our desires...believe me. But like you said God knows who is best for us and truly that is what I want deep down to have a happy fulfilled God ordained relationship. I don't want to settle for less even if temptation arises. Pray for me! As I keep close to God and keep seeking Him. God Bless you Stephan.
I actually really adore your channel. There’s a lot of women like me who can be avoidant, scared in love. You’re really good at explaining the good men, and you’re really good at knowing how a cynical woman like myself thinks when she encounters one.
Yeah there convenient targets though because we know there not actually good men they dress in such a way like there going golfing and they pretend like they care about women and God They also pretend like there not like the other guys but they actually are worse because you won't find out till the very end of the relationship that he was using you. The only women these guys can trick though are there mamas and women that barely became legal to drink. If they had skill and value they would stop picking on the amaters and the girls that don't know any better yet they would date on there level and look for someone that can help keep them successful. She can be younger then him I don't care but not so damn young that she doesn't know what your up to that's gross anyways it's like mixing expired meat with fresh it all goes bad pretty quickly when you put him next to something that has better quality..
What you need is always going to be better than what you want. Core desires of genuine love, communication, shared values, safety & security, peace, spirituality and family will be there. And the depth of connection will feel like a piece of God. That’s amazing, and so well articulated, Stephan. Comprehensive yet to the point, that’s why we appreciate you and this channel because you’re a force for good. Thank you.🫶😊
I’ve felt all these things with a man and he was the one that wouldn’t be emotionally vulnerable and ran from the connection. And that there is annoying .
Thank you for this message I’m single and don’t have any male friends right now due to I’m waiting for my husband from the Lord 🙏🏽🙌🏽May God keep blessing you Stephan
This was actually truth am scared of me loosing my self in the relationship because I haven't meant someone that give me the peace of mind and I feel empty in my heart I have no worry or doubts over the relationship than in the past
I can't be vulnerable. Or I'm too vulnerable. I can't tell. I have intrusive thoughts that it's right or wrong. Its two extremes and it's exhausting. I get it wrong lots of times. So I try to pray. But I think I might be getting that wrong too. The struggle is real
Yes Stephan, I'm needing help with healing from my past.I've been taken advantage of and abused . I'm working on finding me first ,not making that the next man responsibility to find who I am.
Thank you for this Stephan. I didnt see those red flags. I think that's why my marriage failed, i refused to see that we didnt have a real connection. All the time i kept my true self for fear of rejection. Now, i am dating someone that has more connection, better communication, and it's true, i feel more vulnerable with him but scared at the same time cause im afraid of losing him.
I have been watching your videos recently but didn't realize that you were the same person who wrote"God where is my Boaz" which I bought in 2017 !! So I met this guy from online and we have been communicating intensely for more than one month. Everything seemed great and we were vulnerable to each other. The attraction was obviously there for both of us. He's not a believer and he said that he is inspired by my spirituality and starting search God. I watched one of your videos, so I asked God multiple times whether I should deal with this guy. Funny enough coz out of the blue he blocked me and we stopped communicating just like that. At that point I felt like I had an instant response from God and I take that as a lesson. Surprisingly I don't resent him at all yet I pray that he finds God so that God can enter his life. Yes I did cry for this to happen but I decided to put my faith in God and never stop hoping and believing in Him while keep trying to be a better me. I trust him that I will find my person, the best man God has for me. Since your name sounds french, so I would say ... Merci Stéphane for all your videos and your books. It truly helps me, sincerely ❤️❤️❤️
I had an experience like this and it was refreshing. There was definitely attraction and chemistry apparent.. it was just nice to feel comfortable and really connect with someone on a real level but ehh it ended up fizzling out. I guess he wasn’t for me🤷🏾♀️ I’m letting him go but I’m so grateful for the experience It definitely showed me some fears and insecurities that i needed to heal. I was still open to work through them and allow myself to be open to giving him a try but he started getting distant so we haven’t been able to explore the connection.. i guess that’s something i have to get used to with dating. Currently working on letting go of control and going with the flow but I’m not gonna lie I’m ready for my love lolol hoping i don’t have to kiss too many frogs to get to my prince!🙏🏾🙏🏾
I like the shirt 😊. When u heal you will recognize him/her. I enjoy being in the field. Listening to your advice makes dating easier. Thanks for the content.
You are spot on. Clear communication and valuable advice. You can witness several connections in different levels when you are awaken to the astral realms
Thank you so much Stephan ❤ I’m truly trust in God and I am never trusting in a man because of a man taking my money and he tried to take half of my house, now I believe that some a man will sale himself to a woman for money, I am 39 years old and been through this situation very badly
This is a past person, we broke up, I wasn’t attracted to him in the beginning but then when I got to know him more I fell in love with him But the things you explain below is what he is showing me now it’s like once I became vulnerable I saw a side of me and him that I really like were in a good space is a past person the one that god wants me to go back to? He is a good guy we’re not back together but it’s like we’re getting to know each other, we’re able to talk to each other we lost our way before but communication and starting a family (values) was what broke us but I’m letting God guide this I’m trusting he will show the way ❤ I’ll be patient
That’s right Stephan women have a tendency to give men a chance sometimes we know that they’re not right, but we like to try to give them the benefit of the doubt since men do not take rejection well👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🤴🏾💜
God knows what you want and need. God will give you the desires of your heart if it's his will. If it's what is best for you. I've changed, and I know the changes are from God. Preparing me for the one he has for me. You blowing up!! 5 advertisements during this video. Normally 1, maybe 2. I am connected spiritually with the one God has for me decades ago. God is the reason why I love him. God will always be first, or we are not going to make it. Good video!! Thank you.❤❤
Thanks so much for all your videos, Stephan! You have an easily understandable and compassionate way of sharing your wisdom. I am always eager to continue my learning thru your videos. Sending love and light!
I have burnout and just discovered what touch is and how good it is. And I attract men longing for this and then are pissed that I can't offer them. But I still learn to deal with emotions and touch and am looking for a balance! Why can't men just leave me and not be so attracted to me?? I long to be able to express feelings and be soft and am also attracted to them! It is so horrible! They don't force me to be soft and to touch and give compliments. I have discovered half an year ago that I need this affection. but I never had touches that felt safe!!! I am in therapy and I can't solve fast so I feel useless. And these men put me under pressure so we can't have a relationship. They even shout because their needs are not met. It feels so horrible and they don't believe that I suffer as well!! I am overwhelmed by emotions and I can't define them so well so I say I don't know.
The crap part is when all these are there, but being human, they have fear and still healing using the “not knowing what they want” yet going to God and intuition screams holding pattern …. even going to God has you “in holding” working on you doing you, but as a human going what now, how long am I in holding or am I in the penalty box 😂 because I’m not sure he’s going to be ready OR he chooses a different direction…. insert tapping of fingers and lots of eye rolls lol
if a man is showing inconsistency in the beginning stages l.. hasnt made efforts to meet.. takes hours/days to respond.. but claims to be interested should you express your need for consistency or just move on?
Move on. Did this for a couple years. He claimed he really liked me but his actions showed otherwise. Guys treat you how they feel about you. Their actions gotta match their words or it's bogus. And the early stages of dating is when a person brings their best to the table. It gets less and worse as time goes on.
Thank you so much for sharing!! What happens when you have a deep connection with someone who doesn't communicate even when you do so and this makes him unattractive to you?
Hi Stephan, can u give a list of wrong advice that women tend to put into practice these days. Although I don't know much i see women taking wrong advice (i.e respecting/ being submissive to ur spouse is not good, false entitlement, men are the problem,etc.)
What if I found the right man, but he left me? He told me he's not good enough for me. It happened a year ago, I still know that he's the one, but he's in a relatoinship and we're in no contact since then. 🤷♀️ Tried to move on, but I haven't found anyone even close to that level.
@1:45 then why did Sadia say that males lose attraction after a while in a long term commitment and that attractive women cannot handle it, that's why they break up with him, and end up the most single down the road?
Hello Stephan, I hope you’re doing well. Stephan I have a question. Why do men rate a woman’s sexual performance. ( especially, when they are in the conversation with other men). My (second question ) should I tell a man that I am celibate (for 38years, the last time that I had sex was July, 1986. It wasn’t good. His performance wasn’t good, he came too quick. I dated this man for about a month before I had sex with him. It was my first sexual experience with him and also my last sexual experience with him). Before I start a sexual relationship. Or should tell him right before we are about to have sex that I am celibate. Thank you, Stephan, for your response.
Couldn’t have said it better.. Those are TRULY The ANSWERS To Every Woman Questioning Mind…How can we recognize “Him” when we see “Him”.. We don’t want to Miss It This Time…👏👏👏👏💯💯🙌🫡❤️👍👊
When two people have a connection and both of them put God first, the love they will share is like no other! This is so pleasing to our Lord as we even see it in scripture. This is the man or woman that God has chosen for you! Too many of us rushed into the wrong relationship and never consulted God Always, always put God first and even in singlehood you will experience joy!
My Godfather is a retired Pastor and he always gives me "pearls of wisdom." He told me that, "Men fall in love with their eyes; and women fall in love with their ears." I believe this to be a true statement as I've gotten older. People have preferences, true...but we have to definitely be wise in our decisions especially in these days and times. Thanks, Stephan. God bless!
You’re getting me through some rough times here. Thank you, God is using you my friend. Thank you for speaking/spreading what God puts in your heart to share with us🙏💕
I have one guy that asked me out… just no chemistry. He’s not confident and I just can’t get into it. He can barely make conversation. He brings out my male side… and that’s too bad, because I love my feminine side.
Amén 🙏🏼 great video! I Married the right MAN! When I was 17. We’ve been married for 18 years now and 4 beautiful blessings! It’s a lot of work but it’s so worth it ❤ I don’t want to live this life with anyone else
Wow! This explains my current situation. I such little time he has been so amazing. I was short on a bill and my day was just off and he felt it in our text Messages. He simply ask what was wrong I didn't want to but I told him and he sent me more than what I needed. He communicates on a daily. He also tells me daily how beautiful I am and never fails to mention how into me he is. I always pray ask for guidance. Thank you so much for your videos. I'm definitely taking heed to your advice. Blessings to you❤.
It is the most attractive strength a man can possess if it's genuine. Godly women recognize it immediately, it's a pleasure to be in their presence and to witness the praise of the Lord coming from the dept of their heart. (Eyes to see and ears to hear how they Love King Jesus) Amen
This video is right on the nail! It is very important to have that connection on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level! I always tell one of my homegirls that when you put God first, everything else falls into place. Communication has to be consistent and a close relationship with God in order the relationship to thrive and grow. I am gaining so much insight from watching your videos. God bless you! 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 👏🏽 ❤️ 🙏🏽
I had this with a guy that asked me out and we had all these qualities. After the 1st date he told me that i may not hear from him the next day because he was going on another date. I asked him how he would feel if i was dating around, shopping, constantly looking, he said he wouldnt like it. When someone cant take the same hurt they give, theyre not my kind of person. Unpopular opinion for many because it was just 1 date and nothing was exclusive, but I honestly believe that someone who keeps shopping around will keep doing that even during the relationship... the mentality of having options is why dating doesnt work these days, some of us are just more intentional
You're so right. You pretty much know on the first date if there is a spark. And if he admits that to you, you'll be wondering what he doesn't admit to. When they date you it should be to date you only and not other women.
If he throws it in ur face like that it ain’t cool There is no need to tell u that in such a way He will hurt u much worse in the future Gods chosen man for u wouldn’t be leading with that 🙏💓
@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 I resonate with this so much- I don’t mind being made aware of something I am doing wrong or not doing- it should be brought to my attention with the goal of not being hurtful and to resolve the issue not attack someone’s character
I deserve love and respect just for being alive and I was destined for greatness! Also, if anyone can't acknowledge my worth then they are not meant to be in my life. No one in this world can tell me who I am if they don't know who they are and i live my life on my terms not on the world's terms or society's terms! I am real person with real feelings with their own wishes, desires and needs abs I am nobody's slave, object or possession! I belong to myself and to the most high. A man doesn't love you if he hits you or forces you to compromise your relationship with God and tried to mold you into who he wants you to be rather than appreciating you for who you are! Never sell your dignity for a man.
This is my favorite video you've ever done. Thank you for your consistency and genuine concern with helping us women who are lost when it comes to men.
This is so facts. God has given me a man he knew I needed. And I have never in my life felt like this. And not even felt. The facts are so fine to me. I can have the hard conversations with him. And we stay good. We have shared values. Do we agree about everything no. But core issues are the same. He brings out the lady in me. And when I am with him it’s nothing better but god. I agree with this video
#4 is hitting me like there is no tomorrow! I've NEVER felt so vulnerable in my life! I feel this man, I recently met is way to good for me! This is a very scary feeling because I feel like he is going to break my heart. 💔 I'm listening to a lot of your videos trying to figure out how to make this potential relationship successful. I believe when we finally meet sparks are going to fly and that connection will be there. We shall see. I'm going to keep educating myself on how to be a better partner. A whole video on feeling vulnerable is needed. 😌
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you. Try changing your focus from dating to learning, and you will start to see positive results in your dating experiences ❤ 🙏
I think I may have found the woman god has for me We seem insanely aligned , only issue is she lives in another state I’m just being patient and working on myself till it’s gods time for us But I’m taking her out asap
I met a man. Not a Christian and a chequered past. Drinks too much a lad but i know he has a v kind heart and serves his community. I am a masculine brain lady but i melt around him, fancy him extremely. We are both so open together. I could not be stronger than him as i am with most men. I will not date as he has to meet me at church and get saved. He is not keen yet so all given to God. He has no money, i do. I always dated rich but i am so happy and comfy around him as a friend.😂 😂😂😂😂😊
My dear Steph you just gave me five more reasons to trust God He alone can locate and bring this fine gentleman to me Just have to whisper in my Lord s ear Let him be tall strong and muscular , hope am not asking to much 😂 God bless you Stephan Good afternoon all
I Don't feel you need to compromise I do know that Love doesn't Need to be worked on .when it should be as natural as taking a breath. I don't wish nor Need for Anyone to have to "try" to love Me Simple .
