You, Me & Polyamory | LOVE DON'T JUDGE 

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@@dollsNcats Polyamory was First, then got extremly-much replaced by Monogamy when that thing came around (how telling) and is now back in Times of Chaos and Social Unrest. How about we stop ignoring this and face the facts? Polyamory isnt a 'Everyone their own Taste'-Thing, its 'less civilized'.

I WAS BLOWN AWAY SHE'S DEXTROUS WITH HER FOOT. AMAZING.

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He’s a pig!! She deserves SO much more! I wish she seen that. 🥹

I felt her pain no women wants to feel she's not needed expecally in the bedroom. to me she doesn't look happy in that relationship I feel she's doing it so she doesn't lose him but in all I couldn't I'm not going to compete with another woman that's just me . But the heart wants what the heart wants I hope they can rekindle their love and be one again

I suppose they have been together along time and have 2 grown children together she probually loves him alot and feels that sharing him is probably better than losing him altogether I suppose it's hard when you love someone and have children with that person you don't want to brake up your family I feel

I feel so bad for Shaulan. She seems totally trapped in this situation. Alex is a total dirty dog

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Of course the guy is fine… he getting his sex life unless those girls are lesbians

And Luana seems like she enjoys it too and she dated the girls as well it’s like pretty cool

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@jaq uemo no lol you're so ridiculous 😂

So are you

Right ! He had absolutely no emotion and even smirked when shantel talked about how she found out about the affair.. She is silly for staying with him , no matter how much history they have , from the look on her face it’s not worth it and she’s not happy

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Exactly!

Yup, I agree. I don't think that relationship will go far.

I am proud to say that I agree with you all the way I think love is meant for too and when it comes to those type of open or polyamorous relationships I can’t see it as love I can only see it as lust because in my own personal opinion if you have to feel the need to have a open or poly relationship that just means that you’re not happy with your significant other 💯

You are not a god when it comes to relationships

Sadly she's still sad about it

It's better than no parents. I admire it. Hope they last very long.

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I’ve never heard of two men loving each other. That’s how you sound to me.

@@PeteS_1994 I’m all about love all around, but “fool me once shame on you, food me twice shame on me.”

I think it's fake - for attention. Those other girls seem like strangers.

@@stephaniemartin-ward4578 Def i would not be suprised. Stuff like that has happend before

Oh the one dude is in jail for shaking the baby. Check out the news story from Jacksonville.

@@abigailb9144 waaast???? Was it HIS baby or one of the boyfriends. Disgusting. Well thats what u get. Emotional unstable people forming wierd romantic groups.

He might hitting on the side.

I want my wife to have a girlfriend because I feel like there is a part of her not being fulfilled and it makes me sad, but Im conflicted because Im not sure how she will take it if I tell her

That’s what I’m wondering.

Because that what these shows select for. In reality, there’re just as many polyamorous women with multiple boyfriends.

It's more common with men due to their nature, they're into being with numerous women at once whereas women are generally more satisfied with one man at a time. Most men don't like relationships with multiple men too.

@@ScottDDavisMusic No there is not, stop deluding yourself XD. No sane man would get into a poly relationship unless they're bi, and statistically there are significantly more bisexual women than men.

Patriarchy.

AMEN!

It's pretty obvious he worships and adores her and let her bring this other woman into the relationship to keep her happy. Poor guy deserves to be with someone who only wants him.

And the comment he made about wanting 10 women was iffy to me too like I’m poly but it seems like he’s trying to collect women like Pokemon

@@AZ-ji3zl I think his wife was the one who said that, actually

@@elisakrivas you might be right but still to me love isn’t about numbers or shock value.

@@AZ-ji3zl I mean, I'm not arguing with you on that one, cuz that's true

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Yes. Agree 100 percent

"It takes a village to raise a child" is the old saying. There's a reason for it. In some cultures, it's actually improper to not help parents raise a child. As a Latina, I can definitely vouch for this cultural lifestyle. Polyamory can also be an orientation. As someone who is poly oriented, I can vouch for that too. Conclusion: in a way, to go against polyamorous people or polyamorous lifestyles is both against the LGBTQ+ community and is racist. It is certainly possible to raise children this way. To say otherwise is to be against the LGBTQ+ community and makes a person racist. You are essentially saying that if you have been naturally polyamorous your whole life and you can't help it, you're not allowed to have children. You're also saying that other cultural races are doing it wrong and aren't raising their children properly. Both of these statement are completely wrong and you can't change my mind or convince me otherwise either. I don't take well to hateful people.

@@elisakrivas and I don't believe in intersectionality. You're not going to shut me up by claiming everything is against LGBBQ and racism. "A village" or multigenerational living arrangements are not even in the same universe as your sexual perversions and it is extremely telling of your low intellectual capacity that you would even attempt to conflate them. So, bottomline is: blow it out your behind. HTH

@@elisakrivas lol girl ur reaching with the racism stuff. I am actually a lesbian and HATE these chaotic multiple lustful people type of relationships. So you cant accuse me of either homophobia or racism. Like this is a lifestyle that many SIMPLY dont find attractive at all.

How come two parents are allowed to have 9 kids, but 9 parents aren't allowed to have one child? Why don't you think about it like this, for the child, that's 9 parents who will love/cherish/support them. Doesn't that sound amazing? There are so many children in this world who can't even get one parent in these foster care systems.

From what I’ve heard polyamorous relationships can still involve a primary partner. So it’s almost like they have one person like monogamy but then each partner is free to fall in love with another person as well. I think it’s a different concept of love. And I’ve read a story of a kid who grew up with polyamorous parents. He seemed to grow up fine.

It's not polygamy because they are not married polygamy is illegal in America

You are wrong they use those nouns to describe their partner there's nun wrong or possessive about that

@@blacklyfe5543 Where did I say that using those specific nouns were “wrong”? Can you read?.. And I wasn’t talking about polygamy either, I was talking about POLYAMORY. That part of my comment was about poly couples that have a clear hierarchy- specifically a married couple dating an external partner(s). But thanks for improperly addressing this comment that I made an entire YEAR ago lol. I forgot I even watched this video.

@@stephskeeper6161 that's not my problem that's yours and idc how long ago your comment was I'm here to correct you just like you wanted someone to do you don't know the difference between polygamy and polyamory

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That's so hot n evil if it is cause I want a couple like them

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Because their polygamy they will not go in heaven 🤣. But can u tell anyone ur going in jannah or jahannum? Ur sure? If he's married with those women no problem but if he's not married and having relationship with them is Haram But............... Huh u men will be men 😒😑😥

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She said she uses her feet. For everything 👀

Seems like someone is in a relationship with a whoos

@@mrkhoros please explain

Even though I'm poly, I kinda feel the same way. It's too many and how can you give each your attention? Regardless, they all seem happy, so if they're all genuinely okay with it, then I think it's great.

If I’m not getting poly -paid , I’m not doing polyamorous relationships. I’m trynna get the bag, if he wants to have more than one woman, he has to provide for more than one woman

@@cupofserenity7692 uh, if you are monoamorous oriented, you shouldn't be trying polyamory, period. There is no "unless." Stick to your own kind.

The first one one the girl who had her cake and was eating it too. Literally.

Mmmmh.....who knows eh

Stigmas and not true.

@@elisakrivas how long do these relationships last on average?

This is more lust than love. You’re pushing it too far by doing this.

Some monogamous relationships are lust to

@@abigailb9144 not enough studies, but I’ve heard of some that have lasted 5 years and are still going and my favorite polyamorous triad to follow is Jimmy, Chacha, and Summer who have been together for at least 9 years and commitment-ceremony married for almost two years now. I’ve heard of both ending and lasting ones. Same as monogamy, some relationships last and some don’t. The longest one I’ve heard of is 35 years and still going, but I’m sure there’s longer.

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Guys are not into that. I am not even sure women are into that.

Most men wouldn’t care to be in a relationship like that. In other words they wouldn’t want to share a woman with other men. Polyamory/Polygamy only really seems to benefit men honestly. They get to sleep with more than one woman and have as many children as they please. So I’m questioning whether it’s really about “love” or simply survival lol.

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I've been pitching the idea to people for years. If Kody can have sister wives (the show on the tlc channel on television), how about Brother Husbands?

That is clearly fake

I had 5 girlfriends, they are all happy but if i go back in time i will only be with 3 because it’s very difficult after the 3 partner

You’d be surprised how many women agree to this lifestyle.

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I do agree if all parties are not happy the relationship doomed to fail

Yeah because when all of them grow old then what happens

I feel like I can understand it more than monogamy. But then it’s more complicated than monogamy as you need to have a better understanding and openness of your emotions like jealousy and attachment as you would be confronted with it more in a polyamorous relationship. Monogamy feels challenging in the sense that you might have to understand how to control your desire if you also are attracted to other people.

Because it IS selfish. No loyalty of any required

I don't believe for one minute they are really in a 9 way relationship. They are so fake. Look at the way those other girls kiss him. It's all an act for attention.

Może szczęście na pozór?tak przeważnie bywa,tragedie powstają później w takich związkach,zawsze jest zazdrość,w haremach też była jak i faworyzacja

I'm pretty sure someone gets hurt. Sooner or later.

Exatamente , machismo puro .

I think they'll ever show that in the media.

I met a lady friend who lived with her 2 bfs in the same house.

I mean, but what are you "sharing"? People aren't property you can buy, keep, or share, right?

Yep, to each their own, exactly. Choose the relationship(s) that work(s) for you.

@@elisakrivas not property but in a loving relationship, there is commitment and faithfulness. For example, a man calls his girl, HIS wife, and a woman her man, HER husband. There is commitment, they belong to each other. And in the featured relationship is otherwise, featuring the sharing of partners.

@@ginamd7982 no one belongs to anyone, we are individual unique beings. We’re not sharing or belonging because we’re not objects. Commitment and loyalty are important in any relationship, I agree, but they are not an excuse to own someone, belong to them, or share them because belonging to someone means they own you. I am not my boyfriend’s girl and he is not my man. I’m in a relationship with a boyfriend or with some boyfriends and they are in a relationship with me and other boyfriends or girlfriends if they so choose.

@@ginamd7982 According to the dictionary, the word “belong” has the following meanings: Belong: 1. be the property of 2. be a member or part of (a particular group, organization, or class). 3. (of a thing) be rightly placed in a specified position. A partner is not someone who belongs to you. They are not property, they are not a part of your club or organization, and they are not something you can control to be placed in the position that you please. They are individual human beings. Belonging to someone is about ownership, not commitment and loyalty.

Religious, eh? That's okay

Exactly, girl.

@@elisakrivas I'm not religious, I'm a believer. I believe in the teachings in the Bible.

You are nobody to judge, only God can do that, besides it doesn't affect you and it's not your problem to say what is wrong or right, remember that we are all sinners

@@MakingDisciples4Jesus I think you need to learn the difference between religion and beliefs because that’s not it

I concur!

What use is romance in societal Life? Emotional Chaos thats what it is sorry.

Yuck

This isn’t ok

Hey how r u? U from?

There are many people in happy, healthy, polyamorous relationships; myself included. Your personal beliefs don’t factor into it for me I’m sorry to say.

I agree with you 💯

I agree

As someone who is poly oriented, I can actually state that there IS love and it's NOT lust. That's a fallacy. There are actually polyamorous people who are asexual and just want romantic relationships WITHOUT sex. I, myself, am actually demisexual and refuse sex with anyone unless we are in a romantic relationship. I refuse romantic relationships unless we've been friends for at least a year. I refuse friendships unless I can find something I can trust about a person. I have two boyfriends. One I've known since highschool and we reconnected about a year ago and we've just started dating. My other boyfriend, I've known for over 7 years and we started dating about a year ago. This means I have no sexual attraction to anyone other than these two men and even then, since my newer boyfriend and I just started dating, we haven't had sex yet. Our relationships are stronger than just "sex and fun." Lust is for cheaters or people who just like partying and have sexual attraction to many people, but I don't have any of that. I don't feel attraction to people unless I've gotten to know them. I won't have sex unless I'm dating the person, which is only after I've gotten to know them for a long time. And I'm far from a party girl, I'm actually very introverted. You're just spreading more hateful and ignorant stigmas, so stop.

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No reason to trust you, you’re absolutely wrong. But hey, make up whatever you like about other people. If you’d like to conduct and publish a proper scientific study on it, then I’d at least be interested in what you have to say on the matter.

@@elisakrivas shut up stop whining poly relationships are all about lust and 0 love I believe love is meant for two there’s no way you can find love with that kind of lifestyle I’m Christian and my fiancée is catholic and we bag on people who mess around and who are in poly relationships but tbh to each their own I still don’t believe in it though !

@@davidstewart8392 Where in the Bible does it go against polygamy. Which scripture?

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Polyamory was First, then got extremly-much replaced by Monogamy when it came around and is now back in Times of Chaos and Social Unrest. It is the very DEINFITION and Textbook-Example for 'Less-Civilized'.

So "Chad" was actually clarson all this time huh.?

Same way someone in a non polyamorous or non polygamous person likes different guys or girls 😅 you can still like more than one person nothing wrong with that

Agreed

Polyamory there's love in the relationship but polygamy is lustful

Polyamory is where there are multiple people consensusally dating one another. Polyamory can be people of any gender, and the relationship can be complex. . Polygamy on the other hand is when a man marries multiple women and they are not dating each other, common for mormons.

Polyamory is the newer version of polygamy. Everyone can have their own partner if they want one.

Things are now out in the open, human nature hasn't changed one bit.

That's not love hun

Love hasn't changed, perception has changed. People understand love better than they did for a while. Non-monogamy is actually older than monogamy.

@Little Darkage that’s romance. There’s a difference. Do you love your family? Do you love your friends? Do you show kindness and care towards others? That’s true love. The crap we watch in movies is propaganda, not love.

@Little Darkage I think it’s more common for men to have many women in these relationships, but there are women who have multiple men as well. It does go both ways. It is more common in one than the other, though

Its so sad you think youre polyamorous. Internet has way too much iinfluence on you and now here we go: you think its civilized and not un-civilized and quite-primitive to have mutliple partners.

Facts

You're right. I'm pansexual

Polygamy has been in human history a long time. You even see it recorded in the Bible.

@@lucthin6245 so has murder

@@cosmokramer179 people willfully choosing to do be polyamorous relationship isn’t harming anyone. They are all consenting adult. Terrible comparison because nobody is is dying over it. Whether you choose to be monogamous or in a non-monogamous relationship it’s up to you & your partner.

@@lucthin6245 being in an open relationship means that you’re not satisfying enough to your own partner. You may be ok not being good enough for your partner, but I choose loyalty

Nope

Not if all parties consent

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Becoming the fetish sex toy of a couple of deviants (basically the guy is just a real beta but since it involves 2 chicks he's down with it) is such a noble life goal. An inspiration indeed!

@@Sketch1994 polyamory is not about sex 😑