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I feel that brother but we discovered this video and I really believe what both of these brilliant guys said especially Jordan talking about how we should assume our innocence first. You will get through it brother, me and you both.

Everyone deserves a second and third chance in life brother , everyone . I just hope u make the best out of those chances

#metoo

@@jamannk And what they are and have been doing to Trump.

​@@ziraprod6090Trump impeaches himself and creates his own trouble on a daily basis.

​@@ziraprod6090 youre right thats exactly what theyre doing to trump. Attacking a guy thats doing nothing to them.

Have a very happy on me, brother. Your going to make it. Mark A. Pick, PhD

No one tells you and they should, your 20's are one of the most difficult ages to process and survive. You are still maturing, your brain hasn't quite fully developed and honestly you don't know who you are or who you want to be. Or what you want to be. I promise you can make it I hope you do! You are here and that's a great start! Happy Birthday!!

I’m also in my 20’s and have mistakes that HAUNT me to my core and it makes me terrified for the future. It will be okay, it has to be. Despite your past, if you dedicate your life to being better, you deserve a good life. Forgive yourself and learn to love yourself, Happy Birthday.

Hey youngster- keep yer head up. It will get easier I promise you. The 20’s are tough for most everyone, myself included. As you get older, you’ll get wiser. With that comes the ability to discriminate what to get upset about and what not to. In the meantime try and make good decisions, and work HARD. And if you don’t exercise, start. It will change your entire outlook, and make you proud of yourself for doing it. Stay strong!

God bless dude Jesus loves you and has a plan for your life. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16

One of them in the top 100... the other - maybe in the top several hundred. How about the wisest, Well Known, minds of our generation.

Amor Fati “the love of fate”.

Seek god! He will forgive you and so will you forgive yourself 🙏🏻

Exactly!

What about your own repeated mistakes? You can cut ties with someone who hurts you but since you are stuck with yourself, you have to learn to forgive yourself for your bad intent and have the courage to realign and to try to do better... again and again i guess.

@oaktreedialogues - you missed the key factor: a recurring pattern of malice. Repeated mistakes are not the same as repeated pattern of malice. When there’s malice - severing ties is the needed and healthy thing to do. Forgiveness doesn’t mean maintaining any kind of relationship with the intentional, malicious “offender.

Same, we truly are blessed to have access to this information.

Have them with friends.

I really f-ed up the first sentence ... Leaving as is to teach myself a lesson. Embarrassing a all hell.

@@briandonovan1584nah not embarrassing. It’s okay

@@briandonovan1584 forgive yourself bro

@@g-dawgbush6681 Cheers!

Facts!

What does that like, i didnt get it

1:57 다시 한번 죄송합니다. 다시 처음부터 시작하겠습니다. 전 바보입니다. 너무 어린 아기 였습니다. 감사합니다.

3:19 저는 몇일간 혼란 속에서 고민하다가, 뒤로 물러나 생각을 하여야 된다는 사실을 깨닫고, 혼란 속에서 저를 바로 잡았습니다. 그리고, 교수님께서 말씀하신 [글의 작성]으로 제가 잘못한 것이 무엇인지 파악을 하였습니다. 항상 본인과 진심 어린 대화는 도움이 되는 것 같습니다. 저를 만드신 분들은 모든 선배님들의 기도와 응원과 응원으로 가능하게 되었습니다. 다시 작성하지만, 모든 것은 제 잘못 입니다. 저는 너무 반성 중이며, 앞으로 속죄하며 살 예정 입니다. 마지막의 혼란 속에서 [성경]을 읽고, 보잘것 없는 한 명이라는 사실을 깨달으며, 저를 바로 잡을 수 있었습니다.

4:34 🎉🎉🎉

6:34 제 과거 속의 저의 모든 잘못들은, 제가 살아가면서 하나씩 속죄하며 풀어가겠습니다. 걱정 시켜 드린만큼, 더 열심히 노력하겠습니다. 감사합니다. 정말 한 마디 한 마디가 너무 현재 저의 상황에서 값집니다.

You have made it perfectly, devastatingly clear, you do not want us.

You have to be really honest with yourself. Even your assessment of a situation can be flawed. Personally I did as much research as I could stand. There were facts I could not confirm. In the end, I realized I was past my limits. I could have helped that woman had I known more about common pharmaceuticals. But, I spent my time learning engineering. Thus, I did the best I could to prepare for the problems I could see coming. Had I studied psychology sooner, I might have been able to help my parents. But, I was too busy being a toddler. Know your limits... Know that most of us are not fully prepared for every situation we face. Do not hold your future / current growth against your past self. I think that's why many people choose to stop learning. Learning can be extremely painful in that way.

It's like investing in stocks. One or two will surely beat inflation by a factor of two or more. But, to really get anything out of it you'd have to invest a majority of your wealth. You'd do it in a heartbeat if you somehow knew which one was right. It's the inverse of investing in Microsoft or Apple in the past. It's obvious to everyone now, but it wasn't back then. We're all doing the best we can. Well, some do better than others. It seems you've got a solid foundation.

God can do all things, including forgiving you. Go to Him and He will show you the path to redemption. The guilt you experience will be your punishment. The change you make will be your salvation.

Amen

So what?

@@greebo7857 so he can break stone with his jaw silly

@greebo7857 What kind of reply are you expecting here lol

Jockos head is stone

@@ConsiderFirstCnE I think someone being able to laugh at something is more mature than someone who can't find humor even in serious situations. I'd much rather laugh than not laugh. No ill intentions.

It is miraculous everyone doesn't react the same way

Poly tician = liar professional

God cannot "save" you, since, in rebelliousness and stubbornness, you will continue to make the same earthbound mistakes till the end of time-thus creating your own sicknesses and miseries. Those who have insight and understanding will recognize that Christ has RETURNED... explaining WHY he taught the principles of life-which people now need so urgently to save themselves and the planet from wholesale disaster. There will be those who will receive the TRUTH with joy, since in their soul, they have known that beyond the religions of the world has been TRUTH-the REALITY of existence. These are the people who will prosper and will eventually save the world from self-annihilation. You cannot ignore the problems inherent in your individualized existence and believe that God will "save" you from them. Your only hope of a final escape, of stepping off the treadmill of human experience, is to recognize and acknowledge them and then work minute-by-minute to transcend them and eventually merge, in purity of mind, heart and action, and become "one" with UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

Not sure where your faith lies; I recommend praying for those you have wronged. Since it is not realistic to speak directly to them. Ask God to bless them and that they may find it in their heart to forgive you, even if you never reconcile on this earth.

I don't have a clue what you think you did, or actually did. You can work through guilt. Sometimes that means leaving the social circles that connect you and the offended parties. Start over and see who you really are. Sometimes we react badly to bad relationships. It's entirely possible that you were pushed into hurting others, because your parents or friends had normalized hurting you. Isolating yourself can stop the negative cycles long enough for you to realize what was happening. The situation Jocko was talking about... He regrets not pushing back harder against his commanders. He says he spent too much time writing battle plans to satisfy them, and not enough time working directly with the teams. He blames himself for the confusion that led to a friendly fire incident. He was pressured into doing something he didn't believe was helpful. He thinks that caving to their pressure is what got those men injured. He would have risked his career progression... He did the best he could. He had no way to know that was the point he would later regret. There's no way to know what would have happened if he acted otherwise. Consider the same for yourself. You may have had a failure in character, morality, or profession. The more you try to prove to them you've grown and changed, the less genuine it can seem. At least you feel guilt. Some people do not, and they're narcissists or psychopaths like Donald Trump. That's why people idolize him. Trump gives people an excuse to dispose of guilt and remorse as though it were admirable and healthy.

@@gelliebeane6789 This has been done! God grants mercy to those who ask! Thank you for your response!

@jacob.tudragens Amen, yes He does. You're welcome!

Well... Fighting crime is dangerous. You could risk your life trying to save someone from harm. I believe if you think of "going out" that way, you'll find your life can be better sacrificed in service to those who have been harmed by others. The helpless need heroes. Incidentally, that is why I never really liked Superman. He is basically immortal so it's not really a danger to his life. At least, that's how he is written. The multiverse allows for heroes to die 1000 times in 1000 universes. But, you have one life to live. You can find redemption. Heal yourself, and deliver that cure to others. Or, find ways to help people with as little recognition as possible. Find a homeless camp and leave food and tools for them. Make it your mission to do that at least one time before you go. And, do not go without a fight. There are too many people who need a friend, a helping hand, just one minute of trust or encouragement... You can do that much, even if you are wracked with guilt.

You forgive yourself your mindset-your thoughts, words and actions-because you are in the world, restrained and blinded by the humanhood. You struggle bravely to adopt a more unconditionally loving way to think, feel and respond to every experience-but while you remain the single moving force within your consciousness, the humanhood will eventually win.

Hypothetically, do you mean if person A commits an evil act, how can person A forgive themselves? Or, how can their victim forgive them?

@@user-iu4wh1zs6t both lol

You forgive yourself/others your/their mindset-your/their thoughts, words and actions-because you/they are in the world, restrained and blinded by the humanhood. People struggle bravely to adopt a more unconditionally loving way to think, feel and respond to every experience-but while people remain the single moving force within their consciousness, the humanhood will eventually win. As for forgiveness: Real/true forgiveness is the state of understanding yourself/others and your/their reasons for your/their behavior so clearly that you/they can say in all honesty-there is nothing to forgive.

Grifting by discussing how people should learn from their mistakes and move on? This word grifter. It doesn't mean what you think it means.