You're A Disgrace To My Vagina! | KARAMO 

One thing you must admire is how you can see that she does have love for him and wants to do better. She just didn't know how.

I really hate when parents say terrible hurtful things to their children.

This title is WILD

I feel Karamo is doing a better job than so many other talk shows out there. He hears them out patiently. Never judging but only explaining why their behaviour is incorrect and how to bring about change. A very positive show indeed..

People are so broken! I swear literally everybody needs therapy! She’s hasn’t been loved and she doesn’t know how to give it. So essentially broken people give birth and they then break the children they have. It’s a cycle

Toxic parents love to deflect. Their favorite excuse is how they didn't have the same love. That ain't the child's fault. I'm Kenny in this story. 😢

I just hate when the parents say “I went through a lot” as an excuse. My father new my sister and I were sexually assaulted several times by some members of the step family when we were children, and his excuse was “My life is hard, my childhood was complicated, you don’t understand” and then managed to put the blame on us when we told my mother what happened. I just hate it, there’s no excuse for mistreating your kids.

The mother needs individual therapy to address her childhood trauma in order to be an effective parent. She should take parenting classes as well because she said some hurtful things that a child will never forget. I have a feeling that she and her son will eventually get closer after they overcome their traumatic experiences. I am praying for them, and I wish them all the best. This is a great show!

Honestly, I appreciate the justice that these young adults are getting. A lot of our parents did some vile things when we were younger and Thank God we have a platform to tell our stories. I’m glad our parents are starting to recognize their faults as well. 🙏🏽❤️

Its SO OLD to hear addicts say they are moving past that part of their life. The wounds the ADDICTS CAUSED don't go away. They gotta DEAL WITH AND HEAR and acknowledge ALL the pain they caused that is permanent. They forever change a child. FOREVER.

No matter what this woman has said and done, she really is trying to make it work and love her son. Lord God please heal and save them both.

He would make an awesome therapist! hes very good at "reading the room" and people,hes also empathetic, genuine and patient..

FOR ANYONE THAT HAS SOMETHING NEGATIVE TO SAY ABOUT MY ATTITUDE THINK ABOUT STUFF YA DIDNT GET TO HEAR ❗️❗️❗️ I took care of 4 of my siblings by myself at the age of 9 and I’m 23 now been in foster care since 4. Just now leaving so please before u judge ask what caused my Trauma 💯💯💯

I love the show but this episode really made me fall in love with Karamo as a person. Such a sweetheart.

You can tell she loves her son unconditionally but she needs intense healing.

This mom is working my last nerve. Everything is “I” “I” “I” or “me” “me” “me” stop playing victim. Your child is the victim and your children do not “make you” say the horrible things you say to them.

WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH WHEN YOU WERE A CHILD IS IRRELEVANT THE MOMENT YOU DECIDE TO HAVE CHILDREN. IM TIRED OF THAT EXCUSE! I made the conscious decision to parent myself and lick the wounds my parents caused me BEFORE my son was born. STOP SCARRING YOUR CHILDREN, BREAK THE CYCLE

I love that he taught the mom to speak less about her childhood to brighten up the child.

Karamo opened their eyes wide to the similarities in their behavior & mistreatment of each other.

Karamo please give the parents access to counseling. They are told not to explain themselves but I truly feel they need an avenue to heal also.

The mom should be ashamed of herself. Listening to all of that was hard. The fake bewilderment as if she doesn’t know why he treats her like that like that is CRAZY! Kenny experienced the worst of it all because he’s the oldest. She’s trying to gloss over the past & make it all about her “woe is me”, it doesn’t work like that. No accountability whatsoever. She has to grow up, at her big fossil age. Karamo is so knowledgeable & helpful. I hope this healing works for them. Watching these episodes make me even more grateful for the parents that I have.

Bruh, her leaving him in foster care while raising his siblings is sick😂😂😂😂😂

NO EXCUSE for Her BEHAVIOR

Uncle Karomo has this same story over and over. I love that he is giving healing. WE NEED THIS

This is why I love my generation so much. We don't take bs just because it comes from our elders. They need to be held accountable too!!

Bless this young man. The pain and trauma inflicted on him is inexcusable and will take years to heal. Once mom is ready to stop making excuses and deflecting away from the blame, only then can their relationship heal.

What kind of mom would say to her own child that they're a "disgrace to her vagina"? Who says that?! Just pathetic! I hope she gets the help that she needs, as well as therapy

The fact that the mom is trying to flip stuff & make herself the victim is crazy. She failed as a mother & continues to fail .

It's not the childs responsibility to be the adult in having to keep considering the unresolved trauma of their parent but he needs to come to terms with the mom's inability to be the mother he wants bc she got a position that she wasn't prepared for. She can do things like taking them places. That's not the essentials of mothering. She just can't do it. Children get hurt when they are birthed into situations not ready for them. They end up with burdens and instability they should never have to deal with. Everyone just suffers trauma in these situations. Mom can't be empathetic toward him ot give him more love until she can heal and in that extend understanding. I feel for them.

i’m so sick and tired of parents justifying what they put their children thru by saying “i went through this, or i went through that”. why tf are you blaming or punishing ur child for what u went thru. like it’s sad that u went thru shi n all, but making ur child suffer for it wont heal ur trauma, and it wont make u feel better.

He is very respectful..theres no excuse to not love him and show him the same respect

Awwwwwe that’s ever twin. Everyone makes mistakes and I believe their mother/son relationship can heal in a positive way and be restored. sending light and love to them 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Kenny - I'm sorry for what you went through and remember... Just because they are family, if they are toxic, you can set boundaries so you don't have to deal with their negativity. Seems like you need to love your mom from a distance and pray for her and your siblings.

I can only imagine what this child went through while his mother choose drugs over him. These mothers are a mess and truly abusive which in turn is ruining this generation 😢😢😢😢😢

I love this show. He needs to win an award

My mother is the same way as her and that's why our relationship has been ruined and she runs from help and I run towards it! Therapy and everything else.

I was a foster child also. My foster father molested me but I was and am very respectful to my real parents and others around me. He also needs to take responsibility for some of this. I can tell he has some rebellion. She admits her wrong. She’s a recovering addict. I pray they heal

What parents have to realize is that even despite them having had a bad childhood, the decisions that they make as adults are on them, not their children. You made the conscious decision to pick up that drug, and you became addicted. Now that you’re clean, and want to move on your merry little way, you expect everyone else, whose lives you have shat all over, to just move along their merry little ways as well. Life doesn’t work like that, because while drugs may no longer be a part of *YOUR* life, the drug use, and the behavior that resulted from it was literally woven into the fabric of who your child grew up to be. They didn’t ask to be born, especially not into a highly dysfunctional situation. So sometimes, you may just have to take that “L” with grace, and be willing to hear how your actions hurt your child.

The hardest part of parenting is loving our children while we ourselves are in pain and carrying the burden of pain. We love them regardless of our broken feelings, because they are part of us. The burden that parents carry, especially a single parent is phenomenal. There are personal issues which parents don't know how to or can't discuss with their children. Nevertheless, instead of giving up, many parents keep on trying because the needs of their children, whom they dearly love, supersedes theirs. I see two people who can help each other to heal, grow and build a positive future.

Bless them both, the son has gold in his heart and love for his mother in spite of it all. Im sorry that they were both abused, he did so well, and he will make it.

Karamo clearly uses his dregee in psychology serious. I love karamo for this. U are doing the lords work

This man is hurting SO bad. I truly hope they’re able to get it together.

It's a difference when you are not trying to do better and when you want to, but just don't have the tools. I truly felt this mom is wanting to make the change for him but she didn't have the tools and it's hard to move forward when you still have to be faced with the passed that still lingers. Doing the work is also hard work but I hope she can commit. This was my favorite episode!

She has so much potential. I'm routing for you mamma

He is a reminder of a time she wants everyone to forget. That’s typical of ex drug addicts. They create absolute havoc in the family then expect folks to forgive and forget. My mom used to tell my sisters and I “if I knew them what I know now I would have had all boys”.

The girl with the ginger hair and glasses in the audience was a whole vibe ,,, that was tooo cute. Now im buy a wig for this look

Thank you so much Karamo this episode was amazing! She is so obsessed with herself and what she doesn't have and not concentrating on showing her son the love he needs. She reminds me so much of my mother who was also a drug addict and to date blames her mother who dies 17 years ago for not sending for her from Jamaica at an earlier age. It is so sad that she never sees the damage that she has done to myself and my siblings and never allows us to speak to her about it.

I think if you an adult and if you can't get that love that you want from your parent you need to move on and when you have your own children try to break that cycle

Mom have to realize that her trauma is not her kids trauma. She need to take accountability.

I'm sorry for them both. She cannot model any kind of parental behavior, none. How can she? She wasn't raised with parents. She has no idea how not to show her anger. I feel very sorry for this family. Kenny cannot excuse his own behavior either. Kenny has a hard attitude, right or wrong it will get him nowhere. She was crying real tears throughout it all and I believe they can be healed. 😊

I saw someone say that uneducated mothers are the worst to be raised by. I feel like its way deeper than that. Parenting is not perfect, there are some that make horrible decisions regarding their kids. This is way deeper than that. My mom had me young too and i was raised by my gma my first 8 years of my life. My mom is very smart and strong and brave and all the wonderful things a human can be especially as a mom. Ive never held it against her for what i went through emotionally and mentally. My dad was incarcerated in and out untill i was 18. Thise situations as a young child made me do some soul searching and self reflection and i learned as early as 8 years old that people will do what they want to do, some people just aren't made/wired to be certain things. Like my dad, i carried pain for a long time , but i always knew that he was a person, he had his own demons and i will never put that judgement on him. I believe that when we are born we are not entitled to both parents, so therefore its a blessing if you have both just as much if you have one. Karamo hit the nail on the head when he said it was a choice she made....everything is about choices and sometimes we dont always need an apology or acknowledgement. It is what it is and it is up to us what happens next. I cant take back the trauma i went through and i dont regret it either. It shaped me to who i am today and im learning to love myself and how to be nice to myself. Its a day by day process and im super blessed and grateful to have this mindset especially for my child. ❤

I'm thankful my mom has been my back bone. She grew up in hell but she never put me there to visit. She would explain things and feel like she wasn't doing enough and to this day I still tell her that she did an amazing job.

I pray he and his siblings can defeat this generational toxicity. She was once him. And i bet it has been this way in that family. I pray they both heal from this point. It’s sad

Words have so much power. Please take a breath before you respond because unfortunately, you can not unring that bell y’all 😮‍💨❤️ Praying this family has healing. 🙏🏽

There's room for love to grow between mum and son. The son isn't a bad child, he just needs love 💕💕💕💕

Parent: my kids don’t talk to me so idk what’s the problem. Kids proceed to explain why they hurt Parents: yOu bRinG cHaos tO thE fAmiLy.

Karamo is the man. I love how he listen and try to heal. Its helping me to be a better mother.

his attitude is the result of this toxic mothers behavior, the attitude is warranted.

Honestly, every single person that has been through the care system on Karamo has been a survivor of abuse in the system it should be shut down it's disgusting

Mom has such a beautiful face, so pretty- those eyes. Its too bad they are both in pain. Kenny can't just rebound instantly as Mom may like. It will take time. Hes been hurt. Mom has also been hurt coming up and later in life with/ through drugs etc... But it Was and IS her responsibility to mother, nurture, ensure safety, support and guidance through love and discipline to Kenny and her children. They can't undo the past but they have a wonderful fresh start right now and that's terrific.All the best to them.

I pray they both can heal and move on. There are some bad parents and some neglected children. I’m glad I grew up in a decent home.

Kids are a handful but worth it blessings for both of yall.

She talks over everybody, even Karamo... geez Also, she has to understand that its not just HER PAST, its THEIR PAST. So, she has to stop shutting him down and being dismissive.

Karamo I love you too!! I soo love your show and how you genuinely try to help heal these families and tell them that you love them!!

They got me in tears ..Pray they can heal and get closer ❤

This woman is a horrible excuse of a mother…forreal, she’s got to be one of the worst we’ve seen on the show. What kind of woman who relinquish control of their child to a detrimental system that has already traumatized their child? Crazy smh

this was one of the best episodes for mother and child. they both actually wanted something out of it and cooperated. i wish them blessings

I love this emotionally intelligent man ❤

I don't understand when mum says "they don't give me a chance", them being kids and throwing stuff is them giving u a chance to be a mum. They depend on you to show them the right ways in a loving way.

Jesus has the power to heal completely and bring restoration to painful pass and right now circumstances!! Handsome young man and beautiful mother, I pray the best for them in many ways, in Jesus name.... Glory Hallelujah 🙏🙌🙏

Just had a big argument with my mum and all I wanted from her was to take accountability for the hurtful things she says but she refuses to acknowledge it.

Reminds me of me and my moms relationship I feel bussing out crying right now😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Man my mom is like this she just won’t listen for real and I don’t think I’ll ever have a good relationship with her

There's much love there....they both got some growing to do and I believe they can do it together ❤❤..good luck to the both of them 💘

Oh my heart 💔 There’s so much love here and so much room to heal. Praying for this family to heal and grow to their fullest potential🙏🏾❤️

She expressed herself very well.

Hurt people hurt people but it’s more hurtful when a parent is hurting their own children forcing them to go thru their hurt that belongs to them and not their children! This is why over 25 years I mentored at risk youth who have come from broken homes because I too came from one. Father died when I was a young child and mother was forced to be a single parent but so was I with my siblings and then my own children! But I refused to allow my children to go through the type of hurt that I went thru because MY HURT DID NOT BELONG TO THEM!

I understand how the child feels but I feel sometimes there’s no grace for the parents.

Kenny ... Prayers for you in your healing. You will have to step away AMF get your healing. Your Mother wants the focus on herself. You focus on YOURSELF. Your Mother is still stuck in the "I-I-I" or "Me-me-me-me" role. 💕

I'm sure the title brought ALL of us hers

I struggled a lot as a single parent of 2 beautiful kids... One thing I learn to do is to listen to them... Love them in action... Respecte what they have to say and you wil never regret..

This was really beautiful. We take it out on our parents so much thinking that they should be perfect and not realizing that they might have bigger demons to fight. They are humans with feelings and crazy vulnerabilities we never see. As I grow older I get to see my parents as my friends, for it is ok for your friends not to be perfect but we love them for who they are. Bless you mama.

Y'all here accusing the mom forgetting that she's human too,a human raising a human?? There's bound to be mistakes, understanding this creates room for grace.

His Mom keeps defending herself ..she should just keep quiet about what she didn't have . I would break things too if im trying to be heard by my Mother and she starts acting like a victim .😢

Crying 😢😩 good job Karamo, I need to bring my mom on this show cause 😮‍💨

These parents who do not take accountability for the trauma they have inflicted on their kids really gets to me...😖..he shouldn't disrespect her, but what example does he have to go on?! I know first hand the lingering effects these type of relationships can have...they need family therapy..

This mother is horrible, I am so glad I don't have this relationship with my children. You have to realize that these words leave scars that never go away. You can tell she is in much pain, I hope she gets help.

Crazy part is that’s literally her twin in the face. They look exactly the same

I feel the love here. I know theyre struggling now, but i have faith they can become beautifully close❤

This mother was insufferable. Couldn’t even let Kamaro speak whenever it came to herself. He finally got through to her it seems though

I feel like they’re going to heal beautifully 💟 they absolutely love each other, but the trauma is blocking it from being show/felt

This was sweet episode ! They love each other ! Just gotta learn how to communicate

This made me cry. My family really needs you. Generations of toxicity just trickling down and I’m trying to stop it. We need therapy as a family. How can I apply for the show?

Disrespect is a learned behavior... Like the bible says don't provoke a child to anger ... Drugs is never an excuse it's a choice so there is no kudos because I kick a habit you had no business having in the first place.. imo

This episode brought tears to my eyes.

Kenny you gonna be alright!!!!!! your mom LOVES you... But you gotta do better as well!!!! I cant wait for the update!!!!! BTW Kenny your sooooo handsome!!!

I hate when parents make excuses all I hear are excuses omg

I empathize with her but Kenny is not her therapist... Try and break the cycle

This is Hesrtbreaking💔 He’s Hurt because of his Mom and the way she treated him! I wish I could afford to take these kids in my Home and give them the Love and Therapy they need to live a better quality of life!

Not having a parent is no excuse to be honest. You know right from wrong.