You're Not in Love - You're Just Hormonal - Islamic Reminder 

If your really " in love" with a girl, you'll have the patience and being with her in the halal way. Marriage. Not the haram way.

Might not be Muslim, but damn this man is a very powerful speaker!

i feel proud i survived my hormonal teenage years

I loved my spouce bcz he was religious, but no body wud believe me bcz he was handsome too. haha. ppl also felt my marriage will fall apart since it was a simple love marriage to them and love marriages tend to fall apart. years later they got what I was talking abt. He has given me the Islamic life others cudnt and we are still happily married Alhamdulellah.

Thank God alhamdullilahh I was born in such a beautiful religion... called Islam. Without Islam I would have ruined my life. ALHAMDULLILAH.😊

I had a crush on this one girl for 5 months. After watching this video, she left my heart like water through a drain that had just been unplugged. Alhamdulillah.

Seriously, how does Nouman Ali Khan manage to be that inspiring ? Allah sure gave him a great gift. Masha Allah !

Ya rab please protect me and all teenager's from Zina please Say ameen 😭

You just prevented me from commiting a sin. Thank you

LUST IS NOT LOVE

marriage is supposed to be a beautiful relationship :*

One of the best mentions in this lecture according to me : Do you believe you would still be in Love with the person u think you're in Love with if they are burned?

One who would truly love you is one who knows the true you and God knows us better than we know ourselves

Its sad that some people still haven’t controlled their temptations yet

You know there's hormones things but sometimes it's love. And when you truly love someone even without dating him , without seeing him or even talk to him you just love him that's it. May Allah protect us from these kinds of relationships .

Well a Christian girl loved me for 1 n half year, i didn't knew she was in love with me until one day she confessed to me and told me what her feelings are/were for me. She said "I love you" i said "if you really love me then accept my religion and i will be yours". She said ill give a thought to it. She didn't messaged me for a week, after a week she messaged me with a voice message and i was crying when i heard it. What she was saying in her voice msg was Qalma Shahada, she accepted Islam for me. At that moment i didn't did anything except for thanking Allah and praying all night and thanking Allah. *Now we are together (engaged) she is my fiance* I am still thankful. For me thats True Love. My fiance is my pride.

" If he was like 50lbs fatter , you would still be in love?" *Yes* "If he was a burn victim or something, if his hand burnt off , if his ear was missing, would you still be in love?" *Yes* " Or you find someone else to love , all of a sudden?" *No*

this is so true--personal experience---things of the dunya are an illusion, they seem like the answer to our problems , making us feel good at first ---but actually these things become new problems , disappoint us....only love for the sake of God is pure and permanent

In islam we have solution to all problems🙌

O allah grant me a beautiful and loving wife..Ameen

painful truth .

Thankyou for this meaningful video. This will be a great guidance to muslim teenagers all around the world including me . Thank you for this reminder.

When the topic is like this one🤣🤣lol I don't even need to read the name, I already know it's Nouman Ali khan🤣🤣😂May Allah bless him

This is really a beautiful reminder. Thanks to Allah for making me want to listen to this. :) May Allah bless.

How true how true. JazakAllah khair for sharing.

"And among His Signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He put love and mercy between your hearts. Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect." [Sûrah Rûm: 21]

This was eye opening! May we all learn through this and grow through this!

Perfectly layed out for the contact.. crystal clear speech! Thank you for uploading! :D

This isn't just for muslims, this is for everyone. just because you're not muslim doesn't mean you can do that. it's the same for EVERYONE muslim or not muslim.

i wish allah would bless me, with real love...a beautifull girl inside and out

The way he talks nd explain these to us is really amazing.may Allah bless him nd his family

my god i needed to hear this. jazakaAllahu khair. wish i heard this a few months ago, wou;d've saved me so much pain. alhamdulillah

I have this huge crush on this guy in high school...n i think he has started to notice that too so he's trying to approach me n iam not ok with that i know his tries will work on me n i don't want that..i don't wana disappoint ALLLAH not my parents n not 3ven myself ..May Alllah protect my heart from these kinda stuff cuz its easy to say but hard to control n hide ur feelings..pray for me I'm in a difficult situation right now n i wanna handle it in the right way🤧😭☹

this is so awesome made me feel so calm

May Allah SWT reward you for uploading this and Nouman Ali Khan. Ameen. JazakAllahu khairan.

He spoke my mind. Masha'Allah! ✨

Well I am not teenager but almost 27 now and never dating with men but never had marriage proposal too. I just loved a man 2 years Ago at my last year of master degree but my family refused him for several Reason. I never had feelings for another man except him. Anyways now i just wait and keep my heart from others. I am just focused on my job al hamdullilah i have a good job but it is all I have. I do not want to be heartbreaked especially at my age it is very hard cause i dont date with men but want to get marry

"Low self-esteem" now I got what love is actually

Mashallah! He's saved so many of us teenagers

Ustadh you’re a natural mimic...a natural writer and a natural speaker MA....Allah has been very generous to you and you have given it back well. MA.

Thank you very much for this wonderful speech ....loved it 😊

Love this! If adults explained like this then us muslim teenager may understand more. Allhamdullilah, sharing this with all my friends now lol

Very enlightening and thoughtful of you Nouman Ali Sir Alhamdulillah!

mashallah..indeed a powerful and much needed reminder...jazakallahukhair!may Allah reward u for ur good work!

Allah has made us in pairs ... patience , Allah knows best to when you should meet this person and marry.

Honestly, I'm still in my hormonal stage and it's really hard for me not to fall for someone. I really hated it. I tried my best focusing in my studies but suddenly the feeling hits me. May Allah ease the hormonal stage we're going through.

Well said! Beautiful, this video helped me a lot. Thank you so much. May allah guide us all to the right path.

He expressed this peacefully and in a proper manner .❣️ This is so amazing i just love this speech ❤️ Alhamdulilah ☺️. May allah blessed your path with peace and harmony 🙏

MASHA'ALLAH, I NEEDED TO HEAR THESE BEAUTIFUL WORDS.

Me: it's not haraam to say a guy or girl is beautiful. Speaker: but control yourself. Me: right forgot.

Masha Allah ...proud to be born in ISLAM . Such a beautiful guidence.. I just love my religion.

Mashaalah brother Nouman Ali khan..May Allah bless you

Alhamdulillah. I've been very good at controlling my feeling. Insha'Allah just want to get married soon. 😁

May allah forgive and guide the muslim ummah, as well as the whole of mankind. Ya allah bless us with your infinite mercy. AMEEN!!

Very interesting very true, alhamdulillah for all these videos about Islam on RU-vid

Damnnn !!! it was worth watching ! I think utube has suggested me something that i really wanted to see....may Allah(S.W.T) shower his blessings upon uh ....thanks a lot for such information😊

thanks, it's made my feel better now :)

Literally i am disgusted by these so called relationship culture. Real men waits until marriage.

Thanks for this video, its really open my eyes i'll be finish my school soon and graduate , i hope Allah show me the right path to find true love, someday

I loved how he talked. STRAIGHT TO DA POINT!!!

This video basically explained about what happened to me. A boy ruined my life, a boy that I thought I was supposed to be with for the rest of my life. I always thought it was going to be like that. And being only 16 I shouldnt have been in a relationship like that, the hurt and pain that i brought to my family. I didnt control myself and its true I have lost self control but I will get it back and i will be able to have a strong relationship with Allah.

This video helped me in my teenage years , Single Alhamdulillah I am 22 now ,thanks Noman Ali Khan bhai 💕💕.

Allahamdullilahii, Your words are light for some of sisters and brothers May Allaha grant you Janna

Background nasheed: Ahmed Bukhathir- Remember them (instrumental)

People love small things like this more than they love their creator what has deluded mankind?

Beautiful msg JAZAKALLAH ❤️

Nouman Ali Khan is one of my favourite speakers!

I dated a non muslim guy when I was 17. Astagfirullah... I regret it so much and i still feel like I haven’t gotten forgiven by Allah. May Allah protect us all from this...

Fall for the soul not for appearance ❤

i want to give Likes to this video infinitely... big jazakallah to whoever uploaded such a beautiful piece of information. It refreshes my deen...jazakallahkhair...

lol the intro was cute. And it was so true. Low self esteem and Redemption through relationships

Subhan'Allah these days you can't watch a beneficial video on RU-vid without being subjected to 30 seconds of Lady Gaga. May Allah(swt) guide us all.

Yeah it's not really love, but what is called "passion". You basically feel attracted by the other one and that's it. In the movies they depict this feeling as if it was the only rule that matters in life, for the only reason that it is extremely strong. In Islam, passion is indeed depicted as being very strong, but we're supposed to be just with ourselves and the truth is that if humanity was to let passion drive its fate, it would be chaos in every society. No. Justice would be to admit that we have responsibilities towards our feelings and that WE must drive them. Another thing is that passion is a very shallow phenomenon as it is very ephemeral. Usually, relationships which are built upon passion fall apart very quickly in the time scale of a human life (a few months or a few years max). What is supposed to be love, in Islam, on the other side, is built upon a halal relationship, which makes it noble from the very beginning. Moreover, it is built on admitting our responsibilities and trying our best to fulfill it. That's why passion is like a thick fog which blinds the people who are stuck in it and which leaves them in a miserable state, as soon as a little wind blows around. Whereas true noble love is like a tree that is built on constant effort and which gets stronger and stronger as life goes on, if treated well, of course.

Wonderfully executed mash'Allah. Will certainly get through to guys n gals of all ages! In shaa Allah

MashAllah Brother Just Needed this 😊

Allhamdulliah, i am 15 and still haven't talked to a girl openly ever in my life, except my sister ofc :)

I Remember watching This back in 2016. 9th grade it was an attraktive girl that has high intrest in me. I almost fell for my desires. 3 years later still not heartbroken or none emotinal baggage. Fresh Soul to expirience intemesy with. But the girl from middle school have made an innprint on me. Weird,Even tho we had barly toughed each other. Thinking of her now

Alhamdullilah brother u have changed my life

I really needed this video.

The part where he said he thinks I'm cute 😅😅

Perfectly presented

May Allah bless all our Muslim brothers and sisters and give Rahmat upon all of us. AMEEN.

بارك الله بكم ونفع بعلمكم🍃

Agnostic teenage girl here: I agree that if your feelings of someone change because they gained weight or changed their hair etc That's not love... But I disagree with his saying that if this happens you weren't in love. You were in love but you didn't love them. Being in love and loving someone is two different things. And everyone regardless of age can love someone. Teenagers can really love just like adults. A classmate of mine liked me so he asked me out. I didn't like his appearance but I was amazed by his character so I started liking him. I went out with him and I fell in love. As months passed by my feelings for him were gradually changing into something stronger. I didn't care about his fat belly because it was warm and it was HIS belly. I didn't care about any off his physical flaws because I loved his soul. The body is just the covering and I accepted it like it is. I was patient with his mistakes. Unfortunately he broke up with me after 6 months... I was torn into pieces. By his behavior I assume that all the affection, care and protection he provided was just because he was in love. Not because he loved me. But unlike him, I still love him deep inside. After all he did too me. Now he does care about me and has blocked me on Facebook. So yeah I can confidentially say that I loved him. I'm 16.

I am not a Muslim by birth ...but I love my Allah

MASHA-ALLAH... Very nice bayan or speech. . Make me happy. It's very true ...😌😌😔😪

What a coincidence. Indeed Allah guides whom He wills. I can’t believe this is the first video popped up on my phone when I opened RU-vid. It was exactly what I needed hear this weekend.

الإنسان خُلق لجنة عرضها السموات والأرض وجيء به إلى الدنيا ليدفع ثمن الجنة، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليعبد الله، جيء به إلى الدنيا ليتحرك لمنهج الله، ما أودع الله فيه شهوة إلا وجعل لها قناة نظيفة تسري خلالها، ليس في الإسلام حرمان، ولكن في الإسلام تنظيم.

what's the nashed during the video

Thank god, this video is here Alhamdullilah! This should go out to all those bothers who are in haram relationships before Marriage

I was expecting to hear some lecture but this was way more mature and understanding i have always thought of it that way

He s like a brother to me or were just freinds and giggling😂lol but seriously that's what builds up haram relationships😔😕

Every time I'm sad or mad or happy for no reason, my excuse is sorry guys it's a hormonal issue.

Eye opener...... SubhanAllah May Allah Ta'ala bless you always...... You are perfect MashaAllah......... JazaakAllahu khairan.

Jazak Allahu hu khair! 🩷 May ALLAH SWT protect us from haram and bless us with the righteous spouse

Those that disliked this video are regreting now i brt

I'm in love with a Muslim girl but I'm not Muslim 😞

Noumannnnnn is awesome! TabarkAllah

Thank you elhamdulillah love Islam! So perfect.

I was craving for relationship,affection and wanted to have a bf..then suddenly this video is in my recommendation.Astagfirullahaladzhim,forgive me ya Allah.Please protect my heart from useless feeling. 💕