You Should Look Your Best EVERYDAY: your looks do matter 

Do you think that you might look back on your ‘old money era’ and say the same ‘why did I wear those neck scarfs!’ Fashion changes, we change, it’s there for enjoyment or simply to be practical. I love to dress how I love daily and always have, yes I’ve got it ‘wrong’ on many occasion I imagine but zero fecks given ☺️ Enjoy it Demi but don’t become consumed by it xxx

Can we just please stop being this hard on ourselves. Jeez, picking every freaking picture and every piece of clothing apart. You’ll see that within 5 to 7 years you’ll probably react the same way on the way you dress now. People their self worth is not determined by their clothing. Seeing you judging yourself this harsh makes me think about how you probably pick everyone else apart as well (i hope you don’t but i can’t shake the thought).

I do agree that making an effort makes you feel better but I’ve found learning to love yourself means you can feel confident to go out without make up hair done and still feel amazing. I spent so many years wearing a “mask” because I was self conscious it’s liberating now to not have to do that if I don’t want to.

You have a lot to learn.

Also when it comes to mental health I’ve lost count the amount of videos you’ve done crediting something as making you feel the best you have ever felt or the best you’ve felt in last couple years. Scraping, gym, bipolar meds, pole dancing, small bizness etc so if it’s a collective thing maybe a video to mention EVERYTHING that’s contributed to the best couple of years you’ve ever had?

Honestly, I’m sure we all look back on old photos and cringe at some of our clothing choices. We all change and grow out of certain looks. I think you’re being quite judgmental and shallow .. there is more to a person than what they are wearing..so what if you’re wearing a fleece and leggings if you’re taking your just taking your dogs for a walk or going to your in laws.

Wow, your video has touched such a nerve in me. I can relate so much but it's taken me till the age of 57 to realise I need to invest in myself and put a value on how looking good will be for my self esteem and confidence. You have put into words what I've felt but not been able to articulate for years. Things you said like didn't bother making best of myself or would just drag on clothes and out the door, really echo how i've lived my life. I'm currently on a self awareness journey, to find me. Part of which has been starting my own you tube channel in an attempt to find a fashion style that suits me and sets out who I am as a person and shows my personality, not hiding or shrouding it in dowdy baggy clothes no longer. Im so happy you have found yours, you always look so put together and groomed and I can only hope that one day I can get there. Fantastic video, I loved it and feel it will be one to save and come back to periodically to rekindle that drive to make the best of ME. ❤

My gran used to alllways wear heels, even if she was just nipping to tesco, probably up till she was in her 60s & eventually started to struggle to walk in them. Even now shes in her 70s & she'll wake up & put a nice outfit on to sit in the house lol She brought us up to dress up & make an effort no matter where we were going, like going to the shops was an occasion because we'd have the fun of dressing up beforehand aswell. I love that i was brought up like that & 1000% feel that it helps mental health. Making an effort to show up as your best self should never be viewed as a negative thing & the confidence boost that you get when you know you look your best is the best 😊

A few years ago if somebody commented on your outfit you would cut them off at the knees and wouldn’t take on board what was being discussed. Seems you’ve completely swung the other way, some would say too far.

Think it's a massive case of you do you. You obviously thought what you were wearing back then was fine. You may look back in several years and not like that you are wearing now. If you saw someone else wearing what you did back then would you think they shouldn't leave the house? People think very differently about clothes, some are merely practical, some cannot afford to change their style. I don't give a monkeys what others wear and I hope they don't towards me.

I think the message of this video is don't shop fast fashion as the trends will always change and you'll be left with tat. And rather dress for a style you like not what's trending? as this will ultimately make you feel more confident because you enjoy what you're wearing. edit: also finding what works for your body over trends!!

There is something so empowering about presenting yourself in a way that you want to, as long as it is for yourself you cannot go wrong. I make sure to leave the house in a way that I feel my best self, it helps to boost my mood and helps me remain confident because I deserve (and everyone else does) to feel my best self. Focusing on what works for you instead of what is in fashion or trending makes your style YOURS. I love how you have found what has worked for you x

Do you think maybe it was down to how much you weighed before.. and maybe that's why you didn't like your fashion. Know it's a sticky subject people don't like talking about, but I've been every size going, and I feel like I always felt better and more confident when I was smaller. Currently trying to lose the weight again but do you feel like that has helped you find your style? As it's much easier to find clothes to fit and they naturally look better on? Xx

I feel it's common sense that when you dress well you feel well. For example - We all know on a pj day you feel less motivated. I just feel personally we have heard so much about your "new style" The fleece and joggers day I'm sure no one did take enough time to judge you, you just look like you're someone who is walking their dog....and that's OK. You are concerned that someone may look at you back in the day and think you look rubbish but you don't care if people don't like your new look now, you shouldn't care either way. It really doesn't matter does it. We all have days where we are less dressed up than others. It's ok to wear no make up etc. "fashion" really doesn't define you that much. I think People can be whoever they want whether that's made up or not.

I agree with u and I'm glad ur feeling beta that's what counts, but it was the opposite for me, my worst mentally was when I looked perfect, I was doing a dam good job of hiding what was going on inside! Now I leave the house ' a mess' as it's important for me not to put importance on appearance but to focus on what's inside, this has helped me

I think its a shame that society makes us think about how we're dressing and presenting so that we're not judged as a person. It effects our mental health, makes us feel like we have to mask, have to put make up on when we feel depressed. Its sad we have to hide so not judged. BUT It is reality nowadays and social media does have a massive impact on this. I make the effort when im at work all week, presentable as working in a school but on my days off in the house, ive no one to impress and i can just be myself. Sometimes its worth saving that energy and learning to be content, we dont need outside things to be a good person. I admire your honesty, its a shame were all becoming a product of social media standards though.

Loved this chatty video! ❤ I agree with not wanting to dress well when you don't feel good about yourself. Dressing well is a form of self-respect!

Girl, at the moment I'm literally feeling so rubbish with a flu and I'm getting ready to ge tmy hair done,listening to this I decided to put on make up and a decent fit and I feel so much better. Perfect timing xx

Demi….I’ve been watching your videos for some time and don’t tend to comment but after reading some of the chats I want to say……firstly you’ve lost weight and look good for it, I think your new style of dress suits you enormously, you look more put together and stylish. Taking the time and care on your appearance is making you feel good and that’s what counts so keep doing the things you like 🥰

Couldn't agree with you more, I feel absolutely crap when I've made no effort but far more positive when my appearance is put together

Aww man I just loved this video!!! ❤️ love from South Africa! I’ve watched you for years, and it’s been so lovely to watch your journey!

I think talking about self love/ mental health would be good. I struggle with this. ❤

Your new fashion style is lovely :)

Demi love ya girl ,but I think you put all the nicest pic s of your self up we all have down days and cant be bothered ,but you put mostly pics of your self in this video and some of them were definitely filtered sorry girl but that is what I think ,still love ya just be honest with yourself and your older pictures

Your glowing and look beautiful❤

I struggle to get into any sort of a routine demi if im being honest i think i have aome unduagnosed disorder... When i get into the shower it can snap me out of a funk. Nd when i do my make up i feel like im telling myself that im worth something.. snd i do obviously feel more confident wheni make an effort. But i struggle getting an outfit together so thesevideis help sooo much Demi thankyou ❤

I've been watching your content for years and I can see how much you've changed! You looking amazing and I understand mental health issues were you feel crap on the inside, so you don't think about what you look like outside, I am now always looking after my skin but my fashion sense is still shite🙄❤

I think it’s fun to dress well! It makes you feel so much more confident and put together, if I have mis match clothing on I feel a little bit scattered mentally

Hi Demi. Do you think theres some correlation between this and your weight? I feel that because of my current weight i get trapped in trying to wear clothes that have lots of give and are comfortable and struggle to find clothes that are more tapered and classy in my sizes. Its one of the things that has motivated me to try and lose more weight so that i can dress more like i want too x

You are looking absolutely incredible Demi. I wish that I felt good in an outfit.... I feel like I've lost who I am and have no idea what suits me anymore. ❤❤❤ xxxxx

I was in Tesco and thought of you today Demi. They had some gorgeous knitted cream jackets with gold buttons - very ‘old money’ style!

I’ve not watched the full video yet but my first thought is what message are you giving to young girls, you say you feel great now making an effat, not when you were at school when you didn’t make the effat. So are you saying young girls should dress up and stick some make up on to feel better? Maybe I’m reading too much into it but that’s how it’s coming across. You do what works for you but I think people need to be encouraged to do what feels good to them and not everyone will feel better dressing up.

In the sunny weather, i find my mental health is better, so i do find myself making more of an effort more so when the weather is crap.

Does Katie say anything to you about the neck scarves? Glad you're feeling great in your new style 👏🏼 we can all look back on old pics and say "what was I thinking??" 😂

Lovely video Demi ❤️ I've followed you a long time and seen you grow into a confident, beautiful and very stylish lady. You look amazing x

Demi the fact that you didn't fit in with everyone what else is what makes you unique, over the years you've changed as a person. Prints are a statement and black is always a classic statement. Don't think too much into every little thing you wear and buy, as well as we always have days where we look better and feel and days where we don't. Either way you do you and continue to grow

Did I hear her say "This was 2001, literally 3 years ago". What..? Lmao

Demi you always look nice you get your good looks of your lovely mum ❤

To be honest ive always made an effort, and yes it makes me feel good, if i dont make an effort i find my mental health gets really bad. ❤

I have different clothes for different things . Walking scrugs going to town to back smart casual going out out dress-up. Going on holiday a whole different wardrobe lol xx

Demi we understand you’ve changed the way you dress we don’t need so many videos on it.. it’s giving ‘look how amazing I look now’, which you do, you look great, but this is too much now😩

It’s not rocket science to dress well don’t bang on about it anymore .

Front Willy's 😂😂 . I'm glad I have a work uniform so i dont have to think my outfit out everyday 😅x

Demi love u ur such a lovely person and always so fashionable. I've never been into fashion I'm 61 have always been a tomboy and just wear what I'm comfortable in. I used to buy feminine clothes that looked lovely but never wore them. My daughter is completely the opposite very girlie. I can say I have worn make up 3 times in my life 😅. I think I'll be the oldest tomboy ever lol 😂. But feel people look down on me. Love Joan ❤xxxx

Your lush ❤

Slogan t shirts looked fab on you, honestly ❤

Such a lovely girl but this look ages you I think, especially the neck scarfs😢

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I feel like you’ve got to much slack for this video. You are trying to help others by showing how you began to feel better in yourself. Keep being you Demi you look great

Hi Demi.. i think your making yourself look older by how your dressing. In particular the scarf its more for a mature lady. Your young you should dress young. Your beautiful and you deserve to shine

Ive been watching you for YEARS but this title is NOT it as someone who younger girls look up to…

Demi. COMPLIMENTIN isnt a worddddd please!!!!

I feel like you’ve got to much slack for this video. You are trying to help others by showing how you began to feel better in yourself. Keep being you Demi you look great