Yeah, they look at you like you are crazy for taking action and taking risks in life while they just go to work everyday doing a 9/5 and being happy in my couch watching tv having minimum income. I just can't be happy that way.
@@Giopio13 I'm in college and I'm the only one that doesn't like drinking. A friend told me to consider therapy because I don't want to live for pleasure. I don't think I should chase pleasure. If my work my ass off and suffer for a couple of years I'm going to be in a much better place. Also the one who told me to go to therapy lives on welfare checks, is overweight and a list of problems I'm not going to say here. Needless to say that I don't really care about what he has to say.
I tell you man if they knew what you know about business they won’t be thinking that, I tried convincing people about business but their ego blocks them from admitting that their way isn’t the best, they have held their beliefs for soo long that that’s like flipping their world over it’s almost like a survival mechanism, What I have heard from a lot of successful man is that you can’t convince them you have to lead by example it’s not guaranteed to work but what other opinion do you have, and also some of them might actually be a great employee as a number 2-3 in the company you don’t have to partner with them, Hope this helps bro
@@Wchamp100 I think that maybe people are afraid of failure and being critical about what they do. I don't think I would be this way if I wasn't always questioning everything I do. Or that I will always try to find the best answer. I have also learned that failing is the way to success. Learning from my mistakes. But hey, there is a reason why they call us the 1%
@@JohnTavastian I can’t agree more you have to remember a alot if not most choose the low risk low reward but low risk low reward for us is like why bother then but I really think environment + genetics play a role the key is for you to decide your environment not let it decide you, We kinda comfortable with the uncertainty of outcomes some people really can’t handle that they have low stress tolerance and that voice in the back of the head that whispers that you aren’t good enough you gonna fail they let it control them rather than controlling it
Thats True, I used to tell my dreams and goals to my friends but then I start noticing the eye rolls and the back gossip so i know I had to let it go, That was fucking painful, damn hard.
Totally true... Today I shared my idea for a business with low investment and the whole process and they just looked at me with *THE EYES* like I was something beyond their imagination.. I just feel bad.
Currently in this situation. For the longest time I have been yearning to improve the quality of my life at the same time with my closest friends. I have this feeling that I don't want my friends to feel that I'm outgrowing them, leaving them behind, and that I'm moving on to the next phase of my life. I want to be with them. Then something happened, it slapped me with reality that it is okay to outgrow people, and we have different life paths. We are still friends, however, our beliefs or values, and life goals aren't aligned any more. One thing is for sure, I will still clap for them.
I agree, the only way to be a better person is by surrounding yourself with people who are constantly improving themselves, that also motivates me to do the same.
Its heartbreaking af!! when you realise you are actually the friend who is not ready to step out of comfort zone...and I just realised the problem is with me But Ima change that!!:))
What words...I always have the wisdom and leave ppl bt they just don't leave your hand ...and drag you in their toxic mud ....it has been hard it's been 9 yrs and I'm still struggling.toxic is the word
You don't have to be a friend that carries people. Some of your rich friends are overweight, but because you can't carry them to the top of the stairs of your private jet, that doesn't mean when you come back from your trip or your on you're that you can talk to them and a friend. It's deeper than explained 🙄 if someone is running away from their past friends, that vibe leaves clues. Not that it's always means the person is bad
this guy has his head in the clouds until he comes crashing back down to earth, due to physical or mental illness. The first to come to his aid are his family and friends whom he has let down. The older you get, the more help you need.
no man, people are lazy and stubborn, majority of people can’t even get on self improvement bro, i’ve been in the same spot as this guy i’m assuming and it’s just sad
@@GoOnRaaj Why does it matter if other people is lazy and stubborn? That's their life. Stop trying to control them. Control your own life and let them live theirs. You can be their friend or their family and still let them live their own lives.
@@eechee2979 no one is controlling them but its the reality that if you aren't on the same mindset level its hard to stay with each other anymore. Yes thats their life, but friends who dont have the same social status and mindset will eventually have to outgrow each other.
This is the point where I’m at in life and lost all of my “friends”. My bestfriend is my 73 year old uncle who’s wisdom can literally predict ANYTHING. We are always talking about ways to make money and expand our businesses. He’s the only blood relative I have left living on my dads side of the family and I cherish him with every fiber of my being. He always tells me “Everybody that comes with you, can’t go with you”.
I found this video because this is what is happening. I was what I freely choose to call a "loser", and therefore hung out with losers (people losing out on opportunities and personal growth) and now that I have made a conscience choice to not be like that anymore, one by one, they are disappearing. But the few that are following, and already were ahead of me, are still there, and I see new people (not the same amount, though) entering my sphere. Thank you for this video!
Of course not you can’t carry everyone but it does not mean you don’t give them the opportunity to allow them to carry their selves with your helping hand, walking them through the process, but there are some people who rather walk away than try to help . those. Who stuck around when you when you were poor
I don’t think everyone has to be very very successful in terms of education and money… I value people with ethics and morals.. they can be poor and they can still be a friend
That is called intelligence and not being egoist. Gullible people and pawns are only good as long as they are faithful to us and pampering our ego, once they are sold to some other group, they can become dangerous burden to carry around. Leave them asap.
No it's not that....he still has friendship for them in heart but it's just that he can't give them that much time now and slowly the distance becomes too much to cover...and Ps I am from the other side though my friends have moved forward it's true it's not their fault that I couldn't make it and be with them physically also cerebrally to have and understand those conversations.... they still have friendship and respect for me
@@ritikaagarwal5136 agreed. That is also another huge point. Fact is immediate problem on hand becomes so big that it becomes super difficult to handle it and plus over that convincing that to a friend who is physically not present with the person becomes overwhleming. It occurs from both sides. Best is to reduce communication slowly and revive it later when situation becomes better.
The best friendships due tend to be of similar socioeconomic status and do depend on bidirectional value. You do a friend a favor and then they do one back etc. That said, what i heard here was something entirely different. Translation: I no longer could exploit my friends for my advancement so i found others i can exploit. If you're cutting off people on the sole basis of financial success that is wild. Ive had friends that make 20k to 500k a year. Im somewhere in the middle. The 20k person does not "slow me down" and i dont slow down the 500k person. When youre gonna cover a crime scene you aint gonna be worrying about whether they make 10k or 1m, but how long that individual been by your side without messing you up.
Why do you feel you have to carry anyone? If you feel you must constantly compete with everyone around you, that's fine, but that is why you're losing friends and family. It is not because they are underachieving, it is because you are pushing your competitiveness onto them and they have their own plans for their own lives. If you think it is important that everyone you know lives up to your expectations then your loneliness is not their fault, it's yours. I hope you either find a satisfying number people who are always challenging you or you learn to chill out and just let everyone else live their own lives so that you can find inner peace and happiness.
Who told you to carry everyone? Remember .. it isnt just hard work and talent that brings success.. LUCK has a lot to do with it so be appreciative life gave you the favorable opportunity to succeed .. BE HUMBLE..
if y'all don't have the same mindset , it can keep you unsuccessful along with humble. It is perfectly okay if you want a normal life enjoying with your friends but if you have high ambitions and they dont then it might hold you back from achieving it
It’s not about carrying them. But about fighting WITH them. Too often society has become ppl using ppl and once they’ve gotten what they wanted they forget to help those whom helped them. Everyone’s journey is different but as long as they’re willing to fight.. you’re not carrying them your fighting with them.
I also left behind, but my friend doesn't help which I don't want instead they schold me for my failure even though I won't bother them 😞😭😞, what kind of friends they are😢😢😢😢😮😮😢😢😢
Don’t be a calculator, Everyone has some special and unique characteristics that you can’t measure; locality can’t be measured; friendship, valuable relationship can’t be measured; if you measure and calculate everything, for sure you will be that one person with no loyalty ; what you expect from other people should be in your nature, don’t force it, take a deep breath and then think decide.
I went through the same journey. Had friends who were very close. I got serious about life and they felt like i have done them wrong. They are not bad people and we as friends did have our problems. But eventually someone has to become mature and adress the problems. I lost my bestest of friends, because i felt i was doing better in life and i wanted to help them as well. Soon i realized that i fell back into that dark space. It sucks to lose friends
as someone who has lost many good people in her life because they had a different mindset from me, i needed to hear that, to know that i am not a bad person for distancing myself from those who didn't want to be at the top, our paths were different and it was hard letting them god, but after that i started feeling as if a weight has been lifted off my shoulders, as if i could finally moce ahead without surrounding myself by those who sometimes tried pulling me down because they didn't want to move forward
Good or bad person, this has nothing to do with any of that. It's your decision of how to live your life. You wanted to surround yourself with people who shared your mindset, that's fine. It has nothing to do with the people you abandoned. Your mindset was not the life they wanted to live, they had their own lives. You didn't want to be part of those lives because they didn't suit yours. Nobody was pulling you down but yourself. This idea that these other people are to blame for the choices you make in how to live your life is wrong. It is entirely possible to remain close to people who don't share your mindset and still self-improve. Self improvement has a very important word in it that a lot of people have a bad habit of forgetting the meaning of. That word is "self". You're improving yourself, not controlling others. You don't have to go out drinking every night to be someone's friend. You don't have to abandon someone to improve yourself. These two things are independent of each other.
LOL this guy stages interviews to create the impression he’s a guest on someone else’s show for credibility. You can tell he wrote the question she read by the way it’s worded. The top of what exactly?
That girl lives a great lifestyle and she's his assistant bro. He must be something that his employee has made it. While you chat shit in YT comments that they will not even read
