Young woman sexualized by her own mother!!! 

THIS.

Competitive moms are gross. Your daughter is NOT your competition!

I hate when people tell me that about my 2 teenage daughters. I birth those babies put some respect on my womb

Erykah Badu 😬

Hmmm never seen it as red flag if you look great as a mom It’s just a compliment not that serious it’s a blessing to look like your daughters sister means your aging well. Who don’t want that 😂

Yes, that whole, if it’s empowering you I support it part, was disgusting 🤦🏾‍♀️.

A money hungry one 😳sad

There’s plenty out there …

Know how to push her away though she gone mess around and lose her forever

Most of them never do 😢 but love their sons unconditionally

@@Khaliyah_Muhammad mine didn't!!

I mean it's 2023 we switching all kinds of words up.....smh this world we live in

Exactly!! I’m like dude what’s empowering about this??!!!!

This goes to show you what they push to the masses. I’ve never seen this show and I’ll never watch it. Her momma is disturbing and i would never think this is a good career path for my child. Just sick

Ofc a gay man going to call it empowerment

@@amandarecoveryjones8216 ofc

Exactly, and I stopped being a free spirit once I decided I wanted to be obedient and controlled by the Holy Spirit.

There are women in all races that do these things. You see the things Latino women and white women wear?

@Rose James Why join them when you can do better? 🤷🏾‍♀️

@@rosejames5172I’m tired of this excuse. “Well they do it too!” That’s such a juvenile mentality. If those people jumped off a bridge would you do it too? It’s the same concept. I used to think like that until I worked on myself and got a mind of my own. Most of what most people do is destructive. Look past the fact that it’s being done by whoever and look at the consequences.

Amen sis, I'm glad you're learning and eyes are opening

@@ohcrapitsher380 that part

Yup

You’d be surprised

@heartbreakhigh I know you think this is “extreme” but this is not abnormal. This is just a different form of extreme. Look at the world now and just imagine in the past, where there WAS and ARE women that allow men to rape there children to keep a lifestyle or drugs.. There are a lot of women who have destroyed generations of men and women. We gotta stop giving women a way out. STOP IT ! We need to get in reality, and a say, just bc your a woman doesn’t mean you get to get sympathy from us for not being viewed as a MONSTER, that you are.. accountability matters.. this woman is a MONSTER with heels on .. period

My mother did this and sadly her mother the same way

Well said. Black people i feel struggle with Peter on syndrome so terribly.

Very sound foolishness and the older adult doesn't even really care .

They never lose their beauty

@@nekea93 💯

@@nekea93exactly, it’s just that they lose the interest to present themselves like that again or it’s just stress and depression.

Ok, this lady is a dodo brain to the max

💯agree. She is playing victim knowing that she guilted her own child into being on that team. Terrible .

I think it's reasonable to expect a mother to be hurt that her child doesn't want to participate in her dream. I think it's reasonable for the mother to be upset her daughter is distancing herself from her. It can't feel good to know that her child doesn't think she was a good mother. That's painful and humiliating to hear. It doesn't make her a victim. Just human. I do find it frustrating she keeps cutting off her daughter as she explains why she's distanced herself. Just my two cents.

The lady is living in a fantasy if she didn’t already know why her daughter who she wanted to bare her butt while playing basketball would distance herself

My mom does this tried to cry

Thank you

Hopefully you out there ! I fight the same by my father!

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Amen 🙏🏾

I thought that same thing. It's a old trick on a new face...

She went to the same trope that most black parents use “didn’t I feed and clothe you? Did you ever go without?” They treat criticism like you threw acid on them. Like just shut up and listen. My family are the same way. They will argue you down about your feelings in favor of theirs. It’s sickening literally.

​@@deasyastarrclassic gaslighting to shame you into silence.

@@doreenwilliams9622 and that I will never be especially since I’m grown in my own place, taking care of myself. Dealing with my parents last year alone stressed me out so bad my anxiety is WAY worse than it’s ever been! I’m back in therapy for it now. My parents separated last year and even tho I live 4 hours away I was caught in the middle catching strays allllll last year. So if I’m being mistreated especially these days I’m out.

@@deasyastarrThe Most High can deliver you from this anxiety and give you peace.

@@positiverebirth thank you I definitely believe in that and he has already made it better these days 🤍

It wasn't an apology. She said "I'm sorry if ". There was no "if" - her daughter was quite clear about how she felt.

Lol

Same and I ended up in a very abusive relationship with a 43 year old man at 19

Yesss he be getting on my nerves fr! We need Iyanla back cs she was really helping people.

Alot of factors messed our community up real bad. We gone get there though

Exactly

Work out, eat better, writing to purge your emotions, prayer, and walks in pretty places worked really well for me.

Please seek professional support and a licensed therapist as soon as possible.

Everyone different but what works for me is have a pet it gets me up and moving while keeping me here so she don't starve, having like minded people around me, distance myself from additional unnecessary stress, and I find peace when I do something that I have to be precise with. A great therapist that does not talk over you, don't treat you like a walking diagnosis, and don't try to force you to do anything you not ready for. I hope you find a way that works for you 🙌🏿

Fasting and meditation.

@@Wonderwoman79G no because the moment you speak of suicide they wanna pump you full of medication or lock you up in a mental hospital but thank you

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Nah some things can mess a kid up....she like this now how was she before....

Honey this isn’t something I would want my daughter to be proud of. Running up and down a court half naked. No ma’am she could have started them a restaurant a small accessory store and expanded it to clothes and shoes.

This mother is no better than a stranger hustling a young person. It's about personal gain for her .

You are right but also remember the power of influence. I have a sibling who will go along with anything from one of our parents. That spirit can be strong.

@@DrKrysRacquel yea I agree that influence has a part in a person’s way of thinking especially if the one who’s being manipulated looks to the person or people who’s doing the manipulating as their guidance and can’t think for themselves. As sad as it is however the person still has a conscience that GOD has given us to know right from wrong, & the LORD is holding everyone individually accountable despite of how they were raised. We either use the time we have on earth to surrender completely to Christ or we waste time in our sin.

Why TF do you care about the validation of dusties, pickmesha ?

They also talk crap about women getting college degrees, they are simply anti black women PERIOD.

Repent. Sick and crazy