Your appearance does not determine your worth [F4M] [Roleplay ASMR] [Body positivity] [Appreciation] 

I'm sorry to hear that this genre of videos reminds you of unpleasant things but I'm extra sad to hear you say bad stuff about yourself. Please, don't do it to yourself as you don't deserve to beat yourself up with negativity. Maybe you keep watching these videos because you hear in them something you want to hear from someone close to you and that gives you some comfort for a moment? I don't know, it's kind of hard to answer as you should feel what's in them that makes you still watch them. I still hope you can find your peace with yourself and be able to enjoy this content as there is a lot good to find in it to listen to 🙂 Remember, ASMR is not here to remind you of your flaws. It's here to give you a moment of comfort where you can relax and sometimes hear something you want or need to hear. Please, don't be too harsh on yourself. It's not much but I wish you an amazing day/night ☺️

@@RitneyASMR been trying to build-up courage to ask this girl out but everytime I catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror, just fucks everything up. excuse about the language. edit: I hope you become bigger in this platform, you care about your audience, thank you for hearing a whisper in a crowded room.

Don't apologize. I really relate to what you have said. For the longest time, when I've looked at myself in mirror, I only saw negatives. Nothing pretty or interesting. But one day I was just so tired and done with this way of looking at myself. I accepted I don't need anyone to love me first to finally see some worth in me. I just need to start loving myself - that was what I needed the most. And I feel you also need to feel like it. I would recommend to look at yourself in the mirror and every single time you do it, say or think to yourself what is positive. It doesn't have to be something in appearance. It can be about your character, your decision ... Heck, you can even give yourself a praise for making successfully a bowl of cereal! Everything counts! It's not easy at first and for some time will definitely pass ... But give yourself time. You don't need to be a model or the most intelligent person on this planet to be worth. Each small success is still a success. So be proud of everything! I know you can do it 😊And when you will feel ready, talk to this girl. I will keep my fingers crossed for you! 😁 I assure you: if you will love yourself, love will even come to you by itself 😊 It was not a whisper. Your voice is definitely heard loud and clear here. But even if it's a whisper, I want you to feel like you belong, can be heard and you can be much more here than just whisper. So if you ever want to vent/talk, I am always here to listen 😊

@@RitneyASMR I finally asked her out and she didn't bother to answer, I knew i was gonna be rejected but that stuff still hurts to the core, for months I've been trying to change - go on a diet, go for walks, trying not to be behind my friends in life. I'm glad you're willing to listen to this but I'm not comfortable in talk in the RU-vid comments.

At least you have tried. That may mean she wasn't the right one for you. It doesn't feel good and it hurts, I know, but at least you have tried and that's really good. You have found the courage to ask someone out so I will clap for your courage here 😊 That's a good start! Unfortunately, most of the times it takes time before you will see or feel effects of your hard work so be patient. And, if I can recommend, try to do some things you always wanted to do. Maybe new hobby? Somethig you were always interested or fascinated with? Focus on yourself as much as possible now and one day, you will look into the mirror and be friends with who you see there 🙂 I understand, it's very personal so I get it. Thank you for being brave enough to say all of this so far 😊 If you want to, you can find me on Discord under my name so we can talk there. However, tomorror I am going fo rmy birthday trip for couple of days so I might not reply immidiately in these days but if you want to talk there, just look there for me 🙂

Thank you so much! 😊

Oh, that is so sweet, thank you so much! 😭 I am so super glad you enjoy my content to the point it makes you smile! I couldn't ask for anythig more 😊 Thank you! I also wish you an amazing day/night! 😁

Thank you! I'm glad to see you liked it ☺️

Thank you so much! 😊 I'm really glad you enjoyed it 😊 I'm glad that you never had to feel the way as Listener. I really wish nobody had to feel this way anytime in their lifetime. And thank you for such sweet compliment! 😁 Honestly, I am very self conscious of my accent but I'm glad you like it that much 😊

​@@RitneyASMR​ I'm totally flashed... You seem to be SUCH a kind and lovely person, that's unbelievable! 😅😅😅 Your answer to mutufasa was simply stunning... How much you care about others is so wholesome.... 🥰 And maybe you've read my comment on your "Like I'm let him leave..."-video already?! Your description on this video really impressed me deeply. 🥰 Also I was not entirely correct with my first comment: I haven't had problems with my bodyshape in the past, but my school-life was not very easy. Therefore listening to you here feels kind of... Nice! Very comforting.☺️ But till now everything developed much better. I changed a lot and now I'm leading the logistics of the surgical-complex in a big hospital! 😁👍 Take that suckers! 😈 (Nah, just joking 😉) Damn.... I don't know, why I'm writing all of this so easily... it just feels good. ☺️ If it annoys someone: just ignore it ... 😋

Didn't know, I could be such a chatterbox! 🤣 ...😂 ...🤣

Of course! I want to treat you all like you treat me: with respect and kindness 🙂 I am just returning a favor here 😁 Oh, school 😒 ... I am so glad I have finished it as my school-life was too far from perfect from many reasons ... I really am sorry to hear you had a similar experience as me 😞 Oh wow! Your job sounds ... That is so freaking impressive! 🤯Bravo! Good job! 👏 And you're right. Take that, ll suckers who ever even thought you will not achieve such highs! Good for you! 😁 Not annoying at all. I really enjoy reading everything you and everybody else write. It's personal and I find it so touching you feel at ease to open up to me. So ... thank you 😊And talk as much as you want 😉

That's really good! I'm glad you feel so comfortable here to talk so much 😁

Thank you so much 😊

Still kind of shocked we are almost there 😵‍💫 But, as selfish as it will sound, I really hope we will get there together as it is not only me. It's thanks to you all this channel is so close to such crazy number ... So thank YOU! 😊

Thank you so much! 😊

Thank you! 😊 I'm doing good, thank you. Hope you are also doing good! 😁

Ding ding ding! You got it right! 😁

@@RitneyASMR Oh yeah, I'm so glad! 😅 Yep... Then my opinion is final: 9 out of 10! (I thought about giving 11/10, but that sounds cheesy, doesn't it? 😅)

Oh, thank you so much! 😊 I definitely have, thank you. I also hope you have an amazing day/night! 😁

​@@RitneyASMRohhh and I hope you reach 1k subscribers soon it's getting closer 👀👀

Ah, still so crazy for me to think we may probably get there soon 😵‍💫 But thank you so much! 😊