Your Husband Might Be Having An Affair... 

Yeah, meaning she moved out there by herself but is blaming her husband for everything

Charles Graves ... somehow you’re still blaming the husband for this?

The husband probably said "yeah, its a good opportunity to move to Texas. I will help move you and get you the eff out of here. I mean settled there and come later on" . Then when she get the there "you know what its no opportunity in Texas. I'm staying here."

It's a phrase that tries to avoid the truth but ends up being the most truthful.

yes. It means she has no character and is unable to make her own decisions.

Its humiliating and heartbreaking to know one has been duped. In a matter of 6 months. This is someone whom she trusted andwas planning on making a future with.

Yes, she proved her lack of commitment after only 3 months of marriage. He needs to gat it annulled.

Can't Afford To Advertise Mister James ?

She needs to do an unannounced visit on him lol

She needs to get Saved, then the Holy Spirit will give discernment. Hebrews 4:12

Exactly

Yes. His side chick is keeping him in Florida.

Exactly, I gave up my job to make sure I moved with my husband. No way were either of us moving without the other. He even said if I wanted to keep my job he would try find a job where we were. That's a real marriage.

Leave. Take as much as you can get and move wherever you want.

Right!

I like a good conspiracy theory, so here goes. What if he has a bf back in Florida & only married a woman for show, so now he heads back telling his family that she left him? Omg, this could be a tv show

@@HamiltonRb And the business is actually a shelter company for laundering US money for the Mexican cartel. (I just stole the plot from the Ozark)

Or a kid

@@fmaz1952 Love it. I can see the grassy knoll from here

@@HamiltonRb This ain't the Jerry Springer show buddy..😂

and only 6 months in... get out!

Put your self firs!?!? That is a way for a failed marriage to start... The two became one.

RettigJ you need to care for yourself once someone STOP giving a rats a$$ about your well being

RettigJ yeah well he’s obviously cheating otherwise he’d move in with his wife

blank blank no one can leave that “unscathed”

KT Sterlin “Money” or “Greed” may be her stage name. You’re right though, the other woman is likely Tiffani or Amber.

Reba Nerk you add a Thiessen on there and you really got something

Andrew Pycke lol, that’s right.

Hopefully it’s not...for her sake.

It could very well be about a side piece AND money.

Denial is a powerful thing.

Exactly why he married her. He knew he could get away with it by being with a clueless one

Didn't she move away? lol

@@James-vj5hz he agreed to move away with her and then changed his mind. So he abandoned her not the other way around

Right!? I hope she’s able to really hear Dave’s words once she sat down after their conversation.

What if he's business is successful and he becomes a millionaire.

RUN!!!

@@coinstacks2455 really?! Are you guys friends? Did he put you up to typing that? The risk is too great. How could he want to be away from her? How could that help him build his business? If it does, either he's in the wrong business, or she married the wrong man.

Oooh , figure it out , let's figure it out , fbi investigate

@Heinrich Himmler ppl change after long yrs

Your a simp

I’d say it’s a guy, who is very jealous, that his wife is actually going to be successful at something that will undermine his perceived dominance.

@@tumalditamadresita love someone is not simping. I hope you can understand that one day

@@tumalditamadresita hes a simp because he loves his wife? 🤣🤣 no sir you are the simp because youre too jaded to love someone other than yourself 🤣🤣🤣

Right? Bless her naive little heart

How is she so naive that she thinks the "other her" is money. She is in such denial.

She is more likely in deep denial about her situation.

@@lmarie8611 Pray for Salvation for her, then wisdom. John 14:6

"Her" name is Mario and he's good with a jack hammer.

What money? Hes broke, 200k+ in debt and broke. Lol

Mz. Happy feet, that's exactly why she is so stuck on money. Denial is her defense mechanism.

@@lfields9773 In her mind, she's connecting their separation woes to money problems because that's easier to deal with than a broken heart and betrayal from your spouse.

I agree!

Many women are taught culturally to stay with a man at all costs.

She never really did. Even when he said I don't know what her name is. She lied to herself and thought he was referring to money. She knows the truth, but some people especially women tend to go into deep states of denial when in extreme pain where they lie to themselves and even believe the lie until they finally wake up.

@@Ryan_DeWitt Yep, you hit that nail right on the head.

I agree! Poor girl shes so young 💔💔💔

she is new bride, she cant wrap her head around it yet

What exactly did you expect her to say to that? Unless she's positive that he isn't and is going to deny it there's not really anything to say.

She's in denial. She doesnt want to believe Dave

I felt the same way!

She needs to just get a divorce. Or get the marriage annulled.

Exactly...And I disagree with Dave, about not choosing career over marriage. Especially in the case. Definitely don't choose THIS marriage over career.

Let’s put ourselves in his shoes for a second. He’s young, lacks wisdom that age brings. He’s on a path to grow his business (at least that what he thinks who knows) and she left him to follow a career dream. He tried to be supportive but the truth is he feels betrayed by her, she chose her career over him, over staying and supporting him. And he’s too young and too dumb to articulate his feelings to her. That he never wanted her to leave, but he didn’t want to seem like a pos if he asked her to stay. He doesn’t necessarily have to be cheating, but by now he probably is because that type of betrayal is hard to over come (he considered it a betrayal). It’s a huge problem inexperienced people make all the time.

Getting married and having children ruined my life Lol... The Truth

AcidicJO he could have went with her though he could grow his business in Texas

AcidicJO youre way off dude, he’s cheating on her and he set her up to stay in TX

She knows, she’s probably in denial. She’s still young and was hoping things would work out

Offgrid Jack I agree and she needs to make sure her name is not on one of those trucks

@@rachelcrawford1977 right. I'm feeling like 50% of this is side chick. The other 50% is he is using her name to garner more debt.

Noooooo pilots cheat so much lol. They have like 3 families 😂😭

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I’m from Dallas and almost died laughing 😆 one of the best markets in the nation

Sounds like something Zig would have said....

@@DaveMcTKD true💪

*ever

@@ladhkay thanks I'm the king of typos... I want nothing more than to be dethroned

😂😂😂😂

Marlyn Santos I agree wholeheartedly. She’s so in denial of it all.

I think her being focused on her career is one of the reasons she didn't realize what's going on with her husband

Yessssssss

I laughed at that excuse too! So lame!

Daniel Reeder the laugh took me out 🤣🤣🤣

Lol

5:58 it begins

1:36

He's a FREEMASON lol

I thought it was just me. 😂

Right? Reverse those numbers.

I thought the same thing..

Probably a smoker.

She's 24 and she was crying that's why she sounds that way. That's my sister btw, she's very much against smoking and has asthma. Jerks get off the page

Hope she listens again.

Yeah but she makes 51 k

True. But aviation is SOO much long hours and stress. How do you have kids with that kinda of job?

Not every woman or couple wants to have kids. Best choice I ever made was to not have kids. I like them, just never wanted any of my own.

@@reptilesgamers00 How do you have kids with that father !?

@@luannsunsdahl2946 Most women do want children

@@SarahR2D2 And that's their choice, as it is mine to not.

Investing Hustler lol sounds like my husband

Stupid

She's in or really embarrassed about the whole situation.

Severe denial.

I agree they are related. People need help and advice.

Usually every money problem is a people problem not a math problem

Spring Rose. I love when he dresses down the 'Shack Ups'

@@Shadowfynx Always Spiritual First. Too many Americans are Spiritually Bankrupt. Ecclesiastes 12:13 Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. 14 For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.

That's why they've dr john to the team as a licensed therapist

I know. She absolutely doesn't sound 24. One possibility, I had a teacher in elementary school who had laryngitis in college when she she was supposed to sing with her chorus group at a big event. She sang in spite of the laryngitis and ruined her voice permanently. She sounded like Suzanne Pleshette after a lifetime of smoking.

She probably smokes

No she doesn’t.

It’s the Virginia slims. Lol😂

Shes a darker girl, if you look up Jamillah Plaugher, youll see shes really 24

I think you mean... He must be embarrassed once he hears that chewing from Dave (and his wife), haha.

She's in a whole ton of denial.

I’ve never been married, but I’m pretty sure divorce isn’t simple.

They haven't been married long enough to get a divorce. Annulment is her only recourse!

Annulment. They've been together less than a year. This would be a quick annulment filed under Abandonment or Deception. Hope she got out.

She left him, she is the problem.

@@barbmelle3136 she has an amazing opportunity with free commercial pilot training! And she is barely 24! Her man is a liar and a loser and she's too young and inexperienced to realise it.

Barb Melle if you bothered watching the video she said HE moved her out there

Yeah it was apparent from the get go.

Maybe it’s just denial

Naiive

Same here!

I'd bet he had that other woman before moving this woman to TX. The other woman could very well be the reason he took the opportunity to move his wife to TX in the first place.

Jessaka Powers she was the one that decided to leave she already made the choice

@@tumalditamadresita she should choose her career. why throw away an amazing opportunity? he can go or stay its up to him.

Dave was being diplomatic. I would have said: “You don’t HAVE a marriage. Your husband already ended it.”

She needs a career

my guess is the affair partner gave him an ultimatum

LOl I know she totally didnt get the hint

nata lata 😂😂😂 I nearly died.

Bingo. She knows what's up but it is too painful for her to handle.

Agree!

Rosalynn Weaver she’s the wife

@@lovelylady0765 Exactly. That was how she put it. In other words, he got rid of her and she won't take the hint.

elgooges Amen!! 🤣🤣🤣

Word!!!

Share the joke , I ain't that smart bruh

The economy in Texas is probably the best in the country

@@gabbyandadventures8270 aight cool

Thank you Daniel

It’s sad, but better now than ten years and kids

She’s still with him but now she’s moved Florida and he is in Dallas 😂

She sounds dumb, shes with him still

@@mesidye whyyy are you like this?🤣🤣

@@mesidye l o l oh no no no no no

Hi, i 'm here from the future in 2021 and sad to say they're still together.

tlovely1983 It is easy to judge from our perspectives and only having a few snippets of information. Psychologically, people have defense mechanisms in place to prevent them from being in pain and also to fight to maintain the heart’s deepest desires. What looks to us as obtuse is likely just a ramped up system trying to save itself from misery. Like an immune system in overdrive that might cause itself more damage/pain, such as the myriad of autoimmune disorders/diseases out there, such as lupus, type 1 diabetes, alopecia, rheumatoid arthritis, hashimoto’s, etc. We see the car wreck from our vantage point, while she (then) had yet to fully face reality and the glaring possibility of infidelity. When you don’t want to (whether consciously or subconsciously) face it, you hang on to any other explanation/excuse you can.

Agreed, poor thing is trying to justify her life falling apart without putting any blame on her husband. This was heartbreaking to listen to. I hope she gets the courage to do what she needs to do.

Why feel bad for her? She’s obviously closing her eyes to the truth in front of her. Even with Dave Ramsey trying to spell things out, this woman just does not get the bigger picture.

Pix-elated it’s called compassion for those who are going thru a hard time wether they get the picture or not

Great, great, great response.

Giggity

Way too much info dude. Family podcast.

Nikkole I don’t know anyone who has been in a long term relationship without infidelity. It’s sad

@@AwesomeSauceToys21 omg :'(

@@AwesomeSauceToys21 r they ur relatives? friends? or?

@@AwesomeSauceToys21 pls tell me cos i wanna convince myself not to get married

MJ YT. Every married or long term relationship I’ve known of has been through cheating lol yes

LOL! Getting ready for that Lion King live action movie, eh?

NeccoWecco she is currently holding a rifle to his head. Govt will give her half his stuff as a reward for shooting him.

married for 6 months and lived apart for 3 of those months..

LoL

Because it is the worst

If she doesn't stay. If she stays this marriage will likely take a HUGE emotional toll, which is super stressful.

Because she’s trying to cling on to what she wants to believe is true.