I feel like I definitely rub Scorpios the wrong way , I just haven't met any that seem to enjoy my presence, especially the males . If I have one in the work place so one I can't avoid or school type environment, gym , dojo etc , what's the best way to bridge the gap ? Take the strong silent all business approach or try to genuinely be honest and ask them is there something about me that bothers you ?
I say be honest and pull em aside - most Scorpios actually appreciate and value people that are willing to have tough conversations in a mannerly way. And besides, it’s your truth so you should be able to express it!