I just happened across this, and must say, it's an excellent first ASMR step! The simple elegance of a raw, and frankly emotional experience is not lost. I really feel for this character and her struggles. Must protect at all costs!! Also the model here is super friggin' cute and I adore how she moves lol
Found this again and I can't even describe how it touches me. The character in this audio is just so relatable. Not wanting others to worry about me. Hiding my feelings to avoid them noticing. Fearing they compliment me just to cheer me up. Thinking that my own brain wants me to do stuff that I don't want, etc. And at the end, since I don't give feedback to others, there might be stuff like those cuddles that both party ends up wanting, but are both too afraid to mention it. Everything that stands out online seems to hide their hard part, and it's really tiring. Like one mostly doesn't spend 5 days on an art piece without getting tired or bored at some point. One doesn't make masterpieces one after the other without going through fails. One sometimes have periods of depression or disinterest toward what they love. Yet, this is mostly not shown, so it looks like everyone everywhere is perfect, and that I should be ashamed of my mistakes and will never be able to be as good as them. That's probably one of the reasons I love this kind of ASMR so much. Comfort or reverse comfort, where the character is just someone normal who shows their weaknesses, it just feels so safe, gives me relief for being a regular human being. When I dived into f4m ASMR, I was really lonely, but at the same time, so feared that people would make up prejugees about me if I opened up to them. Since roleplays aren't real, I could at least enjoy a comforting character without fearing them having secret thoughts about me. This always helped me to cool down when I'm sad, and I wanna say thank you for sharing such content. I'm 22 now and still mostly living in my room, but being alone allowed me to think about it so much. The best of all, not having anyone around provides a very safe space to think, without feeling forced to be shy, ashamed or whatever. The first thing I thought was that I was a worthless crap, after regularly getting major fails. It was back then, around college. I mean it's quite biased, but this at least was a good kick to decrease my pride. Watching a tutorial to have a happy life isn't as simple. "Yea, I should eat healthy, do sports, meet people, express myself", excepted I'll just ignore it, because... Idk what it is, procrastination, denial, fear of changing,... Cutting down my pride was a good first step to just accept I'm not an elite robot, and that there's nothing wrong changing my habits if I think they're not optimal. Not a worthless crap, just a human. This still took quite some time to adjust. Then (can't tell about the order), I thought about emotions. I genuinely wanted to work on these since I had a lot of anger and sadness issues and it was clearly harming everyone. What I came up with is that emotions are probably meant to encourage instinctive behaviors for a person that's not mature yet. Say, fear when I see an enemy, sadness when something happens that I better not repeat, but also happiness to encourage me repeating some behaviors, or love when something matches my tastes (no scientific sources). But at this point, my brain was grown enough so these emotions didn't seem helpful anymore. Like if I break a plate, I know it's not good and why, but then crying about it wouldn't help in any way. Then I processed to try cleaning those emotions up. Not suppressing them, that'd just hide the beast, but rather paying attention whether I'm acting emotionally, and controlling my behavior. Sounds harder than it is. In fact, as soon as I want to think/do something without acknowledging the consequences or whether I could be wrong, then that probably requires further thinking. This is a constant work, tho. Even to this day, I can still easily get into the rant that the art industry is complete garbage. I also thought about how at the end, I'm only a perception of the world that's growing over time. This is basically just accepting that what I think isn't necessarly the truth, and that my opinions may change as time goes. It's so much safer to live in certainty, even if it's depressing. Feels easier to stay convinced that I'm a worthless crap rather than acknowledging that I can't really judge and start working on it, or to say someone's an idiot rather than just acknowledging they have a different judgement. Of course, not knowing anything means it can be pretty hard to pick a side sometimes. In my case, I simply weight the probabilities. I prefer sleeping in my house and risking a meteorite falling on it (which is unlikely) rather than sleeping outside. There's no need to constantly check the best option, I just pick one and consider there could always be a point where I'd be better to move to another. It's a basic concept, but a core for any kind of thinking. And more at the end, there's... the "desire to want" Didn't see anyone talk about this, but, in short, it's like when you wanna do the touch-your-feet-with-your-fingertips thing, but it's too hard, so you squat down just enough to help it, then you're like "yeah I did it!" It's basically *doing stuff that look like I should go for, excepted I'm not actually involved into them.* Like I see the above is good for flexibility, so I only want the confirmation that I did it rather than actually doing the job well. Pretty much like a school assignment lol. I see that in so many things. 2 or 3 years ago, with my musical experience, I thought it'd be good to make music and try more and more things, excepted I just burnt myself out by scrapping project after project because "too mainstream", "not crazy enough", like I "wanted to want" to make more music. There's obviously the search for happiness in nostalgia, typical in video games (-cough- Pokémon -cough-). One remembers something brought them joy back then, so they bring them back without considering if it actually still makes them happy. As a final example, it's easy to know how to improve one's life, but if they only "want to want" to do it, they don't actually "want" to, so they are likely to give up early. Overall, it's a feature that I think is easilly forgotten, and it really helps to regularly ask myself whether I still want something or only "want to want" it. Tho, there're also cases like my burn-out in music. I gave it up for some time, but I still love it at its core, so I'm always getting back at it when pleases me. ... Well uh I talked much there... I do it often, but it just helps me thinking, plus I can watch my comment history and see how my mind evolve as years pass. And maybe it'll help the few people who stumble upon it. If you read everything, get yourself a cookie.
the fact you animated a picrew image is so amazing, you've already put so much effort into this. also your voice is cute asf, keep it up. thanks for the video.
For a first audio this was amazing. What a deep and touching talk. I definitely struggled with self esteem before and still do a lot of the time so I could really relate to this sweet, shy character, so it was a fun reverse comfort audio.
""i don't want it to end either, but the fact it has an end makes it more important; it means you have to cherish the time you do get, and that you have something to look forward to tomorrow" great script and acting, adorable voice, just a great audio in general. can't wait to hear more ^ ^)
I’ve listened to so much ASMR for so many years that I can confidently say that if you didn’t say that this is your first time I’d absolutely believe you were a pro. You left such a beautiful impression on me and can’t wait to hear more from you. You have such great talent for this truly! Me and so much more will absolutely support you in any way we can!
Not a lot of people mention this, but your thumbnail design is on point! Same goes for the way you format your description and title. Thank you Plushie for making something so comforting but also the care you put into other aspects
This was a hidden gem. I fell in love with your voice instantly. I like that this actually touched on some serious topic that people struggle with. Can't wait to listen to the others
This is so good it's painful to listen. Knowing, you will never heard something like this IRL. Knowing, you don't deserve this. But thank you anyway. At least, i can dive into this beautiful illusion for a little.
Bruh I need one of these for when like a good friend or something is touch-deprived, like I don’t wanna date anybody I just wanna cuddle with someone platonically and be there for them, y’know?
I have been listening to all kinds of ASMR for years and I must admit that this is my favorite without a doubt Your voice, the script, everything! I found it very nice, keep it up and you will have a very good future in this content
Awww I love how much of a meanie she is, it's not the awful kind of mean that ends up in screaming, but the kind of mean where you wanna kiss their forehead and give them a squeeze
Hello :) just a little tip with audio recordings, it seems you have a noise gate or you edited out the parts were you're not talking to try to get rid of the background noise. The key is too either have absolutely none or just keep it in :), if the background noise keeps abruptly cutting in and out it can be kind of distracting. On another note to get rid of background noise you might want to sound proof your recording room by putting some sort of fabric over your walls and maybe have a rug on the floor if its a hardwood floor. Another great fix is to turn off your AC unit and fans just while you record. Other than that loved the video:)
I just happened to see this on my recommended and I dont regret clicking. For a first video, this is neat. I love it actually. I know one day you'll grow and I hope you do. Keep up the good work.
This is just, wonderful, top-notch. I used to listen to comfort ASMRs to sleep, but have been switching to reverse-comfort for quite a while now, if only everybody can have a partner that they can love and protect 🙂. Keep up the great work, deffo gonna visit future uploads.
This reminds me of something great I once had not too long ago. Its gone now but I cherish what I had. Maybe one day I'll get to fix my mistakes, but I have to move on
Animated Thumbnail Is Still Absolutely Adorable So Good I Almost Fell Asleep Early Late Comment Cause Amazing Dialogue Great To Have a Cute Channel With The Best Extra Long Coomfi Audios
Thank you so much! I really appreciate the support so early on. I’m definitely going to keep making more videos and improving as well so hopefully I will go far
This genuinely touched me, i haven't cried in a really long time, and i cried to this. I feel like I've felt this video in my soul. This is true masterpiece.
I’ve been closing myself off lately I don’t know what kind of partner or even man I am anymore. I like being there for my partner but I also need soooooo sosososo much space to myself and I don’t wanna be depended on like that, even though I want to help. Idk if my last relationship just wore me down but- I’ve definitely been tired since. So tired.
Unfortunately I really relate to the character in the way that I am the character. Fearful that everyone could leave at the first moment I slip up. I can’t trust anyone anymore, people have hurt me too much to know my this side of me. I’d rather them think I’m fine then know that I feel like nothing. Wish I had someone I could truly trust, like the listener. Cause the last person I dared to trust had treated me like I was nothing. I learned that she had always hated me,
I’m sorry that you feel similar to me. I hope your experiences haven’t left you scarred. Nobody deserves to experience the pain I felt. Not even my enemies, even though they cause some of the pain.
Your VA job is amazing! You have such a sweet and calming voice. I really enjoyed this, but I can't help myself for noticing the way that the audio gets silent between phrases and words anda it's kinda distracting. But that technical isue aside, I'm very happy for founding your chanel 😊
Thank you for the company as I was creating a new online identity fr Good work with this one, I could spot just like a few places where to put some sound effects for immersion but you did space out most of your dialogue with what the listener woulda said quite alright, in the end the breathing was a lil loud and as a nice reminder that lots of people may not be looking at the screen so a static background is cool, your character jumpin up and down and gesturing for your dialogue is also good, just the color is bright (you could probably dim out the color as the video nears the end, not sure about a lot of other people but I usually die off a single video) and sleepy sounds aka maybe brushes or blankies stuff like that was a bit missing. I think that's all I can really say that could help right now?? If i think of other stuff I will try to provide more feedback plus I'm sure you already kinda thought about some of it yourself. Solid 7.8/10 I wanna say, is pretty nice, actively listened to all of it to be honest cuz I was working so I enjoyed the rambles and the back and forth. Keep at it.
Thank you so much! Part of my issue is the noise gate I have to block at the background noise also blocks some of the quieter noises I make. I will try to find a solution to this problem soon
Normally I’m not the biggest fan of roleplay videos. Because the assumptions that must be made to continue the videos tend to not coincide with my envisioned responses. While this wasn’t exact it was close. But more importantly I honestly felt some kind of connection. Like I was really with someone who really needed me, who really wanted me, who really loved me. This is starting to sound sappy. But this was an amazing video and while I’m not the first to say this but I mean it when I say if you didn’t say this was your first video I would be looking for a massive backlog of content of yours. Either way I’m excited to look to the future and see more beautiful content from you. Thank you.
its interesting that this video showed up in my recomended videos becuase this is almost exactly the same as an intereaction i had with my best friend. my best friend was in the postion of the listener though.
Creating playlists before there are multiple videos for the playlist is a good idea, in my opinion. Easier than going through all the videos that fit that playlist and adding them to it. Maybe it’s different for asmr content though. Just something I would tell my past self, so I’m telling you :)
Quick tip from an unqualified person.. you should really add some sort of music or white noise, the cutoffs from the mic as the only audio part makes the audio hacky. So either add white noise, or some music
HAHA I AM THE 71st SUB. YEAH. me and the 70 others will follow in your journey. Also I suggest asking/looking for scripts. That’s not me saying that I have script ideas, but I do… Yandere and Nekos are very viewed… HOLY FRICK where did 2k+ people come from? Holy.
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