She may be with someone, but that same person does not bring the same vibes as you. I had a girl I messed up with she ignored my 1 call (I only need one call to get the message), so I made it a vowel to not contact her at all and work on myself. EVEN IF SHE CAME BACK, I wouldn’t accept her. I basically lived a new life now and don’t plan on going back to my old self. So you kill 2 birds with one stone. Your working on yourself which is always a plus and by you not contacting her you give her a feeling of missing you and wanting you back. And IF you did the best you could with her, she will miss you eventually, you will come across her mind eventually. Hard work never goes unnoticed…even if she is getting her back blown out in the process lol
@@hfl6654lmao getting her back blown out in the process is wild 💔 sadly I know that’s the truth. But idk she’s ruthless especially the way she cut things off.. left with an associate of mine. I’d never take her back but I am curious if she even feels bad for what she did.. I don’t think so avoidants don’t give a damn. She’s already doing everything she never did with me with him. It is true that they are never ours it’s just our turn, and sadly my turn ended.
The ignorant “I must do something now” comments are hurt people who don’t fully understand no contact quite yet and they’ve probably recently got their hearts broken so they are anxiously panicking, but don’t realize that that’s the natural reaction is wanting to contact them and blow up their phones. You have a false sense of action that if you do something now it will save it but it won’t. It will only irritate and push them away more. You have to let the person miss you. They can’t do that if you’re still in contact, don’t do their social media don’t let them view yours don’t contact them go 100% true no contact. Attraction has fallen that’s why they left , you have to build it back and mystery helps do that. If you would like to bug them and annoy them and blow up their phone and come off as desperate, which is very unattractive, be my guest and see how that goes for you🤡🤡😅🤷🏾♂️💀
@@jct3439 it takes more than leveling up and working on yourself. If it can happen to Tom Brady,it can happen to almost any man........men have to learn female nature and learn it well.
She's watching some chick on RU-vid saying the exact same shit, thinking she's getting the upper hand on you. Both of you are sitting there right now thinking, "Me me me". Meanwhile, you're both losing. Text her, call her, or forget about her. Those are your options. You'll get nowhere with, "If I just stop talking to her, she'll realize how much she loves me!" Wrong. She doesn't care about you. She cares about her. You're right, silence feels bad. So why would she come crawling back someone who makes her feel like shit?
You just need to realize that no contact (if done right) works most of the time just because yours didn’t work(you probably didn’t do it right and stay committed to it) dies mean you should make blanket statements out of your pain. I’m sorry for your loss.
What ‘feels like shit’ is contacting someone who doesn’t find you attractive right now. Pushing yourself on her makes that worse. Disappearing is your only shot. Get some power back and at least preserve some dignity
As a woman, why are you telling men to do the exact thing you're warning us to get away from. Did I misunderstand something? You've (rightfully) warned us that men who disappear are either manipulating us or not interested. And you tell women to do less so that men don't feel chased, and that good men will do the pursuing. Shouldn't you be telling men to show intention and plan dates? Or do you do that elsewhere on this channel?
Real psychology is what, go no contact or you’ll run them off more……don’t let your anxiety make you ignorant. I get you’re hurt but bugging them is not gonna get them back because they don’t have a chance to miss you. You’re obviously hurt but you have to trust no contact but completely cut contact both ways. When they are ready, they will reach out if they don’t you will grow as a person. It’s really your best chance if you would like to keep bugging them and blowing up their phone, and seeming desperate thinking that’s attractive, which is very much a turn off, be my guest do what idiot, John pick up, says who’s obviously hurt just like you and see how that goes for you buddy🤡🤡🤡😅😅💀
@@JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qdyou’re so hurt and it shows just keep quiet bud you’re obviously very anxious, but bugging and blowing up their phone and coming off as desperate as not attractive, and only turns them off more show them that you can move on and go no contact and make them wonder about your mystery is the most attractive thing or be my guest and blow up their phone see how that goes for you💀🤡🤣
