First time i heard this song and im practically bawling my eyes. When i was 15 i went to a party and i met a guy there, id seen him around school. He seemed nice and so we talked throughout the party. He was 17 at the time and throughout the night he would randomly make me take shots. Of course i was experiencing drinking for the first time and i was a light weight. Two shots and i was already slurring. He then offered to walk me home and i let him. I shouldve been smarter...i shouldve realized his intentions...i lost my dignity and respect that day. I didnt remember much that night but the next day when i saw blood on my sheets and my legs sore i broke down. When i went to school two days later i saw him and i made a scene. I told him he raped me in front of the whole school. It got ugly to the point security escorted me out. We went to the counciler and principal i told them everything...they couldnt do anything...better yet they didnt want to do anything. My counciler basically told me under aged drinking is prohibited and i shouldnt be doing that. Then the guy said i was sober she led me on, practically begging for me. The principal just shook his head and chuckled. They asked me to wait outside so they can call my mom. So i did just that. I overheard all three of them and it disgusts me till this day what the head of our school said "Mrs. T (i wont put my last name) your daughter attacked one of our students today and claimed she was raped. I wont accept this behavior in my school. I am having her suspended for three weeks." My mom tried to fight it but she was stopped by the guy "Maam she was drinking and if i may add drunk actions are sober thoughts." My mom said nothing afterwards and i came to pick me up. We rode in the car in silence and i tired hard to hold in my tears. Theirs not a day i dont forget that day...how hopeless the sytem is...i lost respect from my mom...my friends no longer wanted to hang out with the girl who made "false" claims and i was bullied the rest of my semester. So when she cant talk or even stand straight just dont...please...she isnt clearly thinking therefore she doesnt give proper concent.
i'm truly sorry to hear you had to go through that. sadly our society still is a long way from understanding that a drunk person cannot give consent and that silence doesn't mean yes. sending you all my love and support. stay safe xxx
Thank you its comments like these and support from basically strangers that gives me hope and a brighter view of this world. I could've taken a dark road but instead i share my story and i help girls understand that we need to be safe. I go to school events on this particular subject in hope that this will open the eyes of the new generation. Thank you everyone for your beautiful words and if you have your own story that you need to share but are afraid to say it to the public you can come to me and ill listen. Boys and girls, whoever maybe going what i did just know you arent alone. And like this wonderful person said You arent damaged goods We arent the ones to blame so never blame yourself. God bless each and every one of you and please stay safe. Thank you
im so sry ur school should have brought the police in to see if it was true or not and should have opened a case or something. that's not ur fault he should've known what he was doing and what the consequences were. i hate that ppl think they can do whatever they want to other ppl. im so sry❤
This is why everyone falls in love with Dom cause a man that thinks like this about such a sensitive subject is fucking sexy like he knows how to keep a woman safe and the looks and cuteness juts comes with it and tbh he’s a role model for the men who struggle to reach his standards love u all BHC 🖤🖤🖤
Yeah thats true but why do you have to get so wasted that you can’t even tell the guy to fuck off? Especially at a place full of stranger men. Now im not saying that it’s not disgusting of a man to wait for the girl to get drunk so that he can take her home because it absolutely is but its also the girls fault. If she wants to get so drunk that she can’t even remember the previous night she should do it at home with friends or at her friends. If you can’t drink rationally then don’t drink and don’t victimize yourself that omg you got drunk it wasn’t your fault because it’s not true.
Jeff the Killer the world is so cruel these days really anything could happen and everybody lies to everybody now so we could be talking to a rape victim and wouldn't have any idea. I feel ashamed to even be the same species as some of these terrible people.
I love dom so much because of song like this, for one he actually understands problems girls face daily and two, he sings about topics that actually matter or that people can relate too, and I personally relate to so many of his songs and they really help me on an every day basis♥️
When I was around 13, I went to a football game with my friend, let's call her K. K and I were walking around, and how ours works is the fans of the separate teams stay on their respective sides of the bleachers. Well, we were as well allowed to walk to the opposing side, and as we were doing so, a group of clearly drunk boys came over and began talking to us. We continued walking, and one boy in particular grabbed my arm, and I had just enough time to tell K to run. She escaped them, but the boy had had a hold on me and pulled me to the opposing teams bleachers, and just as he was ABOUT to rape me, I managed to kick him in his man spot and got away. I'm so glad I managed to escape, and I dont wanna know what else could've happened had I not seen an escape opportunity
@@tealwashablemarker8886 I later found out that the same group of boys had been going around and groping girls chests and apparently a girl had seen him when he had me and saw me escape, because when I had made it safe to my mom she came up and said she saw what happened and told me that they had been taken out of the area.
I can't believe I found a song that has described exactly what happened to me. It sucks. You're lover of four years deems it doesn't matter that you don't remember, your friends hate you for what you 'supposedly' decided to do. Then you're alone, and everyone hates you. Like; I fucked up, I know. I know I did. And it kills me that I don't remember what happened that night, I feel disgusted with myself and so sad all the time because everyone I love has left me. I've been trying to make things better but I don't know if I can handle this anymore? I love my ex so much. I was going to propose to her in about three years after I had graduated uni and found a stable job. Every time I look at her I see my future, my wife, the person I have such a deep connection with and would do anything to grow old with. But I can't now. I don't see the point in anything anymore. I know it's stupid to type this out under a RU-vid video but listening to this brought forth so many emotions I've been trying to push down. Anyway; if you're still reading kudos to you, I'm gonna go pet my cats now.
If I ran a radio station or whatever I swear I'd only play YUNGBLUD songs. Not just because he's so good but because his songs all have really important messages within them that I feel need to be shared with the world. Dom talks about really important things going on in our society that most people are to uncomfortable to talk about but that need to be addressed. Thank you so much for doing what you do Dom. We love you.
People go around hating on Dom even tho his songs are about other peoples point of view. e.g, mars is about a trans girl but their parents don’t understand it, that’s why he says “she cant be herself when she’s somebody else”. people go around sending Dom death threats when his only intentions are to make the world a better place and he shows us how the real life really is and that realistically, it’s not a nice place. he does nothing wrong. at all of his concerts that i’ve ever been to, he always stops if someone has passed out and refuses to continue the concert until they are safe. he always mentions pride and how special it is that we should celebrate it. he is an important person and we need more people like this in our horrible world.
In September I went to the disco and drank too much. I was just engaged but my boyfriend wasn't there with me and I couldn't stop when I had to, so I went into an ethyl coma. In that evening two boys take advantage of me. This song means a lot to me and every time I listen to it I cry a lot.
"she slurs when she speaks but you hear what you want when she can't even talk" Holy shi--- that hit different it also kinda amazes me a boy can think about this in this perspective
heard this song and had a deep convo with my son about how to treat woman, its so nice to see a guy who thinks like this i thought they were going extinct
yano society is fucked when all the comments are like “it’s so good that a boy thinks this way” like what we congratulating people for not being rapists like tf. no hate on dom i love him and i’m glad he used his platform to share this message i’m just saying it’s not something that we should be so shocked by.
"here have my boots, ill walk you home". he walks her straight up to the front foor as she stumbles on the floor, we all know what happens next a bit of fun turns to regret.
I want to play this infront of my entire family because when i was around 6-9, my uncle would try to rape me and one day, he succeeded, but barely. I want to see him remember all of the things he did and just start crying and saying hes sorry. All i want is for him to say sorry, ill forgive him but still have trust issues. Whats kind of funny about this is that nobody knows this, and they all wonder why im always sceptical about what people intentions are. I hope no one has to go though what i did, and if you have, im so sorry that there are such terrible people in the world. People probably won't read this, but it doesnt matter anymore. Thats my story, so cya
Emo Artist Kid I’m sorry you had to go through that. Probably doesn’t have an effect but I hope your ok because no one should have to go through that pain 🙏🏽💕
This song is so unrated and it needs to be heard so damn hard. YUNGBLUD is such an amazing singer. His lyrics are beautiful and a wakeup-call to all those victim-blamers out there.
Certain parents don’t like Dom’s music because what he sings is FACTS! His songs are as real as they can be, this is one thing I love about his songs ❤️
I like how this song is more calm and different, it makes u wanna listen because it is not fast and chaotic. Almost like he wants us to REALLY listen to it...he is not sad and depressed...he is just bringing attention to a subject that does not get fixed...
I really love dom, his messages are so powerful and inspirational and i hate how people try and compare other peoples music to his when hes so different from others (in a good way)
The song is so beautiful, but I can't listen to it. Something similar happened to me. I was hanging out with this girl and her friend. We were drinking heavily at her place, I was there because she wanted to help me get over a painful breakup... It was past 4 am when we were supposed to go to sleep, all I could think about was how can I fall asleep to avoid throwing up. As I was getting in the bed thinking she was going to sleep next to me and he will sleep in the couch I felt him cuddle me first, than lift my dress and we all know what happens next. I was frozen, I was crying but he didn't stop and I was still trying not to throw up and I never confronted him, not the next day, never... If I hadn't been drunk, I would have fought him if I had to, but.... rape happens like that, when one thinks they are safe, at a party, with ,,friends of friends", it's not always in an alley... Hard for me to say how much I appreciate the fact that someone like Dominic is out there, saying it how it is, giving a voice. Thank you, Dominic. It feels so good for art and artist to understand. People like Dominic MATTER SO FUCKING MUCH.
Tryin to think of something Impressive to say...but can't, you have ilterally saved myife... love you dude!! 💕you literally make all the bad shit go away x