Zach's Intimate Confession to Kaity - The Bachelor 

she looked so proud of him when he was talking about not sleeping with anyone😭😭

If he hadn't opened his mouth and told the world that he didn't want to be physically intimate, we wouldn't be here. But when you tell people one thing and do the other then you have to be accountable for your actions. He put this expectation on himself and now he has himself to blame.

Damn, they fooled everyone in the preview about who he had been intimate with 🙃

I thought he was a standup guy when he said he didn't want to be intimate before the proposal. Boy was I wrong. If he chooses kaity she needs to run. If he was comfortable banging another chick and breaking up with that chick then Kaity your relationship is similar to that. Run.

I like hearing that thunderstorm it’s such a relaxing sound

I don’t understand why any of these women stay with a man who admits to behaving with such dishonor deliberately as he did.

Zach should go home SOLO!

She would forgive him for anything

She is too good for him

To any lead doing this, being intimate and then telling,the producers are setting you up, don't do it, you don't have to kiss and tell, like why do you have to talk about this unless she asks!! for what?? everyone comes on this show knowing it could happen, what is the point of you even bringing it up,I know producers put you up to it but don't do it, there is no point

did she not watch hannah brown's season or pete pilot

Try to imagine a conversation with someone under 30 who doesn't say "like" four times in every sentence. It makes for a great drinking game with these Bachelor shows. Everybody take a shot when "like" is spoken; we'd all be drunk before the first commercial.

Wrong timing! He didn’t need to ruin her date, this could have been discussed at a later time, obviously the contestants already know there’s possibility of this happening and agreed to go on the show anyway. But why ruin her special day by discussing it. He could have chose another better time later on in private to discuss these issues in my opinion. Also he seems to regret it, which will be hurtful to Gabbi, it seems like the first girl Ariel got him so worked up that by the next date he was too weak with desire to say no to Gabbi. Which makes Gabbi feel 2nd choice again. But really he seems more in Love with Katie, so now here he is back-pedaling to salvage his relationship with Katie and he regrets the lust he felt for the other 2 women. Just my opinion.

he doesn't look her in the eyes...

I was omgeee you don’t have to tell her on the date. Now it’s ruined

Honestly she handled that way better than I could have.

In real life it’s called cheating. In the bachelor it’s called fantasy suite.

And It still stands, Sean (who married Catherine) was the BEST bachelor, when I use to watch. He was a man of his word, and he put God first.

I love that she said, "don't say sorry because I know you aren't sorry that you did that". I am confused what Zach is expecting Katy to say. Like what the heck I feel like he is basiaclly saying, well this is what I did and if you want to be my F1 then you are going to have to get over it.....

Kaity get away from him Ariels brother was right to ask why the women should choose him

He’s like Peter, having intimacy with someone but expected Maddi to be ok with it and choose him.

Zach was really selfish here. He made the decision that he and Katie were going to work through this but never gave her an out. Same thing with gabi. He just made the decision that he was going to tell everyone (except gabi) that they had sex and she really couldn’t object to it. Zach is really strange, so many red flags here. And to top it all off Zach was making jokes about it at the WTA. I think kaity is great but because of her past, she also isn’t great at identifying the red flags. She has constantly told herself over and over again that Zach is the perfect guy and she is determined to not have another man walk out of her life.

Zach should get no one….. he made a rule for himself and broke it…. He can’t be trusted to be man enough to follow through in anything.

I felt bad for Kaity because she didn't want to hear that from Zach. She knew it could happen but just wanted their date to be about them two and not hear about anyone else.

Poor girl gets put in the rain , bugs attacking her then gets news like this ? I’d be crushed too

I've been rooting for Gabi since the beginning but this whole situation makes me so mad and makes me feel that they both deserve better than him.

I’m just so confused why he told Gabi he was falling in love with her. That makes things more difficult. In my opinion he doesn’t deserve either.

Is it really that hard to not have sex? Maybe I'm weird but I don't find it that difficult to wait...

Sex is not love, it's more a sense of lust!

Zach felt like he cheated on Kaity. And... He didn't want her to find out later. I honestly believe that is the only reason why he confessed this to her because he really wants to be with Kaity. He didn't confess it to Ariel! I agree, he should have never made the rule to begin with

He's dingy .,why tell her that .

Literally he did not need to say anything! When he was voting people off he made a general comment about how he went in with parameters and wasn’t able to keep it and that would have been enough honesty to give Ariel a heads up that he broke his commitment to that idea. With Gabbi,p….she obviously knew he broke the commitment. With Kaity he did not need to say a word….he never made that profession to her so he had nothing to break and all the women know what is possible in this week so he did not have to ruin their date. How could anyone be natural and normal after hearing that?

Dump him Kaity!! You deserve better 😂 Zach, you made this no sex thing to stick it to Clayton...but it backfired 😅

How many times did he say ‘like’?

It's giving emperor's new groove

She should have packed her things and very politely walked away.

He wanted to be Sean lowe so bad, but now it all seems like it was just an act.

Spoiler alert…..there is no love/care here from Zach for anyone but himself.

Zach had the BEST group of women. They were kind and understanding. And Zach's...there.

As dumb as it is I see why he told her. You know after the season ends it would come out some how. She should move on now though. Thats not love on his behalf.

A little more pride and backbone, Kaity. You don't go to along with the fantasy suite after hearing this.

Would not want my daughter or sister to be with a man that. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

I can't take it every season the (Like) vocabulary. Put another word in the script! Sounds LIKE elementary children! Like not say Like!

Gabbi deserves SO much better than this. She is not destined to be second choice. Someone will see her worth. She is a great woman. You can love two people, going back to Gabbi to say I'm falling in love with you after intercourse is where it was not fair. Kaity loves him.

I’m pretty sure everyone knows who they’re going to choose a week away from the engagement. I would’ve guessed Kaity was the front runner all along. I didn’t expect Zach to be a Clayton or Peter.

This makes it really clear he wants to pick Kaity- kinda like with the Clayton thing. You’ll throw everything away for the one you want. He doesn’t want to tell Gabi it was a mistake cause that just awful but clearly his actions are making it seem that he thinks it was- he is confessing to Kaity. Which is obviously respectable if he is choosing her but just terrible for Gabi. You should not have sex to further a relationship- it should at the very least be an outpouring of how you feel about the relationship as it stands

Like it sucks...😮😂. Way to put it. In my opinion a red flag and very revealing aspect of his character. Unethical and unrespectful of Gaby who he knew already ahead of time, she wasn't his number one, an then to Katie who deserved better of someone who is supposed to ...love🤥 her....🤨

So he is an honest man who cheats.

Wow. I’m honestly surprised. If he were to have slept with anyone I figured it would’ve been Kaity. He definitely screwed the pooch!

The fact that he broke his own word and told Katy he was intimate with another woman is a huge red flag. I really hope he ends up with no one.

Such a lovely woman.... cheating on her..disgusting.He is an unfairhful man.....put in your shoes and run!!!!! Narcissistic!! He will cheat you!! If he loved you he would never do ir!!! He has soul ties with other woman!! I do not like him..He will never cherish your heart! He new you were vulnerable... and he did not care....

I think she shouldn't pick him. The same thing Peter did that made Madi reject him.

oops, I made a mistake. That was a mistake!!!! I'm so sorry. I won't do it again. I promise, Kaity.

Wow the thunder so dramatic lol

I totally agreed with Zach's decision not to have sex with any of the women in the Fantasy Suites. We have seen in the past how hurtful it can be later for the girl who gets the final rose. Also, it can hurt and lead on the 2 that are not the last one. However,. he did break his promise, and the way he handled it was in very bad taste. He never should have disclosed what happened with Gabby to anyone. He should have just kept his mouth shut about it. He never should have gone public. That was so disrespectful.

I would have left the show. Zach couldn't keep it in his pants.

This seems like the only girl who can be honest about her feelings without consequences

I knew Flared Nostrils is not gonna be able to resist the urge to bang.

He's not looking at her. He needs to not share this with her. If he picks her, she won't get over it.

From a man's perspective, I wished she would have walked away. Just because he was feeling personal guilt about his choice, does not mean gets to wound her.

She’s way too good for him

Why does everybody use the word LIKE in every other word!! it's beyond ridiculous!!!

Zach should've kept his word about not being intimate. Look at it from each women's perspective. After hearing this, I think Katy should feel that she was betrayed and shouldn't be able to trust Zach. If Gabi isn't chosen, she's probably going to feel like Zach just used her. Deep down, I think Zach is shifty, not trustworthy. They should both ditch Zach. We'll find out next week.

Kaity seems more right with him than Gabi. I like Gabi but I think she has less chemistry with him and it feels forced. I would like to see her BIP tho

what's crazy is none of these women discussed the subject with him, and it's definitely something i would want to know before accepting an engagement

Joey learned from Zacks bad choices. Only sleep with the person your choosing.

He wasn’t ready for marriage. Producers know what they are doing. Can we just bring a dude in the franchise who actually wants one woman? And is REALLY ready? No shade to Zach, it’s gotta be hard being surrounded by beautiful women who all want you on this show. But we need a man who is laser focused on finding his ONE.

Juan Pablo vibes it's okay?

So he picks kaity because usually the one they sleep with goes home

Some women are just desperate, Kaity took it very light, seriously! Acting like “I am crushed” my foot!

But when they actually call the overnight suite "sex night" that was a bit to much information i mean they actually meant as if now we are down to the part when Zack have sex with the ladies to see who he prefer i mean do anyone else see this was a lot to much

So he couldnt wait until the cameras were not there to talk about it. Mature men would just talk about it in private. Another Just there forthe show.

You know this show has gone off the rails in 5 of the last 6 seasons(not including Matt). Each one has ended in a train wreck.

Being honest about what happened does not excuse him from keeping his word or following through with what he felt was right for everyone...not a man of honor when considering marriage...he had a choice...no love or respect here for kaity a week before she meets his family...selfish move and says a lot

He did make a mistake and repented, admitted it rather than hide it; it’s a growth process. Especially since he knew he like Kaity, he should not have allowed himself to be tempted and has learned from it. Once committed, believe he won’t ever do that again, but to flee. He is going to learn to stand, to say no to temptation. He wants Kaity to help him grow into a man of high virtue and values in life. One scene I saw on u tube, he said in a flash clip that “it’s not about lust.” Lust does not last and is not love. Love has deeper meaning. One that tempted him, to tempt a man w/o being married to him, will keep luring men through sex, not the good values in life.

Plot twist, gabby pregnant 😂 but they don’t find out til they marry off a few weeks later yay for the bachelor 🤣🤣

Zach IS trapped by LUST

This is hilarious 😂

I felt like Gabi went after him and pushed to make him break his parameters. She said she was disappointed in no sex and was going to see if he was really sure about that or if she could change his mind. It's not hard to seduce a man in a bedroom.

Poor Katiy. I don't blame her for being crushed....I could see that she was crushed. Zach was honest. But I think Kaity really what her heart was saying.

He messed up and her trust was gone in that instant. Run kati run

You knew the other woman was going to go home because he never went and had a convo with her to tell her he slept with Gabbi.

Surryyyy surryyyy surrrry like surrry!

How was he the bachelor lol he’s not even physically attractive

She should have left right after he told her.

I still think he will choose Gaby

Zack’s you made the right choice brother, we love her she’s honest, beautiful, with a good heart please don’t hurt her ok. You guys are perfect God blessed 🙏❤️

I like that Kaity shares her feelings, but was understanding that this happens. I'm glad she wasn't like Madison who gave Peter an ultimatum if he slept with others.

These men are all weak characters

Still got engaged to him 🤔

Don't the new bachelors learn anything from past bachelors mistakes?? Haven't we been here a few times already? I'm fairly certain that Zach would know by now who he's going to propose to, so why would he jeopardize things so close to the final episode? I am surprised Kaity was as understanding as she was. It's definitely not a great feeling to be the next girl in the fantasy suite after he shared this news.

They go in knowing that they will be cheated on. They should get rid of the fantasy suit

I am surprised that Zach didn't tell her this in the beginning. Poor Katy....

She was so stun and befuddled that it was almost 4 minutes of nothing she should walk away.

Ofc male leads get bashed for saying they were intimate with others, while female leads always get praised.

Ok, is old stuff enought. Let them be happy.

I know you not sorry for doing that :D ahaha love this part! I was team Katie from beggining!!

He wanted to tell her before she heard it from someone else

Gabi seemed excited taking it as basically challenge that she knew she’d win. She definitely seduced him. Definitely took advantage of it, told he didn’t want it, make her want sex more

I agree with some of the comments, but here’s my issue. I am rooting for Katiy or Gabi because they are being honest with him not with Ariel. I’m sorry to say that.