I’ve decided I’m done with dating apps as well. I’ve been on multiple platforms from paid to free sites over 20 years. There is lot of reticence due to the abundance mindset you were talking about. I’ve had dates but nothing long term from online dating. My best success has been from in person events. I will be going that route now and in the future.
Nope never using dating apps ever again. The girls don’t even reach out to you when you match and when they do they end up ghosting you. Im not into hooking up at all, never done it, I’m purely looking for a long term relationship and forgot about it. They all says where the good men at…IM RIGHT HERE and I get ghosted and they never reach out. Done!!!
You can approach women in real life. All you need is a dash of confidence. And if you have internal substanance, and stay in your league you can find a great woman. Good luck!!
I've been watching these types of videos for a month and your the one who found the key in my brain why you need to speak to women in person. "Who would a woman rather meet, a polite, gentleman, who is confident and starts a friendly conversation in person, or some random guy on a stupid dating app thing." Wow
Here I have are a few thoughts. Firstly, dating apps create the illusion that we all have a seemingly endless supply of potential mates. We don't because there are always limits. Secondly, any individual man or woman is only compatible with a handful of people out there in the available pool regardless of how attractive they appear. Most of the dates you go on won't lead to a meaningful relationship for a variety of different reasons. Thirdly, men have the challenge of getting and keeping a woman's attention, while women have the challenge of sorting through numerous men who express their interest. Neither has an easy task.
If a man is on a dating app, its because he's either looking for a hook up, a FWB or a serious relationship. Sadly, dating apps are only designed to benefit women since they get tons of dudes on their DMs. It doesnt work the same way for dudes since women dont really approach dudes via the DM like men approach women on their DMs.
Hey Man, I came across your video about dating apps...Brother, your content is good. You need to title and optimize your videos better so they can be found. Also, consider sticking to 1 platform (especially in the beginning) so RU-vid knows what content you are trying to promote (Fitness, Dating...etc) Nice job man. Don't quit man you are doing great!
Rejection in the states are epic, soul killing. The best option is to avoid american women altogether, only date women from overseas. Social Media has ended online dating or meeting women in person at nightclubs, why spend $300 to get rejected
Interesting. Would love to hear an update! I’ve been fighting off the urge to get back on dating apps. It’s a horrendous experience and I’d rather wait for a guy to introduce himself and start a conversation with me out in real life. I think you’d do great & I hope you haven’t given up! Take care
I studied software engineering. There were 40 guys in my class, and like 5 girls only. I dated one of them, after rejecting another. I'm slightly short, and not fat, but also not in good shape. But when we were in-between classes, when having a coffee or lunch as a group, I would bring out my game. I could make people laugh, and I could also be reflective when it was time to be. I was confident, took shit from no one, and had good grades. A few months in, I had several options. _Meanwhile,_ we would go out to dance and for drinks. I never, _EVER,_ had a one-night stand. I stopped trying. I remember liking this girl who hung out around a bar we went often. I tried to talk her in, and I was rejected in quite a dry way. I sat with a friend and he told me some very wise words: "Dude, you and I are not the type of people who get one night stands." - He was right. We're both married today, with a kid each. We both had several relationships before that, with (mostly) good-looking women. It ain't that hard, but you have to work with what you have. I'd rather be a raven than a peacock, but I can never compete if I just sort of **show myself** and call it a day.
The problem with trying to meet people in person is that you do not know anything about the person before spending time and money on them. One of the last ladies I met in a night club in NY city, was a disaster two weeks in the relationship, she started to tell me how she was planning to get back on Welfare and first she told me she had one child, after two weeks I found out she had three kids. I had to abandon that. I have given up, I only meet ladies through introductions now
That's the dumbest thing I've ever read. So because one girl lied to you, you will never try to meet another woman again, only through introductions. Just because someone else introduces you doesn't mean that the relationship will be smooth sailing. You should cut the crap and continue shooting your shot. The more experience you get you will be able to see patterns in bs women and you will be able to chose better
@@deanmartin5532 I met several women after the lady I mentioned and I almost went to the alter, but that experience I posted was just an example how iffy it is to meet ladies randomly on the street or in a night clubs
Very candid. My understanding is that dating apps are really about keeping you addicted & monetizing loneliness. Believe it or not women do like to be approached & they do like to be held. Social media disguises a bailout mechanism & that has taken over the role of chivalry. Men need to take of themselves physically & that's why personal habits matter. Also women are not into cars & motorcycles as men might think. Those things are dangerous. Also note many of the photos posted are either out of focus or cut off. That indicates lack of seriousness.
It is a vicious cycle. To go off your pizza analogy the pineapple pizza will pump and dump them, damage them, abuse them, etc. They will waste their time with pineapple pizzas until they are a single mom or ran through by a bunch of guys with who knows how many diseases. Then and only then will they realize they should have went with you, the pepperoni pizza. By then you already blocked them, deleted the apps or found someone else. Rinse and repeat. Most women's "picker" on these apps are badly broken or don't even exist.
Men are pretty bad at dating especially online. Most guys seem to feel they’re unique and special but over three quarters of the profiles are the exact same. It’s the same with texting and first dates. I do think we should give guys more feedback if they’re willing to accept it, we’re all guilty of letting guys think it’s going well when it’s not.
If you only match girls for their looks, what do you expect them to do? Then you whinge on youtube that they only care about your money/status/car/some other BS. Oh well. In the end of the day you'll want a girl friend you feel connected to but your online behaviour is working the other way. Get real.
