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I find the statement that people who have had abstinence only sex education are more likely to few non-sexual situations sexual. Is there an article on this? I would love to learn more!
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Hi. Thanks for the video. I am a non-binary trans woman. I prefer men. However, sometimes I like women, too. I view myself as pretty straight, but not narrow. I am somewhat on the bi+ spectrum and even have lesbian urges, but I ultimately want to be with a man. For those reasons, I fluctuate between labelling myself as heterosexual/flexible or bisexual. I am not exclusively straight. I simply have a strong(er) preference for men; that is what I primarily desire. I think you're quite cute by the way.
Nope it doesn’t match. I like both, but I only fall in love with men and sleep as well with them. Women are just emotional and fantasy bs to me. Lovely isn't it?
I’ve just come out of the closet and this has given me such solace about how I feel. And who I am. I never felt like I aligned with being gay, bi, or pan but I have urges now and again to be with a man. It’s so confusing and your experience just makes so much sense to me. Thank you for sharing x
Thank you for watching. Obviously this is my first video on RU-vid for 2 years, and I've thrown myself into the deep end trying out (simple) animation for the first time in a video, as well as using some new equipment for filming. As such this video is a little rough around the edges in places, but I hope the video was useful anyway and as I (re)learn about the equipment and editing then the quality will increase.
Absolutely! Having a difference in your sexual and romantic identity is very much normal, and more and more people are identifying as heteroromantic and bisexual.
I've been dealing with a sexual identity for a while now because I would say that I was straight with a bit of curiosity. It's nice to have bit of understanding about this term
That's an oxymoron. Unless you're saying you shift in and out. You can't be both at the same time. No you can't just give yourself any label... unless you're lying. =S
LOL, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
@@kbanghart Haha, because straight means you aren't flexible, that you only like the opposite gender in that way. Heteroflexible is straight plus flexible in that you can do stuff and have some interest in the same gender. You can't be two opposing things at the same time, literally impossible unless you factor in stuff like switching back and forth or having multiple personalities.
@@Nekotaku_TV well, if it works for me, it works for me. You can define it however you like. I suspect we're talking about the differences between sexual attraction and romantic attraction.
@@kbanghart That makes no sense, you can't just make stuff up and not care about what words mean. But sure you can be wrong if you want to, but you're also gonna confuse and misinform and lie to people.
It was a fantastic day! I took part along with my wife, her sister and her best friend! Was a great experience posing and even more fun getting clean with them back at the hotel!
I’m not sure if this will help anyone, but… It took me a while to figure this out- I’m a heteroflexible guy. The issue for me was I wasn’t comfortable identifying as “heteroflexible” as I didn’t feel that was a conventional term that most people would understand. I tried identifying as bisexual, but felt that misrepresented me as I had a clear preference for women and I felt like “bisexual” gave the impression I liked men and women equally. So I tried identifying as straight, but didn’t feel that represented me either as I felt like I had to hide part of myself from myself and others. So, eventually I settled on identifying as heteroflexible but telling people I’m “mostly straight”, as that’s a lot easier to understand. Just my experience and idk if anyone can get anything out of it but thought I’d share regardless.
Hii man plz help me iam straight but I had a few same sex attraction in past like 3 years ago right now I am 20 and i am really afraid that what if my orientation complete change and I wil become bi or gay plz reply
First, ask yourself the question: Why are you so scared of being gay, bi or pan ? It shouldn't be view as a bad thing. We have to stop viewing the LGBT+ community as a bunch of weirdos. Those millions of people who are part of the LGBTQ+ community are different from each other in every shape and form. Many so called "heterosexuals" have homoerotic thoughts and feelings but are afraid to admit it (are themselves) because they think it's shameful or they think being LGBT+ comes with a flamboyant look (or any other stereotypes attached to being LGBTQ+). I'm a sexologist. I spend a lot of time thinking, reading and writing about sexuality and sexual orientations. I sincerely believe than A LOT of people are on the bisexual spectrum (I would say probably 20-30% of population). Sexual orientation is composed of 3 thing: attractions (romantic and sexual), behaviors and auto-identification. If you have either attractions (sexual desire or romantic attraction), behavior (if you acted upon those feelings sexually or romanticly) or auto-identification (how you decided to identify yourself) for 2 genders or more, you are technically bisexual or on the bisexual spectrum. Whether you choose to identify as bisexual or not, will depends on your internalized biphobia (ex: thinking bisexuality is not a real or valid orientation, thinking it's a 50/50 thing, thinking you are "different" than other bisexual folks as if they were all the same, etc.). To answer your question, sexual orientation (sexual and romantic attractions) is NOT something you can control. Auto-identification is something only YOU can decide :) Just know that some labels (heteroflexibility, homoflexibility, bicurious, etc.) COULD contribute to bisexual erasure and reinforce biphobic stigmas.
@Javier Sierra Yes of course :) Everything you are experimenting is valid. It sounds like you might be bisexual (physical attraction to 2 genders) and on the spectrum of aromantism.
I feel like bisexuals have a 50% attraction to the opposite gender and 50% attraction to the same gender and/or other genders. But heteroflexible is and uneven attraction like 70% attraction to the opposite gender and 30% attraction to the same gender. or maybe its 60% and 40% it can even be 90% to 10%.
As a feminine, Androgynous male who’s been messaged by THOUSANDS(yes😳…here in America 🇺🇸) of Heteroflexible men on Apps like Grindr over the past few years- I appreciate your honesty in making this video 👏🏽. However, I noticed you’re glossing over the fact that MANY Heteroflexible men use “romantic” manipulation tactics to acquire sex from feminine males/trans/etc on apps and in person. Because most are extremely masculine in character(something we’re naturally attracted to), it can be the most psychologically devastating thing when he completely discards you. Instead of simply stating that he’s only attracted romantically to women. Most HF men would never want their(future) children to ever experience this from a man. Being seen only as an object for sexual gratification. Overall, your honesty is refreshing & appreciated. There definitely IS a difference between HF & bisexual men-and it’s the romantic aspect and element of care that’s missing. HF men are basically the male equivalent of straight women who occasionally engage in threesomes. AVOID them at all costs if you’re feminine/NB/etc….and dating for marriage!!! 💯✨
Hey there! I just came across this video, and you knocked it out of the park! I first considered myself fully bi, but then I realized that I'm occasionally attracted to other women, while I'm constantly attracted to men. And that's okay. I also call myself sapphic because of that degree of romantic and sexual attraction to other women.
@@andyhartley I'm Heteroflexible and not romantically attracted to men but I have had sexual encounters with men and I find men like Cristiano Ronaldo physically attractive.
