I've been dealing with a sexual identity for a while now because I would say that I was straight with a bit of curiosity. It's nice to have bit of understanding about this term
@@kbanghart Haha, because straight means you aren't flexible, that you only like the opposite gender in that way. Heteroflexible is straight plus flexible in that you can do stuff and have some interest in the same gender. You can't be two opposing things at the same time, literally impossible unless you factor in stuff like switching back and forth or having multiple personalities.
@@Nekotaku_TV well, if it works for me, it works for me. You can define it however you like. I suspect we're talking about the differences between sexual attraction and romantic attraction.
@@kbanghart That makes no sense, you can't just make stuff up and not care about what words mean. But sure you can be wrong if you want to, but you're also gonna confuse and misinform and lie to people.
I’ve just come out of the closet and this has given me such solace about how I feel. And who I am. I never felt like I aligned with being gay, bi, or pan but I have urges now and again to be with a man. It’s so confusing and your experience just makes so much sense to me. Thank you for sharing x
Hey there! I just came across this video, and you knocked it out of the park! I first considered myself fully bi, but then I realized that I'm occasionally attracted to other women, while I'm constantly attracted to men. And that's okay. I also call myself sapphic because of that degree of romantic and sexual attraction to other women.
Hii man plz help me iam straight but I had a few same sex attraction in past like 3 years ago right now I am 20 and i am really afraid that what if my orientation complete change and I wil become bi or gay plz reply
First, ask yourself the question: Why are you so scared of being gay, bi or pan ? It shouldn't be view as a bad thing. We have to stop viewing the LGBT+ community as a bunch of weirdos. Those millions of people who are part of the LGBTQ+ community are different from each other in every shape and form. Many so called "heterosexuals" have homoerotic thoughts and feelings but are afraid to admit it (are themselves) because they think it's shameful or they think being LGBT+ comes with a flamboyant look (or any other stereotypes attached to being LGBTQ+). I'm a sexologist. I spend a lot of time thinking, reading and writing about sexuality and sexual orientations. I sincerely believe than A LOT of people are on the bisexual spectrum (I would say probably 20-30% of population). Sexual orientation is composed of 3 thing: attractions (romantic and sexual), behaviors and auto-identification. If you have either attractions (sexual desire or romantic attraction), behavior (if you acted upon those feelings sexually or romanticly) or auto-identification (how you decided to identify yourself) for 2 genders or more, you are technically bisexual or on the bisexual spectrum. Whether you choose to identify as bisexual or not, will depends on your internalized biphobia (ex: thinking bisexuality is not a real or valid orientation, thinking it's a 50/50 thing, thinking you are "different" than other bisexual folks as if they were all the same, etc.). To answer your question, sexual orientation (sexual and romantic attractions) is NOT something you can control. Auto-identification is something only YOU can decide :) Just know that some labels (heteroflexibility, homoflexibility, bicurious, etc.) COULD contribute to bisexual erasure and reinforce biphobic stigmas.
@Javier Sierra Yes of course :) Everything you are experimenting is valid. It sounds like you might be bisexual (physical attraction to 2 genders) and on the spectrum of aromantism.
@@andyhartley I'm Heteroflexible and not romantically attracted to men but I have had sexual encounters with men and I find men like Cristiano Ronaldo physically attractive.
That's an oxymoron. Unless you're saying you shift in and out. You can't be both at the same time. No you can't just give yourself any label... unless you're lying. =S
