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Tell that to people who have already been in a relationship and single. I know what it’s like to be in a relationship. I was happy. I never ever not know what I want
you two are lovely! I just feel, in my opinion, women should be able to lead their families spiritually as an equal with the men. none should overpower the other. same as pastors... should gender matter? hmm...
I was looking at Klipsch speaker reviews saw this video had too give you guys a listen. Thanks I added this to my playlist I try not too think about being single I just enjoy my life God blessed me with never been married nor on a date in my life I’ll say it’s not the end of the world. Not saying I won’t find a wife I wish finding a wife was easy as making a decision on buying those Klipsch speakers from Best Buy.
"Now concerning those things you wrote about. It is good for a man not to touch a woman." "I wish all men were as I am, but each one has his own gift from God, one of this kind and another of that." "The unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he might please the Lord." "In view of the current distress, I want to spare you much trouble."
I’m religious but the girl I’m trying to dating she very religious and she told me her wedding to be with gospel no earth music and I find hard to accept it.
Men are different. Sam didn't look affected at all that Sadie was crying and genuinely hurt by his past. Even Christian men said that men can sleep with any women, women whom they are not even attracted to, and think nothing of it. Men rape and group rape, women don't do that. Sex to men are more like the pleasure of eating, exercising, etc., Unlike most women, men can do it without love or emotion yet feel proud and content to sow their oats.
As a single guy with high functioning autism (Asperger's Syndrome) I would be absolutely taken aback in a very positive way if a woman made the effort and first move to ask me out!
I struggled with this thinking about contentment hugely in my 20's. You are quite right in thinking that will be hard and you don't think you could have achieved it. I never achieved it. I am 58 years old now. I'm in a relationship with a wonderful Filipina lady today but those single years were no joke. It was very hard. That's most of my life. But do you have to achieve contentment? I don't think so. There are 2 aspects to this. The one is the issue of idols. Is getting married an obsession? Does it overshadow your calling? Are you just desperately trying to find someone to the point that you're not serving God? Putting your life on hold? Etc. Then there is a problem. My advice to anyone in that place is to say "OK, I have a strong desire to be married, but I also want to live my life". "Why put my life on hold while I look for a mate?". I'm not saying you should stop looking for a mate but find some balance. I see a lot of singles finding some sort of a "cause" and I think that's really good. What are you passionate about? Get involved in that. It will give your life a sense of purpose. What is your calling? Pursue that. It will really help. These things will never 100% remove the loneliness. Humans are designed to have a mate as stated clearly in Genesis. marriage is God's will for most people. That's clear in many parts of scripture. So, if you are worrying, no, God has not "called you to singleness". That's the other aspect. Feelings of loneliness are normal. You are human. These desires are built into your genes. PAUL found the secret of satisfaction in all things. But he didn't command everyone to do that. Is it good to seek that? Yes. But if you can't achieve it, that's OK. God isn't sitting there saying "Oh... So and so is not satisfied yet, so I'm gonna keep that husband away...". NO. You will not find that thinking anywhere in the bible. Quite the opposite.
Hello Sam and Sadie! I wanted to write to you that you were my first Christian RU-vid couple I watched. You were such a breath of fresh air. I really wanted to get married and have babies, but the dating apps were atrocious. I could not find a real Christian to save my life. I watched this video and first heard of Holy here. I downloaded the app on November 12, 2023, the day this video was released. My husband and I matched on November 13. We had our first phone conversation on the 16th, and I immediately knew he was the one. We had our first date on the 18th and spent the holiday season courting. I got baptized at his church in February. We got engaged April 6th, and married May 11th. I truly never thought I was going to get married. Thank you so much for what you do. This video truly blessed me.
Thank you, Sadie and Sam, for answering these questions so openly. We appreciate you guys so much. Keeping you and your baby in my prayers!!!❤❤❤ May signs and wonders happen in Jesus' name and may the Father's shalom be with you in a very deep way. HE has everything under control! 🙏 We look forward to a happy and healthy miracle baby boy! 👶
When scripture says the Lord will provide the desires of your heart it fails to mention that it doesnt happen until after you die. So essentially it is pointless to have desires and hopes
Being newly married is definitely hard sometimes. I remember my husband and I being stunned that we thought so differently at times when we had thought we were so much in agreement! So glad things are on solid footing for you now ❤. I'm praying for your sweet baby boy and for both of you 🙏💕.
I like your videos. I have a few questions. -What’s your advice for Christians in the workplace? I’ll do my best to explain. As Christians we’re called to share the gospel. But how does one do that in a more secular workplace without risking his job? -Related to employment … what’s your advice for a Christian who just got fired from his job? I’m asking for myself. -What’s your advice for broaching the subject of sex when dating? I mean bringing up the fact I’m a virgin (which I am). I’m Andrew.
Hi Guys! So good to see you! It seems like forever in a day! 🤗. I am so sorry, I left your Patron sorry if I spelled that wrong can’t wait to meet your new arrival, you will get through this, housetop so blessed to have each other. Lord touch your family here for Sadie to have a safe fast delivery and baby will be healthy blessed it is in your sonJesus we pray. 🙏 Amen. Thank you Lord for this wonderful young couple! 🫶♥️🙏
(I didn't see the comment box!) Thank you so much for sharing your story and experience! Several of the things you've said in your videos really speak to me, and will be invaluable. Your experience has changed how I will approach my own situation when the time comes. Thanks! I hope you always keep God in the center of your relationship and direct each other to Him.
This is so helpful to me. Thank you for sharing your story. You make a beautiful couple! Sadie, your anxiety isn't a weakness; it is a huge strength from your sensitivity to others. Embrace your anxiety as a precious, fragile part of you and lean on God through Sam, and it will open the door for you to be you.
@@samandsadie That is true, good advice. However, I really mean it when I say your anxiety reflects a strength in you. It manifests as a weakness because like me, you learned to not trust it. (This may not be true about everyone's anxiety.) I sincerely encourage you two to prayerfully consider what I wrote. [This is news even to me!!🤦♂ I've always had anxiety, but never thought about it like this. Forgive me for being so forward, and I pray this does not mislead you. I would not write this to you if I did not believe it, but admonish you to take it (and everything) directly to God for confirmation. I would never want to stand in for someone's personal relationship with God. Don't praise me; give the glory to our Father in Heaven!] May you two ever grow closer by falling in love with God.💘
I guarantee you God sends women good, godly men to marry but the men don't fit their selfish, arbitrary and ridiculous standards of physical, sexual, financial, or spiritual needs.
I'm not Jesus. I'm not an infallible man. I try my hardest and best to live up to his teachings and love Jesus with all my heart and soul, but I'll never be Christ. I'm not effeminate because of that. I'm not less than a pile dirt if I'm not Christ. Why are christian women's expectations SO darn high and ridiculous? Why am I not good enough oh Lord? Why?
If you’re single, it’s your problem. God has nothing to do with it and frankly, He doesn’t care. The people worth anything are all married before 30. Don’t listen to these self righteous grifters.