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Narcissistic: they lie to themselves let alone everyone. They put on a facade to the world and very surface level. Very emotionally abusive and very selfish and users. Can never be wrong and have to make you feel they are smarter than you. They constantly cheat and keep moving from person to person. They never change
Yep! I workout constantly since breakup. I definitely take time to sleep. I’m still working on mindfulness but doing this in therapy. I also let myself feel what I feel and let it out instead of suppressing and denying. I cut off all contact and I am working on self care. I deleted social media except RU-vid. I don’t check anything they’re doing and at this point idc I’m more focused on myself. I also don’t go anywhere my ex will be but they have showed up somewhere I been. They have done subtle things because I’m not breaking no contact. I have a strong support system in my family.
My ex has a history of repeated cheating but I didn’t know till I was cheated on. She always lied and manipulated. She was very controlling and couldn’t take any criticism so she always had to be petty to emotionally abuse me/punish me. Constantly devalued me and constantly had to compete with me because she was jealous of my success and wanted to be on top. I’m glad I was discarded and she monkey branched to the person she cheated on me with. I went no contact two years ago and focused on my healing. I been truly blessed since
This randomly popped up in my youtube... All i can say if you cant be alone and enjoy your own company, you will possibly stuggle after a break up. People come and go. Move one
That's what I did in order to heal. Being around her after that was always painful. I wasn't about to be friendzoned at that point. For me, it was all or nothing. And wouldn't you know it. She contacted ME. Oftentimes looking for a shoulder to cry on. Mind you that at this point in time, she had already been around the block... She even went out of her way to find ways to hang out with my circle of friends to see what I was up to. The final straw was when she called me up on my Birthday in hopes that she'd be able to meet up so she could give me a cake she baked. Something she would do when we were together. It had been over a year and at this point, I embarked on a new loving relationship. So imagine her ghastly surprise when I break it to her that I was having my girlfriend over to meet my parents...
Found out he's still communicating with his ex..... but still watching me on media? He stopped liking pics, but liking again every now and then? What does that mean?
What if I was the rebound relationship for five years and then he broke up with me and went back to his previous ex of 18 years in less than 3 weeks after he left me? Is she the rebound because he quickly got back into a relationship after we broke up or was I the rebound because he started a relationship with me a couple of months after his ex left to go back to Germany? It is really confusing for me because it feels like he went back to his ex because that seems to be what happens after a rebound. I just feel so sad that I was a 5 year rebound. I don't know what to think anymore 😢
I definitely understand recognizing these behaviors to get closure, but it's best to take the lessons from each relationship and move on. Watching what your ex is doing is just going to stagnate you. Had I been focused on my ex instead of myself after our breakup, I would never have seen the great qualities of my best female friend and fallen for her. 🤷🏿♂️
what about if you were the one who walked away when they neglected you so much until you did so? he became distant, mean, bumped me to the bottom of the priority list but claimed he still was committed and didnt want to break up the may times ive asked him. He gave nothing and didn't do anything for me. He kept lying about wanting to continue the relationship and his commitment to it. It wasn't until I walked away that he admitted he wasn't ready for a relationship. he said he respected my decision and appears to have moved on after u blocked him but im the one who feels used and like I wasn't enough.
Well, my ex is a Dismissive Avoidant and I\we broke Up, it got ugly, by that I mean we both said things we probably regret. I found out she was lying and cheating for about 6 weeks 10 days after we had a great Valentines together. And a really good Christmas He died a few weeks later. She was then on social media profesing her deepest love for him.. but yet did not attend his service at all. And seemed like she was trying to get some digs in on me, with both of these men. But planted a tree in his honor per his sons request. Then she was right back in another relationship\.Situationship a few weeks later. Posting on Facebook. Yet, although we were in no contact in every way else, we continued to email and bicker and I was wanting to at least discuss getting back together. and let her have another chance with me for 3 months. Then I was told we were only FWB by her anyway, I don't get it at all? 4 Different men in 11 months. I guess. even though I was told by her. I've never had someone treat me as good. in the honeymoon period. While we are not friends on Facebook now. I'm not blocked. Only restricted. I can see any thing public, Its been that way after a week, after I caught her. CRAIZIEST way that I've ever had a relationship end? Idk, but I did a ton of research, so it don't happen again.
after my breakup. 1 month ago...no drama involved. 12 years together. after she left i realised im alone now. my world colapsed. the only hobby that gives me good feeling now is gym.. everything else i used to love feels so empty and i cant focus. BUT i have lost my appetite and im already skinny guy. just losing weight more... Its so fucking frustrating trying to get my confidence back but i just cant eat properly, and it gives me even more anxiety and stress..
7 months later she’s dating the guy she messed around with before us. We had a child together, and lived together for 4 years. Having him call me to threaten me. Is this a rebound?
Fact that why u don’t go backwards I moving forward and cycle no return send😮the package to the post office thanks you gods is so good it a blessing u smile and happy
@atin4353 You leave him alone. Moving forward with someone who is in a rebound space and giving mixed signals will create a shaky relationship foundation.
@@LosAcieRewiredagreed. Definitely stay away, they are not ready. I once ghosted a girl because I was in that breakup headspace. Had so many mixed feelings. But I made the mistake of not communicating that with her and I disappeared. I still feel bad about it.
