This randomly popped up in my youtube... All i can say if you cant be alone and enjoy your own company, you will possibly stuggle after a break up. People come and go. Move one
what about if you were the one who walked away when they neglected you so much until you did so? he became distant, mean, bumped me to the bottom of the priority list but claimed he still was committed and didnt want to break up the may times ive asked him. He gave nothing and didn't do anything for me. He kept lying about wanting to continue the relationship and his commitment to it. It wasn't until I walked away that he admitted he wasn't ready for a relationship. he said he respected my decision and appears to have moved on after u blocked him but im the one who feels used and like I wasn't enough.
Did you ever struggle to question or any fears or perhaps insecurities about the new person? Part of the battle is connecting with someone who is in the process at best of healing and what if I'm pushed away because they don't know how to identity any 'signs' or access their heart/feelings to determine and discern to proceed with me. It would be nice to connect with someone who's done enough work that he's self aware on what he is looking for but even then does that mean he'll be strong enough to not let old patterns or fears as I mentioned get in the way. Is communication the key factor here?
@vanessaskin The key is to only date someone who is fully healed and whole. Once you truly reach a place of wholeness, you'll attract whole people. If someone hasn't done the work, they're not your person. Healthy Relationships are only built with 2 healthy people. Not one or one and a half. He doesn't sound ready yet. Yes communication is essential, but effective communication works best with people healthy enough to conduct it.
