Waooow, es la primera vez que escucho esto y me sorpendio la ultima frase porque yo antes decía "es solo sexo", también e dicho que "no tiene sentido", "que flojera" 🤭. Ya llevo desde un buen tiempo viendo que seria/soy asexual, porque solo me imaginó y recuerdo momentos más nada de sex. Tuve una pareja y me rogo para tener pero igual como la canción "me traiciona mi cuerpo, intentó traicionarlo yo, solo me hiero a mi mismo" así me sentía, pero bueno, saber estas cosas me ayude a enfrentar momentos.
This song has so many facets. Beyond bitchen, by leagues at least. To quote D. Boon (or Mike, maybe more likely, but probably not George, but D. sings it), "This is Bob Dylan to me!" And it is. Phrasing, odd rhymes and non-rhymes, whining just a bit through some lyrics. The music, like a day at the shore, starting out calmly, plenty of opportunity for reflection, then headed into the afternoon it really starts to blow, an onslaught of wind and spray, and finally a straightforward but tasty guitar solo, and then the poignant rip-off part I mean homage, which is practically mandatory at that point. Jeez what a blowhard (me).
There were no hard feelings when we broke up, it was the right person wrong circumstances kinda thing. I don’t relate to this song but it makes me so fucking sad every time
I first discovered this song when I had to move back to my home town, a place I tried so hard to get away from because its a horrible place. It felt like I had been forcefully separated from paradise, I made a whole life for myself somewhere far from here, everything I love and care about is over there, the woman I love is over there, my best friend is over there, all my real friends, my found family within them. I felt safe there I was free over there, I could walk around the city and catch the train over there I cant do that here its too dangerous. I miss my real home so much. But this song perfectly encapsulates the feelings bubbling under my skin. The resentment the bitterness I feel towards this place, towards the people who forced me to come back here against my will because Im still young and cant support myself out there. Im stuck in a house with two parents that have been on the brink of a divorce for years but stay together because my mom would feel too guilty for leaving a disabled man, its fucked me and my little brother up. No one in my family actually likes each other Its such a selfish environment Im sick of it. I miss my friends I miss being around people who want to be around one another. I miss the love and support and the laughs and tears we would share together, not only did we share our happiness but our pain too. I miss my best friend and all the shit we’d get up to. I miss my partner we had to seperate because I was leaving. I swear to everything I hold dear in this life I will get back home somehow. One day Ill forget about this song and then rediscover it and remember this comment I left and think back to this time like it was some bad day in the past. I will find my way back home I swear it I have to. Thats what this song is to me
The first relationship I had resulted on me being r4ped on the first date and manipulated into sexual explotation and even though it has been a couple of years since I got away from all that it gave me a lot of mental scars and now its VERY hard for me to see or perceive sex as a good thing
The first time I heard “you said won’t you come into arms reach abandon your clothes and modes of speech” i lost it. It invokes the imagery of the two dogs holding onto each other’s shoulders, connecting limbs and “forgetting how to speak” is also mentioned in bodys … in this case it refers to how Joe loses himself GRAHHHHHHGG
listened to this non-stop in fall of last year, wrote the lyrics "all i know is one of us was supposed to kill the other, isn't that what they mean when they say 'lovers?' on my too-big headphones that are now long-broken. brings me back to freshman year sm, can't believe my first day of sophomore year is the day after tomorrow. wish me luck ig
ive been listening to csh since 8th grade went to their 2021 door less open concert my freshman yr im a junior now time fuckin flies im in college already n shit too so just enjoy your youth now before it fades dont be scared to try things and talk to ppl thats my main mistake from freshie and sophomore AND DONT DO DRUGS LOL
Ppl saying this song is abt asexuality but im pretty sure its abt sexual aversion disorder or sexual trauma Edit: i think its about a lot of different things it depends on the person that is so unique and i love it
Muchas personas confunden la asexualidad con la falta de haber tenido la experiencia y el no sentir aún las ganas de ello, muchos luego de experimentarlo terminan dandose cuenta que solo no tenían el deseo de buscar tener relaciones, pero que realmente disfrutan mucho de ellas por eso antes de decir, soy asexual, deberían plantearse, solo lo pienso porque no tengo ganas o de verdad lo soy? Porque si se da la ocasión lo voy a disfrutar... Es un proceso de autodescubrimiento por eso no se que tan bueno sea etiquetarse tan pronto en especial porque muchos que dicen esto al final solo están creando su propia etiqueta, por eso solo diré, es mejor que tomen el tiempo para conocerse a si mismos y estar seguros de que lo son
a pesar de que estoy de acuerdo con que el autodescubrimiento es un proceso vital para formar ya sea tu identidad y otros aspectos, a veces las personas simplemente estan seguras de lo que son y aunque en si el autodescubrimiento no sea malo, cuando se trata de la asexualidad/arromanticismo (se que no es lo mismo pero también lo traigo a colación ya que las expectativas socials son similares¿) se siente de una forma más forzada por ser "la norma" (en este caso hablando del sexo o relaciones amorosas o ambas) y tomando en cuenta que el espectro asexual es enorme y abarca no solo el líbido, la atracción sino también el deseo sexual, pues debería ser solo decisión de cada quién si decide tener relaciones o no y que no se vea obligado a "confirmar" su identidad ^^
a pesar de que estoy de acuerdo con que el autodescubrimiento es un proceso vital para formar ya sea tu identidad y otros aspectos, a veces las personas simplemente estan seguras de lo que son y aunque en si el autodescubrimiento no sea malo, cuando se trata de la asexualidad/arromanticismo (se que no es lo mismo pero también lo traigo a colación ya que las expectativas socials son similares¿) se siente de una forma más forzada por ser "la norma" (en este caso hablando del sexo o relaciones amorosas o ambas) y tomando en cuenta que el espectro asexual es enorme y abarca no solo el líbido, la atracción sino también el deseo sexual, pues debería ser solo decisión de cada quién si decide tener relaciones o no y que no se vea obligado a "confirmar" su identidad ^^
