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I'm just your average guy who's into basketbalI and music. Hopefully my channel can be a place where we can all get together and share good vibes!
How I Deal With Social Anxiety
9:11
2 года назад
Why Are You So Quiet?
7:04
2 года назад
21 Years Old WITH FRIENDS! Update Video
15:32
3 года назад
2 Chainz Money In The Way Lyrics
2:42
5 лет назад
Carmelo Anthony Swearing And More
2:02
6 лет назад
Fetty Wap Player No More Lyrics
3:22
7 лет назад
Michael Jackson Loving You Lyrics
3:46
10 лет назад
Avicii- Levels Remix 2014
3:45
10 лет назад
Aloe Blacc-Love is the answer Lyrics
3:47
10 лет назад
Time Flies One Night Lyrics
4:02
11 лет назад
B. Smyth Letter Lyrics
3:57
11 лет назад
Matt Nathanson Kinks Shirt Lyrics
3:00
11 лет назад
Комментарии
@haya-zv2ld
@haya-zv2ld 23 дня назад
Hi, I just wanted to say that I look up to you a lot, I hope everything is going well for you and that you are happy :)
@matsuokarika
@matsuokarika Месяц назад
3:03
@daz.t
@daz.t 2 месяца назад
Anyone in 2024
@spicychickensandwich84
@spicychickensandwich84 3 месяца назад
🔥🔥🔥
@angelabrunner2058
@angelabrunner2058 3 месяца назад
you’re amazing. You are learning and you are such a great communicator ! I am sure this video has helped so many people
@LorenzoWatts-c6n
@LorenzoWatts-c6n 3 месяца назад
Y2K Matt Nathanson "Kinks Shirt" Last Of The Great Pretenders (2013)
@OokileyGMR
@OokileyGMR 4 месяца назад
This year I have realized one extremely powerful thing. And that is that regardless of what happens, whether you move forward one year or backwards, or feel stuck, in the grand scheme of things you are still making progress. I used to be a 16 year old who was suicidal, hated himself and didn't even plan for the future cause I thought I wouldn't be around. Yet, 8 years later, I am much better and have dreams and understand that change is always there. You will not be the same when you're 30, or 40, or whatever. The same time that makes food go bad makes a tree grow. The only thing is we need to learn how to take care of our garden so it can grow.
@haya-zv2ld
@haya-zv2ld 5 месяцев назад
So true !
@yungindia_
@yungindia_ 6 месяцев назад
RAW 💎💎
@haya-zv2ld
@haya-zv2ld 6 месяцев назад
Your videos make me feel better about myself, you're right even if I have no friend and I'm too anxious I'm cool too ! thank you so much for sharing your story !
@glory4778
@glory4778 6 месяцев назад
Certified classic
@steventchouteau
@steventchouteau 7 месяцев назад
I been looking for this
@gatorboy4076
@gatorboy4076 7 месяцев назад
Who still wit us in 2024?!
@mcjonas_x10
@mcjonas_x10 7 месяцев назад
Ninguém nunca me amou 💔
@mcjonas_x10
@mcjonas_x10 7 месяцев назад
Sad 😢💔😔😭
@dorian8787
@dorian8787 7 месяцев назад
I'm not gonna watch the videos but from the title I'll tell you alcohol helps
@tyopz
@tyopz 7 месяцев назад
😢😢😢❤️‍🩹😭😭😭😭
@AKSourGod
@AKSourGod 9 месяцев назад
😂😂😂😂
@JustBossTalk-JD
@JustBossTalk-JD 10 месяцев назад
@savannarae12
@savannarae12 10 месяцев назад
1:11
@ahhhhhhhhh5327
@ahhhhhhhhh5327 10 месяцев назад
honestly social anxiety is no joke! one thing that helped me was getting a fast food job, i was forced to socialize with co-workers, managers and customers. it truly helped with me social skill which intern made me more confident and friendly to people who also struggle with social anxiety. this job worked for me, so if someone wants to branch out but doesn’t know how to, maybe try working in some type of team oriented/ customer service job. it worked for me and may work for you!!
@jloose128
@jloose128 10 месяцев назад
2023 was... a year. Not much happened on my end either so I get how you feel. Embracing therapy is great, it's important to have people to talk to and to understand who you are and how you're feeling. Whether that continues to be a therapist or a best friend or a random voice, we as humans need people like that having our backs. Glad you're still making these videos, baby steps am I right? Wishing good vibes your way dude, you aren't going through anything alone. I'd say you could reach out if you needed to someone to talk to but I'm sure you don't wanna do that with some stranger online haha
@alexsmith7131
@alexsmith7131 10 месяцев назад
Thanks man! I appreciate the kind words
@magueysunset
@magueysunset 10 месяцев назад
I learned better habits in 2023 like mindfulness meditation (used a little book called 30 Days to Reduce Depression by Harper Daniels which was coo), exercising a lot more with much more intensity, cutting down on caffeine by 90%, and going to be earlier. I hope to continue these into the new year and add more.
@samueldeandrade8535
@samueldeandrade8535 10 месяцев назад
My 2023 was awful. My parents put me in a religious cult that manipulates drug addicts, me and some other boy were there just because of depression, I understood it was a manipulation cult, got out. Without job, I was with a freelance here close to my house. But I had to start dating. I HAD TOO, didn't I? Just to deal with useless sh1t! Broke up. When I finally could work in my freelance after a period of rain, I fought with the ownet. Now, I am unemployed, doing nothing all day.
@alexsmith7131
@alexsmith7131 10 месяцев назад
Hey man I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that this year. It really sucks when you get into that cycle of one bad thing after another happening. I’ve also had some family and job issues so I can somewhat relate to all that stuff. I’ve just been trying to take things one step at a time so that I don’t get completely overwhelmed by all the problems in my life that need solving. Who knows maybe 2024 is our year 😂 hoping things get better for you soon!
@AV4Life
@AV4Life 10 месяцев назад
2023 was interesting. I definitely developed the hardest work ethic of my life, but things still did not exactly go my way. Also, anxiety and negative feelings are a part of being young, inexperienced, and a lack of real world accomplishments. It’s nothing to be ashamed of! We all go through it to an extent.
@celinebulbul7141
@celinebulbul7141 10 месяцев назад
1:11 😍
@BriannaAdkins-dt4nj
@BriannaAdkins-dt4nj 10 месяцев назад
I luv this song ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I just fell in love with the west side 🔫
@crystal.7863
@crystal.7863 10 месяцев назад
am I the only one in 2023
@okaypleaseno3630
@okaypleaseno3630 11 месяцев назад
2023 anyone?
@jbrendel98
@jbrendel98 11 месяцев назад
It really helps being out of college and being away from the pressure to 'fit in.' Dont get me wrong it was easier there than in high school, but that was when I started to realize that I'm autistic, and because of that people are likely to leave me or take advantage of me, which causes the social anxiety in the first place, but that's ok because I still have one true friend and I'm ok with being alone for right now, while I'm still in the process of filtering out the crap that society has imposed on me/learning to walk in my own shoes, which builds confidence.
@oyoung7908
@oyoung7908 11 месяцев назад
2023 still bumping everyday Im inlove with this song his voice is so angelic may you continue rest in paradise
@jbrendel98
@jbrendel98 11 месяцев назад
Try getting on buspar. Works wonders and it's non addictive. If that doesn't work, embrace solitude as your friend, we all eventually branch away from each other when we get older.
@Jxstvib1ng
@Jxstvib1ng 11 месяцев назад
I need to begin taking mine again . I’m struggling w prozacs side effects/:
@unstabledefusion
@unstabledefusion Год назад
I've never even been able to use social media for most of my life. The only place I've expressed my true self is on Reddit and some random forums.
@nathanderouen7776
@nathanderouen7776 Год назад
I went through that same process.
@flo4710
@flo4710 Год назад
School daze yeah.. but now NONE, either. It's OKAY tho. Yeah. I felt the same way too. I'd just be like shy heh.. yeah, I'm like how do you converse with ppl? How do you be with someone, etc.. so yeah. I feel your Pain😢 It's OKAY. You're touching many through your Videos now heh😊 Keep your head up. Much ❤! 😊🙏💕
@buttil2221
@buttil2221 Год назад
feeling simular things atm, but we just gotta keep our heads up :)
@kyarasquirewell1321
@kyarasquirewell1321 Год назад
I’m so glad I won my sweater from him and keep in contact with his mom she is so sweet 💕
@Koalarix
@Koalarix Год назад
You could create a discord community, though that would require moderators, but could be a good place to talk to each other
@bossingituptoday8299
@bossingituptoday8299 Год назад
U a bum Fetty for this short ass verse bc this is literally one of the best verses ever
@rebelsrebels1075
@rebelsrebels1075 Год назад
I know about what you went through because no one has the fully exact same experience but I'm just turned 39 and I still don't have any friends because of the exact same in school and after school Just don't never ever give up
@Pond6
@Pond6 Год назад
This is 100% true, however, because I don't want people to know that I have SA I just admit to people that I'm "Introverted", and usually they agree with me and we go on with our day. I was born an extrovert and I do enjoy talking to people, but that feeling of serotonin or whatever is gone now so this is called Anhedonia and it has teared my life to pieces. I usually just make small talk with people and don't go overboard with talking too much like I used to do before SA.
@jasondehn2024
@jasondehn2024 Год назад
My son is about your age, he told his mother that he felt the same as you, I will take this on board when I talk to him next. We don’t see each other much, but this is good information for me to understand we’re he is at. Thank you.
@A_I15
@A_I15 Год назад
"I just fell in love with the west side" only this line hits diff
@jeffreycarran
@jeffreycarran Год назад
God bless you brother you are in my prayers i hope you are better im sure you will make lots of friends it does get better i never had friends until i was 26 it will get better take care God bless man
@OfAngels444
@OfAngels444 Год назад
Heres the thing. Most of those people, werent real friends. IME you realize who your REAL friends are in your 30s.
@samwalsh8299
@samwalsh8299 Год назад
Schools have always punished introverted behaviour, but they do it in subtle or indirect ways. Schools always have a desk fitted with two chairs, so sitting on my own would look “weird” and thus, I’d be considered an even greater outcast than I already am. Also quiet kids are usually easy to identify, and it sometimes feels like even the teachers participate in the alienation and isolation which leads to the suffering of such individual. This is exactly what I’ve had to deal with for such a long time. I’ve struggled with social anxiety which is further exacerbated by my speech difficulties, this effectively lead me to being extremely depressed and anxious and it’s taken a toll on me. Even though I have healed, part of me is gone. I was a kid, and I had no protection from my school institution (private catholic secondary school in Ireland), but I am forever grateful for my family, who love me and always, ALWAYS accepted me for who I am. If anybody reads all of this, and especially if they struggle in social situations, life gets better, don’t listen to anyone who tells you your school days are your best days, because they’re not. ~ Sam
@zachf1212
@zachf1212 Год назад
I’m really sorry to hear you going through that. I hope over time it got better. I was in the same loop. Had an awful time in high school no friends and everyone ignored me. After high school is tough because I started working right away and it so much harder to try at work versus younger. It’s really hard to get out of the no friends loop. I’m still trying and determined to get out of it. I hope you found new ways to make friends
@him727
@him727 Год назад
Thanks for sharing dude👍
@davidmatos5657
@davidmatos5657 Год назад
So what? Why you begging? Be a man! Who gives a shit about friends? The best friend that you can have is yourself man! Take the responsibility for the way you are! If you don’t like the way you are just start doing something about that! Go workout! Do something! Stop complaining about everything! It’s time for you to change your software 😂 To be honest you have something very good on you: Social anxiety! That’s very good brother! Makes you be far from the human stupidity! Go to the gym! Create goals on your mind! And fck everybody!
@maxbowman1613
@maxbowman1613 Год назад
I’m 30 with social anxiety I can relate and I will be your friend