SUSAN WINTER is a leading relationship expert and love coach who has helped over 6,000 people find (and keep) love. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan is a bestselling author (Older Women/Younger Men, Allowing Magnificence, and Breakup Triage) who writes, speaks and coaches on dating issues, relationship challenges, and personal empowerment.
Susan’s 950+ media credits include: THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, TODAY SHOW, CNN HEADLINE NEWS, ABC EVENING NEWS, CNBC, FOX NEWS, BBC, ITV NEWS, TALKTV UK, COSMO, PEOPLE, BUSINESS INSIDER, FORBES, FORTUNE, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, IRISH EXAMINER, MUMBAI MIRROR, TIMES OF INDIA, and THE NEW YORK TIMES. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, BBC, ABC, and CBS NEWS. Public speaking keynotes: THE WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM, INTERNATIONAL MENTAL HEALTH FESTIVAL, CORE CLUB NYC, and 1880 CLUB SINGAPORE. Her podcast, The Susan Winter Show, is on Spotify, Apple Music, and Amazon Prime. www.susanwinter.net
After an incredible month and a half, I got “ you have all the qualities that I want, we share the same values and we have great sexual chemistry it’s really easy and comfortable to be around you and we have a really deep connection, but something still feels missing”
You always lift my mind and my whole body. Every word in this video about self love resonated with what I have been through in choices of the past and the work on my self in years. I find my self in agreement with my self. I have always been. It was only the conditioning of familiare, friends, school, society. I am 43 now and have many flows and strength. And self acceptance, self compassione, self love is this what you describe: understanding each part of my self. Understanding is key, it leaves you open and receptive. To be mercy to yourself and others. ❤❤❤
I was overly disrespectful towards him because of his attitude at that time and he broke up with me and has started dating someone else I have apologized and begged for us to come back but he said that he isn’t attracted to me romantically and emotionally again but i really need him back please help me with how to win him back
Hi!!! How are you? Are you still enjoying your newfound social life, and the activities that you began about a year ago? It's fabulous to hear from you. And especially to see the incredible transformation that you have achieved within yourself.
I really liked your input on the subject. I really share the reparability concept. I'm already getting used to the thought that the relationship is lost, but I still believe in those principles. Thanks for the vid Susan
You look gorgeous in that colour Susan. Thank you so much i can exist in the same time as you are. Infinitely grateful for your shared wisdom 💜 i hope the live shows can come back ✨ much love to you
Thank you for your wonderful comment Marte. and yes, the live show begins again Thursday, October 3. I'm heading into my second round of corrective eye surgery this coming Monday, and I really thought I would wait until I no longer have a plastic eye cover before I shoot any videos.!! So I'll be about 10 days out of the surgery for the LiveShow. (I might be able to put on a little eye makeup as well. 😊)
I love how people say "you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else". Like it's some magical threshold you have to cross beforeyoucan ever find love. I love what you say about it's an "ongoing process". Because thats absolutely true!
What "they say" will make us crazy! No one can jump over those hurdles that are presented as sociological goalposts. I know, hundreds of clients who do not love themselves, and do not even like themselves on most days. Yet, they have a loving and devoted partner. I also know, loving clients who like themselves and have a very good internal disposition who are madly in love with someone who hates themselves. It's simply the way of the world. The best thing we can do is to work on our own side of the street. Take care of ourselves and make wise choices that edify our life when it comes to our romantic partners.
I really like how Matthew Hussey phrases it. We need to be happy enough, love ourself enough. Which doesn't necessarily mean fully. Let's be honest, there is no more healing place than a healthy relationship.
Nickus, great point. And I think Matthew expresses it beautifully. We have this image of "self-love" as being a distant mountain top that feels insurmountable. Actually, it's incremental. And it is that incremental self acceptance that allows us to be happy enough to be healthy enough to love in a healthy manner
Does window shopping among woman means that when talking she is single at that time or have a partner husband or bf or sugar daddy or have many sexual partner's?
What do you do if the person is not leaving but there is an emotional distance? You want to honor their need for space but it is so hard to see how to respond. Is the answer to just focus on your own needs and see what happens?
The quickest way to heal from a break up is to simply just heal. There are no shortcuts to healing 😊. Just heal👍. Cry if you want to. Be sad if you want to. Be emotional if you want to. Don't be ready to heal, it's okay.
Thank You Susan....My Recent Internet Romance Scammer Story had a few Twists and Turns that ALL hit your 'Warning Bells' at least once. They are evolving as Apex Predators often do when the Hunting Environment changes.... So, I thought about something my Grandfather taught me....'If it looks like a Duck, Quacks like a Duck, Flies like a Duck, and Waddles like a Duck, it's probably a Duck'. She or He was VERY smooth and I actually had some fun staying on Messenger and going back and forth. Never sent any money and killed the relationship today. Blocked her and ALL the Warning Signs you spoke of Susan were present. The World of Dating has radically changed and I for one prefer not to be a part of it anymore....JP
i left a monogamous dating situation because without a relationship, I felt trapped. he wasnt actually mine and it was painful. He just reminded me all tbe time that we were in a relationship and basically he would let me know when. It was the opposite of hating rhat we are dating others. it felt like i was on reserve but without the emotional intimacy and the movememt ended.
Thank you so much Susan ❤ I have watched a number of your clips and your analysis is always excellent, full of maturity, kind wisdom and warmth. You are helping me process my troubles. Bless you!
