Hey there just got your video recommendation from RU-vid and it's was really heartwarming to watch, I think poetry comes from a place of imagination and hope that we have in our hearts, something I love to talk about in my dream interpretation channel, looking forward to more videos, I just liked and subscribed
❤ I feel you. I totally understand the need to shutdown.. I found that then it helped open small windows to access my emotions, my body and some of my friends and family...
Really great honest conversation. I’m really sorry you know this pain. I lost my daughter to suicide in 2020. These conversations are so important, thankyou 💔❤️💔
I lost my older brother to suicide in 2011 when I was 27 and he was 29. We were very close growing up and hung out all the time and shared the same friends, interests etc. The first week for me after it happened was a complete blur. The huge feeling of loss hit me very hard and very fast, it was crippling. It took me months to really start feeling anything like myself. I was never angry with him for doing it as I have seen some people say they feel afterward. I felt a complete and seemingly unconquerable feeling of sorrow and sadness. I didn't know that being that sad could cause physical pain. I wished I could've done something for him or helped him get through his pain somehow. My family (Mother, Father and younger brother) and friends helped. Being able to grieve with my parents and younger brother really helped knowing I wouldn't have to go through it alone. The feeling of loss definitely hits me randomly and with varying degrees of severity. Today for example sucks man, even 12 years and 3 months later. One of the worst and sad feelings I've had in about 2 years, that's what brought me to this video! I love and miss you so much Adam, it really sucks that you'll never meet my wife or child and be a part of their lives. Grieving what could have been isn't as tough as when we lost you but it is still hard and it hurts very much. Thank you so much for making this video and sharing this story.
I lost my little brother to suicide 4 years ago. It was hard to listen to this podcast because my feelings mirror what Scott is going through. It's crazy how the grief sneaks up on me when I least expect it. When it hits me it can still be debilitating. In a lot of ways, it's harder for me now than it was for months after he died. I sometimes still forget that he's really gone. I've tried to turn this horrible experience into a less horrible one by speaking about mental health and suicide here in the USA. Even so, I miss my brother so incredibly much. I don't think that will ever go away.
Thank you for sharing that with me! Grief for sure has a funny way of arriving unannounced when we least expect it. Loss never goes away, it is an ever-present beast that shows no mercy. I hope you are looking after yourself on those tough days. Big love from the UK
I cried most of the way through this. The Father that Samson lost, is my brother, Alexis. this is very well constructed, and it’s good for younger people to talk about it. I applaud you for this, and my heart goes out to him of you and to you Joe for your own loss. Sending love. Dayna xxx
awesome video! Inspirational! I'm sure we would be able to do something together? I've had a very crazy cancer battle and am now trying to help others! Be awsome to talk? 💯👍💪🙌
awsome stuff my friend. id be up for a chat if you fancey it? wanting to do the same sort of thing! I think there is something to take from everyone's journey with cancer!🙌💯🙏💪✊✌💜
hey joe, just been binge watching your vids and i think what youre doing is amazing and it is definitely helping a lot of people especially at the moment! thanks for normalising talking about mental health, really inspirational !!!
really interesting to hear about such a sensitive/difficult topic for both of you so openly and bravely, will definitely help those struggling with loss a lot and kudos to you both in general
@@joebellman7969 absolutely no problem good luck with everything will definitely be watching your other videos feel much more educated about loss in general, keep doing what you're doing :)
I love the comment about the best place is being in Marbella on the beach - well done for doing this Joe. I have two kids who lost their daddy six years ago and I will show my eldest this (she's now 13) my youngest is still a bit young to hear the 'f' words!! :) So good to say that it's ok/good to speak about a parent who has died. Love the skateboard - so cool. Get those emotions out and keep talking!! xx
Thank you for your kindness, Louise. I'm just trying to navigate and understand an already difficult topic the best way that I can. I hope that your Daughter finds some comfort from some of my videos xx
