This ended up randomly in my recommended videos and I think it's interesting how it can be applied to ourselves as an adult as well. I really liked how you also mentionned neurodivergent children! Also totally agree with the last part, i hope to be a better person than yesterday ! I hope you live happily Mr. Chazz !
Another amazing video! Your break downs are so accurate. Love how you mentioned that in order to bring yourself back to executive state, you must reframe the narrative. Simple but complicated! Can't wait to try this tomorrow! I have 3 kiddos, so I'll have lots of practice 😉
I just found you today and I just can't get enough! Everything your saying is exactly how I see situations. It's hard to articulate to people! You just have a way of being non-threatening about a controversial perspective. Keep it up! I truly hope you blow up because everyone needs to hear what you are saying!!!!!!!! Your a paradigm shifter 🧞♂️
Love it, love it, love it!!! You are nailing it!!!! Love how you are calling out the real reality of the situation. So glad I found you! You are exactly what the world's needs!
As i prepare to send my 4 year old toddlert off for her first day of kindergarten tomorrow, god sent me here. Thank you for this content, very informative and necessary.
You are truly a public servant…. I don’t have children but your videos go beyond improving and understanding child behaviors. I find it very helpful as an adult.❤ Thank you
I am so glad to finally found you! I dont have my Tik Tok account anymore & I couldn't remember your name. We have to get you to blow up on RU-vid, more parents need access to this content (and everyone else, tbh). Got u on all notifications on.
I really just discovered you recently and may I say You are on it Chazz!! Your content is right on. I’ve been in the Early childhood profession for quite some time. This is the core of what I practice (Of what it’s all about). I am elated to see you a young black man holding and creating space for this very needed content, emotional intelligence, self-regulation /co-regulating brain development and so much more!!! Amazing !
I really wish i had you around when i first had my kids... but you have helped me so much in my relationships with my children now and helps heal my inner child as well... thank you so much for the work you are doing to help 😊
I just found your page today from Threads. And so happy to be here! I want to commend you for not shaming the mom for not being fully evolved. I’ve tried so many conscious parenting fb groups that are just so negative and judgmental it felt easier to just not try cause getting help or positive feedback when you didn’t do things “right” or “perfect” was impossible. Keep the content coming. Mom of two under two and a teenager who currently LIVES in her emotional state and want to learn to not. I’ve worked on breaking some of the generational curses but have a long way to go. And want to do even better with these next two children.
The last two sentences about working on improving every day was a gut check! The guilt I feel when I fall into my own emotional and survival state in response to a four-year-old can be overwhelming. Cannot tell you how much I appreciate your content! ❤️
Thank you...I get so frustrated when my kids jump on their beds...I want to redirect the behavior, but I feel like I need to deal with my negative feelings around it better 😢
Both of my kids are almost 40, but if that were not the case I would definitely subscribe to your channel! I am praying that it takes off like crazy, because THIS IS GREAT!! 🤗🇲🇽
Ma’am…I’m over 50 years old and has never had kids. I subscribed to him after watching 1 video. He helps me to understand my adult brain and how/why I process certain things the way I do. He’s so helpful to me in that way. ☺️
I would greatly appreciate about how to help a child out of fight or flight mode when they are trying to physically fight you, damage things in your home, etc. Love your videos. Thank you!
Please give an actual example like if they are geting aggressive, what exactly should be the consequences, what reactions to expect, and how to navigate ... this could be ao much more helpful mr.chazz. learning so much from u
Great content. Love the advocacy for children and parents alike. . For healthy homes. I just wanted to add that we as a society .. as apeople ..of all races backgrounds and places, need to normalise and encourage ourselves and others to take responsibility for our own healing... preferably BEFORE having children so we can break the cycles of abuse, trauma and mess. One thing i do know is we cant do it on our own. We were not designed to live like this.
There is great value in all of what you're saying, however perhaps the editing can be improved so that children's faces are completely covered for the entirety of the videos. It was now executed properly here, and the child's anonymity was not protected.
The last :30 😩💔❤️ so many feelings around that. Thank you so much for this content. Reading the book now as I struggle with the patience to stay calm with three young children. ❤❤❤
