Straightforward Life Advice. -------------------------- Behavioral Analyst (ABA), Bestselling author ("Until Next Time" on Amazon), Dating & Reconciliation life coach (CLC).
This podcast channel gives easily absorbed advice in regards to break ups, dating, self-love, and relationship strategies allowing you to have happier, healthier relationships.
Me and my ex were on the re-attraction phase and well she started to ask more of me and i hesitantly agreed and well in hindsight i should’ve maintained my masculine but the bitterness and pettiness got better of me and i fumbled a little now we’re back to no contact and i feel like we’ve broken up all over again fml please give some advice
I fucked this one up by not upholding my boundary every time he tried to talk. Even when I originally intended to. But he continued to reach out. At this point though… I mean we only really interacted like 3 times directly and otherwise… I was either ignoring or refusing to see him. I only ignored him… after he already knew I needed space and he tried to come up with a date like “okay we’ll see when I come home from vacation” and I at the time agreed. So I figure… ignoring him wasn’t horrible to do. But at this point. I don’t know. It’s only still a couple times we interacted since the break up… I think I have to just give up hope though. And I’m going back into no contact and if he reaches out I’m setting my boundary again. And I’m not going to see him
Guess what? I dumped my ex. We had a very toxic relationship, one that had to end. I blocked and deleted him. He never tried to get back with me, a very clear sign that he didn’t care. That was enough confirmation for me to know that I made the right decision. Good riddance.
I need help am in same problem She was traumatised by parents break up , at in 4 yrs she has slept with over 20 men. Hv bn with her thought all was nice until she cheated on mi and she confessed to mi that it was hurting her i deserved a better person. That she loved mi abd neva intended to hurt mi. After 1 week of talking with her is wen she opened the all history and that even previous evening she had slept with her ex. Shez told mi that she once met psychologist to try and stop wat she does coz she doesnt love those men nor enjoy sex but she cant stop herself. She separates from one guy after she gets another buh went to ex because i had split with her Am a medical student . She thi ks i can help her stop her sexual problem if we remain as friends. I dont know wat to do please help mi discuus the topic and find solution for mi
I feel I want out but she says if I don't help she is getting wasted more. She once told mi that wen young she was raped tho am not if its true coz I don't trust her Should I stay as friend and try helping or shld I leave for good
same here. suxs.... just agreed to her decision and haven't' heard a thing in 2 weeks... what sucks is that I bought tickets for George Lopez that where 100 bucks a seat... and the show is this Friday.... guess I'm going alone... idk.
I’m starting to believe my recent relationship failed because we both are fearful avoidant and raised to be people pleasers and we didn’t communicate all of our needs properly or how to fix issues when they came up because we feel like we can’t talk about that and that we would hurt or upset eachother based on family wounds
Are guys scared of attractive ladies? I'm seriously wondering, I've been told I'm not bad Looking, but why am I single then? I see different women wherever and honestly sometimes I (as bad as this sounds) judge them a little for their exterior appearance. Don't hate me but, to myself I'm thinking, so they have a man, (it's usually a dude that worships the ground she walks on/as it should be), but I have negative thoughts, like oh they can get a man? I'm so sorry, I'm going through a lot right now. Im taking the advice about P.E.R.M.I.T.S. I'm on vacay rn, IV been trying to work out although I had already been working on myself...luv u all Reply if you can, thx❤
Anyone else just feel like straight shit right now? Like there is NOT a person out there for you? That's how I feel right now. I just want to be loved and I feel like there's no one out there that is WILLING to love me back.
Dude, the pain.. it's not as bad as it was but it's still there. I feel so freaking worthless, unattractive.. just plain shitty. It's always there, in the background if not a current thought. I luv u all ......
Sometimes you have to love someone and YOURSELF enough to let them go. I love my ex, and I vowed to do whatever I can to see her happy, even if it breaks my own heart. And she said breaking up would make her happy, so I gave her that. I love her that much. Besides, when she decided to leave me, that means she thinks she can do better than me. I could never be with someone who thinks that. Letting her go hurts, but it had to be done
I remember the dating guy and often would look at his videos. He always came across as a very wise person, as well as being humorous. I remember once him making a joke at Craig Kenneth's expense, "It is an email,Craig, not a ticket to Beyonce!". 😁
It was 3 1/2 days and I broke no contact. We used to text each other everyday. Then he broke up with me and it went into radio silence. It was not easy. My skin was crawling. So I texted saying hi to my ex and asked how has work been. He broke up with me because he has no time for me because of his work schedule at a hospital. He works all the time. He answered my hello text within seconds. We then had a casual conversation talking about how we are. We talked about a lot of trivial things. I felt relief but I'm sure he is relieved too that I spoke to him after he broke up with me. He thought I would be angry at him but I'm not. But what do I do now? Go back into no contact? Will this work now that I messed up? I love him very much. I want to be back with him. I don't want to fall into the friend zone situation which I feel he will do.
Thanks so much for this video. All of your work is helping me. I have been working on myself and will not quit. Grateful for videos that uplift me and reduce my feelings of anxiety. ❤
Avoidants are exhausting. Avoid the avoidant. You are expected to treat them with kid gloves but they can do whatever the hell they want without regard to how it makes you feel.
Never thought I would see your face. I remembered that the dating guy left, I typed his name to se if he was back and saw your video on him. I did have a call with you Rory, and he helped me with some emails. I still want to thank you and him, coz you helped me so much when I was heartbroken. You guys, in part, made me be who I am today. The happiest version of myself. So thanks Rory, and thanks to the long gone dating guy.
My ex contacted me after 6 months of no contact, he was the one who initiated breakup and left, our relationship was 7 years older and he came back to me with lots of love bombing such as i cant replace u i love you i miss you wanna see you wanna love you... my responses were no so validating i acted cold bcs i suffered a lot of pain when he left so my coldness was obvious... he did this love bombing for straight 4 days and then started acting cold and distant.. this made me feel anxious.. i send him a quote and a short text on whatsapp.. he read my message and left on seen. This is hurting me how can someone pour love and then acts cold. This is disturbing me a lot feels like i lost all of my strengths and healing i have done in these 6 months. May this rat rot in hell for such a narcissistic behavior.
1. I am grateful for my friends who care for me and my wellbeing 2. Grateful for my body which helps me exercise and feel better 3. Grateful for these videos !
This happened with me two weeks before our relationship was perfect, but suddenly after 1 month she started being too busy and after 1.5month of our relationship she texted me a long text saying she is not ready for a relationship ,she feeling lot of pressure, etc. I was in love with her now I'm in a shock
who cares if the ex reached out? chances are they are just breadcrumbing you, or hoping for some validation from you once they see you start moving on. they may even reach out to you though they’re chasing someone else. they say they want you to move on, but really they toy with the idea that you’re always going to be pining for them. it’s all about them receiving validation and an ego boost. it’s never, never about them feeling sincerely regretful about the way they’ve treated you.
Thank you for mentioning the bs league system.. Teen movies have a lot to answer for! To whoever reads this, please understand there are no leagues. There are simply people who fancy you, and people who don't fancy you. That's it. For 100s of years, people have got their heart broken and this will continue until the end of time. We are not alone in this. You're going to get through this. In the meantime , sleep well, try to eat real food and get a bit of exercise. It's good for your mental health x
Hi Rory it's my Birthday today. And my ex send me happy birthday message but I don't reply because he just broke me last two weeks... So why he send me message... For what😮
