An excellent lesson on WHAT KIND OF PARENT TO NEVER BE!!! They will live to regret all of it - or face Jesus Christ - who will judge us ALL!!! You have to do what you think is right for you. But I will tell you - I had a really rough child hood. I went to 26 different elementary schools before I started the 6th grade - and I never went to kindergarten. It was awful. BUT I ALWAYS HAD MY MOM!! I would not have made it without her - and she was not always there either and when she was - she drank a lot... But I grew up. I met my husband at age 15, I finished school, went to a Medical Receptionist class, got a job and NEVER LOOKED BACK!!! I took care of my mom after she got breast cancer and was there the day she died. I took care of my husband before his death at age 43. LIFE HAS A WAY OF SAYING: "YOU MATTER". It does not show up until you are older - but it will show up. Go make a life for yourself THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!!! DO NOT EVER CONSIDER YOUR PARENTS' WANTS/NEEDS - THEY BLEW THAT CRAP ALL TO HELL WHERE YOU ARE CONCERNED!!! Go do what it takes to make you happy - whatever that is!!!! And may God Bless you!!!
Sounds like my ex's sister. If my ex or one of her siblings bought something she would buy a better model. For example, when DVD players came out my daughter and son-in-law bought me a DVD player for Christmas. Well she went and bought one with surround sound. We bought a 52 in tv., She bought a 55 in tv and so on. She couldn't stand it if one us had something better than her. Glad i'm not a part of that family anymore.
Good for Julia. Just because he was there doesn't mean he was her father with what he really feels about her. The mom is the worst. Julia definitely is moving on.
Wait, so he sees no issue in telling her shes not his real daughter, not caring about her feelings anc expect her to just get over it, but then gers upset when he is told the same? What? Your not my real daughter but i demand you to treat me as your real dad???? Had he said that to me i would have told him right then and there to forget everything shared between real daughters and fathers because he wouldn't be part of it since according to him, he only sees it as real bio children
LAST STORY OP sister want to have her care and eat it too. She got her inheritance. And fancy cara and a house but she want to dry OP funds and bet she doesn't planned to return it
Well OP had a wedding before but for his family and him is first wedding... Just coz OP is used to wedding doesn't mean its others his family has to suffer from cheap and boring wedding... And get embarrassed in front of whole extended family... Its a shame already that her is getting married to divorcee
First rule of Cheaters: Ditch them. They deserve no 2nd chance. The moment you give them that is the moment you give them a 2nd chance to cheat. Not even 1 minute in and I can tell this guy is gonna have trust issues with every partner cause he's letting her have a second chance. Bitches like that don't deserve it, cheating is a choice, not a mistake.
This was hard to listen through as so many things could have been avoided and fixed. Both parents failed....the neglect trauma was so evident that the daughter processed it through avoidance. Exclusionary comments to any child is very isolating. The daughter numbed herself by removing the "father" titled from Robert in order for her to be resolved. This type of coping never works as it just creates distance from each other. The mother should have addressed this when he first opened his mouth about "his real kids!" Talk about emotional damaging when the mother just pass it off as an off comment and trying to minimize his statement. The daughter must have felt alone in her own home and garnering no support from her mother. It's not up to the victims to try to make amends to the perpetrator....which also includes the mother. BOTH PARENTS FAILED!!!!
Edit: it's one of the sadest stories 😢 and it is unfair that the sensitive and good man took his own life because of two narcissists. I wish all the best for the sister. I hope she is doing alright. For the manipulative couple and horrible parents: I wish them to meet their karma. They deserve punishment. You should be grateful to God that you found out what your girlfriend and your brother are really like! How could they??? These are two people with serious disorders who enjoy manipulation. I suspect narcissistic personality disorder. It's good that they are together - they turn their life into a nightmare. I feel very sorry for you, because it seems that you are a very cool guy. You were ready to forgive her something that most people wouldn't forgive. I don't know why this girl and your brother pulled this circus. Why so much lying and manipulation? And your parents... well, they must be blinded by love for your little brother or they are simply immoral people and help this type of acts. For me this whole story is disgustingly cruel. It's good that you freed yourself from these people. The truth, even the worst is always better than living a lie. Go to therapy and take care of yourself. You deserve someone much better than this. For her? She deserves your narcissistic brother. They will destroy each other one day.
I found a summary of last part on Reddit After a year the Op updates, but first he told about his two bad relationships after his divorce: The one who was a single mother was asking him for good financial status and for her to give her many free passes...yes, she was a radical feminist. The gamer had a good character, but she mistreated Op's pet and they broke up because a coworker of hers, who became friends with Op, told her that she was trying to hook him up and since she couldn't, she wanted to get back with Op., but he rejected her again, telling her about his contact with his partner. As an aside, Op became friends with benefits with his nutritionist (who also knew Jane) and when the gamer wanted to go look for him, the nutritionist mocked her by showing that she was wearing Op's shirt and the gamer left crying (already from here I am seeing it as tantasy). Among her tragic cases, it is said that th-first: Jane was banging on the door in v desperation because her lover (the balu coach or bird brain) was chasing her and Op threatened him and they put a restraining order, which I find strange, since bald has complaints and it means that he must have escaped (again, I see it as fantasy). And the second was about his mother passing away in November of last year, Jane was with him to help him, she shared the food, the family members ignored her, Op said it was unfair because she was helping and gives him a kiss as a thank you with the goal that her relatives are not cold towards her (I see that Op is still the same SIMP as always). Days later, Jane was yelling at Op that he shouldn't have kissed her, that it was difficult for him to get over it and all that if he has a relationship with the nutritionist, but Op emphasizes that he has a friends with benefits relationship with her and to compensate him, he would also give her that opportunity to Jane, she left and in January, she agrees to be his friend with benefit and Op relates (disgusting to me, by the way) how he enjoyed intimacy with Jane while waiting for the promotion because he still has the goal of being a father.. with which I find it difficult and many of those who commented to him were disappointed because the last thing they noticed was that he was not looking for something serious and he seems m fictitious than he previously explained, efforts have been in vain, so much was the criticism that he Op tried to defend himself, but his anguish was so great that he deleted that last update. If you see his account, he deleted his post because he himself knows that the people who supported him feel dismayed.
