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Being a caregiver is the toughest thing in the world I have over 27 years in law enforcement but taking care of my wife I do it again i'm not complaining but I wouldn't put her through that again and she passed away and now my depression has taken a toll on me really bad it's affecting everything I feel like I don't even exist anymore I miss her so much I was supposed to protect her and I couldn't stop it from happening I miss her so much maybe I just wanna be with her now
Grieving from some one alive ,kills you . its like a slow poisoning, no matter how hard you try to over come it or let it go, it grows with you inside you, till your last breadth.😢
1. Difficulty speaking up, and prioritizing your own needs, wants, and feelings 2. Saying I'm sorry and or ferling guilty for everyday actions 3. Not rocking the boat 4. Nit feeling deserving of, or capable of, having more 5. Difficulty making your own choice 6. Doing things or buying gifts excessively for other people 7. Negative self- perception 8. Critical abusive internal dialogue
Since my son died in 2021 my health has went down heal. From every day pain to blood clots and blocked artery, have to have surgery next month. Weight up and down, lack of sleep, sleep to much, foggy minded.
My Dad died 2 weeks ago and I have been having prolonged moments of chest pain like my heart is being grabbed, and someone is sitting or standing on my chest. It's awful and my Dad died of a unexpected heart attack and so it's just makes it hurt more. I feel like I can't breathe at times but mentally I feel numb and suppressed. I wake up and the ache starts and goes on and off till I sleep, yesterday I left work my chest hurt so much and I was super worried I went to the doctor and they made me do a ECG test for the angina, he offered valium so I could physically relax the tension and physical stress. Didn't take it though otherwise I might start popping valium like no tomorrow.
Thank you for this information it was helpful. I am not experienced at dating and am not extroverted myself.some people even thought of me as antisocial which is not true
This video has clarified so much for me. My only child passed in 2004, aged 18. To this day I still grieve for him, not just for what was but what could have been. I'm a completely different person since he passed. Those who haven't lost a child think I'm "wallowing" in my grief and don't understand why I'm not the person I used to be. I thought I was abnormal but after viewing your video I realise I'm not. My priorities have changed for the better thanks to my loss. Thank you and God bless. 🙏
I lost my mum and dad a year apart he wanted to die after she passed . I cared for them both and felt mentally and physically exhausted after they died. And my health has suffered after this loss hoping to move on and come to terms with life now .😊
Friends, we researched and made a video on loss and grief for all of us here. Here is a link to that new video on GRIEF AND LOSS. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-P1e1PZWg378.html. We hope it will help in some way and may you find just one thing in there that can heal and give you the strength to move further...
Thanks the loss of my son 6 months ago is still like a punch in the stomach. Some days I'm totally okay cause he suffered so much and as a retired RN I took care of him 8 to 12 hours a day. Some days I can't even think of it. Yes the joy and future just don't excite me but I plod on 1 day at a time. As a mom my heart is broken. 💔
As an intrrvert, I ceased all interpersonal, social, association and connection on the 8th of August 2000 at 18:34. Attempting social Interface with humans, in an amicable or amorous manner, never yielded positive results. After several attempts at establishing a successful amicable or amorous association, I concluded I was achieving far more harm to myself than benefit. I still perceive no potential benefit to justify another attempt in establishing an amorous, or amicable, association. The odds of producing disfavourable results due to just seeking herd acceptance, and human social association are tremendously high. The rewards of successful interpersonal, social, association are very few. I find no logic in pursuing such a negative aspect of life.
@@indridcold8433I've actually tried something like this but not completely but its just too much unwanted problems and drama being with extroverts kinda annoying ngl
@@user-un1hy4fn5h It was more than annoying for me. It seemed I had to dumb myself down tremendously to achieve some measurable level of acceptance from the social herd. Showing any form of moderate thought, in anything, automatically ostracised me. It was holding me back so severely that I found myself becoming merely unproductive to myself. I also found myself becoming the target of their abuse, due to their nature of starving for attention all the time and my nature of being quiet all the time. No matter what any therapist, psychiatrist, medical doctor, says, being social does a lot more harm than good. I have witnessed once brilliant individuals decay into idiots once they started trying to assimilate social herd activities, and started making social associations with the social herds, and, "friends."
We are going to make another video on grief and how to try and heal. All of us have been through so much and hope that the new information will guide us and give us the strength that we need 🙏
Grief is hard on the body,I lost m special needs child,Jazana"e February 19 2022 ,She HAD Rett Sydrome and Epilepsy and Scolocisis ,,i was her caregiver ,IT was hard and taxing on my spirt,11 months later ,i lost my Youngest son Gabriel ,he was killed January of this YEAR,It Literally took my breath Away ,my Equilibrium was off balance ,i broke down very quickly ,My body was very tired,my mind ,I struggled with sleep and ENERGY ,,GRIEF definitely AFFECTS YOU MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY..REST EASY JAZANA"E REST EASY GABRIEL 💐💐💐
Very sorry to hear and sending our sincere condolences..that is heartbreaking and cannot imagine what you went through..Hope that time can help heal and that the memories bring happy thoughts...
I’m here because, in 2014, I lost my firstborn, 41 yr old daughter, then, this year, July 4th 2023, the day before my 72nd bday, I suddenly lost my youngest, 36 yr old son, whom I was extremely close with. I find myself being, at times, hyper vigilant over my remaining child, 38 yr old son, though I try not to be. 💔 I do lean heavily on the Lord, who helped me go through the 9 years grieving my precious daughter, and, so, I know He will help me with this dear loss. It is still painful beyond words, but, there are also times of deep peace. I just try to take baby steps, a little at a time, and try not to avoid the tears, that come in waves(though I am sick of crying). Few understand(as they haven’t lost a child, so I don’t hold it against them), so most times, they leave us alone in our grief, believing they are doing us a favor. It is the most difficult road I have ever traveled…again. All the more reason I am grateful for my relationship with Christ. Thank you for this video. 💕
So very sorry to hear and our sincerest condolences..words cannot express. We hope you have all the strength to get through it all.. they would want that for you 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 3 months ago, and the grief is agonizing. I loved him so much. If I did not have Christ in my life, I wouldn’t know what to do. God bless you.
Yes I think I do. We like another. Live a good distance from each other but they aren’t going to be a problem because I’ve dated someone from a distance and it was so good. He had a daughter and I was her step mum and she was my stepdaughter. Worked out heaps for us. These days I want to be able to visit a suitor a few times at least each year. I don’t have to live with them and it’s ok. I’m a bit possessive because I like my independence. My car is my car because I brought it and I cook because I’m a mum and plus I’ve worked in the food industry for most of my career. It would be nice to hug someone who is my best friend and them being a male. I’ve got to get right before I can say yes..I want a romantic relationship with someone who is my best friend. I don’t want to hurt anyone or dii ok I want to get hurt. It’s not fair in both cases for me to be hurt or for me to hurt him. That’s not fair at all. Sometimes a relationship or a friendship that does eventually end up as a serious relationship and maybe a marriage. Oh no I’ve already said the M word. Oh that’s one word I didn’t expect to mention in this post. It’s a little to late to say any different. Oh I just hope in time will be much easier and if his extremely keen on me as I’m so keen on him.
I feel like I relate a lot to this. As parents grow up with no love, they tend to pass it to their kids, who just needed to be loved. I think I'm more of an avoider as I grow up with less affection than other kids. Thank you for talking about this!
My wife and I were married for 51 years and I cared for her with MS for almost all the 26 years she had MS. She wasn't able to ambulate the last 15 years and I used a power drive, wheelchair and hoist etc. I had a heart attack and pneumonia from the intense carer role for so long. I am well now and walk about 11,000 steps a day. She passed in June 2022. I always loved her but I am gay, medically proven. My grieving has been different. She knew I am gay and was totally accepting. As she neared the end, I thanked her for accepting me as her gay husband and she said "Of course! That was easy. Why wouldn't I?" But now I am no longer in a 51 year Mixed Orientation Marriage. I am not looking for a boyfriend or husband, but I have a smile deep down inside me. My grieving has mainly come from "friends" who have rejected me because I am gay. I was a Baptist Minister and have since been told I am not welcome to even attend church, just because I am gay. Time to move on and enjoy my life.
We are very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your journey. Hoping that things get better and people can be open-minded and loving and accepting of each other and nothing else. Stay strong friend.
I was married 51 years to my spouse and he passed January 2022 I still have days of crying it has been 1 1/2 years and I feel it is getting worse now my health has been bad and I know it is caused from the grief, my daughter has had ms for 25 years my granddaughter also has ms it is a very depressing disease I know the grief as I walk down the same path 😢
Great job with the video. I knew a woman whose body language said she did not really like me(at first her body language was an act). She asked lots of questions, what skills I had, what was my career, was I single or divorced, etc. She claimed to have feelings for me, but her body language kept saying no. She would only sit near me if no other option was available, and most times about six feet away and her feet never pointed towards me, always opposite direction. She claimed to like my sense of humor. Dogs are better judges of a person, as her dog absolutely liked me, when she (the dog) saw me she would cry and run full speed to see me-she tried to pull her dog away from me once and the dog almost attacked her and snapped at her-she the dog gently grabbed my hand with her mouth to continue petting her. Long story is this woman wanted to keep me on the side, as I am able to fix things and solve problems. When I figured it out and her admission to this other guy, it came down to purely looks, she was drop dead gorgeous, me average to a little under average and the other guy was a pretty boy. What I am trying to say some people can master a lot of their body language that says you’re liked when you’re not.
I experienced the greatest loss of my life in 2014. For 5 years I didn't exist anymore. I am some better now but I still miss beyond words, I still remember, I still think what would've been, I still ask God why. I probably, no I know I will , always wonder why, miss beyond words, think what would've been, and still ask God why, and I will never be the same as I was before this happened. I will soldier on but I will never be the same as I was. What bodily happened to me was mostly mental.
@@massmindcollectiveconsciou1939 Thank you. One of the better things I did for myself is find an organization that is national where you find a local participating Church, that has weekly one night meetings for free btw, where grieving parents meet that have lost a child. The group is led by a Church volunteer counselor and the group talks about their loss. The volunteer counselor is one of those unfortunate parents as well. These meetings did help, way more than anything else I could've done for the massive devastation done to the depths of my Soul.
@@tommywatterson5276 Again, very sorry to hear and hope as time goes on you can heal. Sending you strength. Glad to hear that you found a place that helps and where people can come together.
My 35 year old daughter just died on Mother’s Day. My feelings are all over the place. So Im super worried about her 4 year old daughter and how she is processing everything.
AFTER MY MOM AND DAD PASSED AWAY,MY LIFE GOT QUITE ALIKE THAT PINK FLOYD'S "SORROW" SONG,I AM CHAINED TO A WORLD THAT'S DEPARTED... I TRY TO KEEP MYSELF ACTIVE,BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY,REALITY PUT ME IN MY PLACE AND THOSE FEELINGS JUST DON'T GO AWAY,SUICIDAL THOUGHTS COME AND GO BUT I GO ON BECAUSE OF MY PETS AND NOTHING MORE,MY PARENTS WERE MY WHOLE WORLD,SO EVERY MORNING I PUSH MYSELF TO START BREATHING AND THIS TAKES A TOLL ON MY HEALTH... I KNOW THE MOMENT I MAY NOT BE ABLE TO GO ON IS COMING,BUT TILL THEN I 'M STILL ON THE GAME... THANKS FOR YOUR VIDEO,JUST MY COMMENT...PEACE...
Hi Abdul, very sorry to hear about your parents. We are sending you strength to stay strong and carry on. Such a heavy loss can really affect us. Have you considered talking to someone especially a mental health professional so they can guide you and help you get through this?
@@massmindcollectiveconsciou1939 GREETINGS... NOT REALLY,IT IS VERY CLEAR THE PROCESS I HAVE TO GO THOUGHT AND I DON'T THINK I COULD HANDLE IT,I MEAN,OPEN MYSELF AND "LET BLEED OUT" ALL OF MY FEELINGS,ALL OF MY SECRETS CAN BE DANGEROUS,I'VE TRIED TO DO SO IN THE PAST AND IT ALWAYS END UP CAUSING MORE HARM THAN GOOD,I FEEL I COULD NOT "CONTROL" THE FLOOD OF VIOLENT REACTIONS AND I THINK IS POINTLESS TRYING IT... I AM A "PRESSURIZED CONTAINER" ,READY TO EXPLODE,I BETTER LEAVE IT ALONE... THANKS,ANYWAY,PEACE ..
@@abdulalhazred4589 Best not to keep things bottled up. Best to get help and talk to a professional. We sincerely hope you will. Sending you strength and positivity! 🙏
@@massmindcollectiveconsciou1939 THANK YOU, I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW I AM EXPERIMENTING WITH MUSIC TO "SOOTHE" MY MIND,I'VE NOTICED IT WORKS BETTER FOR KEEP THINGS CALM, SPECIALLY ,MUSIC THAT NOT ONLY TALKS TO ME,BUT TALKS ABOUT ME,PINK FLOYD ,TRYPTIKON, EVOKEN, AHAB AND THE LIKE HELPS A LOT,YOU'D THINK A SONG ABOUT DEATH OR GRIEF COULD BRING ME DOWN AND CAUSE HARM ,BUT THE EFFECT IS THE OPPOSITE!! CALL IT "MARGINAL IMPROVEMENT" IF YOU WILL, BUT IS THE BEST I CAN GET WITHOUT CAUSING ANY HARM ON MYSELF... THANKS FOR YOUR VID,THANKS FOR ASKING...PEACE...
It will be 5 years this month that my only child, my son passed away. He was 39 and paraplegic. I took care of him 24/7. I was by his bed when he took his last breath. That was the hardest thing in my life that I have had to do. But I was there for him and he wasn’t alone. Honestly it don’t get no easier , I just have to live with it. I’m in counseling now, it helps. But I do still feel guilty, that he is gone, and I am still here. But I know it was his time, see I had 12 extra years with him. In 2006 he had a accident that left him paraplegic and a lot of health issues, the doctors on gave him 15 to 20% chance of survival. He proved them wrong. Nine days short of a year, he finally got out of the hospital/ rehabs. And I took him home. He had good days and bad. People don’t understand you can have it all, but in the blink of a eye it’s gone. People never take nothing for granted. Take it from someone who did. Now I’m all alone. So one day at a time, if that seems like to much, minute by minute.
Very sorry Cindy. He is smiling down upon you and thanking you for all your love and everything you did. Sending strength to you to carry on. He will want you to.
