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Not all,but most stereotypes come from truths. If most men are finding asian women submissive, yet you claim its a stereotype, i think you need to live in reality and not delusion
Asian man: "I would like to find a good loving wife from my own country and culture." White man: "Nope, They all worship me because i have manipulated their minds in my media. I have portrayed myself as superior and the most desirable." Asian man: "Don't you want to marry a white women?" White man: "I can have anything I want. As you can see, we've already taken most of the Asian women in North America. We also fly to your country and take your women from you. It's very easy and we do it very often." Asian man: "Well, what do we get?" White man: "Since I have portrayed Asian men as very weak in "my media".. you will struggle like no man has ever struggled before.. We will take the most attractive Asian women from you. You can have the leftovers."
The biggest things about attracting a partner in the West, superficial as they are, are being tall and being masculine. And there's the rub: Asians are shorter on average, and their culture forces them to be bookworms before star athletes.
Yeah Asian men don't have father figures to teach them about dating. But I don't blame them, Asian fathers by default are too busy working and it was easier for them when they lived in a time where they didn't have social media and dating apps.
What is so attractive about an Asian woman for me: 1. Her big dark brown Asian eyes. 2. Her long shiny luxurious jet black hair. 3. Her beautiful face. 4. Her thick curvy legs for her size. My Hawaiian ex-girlfriend said Asian women have “daikon” legs. When an Asian woman stands sideways, her legs look as thick as her abdomen. 5. An Asian woman tends to wear high heeled sandals, my favorite shoe to see on women. 4. Her shape, an Asian woman tends to have slight curves and small breasts. I used to look for pretty legs first when I dated white women. Now, I am attracted to beautiful eyes first in Asian women. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” I feel that it important to point out that I do not consider all Asian women beautiful. Also, not all women of other races are beautiful either. Regarding an Asian woman’s submissiveness, I have experienced that Asian women don’t like to argue in public settings, thereby “saving face.” The problem with getting to know an Asian woman that I like is that I might offend her with something that I said, but she will never tell me. It could be something as simple as asking what nationality she is, Korean, Chinese, Japanese, etc. This seems to be an unwelcome question. So an Asian woman will just become quiet - and she won’t give me the opportunity to talk things over with her in private. So I’ve just lost her attention and affection..
Seriously, if anyone disrespects Asian women, I will fight you to the depths of hell and you will lose, for sure. Yes he’s right and exactly right about what men, especially white men appreciate about Asian women. I could add a lot more, actually. For me, it’s means having two countries, so many more friends and Americana. It’s funny that a foreigner gives me another generation of old school Americana. Then, children are well disciplined, smart and good looking also. Some of the world around me is lost but where I am it’s like it’s always been, except more interesting. Thank God for immigrants. They keep our country strong and while we are more rich than we deserve, the immigrants always perpetuate our prosperity, even while people doubt.
Hairstyle needs work and start lifting. Then once you got the match it helps if you got game and make $$$,$$$ a year. Don't even bother with girls under 26 years old, they're mostly just looking for attention/IG.
Here's a dating advice also from an Asian, maybe it'll give you another perspective: The gender population is 50/50 (in many countries anyway), you think the dating pool is low, but in reality, it is low for both gender. Men sacrifice money to pursue a woman, and women sacrifice her safety in order to meet up with a random guy who she just met. Just as women have standard on marry a successful man, you gonna notice more men want to marry younger women, less successful than him, having a good face, good body etc. You feel like men have less option is because not many women typically take the lead in making the first move on a guy, or using dating sites, meet up with stranger etc. This tendency often stems from being taught about the potential risks involved - perhaps by their parents, or the news. Historically, women have often faced more societal pressure to marry and have children at a younger age compared to men, in particular, the window of fertility. In that case, women actually have less time than men so they usually take more time in choosing their partner. The more you rush her, the more likely you gonna get a girl who also want a quick short relationship, she'll leave you just as fast as she comes to you.
Asian woman and men are the best kind when it comes to loyality. (Not all) But i see it with my brother when it comes down to loyality they are there. They are very very kind and softhearted. I never could put them into a stereotyp. They are all different but amazing people.
I’m an African American woman artist who sees Asian women as beautiful people, and NOT as “disposable sexual objects”. And anyway, stereotypes are no better. In fact, they make things worse. 🤦🏻♀️
Problem with asian men is that they don't respect themselves. They can't understand that it is West which raised their daughters improperly not their asian parents. Problem with you asian guys is that you are ready to dump your dignity and self-respect for low-key value women, which makes your life even more miserable. You try to change yourself your life for white women who although are beautful but they are trash and their beauty is temporary. Do you really think that those women will succeed in life? Just look at West now most beautiful white women are low key enraged and lost now, whom don't want to marry even their own men. And you are ready to lick their boots.
Perfect video! Another thing I want to add is. Asian girls don’t have the curves to seduce so they seduce men in other ways with: gentleness, submissiveness, cuteness, adorableness, with a vulnerable and frail personality. A lot of Asians do it on purpose to either manipulate or to seduce. And I freaking love it!!!
Mainland Asians are like mainland Caucasians. Very different from Hawaii Asians. And it's understandable cause they are surrounded by Caucasians, so they are going to pick up traits of the Caucasians. The 3rd and 4th generation Hawaii Japanese Asians have picked up being respectful, thoughtful and mindful of others in Hawaii from the 1st and 2nd generation of Japanese people coming from Japan to Hawaii and who passed on their respectfulness, thoughtfulness and mindfulness to their children, the 3rd and 4th generation. Just my opinion and thought.
One thing to add is that in general it's significantly harder to date after college. Sure you will have more life experience, more money, more confidence but you aren't going to be surrounded by single educated females. Make a life that you want to live but have friends, activities, and live in a place where you are going to run into young professionals every day.
100 percent! Yeah that's why it is important to have dated in college. Those opportunities were game changers. But like you said, in our professional lives, we need to make an effort to join organizations or do more activities to meet them.
There's more accountability for Asian women in Asia. They still have to live up to traditional values vs. the west and so they compete with others like them. In the West, Asian women living in the west are so overvalued and a lot of them have no problems having suitors. Other than those environments I would say they are similar.
Weird dynamic, and very anecdotal, but as an Asian guy in Texas, I get hit on by a lot of black women more than any other race lol. Wonder why. Aside from that, I don't get very looks my way. Doesn't help that I started balding in my early 20s. Asian women do tend to prefer men with nice hair, so I doubt it'll be very different in Asian countries, too.
😂 must be the kpop or anime wave that's making Asian men more cute to them. You'll definitely still do better in Asia even if you're balding. Give it a try my man! 😊
Hey man, thanks for sharing your experience! It's interesting to think that men are respected less in the west compared to the east. Why do you think that is? And you said in the west it's hard for men to be seen. Do you think it's even harder for an asian man to be seen in the west?
Asian men have always been seen as feminine or the nerdy types. The perpetual stereotypes just affects how Western society sees us. Theres a long history behind it too! That's why they don't take us seriously. But it's been changing thanks to Kpop and the inclusiveness of media nowadays.
American women are definitely spoiled. You go anywhere in South America too, women are just friendlier and less entitled. You said it best "They don't hate men"
I once matched with a Japanese girl in Japan and she apologized for not responding in a timely manner. My brain exploded off my shoulders when I read that
Most of the Asians in North America are 1) Chinese, 2) Hong Kong, 3) Korea, 4) Japan And they export their people to marry into white society for better income to the country and themselves. So of course, people in Asia doesn’t have as much of that interest.😀
🤣 I'll think of some tips. Check this old video I made in the meantime: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8A8CxS99IHE.htmlsi=5lv6PCyNGl1JZ6HH
I've recently just chilled with some foreign filipina girls in canada, and they're amazing compared to Asian-north american girls. And I'm from Pakistan (Asia-brown skinned). The foreign girls are really cute too.
39, Canadian born Chinese (HK), good looking, still single. Feel it's the same as what you described in Canada. It's way easier to date in Asia in general.
Nothing strange at all as being west-born and good with english alone is very attractive factor which basically enables you to beat a lot of competition but also there is just quite a lot of good reputation around west-born asians as they often been born to hard working immigrant families and thus often acquired good mannerism and dedication.
Yeah man, the numbers are good in Asia. Still gotta work at it to find the right one tho. Would say give yourself more time or try living in HK or wherever in Asia to succeed. Best of luck and you're always welcome to talk to me here and share your perspective!
@@asianmanstruggles808 lived and worked in HK for 5 years. Left for a reason. Went back to meetup with an HK girl and had the worst experience ever. Can't say they're all the same but it's just one too many bad experiences not meeting HK princess expectations. There are better places to be. I would give Bangkok and Vietnam a try next
@@asianmanstruggles808 yea very beautiful but stuck up. Can't say they're all like that. Ive had my fair share dating Taiwanese, they're lovely people.
The way asian men conduct themselves is incredible, and it sets an example to every other man. Well spoken, and you speak with a minor ego. It feels like you're speaking in korean but using english somehow lol. Kind've hard to describe but you know what I'm talking about, you have a trustworthy aura, you seem genuine. Are you ethnically Korean by the by?
just take this comment with a grain of salt though. asian cultures are extremely xenophobic though. If you're not asian, it can be a different experience. That's one thing I don't like about my asian culture.
Good analysis. However, one point I think you missed is that many women, rightly or wrongly, believe that Asian men have “traditional” views of gender roles and relations which is unappealing to modern women.
I personally only like black and latina women , but id definitely give Filipina or thai wonen a try . No one can deny asian womens beauty and feminine energy
@@ninjapirate123 I'm half blk and Mexican but consider myself black since I've only grown in blk community. I prefer blk women but they don't like me lol. Just here out of curiosity and to see if theres any blackpill in it
@Skinny.pretty.girl101 2 reasons, because 1. My parents wouldn't be happy if I marry a Black women and second 2. they tend to look very dangerous to me
Before even listening to this video….. I will say the number 1 reason. It’s cuz they have a teen like facial structure for most of there life. It’s true everyone knows it is, and guys will not admit this out loud but it’s true
A few years ago, after my divorce, I struggled a great deal on the dating scene. Being an Asian male did not help. I was in my late 40s and living in the suburbs. I considered myself fairly good looking, I still had my hair, I worked out so I had a nice bod. I also had a job and a house. I was the “package”. I did not do the bar or club thing because I was too old so I had to rely on these dating apps like Match. On Match, each person had a profile. For a while, there was a section for race preference. As I scroll thru the profiles for the women, rarely did it ever say “ Asian”. It was usually “White”. If a woman was willing to date a minority, I would see “Black” or “Hispanic”. It wasn’t just from white women but also Asian women as well. We as Asian males are rejected before we set our foot out on the dating scene. The whole experience was discouraging..
Your comment really touched me man! Thank you for sharing that with me. Yes, sometimes it's not just stereotypes but also things just aren't inclusive of Asian men all together. We are forgotten. I hope you've been doing better lately though!
I’m a a white guy, I live in Asian. To me westernized Asians are closer to white women than they are to Asian Asians. The westernized ones are completely different to the actual asian ones
🤣Yeah Westernized Asian women have to adapt in the westernized countries so many forgo their Asian upbringings. There are some who keep to tradition though.
Im asian women, i have a nice and brown color. But i really try and tried to become a White color. Beacause i realy Love to be White, and I got it, but after a year my color is back #brown again, hehehe so i never tried i accept my color now and become happy instead ❤️🇵🇭
