I'm on day 5..I'm walking around and I showered already. I got my tape removed and I saw my belly button and my incision today. I'm just thinking.. It won't look like this forever just for now.. My backkkk!! I have an emotional support wall for emotional support because this is a mental game as well as a physical game.. Wooo!!
Hey! I’m 3 weeks po I’ve had 3 c sections this surgery was by far worse then the c sections thank you for this video I’m so discouraged I’m actually crying thank you for this encouragement because this journey isn’t for the weak
Girl this is one of the best tummy tuck videos I've seen, thank you! I too am a wax enthusiasts so I'm grateful you shared your experience with that. You look great, tnx again for the great info. I have a consult next week!
I feel that many men ( but not all) just dont like women. The straight ones are sexually attracted to us but thats about it. So after a while they resent us because we have the sexual power which they can only get from us which is what they resent. The only people they truly care about is themselves and the validation an approval of other men. They could care less about how they treat women after they decieved them an got what they wanted.
My main question for any woman saying a man is low effort is, what do you do for him? Are you setting the example of what effort looks like and he's not reciprocating?
Interesting video, as a guy I can give the male perspective that women might be lacking. From my experience and many other guys, we stop putting when we realise it's not reciprocated by women. Most guys are happy to give 60/70% of the effort and initiative but we expect women to at least give a little back. It shows that you appreciate our effort and that will in turn make us want to do more for you. I think women need to accept more responsibility in relationships and not constantly scapegoat men when there are problems. I can't speak for all guys and I'm sure some guys don't put in effort but I just hope women can reflect on their actions a bit more. All the best
I think it depends on the guy, for me i was the one putting the effort think 100/0%. If I put no effort i'd not hear anything for months and told over and over that my guy cant reciprocate cause of his autism when he'll reciprocate on other women who give the same effort and most likely the only reason was cause of my looks I believe.
I think that women are talking about men that are pushy, crazy and disrespectful. I for one do not believe that it applies to all men. One of my friends is very happily married and this is an example that good men do exist! A successful relationship is when both parties pour into the relationship. I should know, i am a mature woman and i turn 58 years old on 23rd April.
He is only low effort with YOU. If YOU get low effort that means you are not attractive enough for a quality output. Time to start losing weight and get surgery If you’re wanting a high quality man. Men put effort into women they LIKE
I workout with fitness blenders too 😃. I started working out again after 7 wks post op. Back to pre-surgery weights after 2 months. I only walked 6 miles/day x 5/wk before cardio and weights 🙂.
I only had the TT, 7 weeks postop. first day my tummy was very flat and after 2 weeks drains out, I have a lot of swelling and it isn't flat when sitting down only standing. I have to go ask my doctor about it. but when you sit down at 7 weeks, was your abs still as flat as when you stood up? thank you!
1st week for me....and I thought I was dying, I ended in ER with a bradycardia...all due to a panic attack. 🙃 so far my surgery is going 👍 but GOD is SO intense
Girl I’m 6 weeks PO and I’m allergic to tape and have a wound I’m nursing due to a bruise that wouldn’t reabsorb. Any tips for ppl allergic to tape? And where to get steri strips? Cause I’m not allergic to those.
Thank you for making this video. I'm a guy who's been seeking out women content creators to try and learn more perspective and what I can do better, since I'm super dating inexperienced. If you happen to see this comment I have a question about one of these points - the "what do you want to do" one specifically, the first one. I always thought it was considerate and more of a "I'll do whatever you want, I'll make you feel special, I'll treat you to your favorite place" kind of thing. I feel like I would come off super arrogant and entitled if I just picked a place I liked and said "this time, this place, this night" without even asking for her input. Do you think there's room for nuance there or is it still better for men to take the lead overall? What are your thoughts on that kind of situation?
This is a very good question. I would advise you to balance both options. As an example, you could take initiative and tell the lady that you are planning taking her for dinner so you would like to know what type of food she loves the most or you could come up with the name of a restaurant and ask her if she would like to go there. That way you are taking initiative but also you are taking her into account..👍🏻
I cut off a guy I thought I would end up being my romantic partner after 14 months of nothingness. It was an extended talking stage / situationship. Never 👎🏽 again. 6 weeks no contact and since I have left and went about my own life. I have gained a lot of clarity and I’ve accomplished a lot lol 😂. He truly was draining and lackluster. I’m a guy btw talking about another guy. I’m sorry lol but even in the gay / LGBTQ + community it’s the same set up. These dudes are lackluster and selfish as hell.
Thank you for saying your budgeting the massages! The masseuses tried to make me seem insane for not wanting to be with them every single day. I’ll be in my surgery city for 7 days and I was going to do 3 but I’m going to move it down to 2 one the day after and one before I go home. And when I get back maybe one every 2 weeks
"You never want to be in a position where you text a man first....." Dear Lord, dont you realise that this is the source of your problems? You're keeping score. It shouldnt matter who texts who first, the relationship should be 50/50. If a dude starts off by love bombing you, then this is a red flag, he should be calm and consistant, meeting you halfway, letting you do your share of initiating and reaching out, while he does his. The notion that a woman should sit back and let the man do most of the work.........this is why your relationships turn to crap, because that approach is entitled, its not humble and humility is the key to a long lasting healthy relationship. Humble women are the most beautiful in the world, but they will meet men halfway, they dont keep score and they have no sense of entitlement. Become humble and I promise you'll get everything you want, without resorting to any games or manipulation.
As some one who had a guy the never texted first despite being as humble as you described I disagree politely. First of all love bombing isn't obvious that's why love bombing is a manipulation tactic, especially when that love bombing is acting 50/50 for sometimes years. I personally would love a 50/50 relationship but all I've experienced is being ghosted if I don't text first. The actual source of the relationship problems is the two not being a team. It takes two people to tango and unfortunately sometimes a humble women wont have a healthy relationship.
