I honestly do a little bit everything here. The algorithm favors me sometimes & sometimes it doesn’t…. So I just decided to be me and not get stuck trying to chase it. My brain is very busy, so it’s hard to just be one situation. But I can tell you that I love all things home, I’m a professional housekeeper with my own business so I’m super clean and my knowledge of cleaning is TOP NOTCH! I’m always thinking so I definitely have a lot of conversations here and I’ve just gotten into living a frugal life to better handle my coins so I share that as well. I’m just that virtual friend you never knew you needed that’s going to always keep it real!
Again…. Lots of different content here and the community I’ve built is amazing! Subscribe if you like a little bit of everything, because it’s never boring🫶🏽
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I wish my mom was as strong as you! My sister is bipolar and a bit crazy, can’t talk to her without a demon coming out the first three words. So I am slowly over this summer working on getting her 2nd house rented for her trying to get all my (entitled)sisters furniture (really my moms furniture) out and getting it rented so we can walk away an not deal with her anymore! My mom is weak though and it’s just a challenge for me, the emotions are high on all sides.
I hear you. Trust me... Im a bit weak as well, but the way that I think about it is, its either them or my sanity and since I have to live with me for the rest of my life... I'm forced to choose me. I really hope that you all can find peace with you situation as it is never easy when it's family.
You are doing good Mama. My kids are both adults now, one just barely. Being a parent is hard. Making decisions like you had to do is hard. I hope your girl gets the help she needs and steps up to being the mom those boys need (I think they are both hers). (((Hugs)))
Good morning Stephanie 💕 …if you’re such a terrible person /mom why don’t she just leave …I’m praying everything works out for you💕 and thank you for mentioning me! 💕
Heyyy Risha!! That’s the million dollar question sis… it’s the same thing we keep asking. Whew chil! You know that you are also welcome, can’t wait till the next video🤗
I concur wholeheartedly! It's disheartening to hear how they speak to you. I pray for mercy upon them, for they have transgressed the commandments, and in doing so, they diminish their own lives. It's tragic. They are ensnared by malevolent forces, blinded to reality. When dealing with such spirits, it's understandably distressing, especially as a mother. Yet, I trust that divine peace, which surpasses all understanding, will be granted to you. I hold onto the belief that their eyes will be opened and they will be led to repentance. Hang in there Stephanie! You are one of the most loving, caring and down to earth persons I know and never meet in person.
I can't imagine pouring my all into these children, my oldest is 20*, just for them to treat me so poorly. My parents are in their 70s, and I do anything they ask. I would never dishonor them. I'm praying for you and David. ❤
With my daughter I have to deal with her with a long handled spoon. She also has used my grandkids as pawns just to get a rise from me. I used to allow it to really bother me but I have forgiven her for that and I just let God take the wheel and to heal me from that. Seasons come and go and everybody has their appointed time!
In our late 40s early 50s, my husband and I decided to make some of the same choices you are making now regarding your life as you get older. We decided that we wanted to simplify things both in our physical home and our finances. We want things easy to clean and maintain and we didn't want to have to work the rest of our lives to live comfortably. We started out by decluttering and purging the "things" in our home. It's time for another purge but it was so refreshing. I put a lot of emphesis on organizing. At the same time we were working on the physical house, we were working financilly to pay it off. We were able to pay it off last year and that too was like new life had been breathed into us. Just a suggestion to help you be able to work with your finances--Dave Ramsey anything. We mostly used these principles but everyone has to take the basics and build on them and apply them how it works best for your family. I'm going through some of the same stuff that you are with my mom only in reverse. My mom has decided she doesn't want me in her life any longer, Since my dad died 2 years ago I have wanted 3 things for my mom. I want her to be healthy, stay safe, and have the money to live out her life comfortably. People have always taken advantage of her financially. They have stolen from her, manipulated her and taken advantage of her in every sense of the word, She blows money like there is no tomorrow and gives it to the drug addicts and lazy people in our family knowing what they are going to use it for. She had a HUGE blow up at me where she told me that she didn't want me in her life and that she had never loved me like a daughter. So, I've given her what she wants. It literally about drove me over the edge but I'm doing better now and since my mom is almost 84 years old, that is probably going to be my last memory of her, as sad as that is. So hang in there Stephanie. Sending lots of love and postive energy your way!!
Stephanie, I am praying for your protection, and for both your daughters to find Jesus. I am praying for your 2 precious little grandsons also. May the peace of God surround you all.
Stephanie as you move away and buy a new home where you have peace and serenity in your life your girls will realize what a great mom they had tough love is very difficult because we adore our children we let them get away with things that we would never let anybody else do to us God has granted us that maternal love that will always be there but you have to protect yourself also God wants you to be happy and he wants to be a piece so I pray for you I pray that you get a beautiful new home where you will have your peace and serenity because that is so important in the chaos of life God bless you Stephanie and believe me what goes around comes around maybe not today or tomorrow but it will stay blessed❤❤
Oh Stephanie. My heart breaks for you but we know you are strong women. We know whatever decision you make is going to be the best for you and your family. I tell you - we love our children so much that they could do the most wrong and we always forget. We just want to love them and for them to love us back regardless of the consequences or what they do. We as parents, especially the moms hold a stronger bond than the dads. So we are always going to watch over them and shield them. So nobody well not me is going to judge your decision. I thought and we all thought that would be your forever home but you will find another. It’s ok. You going to be alright. Regardless of the overcome we are always going to be here to support you and not judge you. Great decision and wise choices. God Bless You.
@TheStephanieWay That is SO understandable. Thanks for explaining and for your kindness. I'm sorry you're exhausted. 😞😞😞 God will refresh you as the days go by. You have your viewers' support, including mine.
Girrrl, I will be praying for you. I know how hard it is to let go of a child especially when they are being disrespectful. I went through it with 2 of my children. I put them out and then let them come back and when things got really bad I had to let them go and keep them at a distance. I love my children but I refuse to be in a toxic relationship with them. I don't know what's in the air that they are breathing that makes them act the way that they do but they can't be around me with the craziness. Sometimes we have to let go and let God take care of them when we no longer can. I pray for your grandchildren as well. I know how much you love them and care for them. Its gonna be hard but keep your head up and keep your faith up. God will make a way for them and for you. When you let go they will realize (hopefully) what they are missing and the wrong that they have done. One day they will come back and apologize and actually mean it. Both my children have done so but one of them I keep at a distance because even with the apology there is still some toxicity and I refuse to give up my peace of mind. I don't usually comment on your videos but this hit home and hit my heart. I cant wait to see the new home and watch you decorate it.
@TheStephanieWay You took my comments as treating you like a child. I was literally just offering a different perspective. When you talk to friends about what is going on in your life, do they ever offer another way to think about something? That's all I was doing. I've left comments of agreement on your channel before as well, and you liked and hearted them. I suppose this comment just stuck out because it wasn't 100% "supportive sounding". I don't know. Best wishes.
Ok, well let me say this. I have gone through sooooo much with these girls and I’m EXHAUSTED to the point where you wouldn’t understand it if I tried to explain it. So yes Faith, I need support right now, which is the only reason I decided to share it on the channel and come to find out, it’s over one hundred mothers who are going or have been through it as well. This is a lot. I haven’t even felt like myself lately in my own house… so excuse me if I got offended. But honestly it’s just a lot right now. So I apologize if I took what you said the wrong way🙁
I e been following you from the very beginning!!! It’s your time to live out YOUR LIFE❣️ They are grown, choosing to be disrespectful and all my heart goes out to you…I think one of the reasons you and hubby purchased such a large home….to attempt healing! But when and if our seeds become hell bent on vengeance we have to release them for our own sanity!!! Yah knows our hearts…no need to explain to mortals!!! A MOTHERS LOVE is endless…you must remember because some women just birthed their children, they never loved them… I traveled all over the US with my Trucking Hubby… DO Y.O.U. Choose you and your husband and LIVE❣️❣️❣️ Love you Sis…I will fight with you & for you…xoxoxo
@TheStephanieWay Your response to what I typed earlier is exactly why I was hesitant. Rather than you taking my words as another perspective (from someone who truly enjoys your channel, so I have no ill intent), you seemed to take them defensively or as an attack. This is not the first time. Please be open to people who think differently from you without taking it personally. Do all your viewers have to agree with everything you say in order to interact with you on your channel? I hope this next phase of your life is as peaceful and joyful as you hope. We all wish you well.
No, my supporters don’t have to agree. You came here acting as if I am not aware of what I’m doing and yes that is offensive. I don’t like to be handled like a child, because I would never handle you or any other adult like a child. I would never tell another woman what to post or not, because I’m going to assume that she’s capable of making her own decisions. That’s why I said what I said. I’m not mad, just answering the question you asked. Also, this current phase of my life is peaceful. I just have some cleaning up to do in it…that’s all. Thank you for your well wishes.
I honestly think it's a sense of entitlement. I believe "some" of these grown kids think we as parents owe them. Especially when they are unmotivated and lazy. Not realizing that we ALL have to work hard for what we want. I tell my children all the time " I don't owe you anything" and that's not me being mean. I don't have to do anything for you. It's a choice. We're living in different times, and I believe our mindset and their mindset don't mesh.
Hi Stephanie. I was hesitant to share this thought, but here goes: A random thought/question after watching this video and the last two: Is there a way to tell what's been going on without your daughters feeling like you're telling too much on the Internet and maligning them? While there may be many mothers who need to hear your story, maybe you should consider how you tell it if you ever hope to reconcile with your daughters. Love tells the truth without blasting the people involved. I'd feel bad to hear my mother talking about me on the Internet this way. Just the opinion of a random watcher. I know this is your channel. I know you like to keep it real. I know you tell it like it is. Maybe just think of possible future reconciliation when you tell it. Looking forward to future videos.
I’m going to answer that this way… I’m a really grown adult. I don’t need anyone questioning my actions as if I’m a 12 year old. What I choose to discuss on my platform is what I choose to discuss. It’s either you watch or you don’t. Either the vids can help you or not. But to try and control what I post is so not proper… I’m fully aware of what to share, what not to share and why I share it and I do it with wisdom and I tell the truth. You don’t question it when I’m sharing something positive… so why is this different? Life is not all positive. Also, “ keeping it real” has nothing to do with this situation. It’s not some game I’m playing and trying to show ppl that I keep it real”. Just let content creators be, we’re human too, so just let us be. Also, I’m not interested in reconciliation at this point… so there’s that.
And you don't know this stephanie but I have 6 kids all are grown and I lost my youngest son and she is the youngest girl so she is a mess sometimes but God is making a way for her to move so iam happy l will help her if I can but I want her to learn how to pay bills and take care of her self love you sis❤❤❤
Hi Stephanie! I enjoy your videos. I love the sketchers, can you please list the link to where they can be purchased? Keep doing what you're doing sis and God bless you!
Woww 😢 that’s all I can say! I did wanna ask how they were as children and when do you think the relationship broke and did someone else have a hand in their attitude toward you?
It's not anything wrong with her but lazy and just want to have a good time and party and they think that is a good life, but it's not l have a daughter like that she have been in my house for 3 years stephanie in and out of job's l have custody of her son for 7 years now she got to go.
I pray everything works out in your favor. I had a family member staying with me and I understand what your going though. I had to put my foot down!!!!! I like the calm relaxing cleaning music.
Your grandmother knew best. You are not helping your daughter's by allowing their disrespect. You're a good mother and can't allow them to freeload and destroy your peace. They need to go. If you do something for them outside being in your space that's ok because you will control that. For now they are controlling you and everything you and your husband have worked for. Don't allow them in you space anymore, especially when you relocate. If they use the grandchildren to try get in meet them to get the gran if needed. Get a restraining order ❤ Family are the worst ones when it comes to disrespect. Don't want to see you being taken advantage of anyone. It's only right to go through with cutting them off for now . You feel so bad only because you love them so much. Not your issue. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
So sorry to hear what ur going through it's messed up ur kids did that to u n you had to evict her n the attitude she's giving u is uncalled for she brought this all among her self to ur house she needs to grow up but the attitude she has will never get no where n she will never grow upim with u u have to get her out so u can do what u have to do with her she drama in it's self ur right get her out as soon as u can a sap kids they don't appreciate nothing u try to do for them they think they can just tlk to u crazy no that don't work with me either
I am in a situation worst than yours with my daughter....but I totally understand..... I felt the same way because it's my daughter but sometimes your own children will put you in the grave physically... get away and run..... I need to make a video or write a book with my situation .... I know this is the Most High that guided me to your page.... because I need to vent but did not how or where to go.... thanks for being a light and sharing...you got this sis..prayers up
