I really love the engaging and Enlightening pearls of wisdom all about Grief ... Personally , One experiences real grief only when one goes through personally ...We never unlearn Grief , we just know how to accomodate with it well and grow Wise with it ! GRIEF will Stay forever because Love existed eternal !!! Thankyou for this Wisdom 🌻🦉🪷💜🦉
So happy you mentioned meds-obesity link. You then mention “managing” the problem. What would that be? We’re not gonna eat kale, and are too fat & groggy to exercise.
The stigma remains because we don't have any cure and why on earth do we have to accept it...the very worse things can happen and we also need to be kept safe from it as well
Has any one noticed the similarities of the parents compared to Jonbenets mother and father the mother up to do show was everything and the father quite military always at work well accomplished wealthy and Boulder 97 miles from Colorado Springs both religious mothers, although it's 30 40 years difference but some of claim the church that the Ramsey's attended and some have allegedly sexual abuse happened and Jonbenets was Sacrificed in a ritual the reason why I'm bringing this up is in the documentary 2 brother claim they were crucified I think Matthew a Peter that really really bothers me that something deep happened to the boys like rituals with the church as Jonbenet I heard a pod cast and a poem was sent I the detectives 20years ago about St John's church called The Manchurian Doll very creepyit may mean nothing may not have any thing to do with any thing but the abuses within the church is just saying maybe I'm sounding wacko just a observation.
I agree. I feel like something about these sicknesses is demonic and spiritual, and are of unfortunate generation curses. I know I'm going to get judged for this. But I really do see it in that light and nothing will change my mind otherwise.
@@PinkPeonyPetals It's possible genetics but I think there is a number of factors rolled up in one and one being having 3 brothers living in the home with little children the horror not understanding wth is happening and for the parents allowing Jim to come to dinner after Mary confronted him wassweot under the rug and her mother being a victim herself was very little support to her but supported the boys especially Don it seems,al I know is a good good friend in jr high started her schizophrenia around 14 we were and at 14 we just couldn't understand what she was so scared of one curled up in the corner crying and screaming band our other friends house after the parents left my same friend just smack the crap out of her we didn't know what she was going thru we thought drugs??She was molested and adopted I know that and very permisquse in the 8th grade but ya she was like Don popular beautiful hair more developed the the rest of our click and got pregnant went to ward b and heard her parents died and she was going to truck stops across the country how scary is that anyways very very sad thing to have happened to my beautiful friend she just was never going to be that person I once knew and looked up to,so I cant imagine how the other children dealt with itI wish them all peace and happiness and Lindsey your a trooper thru and thru one tough cookie believe that!
Thanks for inviting these two wonderful high achievers to join this conversation. I am so sorry to know Yiyun lost her second son this year too. I can’t imagine what she could handle these, let’s pray for her.
Those two brothers lacked much life experience to draw from and thus did not have the strength nor patience to endure long enough to break through the challenges of the illness via therapy and meditation however slowly. So sad…
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At minute 19 and a bit beyond. One of the unspoken types of exclusion is that of a woman who does not have children - even if it is NOT by choice, which is more often the case due to illness and other tragic circumstances. Women without children are a non-entity in society, invisible, expected to do the work of those with children, expected to pay more taxes for other's children's schools and other needs, expected to not get the seats they pay for, the table they reserved, or anything. Parenthood trumps all. Also, the media's constant use of the completely misleading phrases such as "As a mother" or "As a parent" - comments that ridiculously imply that 1) the person speaking before having a child hadn't a normal human feelings or capacity. They just magically sprung up with birth. 2) That those without children do not have human feelings (e.g. "As a mother, I think the death of this child is horrible." You mean those without children don't feel the same horror?? Or that ALL mothers feel it. My mother did not want me and did not care about others as much as I do, so the assumption that every mother is automatically caring and loving perpetuates child abuse as a child can't speak up if the reply is "oh not your mother. Mothers love their children." This needs to end, especially as the numbers of adults without children is growing rapidly. Every human is different. Some without children are good some bad. Same for parents: some are good, some are horrible (read the news) and in both categories the range of people is all over. The childless just don't matter, as he says here about other groups that are "othered".
I look forward to having the students in my Stress Management courses 1. watch this wonderful interview facilitated by George and 2. curating assignments based on the tools in this book. I love the idea of creating a Spam Box!
I love this video. Dr Fong is very funny and smaart. I sent it to a woman in my Outpatient group, she watched it with her family and they started treating her better!! I'm interested in the cultural norm shifting. Thanks
This woman, patti davis reagan, is a staunch democrat advocate. Why would anyane listen to a person who is touted by the media as anything but just that. So yeah, we need info about things like alzheimer disease. But we see over and over, political advocacy behind so many of her views. Not interested.
Thank You for providing this information to the public. We need to see and hear more information like this so everyone starts recognizing the patterns and able to make changes. I was one of the people who registered but unable to attend in time, so thank you for putting it up for me to listen ❤
Maybe edit out the 1st 6.5 minutes. Good grief. This whole recording needs serious edits. Do we really want to watch 10 minutes of credits for a documentary that we didn't even see ? Good god.
Just found this channel. Have been following him for a while. Re Boole, I knew Claude Shannon, who invented many things including musical instruments, funny gadgets, wrote amusing poetry as well as equations. PS I know many brilliant people on some spectrum or another.
Indeed a therapeutic hour' a widow of four years in my mid sixties' and having been that '' old school couple'' of love and respect throughout the good and the bad days' as All In The Family song' - '' girls were girls and men were men , everybody pulled his wight, people seemed to be content, those were the days'' - still going through prolonged and complicated grief, this meeting was a blessing ' - - - Laura'
Very appreciative for making this informative and detailed and comforting ' emotional discussion about '' The Grieving Brain'' available through RU-vid to me too' ... A widow of four years' having been the caregiver for my husband through his degenerative Parkinson's' and still dealing with complicated and prolonged grief' pretending to be fine among family' not to bother them with my deep sadness within' or concern them about me in their work/family responsibilities , as no one can relate to the aloneness I'm left with' being uncoupled after 45 years of old school traditional type marriage feels so strange and wierd. - - - Laura'
There are at least a few advantages to having the lousy short terrm memory from childhood instead of later in life. One cannot miss what one has never had; and one learns coping skills at a younger age.
Is "Associative Learning" the same as "Pavlovian Conditioning"? Or is Pavlovian Conditioning the laboratory version what is associative learning in the wild?
Robert, the DSMV is a eugenicists bible. A Nazis instructional manual used to commodify people and their pain. An excuse for oppression and exploitation of anyone not fitting the States label which strips people of the their liberties using a definition. The bigger that bigger is, the more scape goats the State has when they crack down. Why the fuck do you think it's main function in society is founded on legal parameters? That book, is a list of conditions brought on by poverty. That is why liberal State education and media ONLY fund genetic research and only support Darwinian pseudo science--research is "invalid" if it doesn't fit the capitalist systems narrative. Why would they sanction scientific facts that would undermine the entire financial basis of the mental health sector? That "book" is literally Hitlers wet dream and a direct product of fascism. Only State Humans need apply, but as far for the rest of you that suffered the consequences of our lies, it get's the black bag if you at all have the wits about you still to fight back. As Kolk said, at best "a list of symptoms" and as he makes evident, if matters where those symptoms have found their origin. Lamark was dominantly right--this "social Darwinism" is capitalist hijacked science. A propaganda campaign by the ruling elites, an attempt to show zero culpability for our social systems ills, that is used to criminalize poverty until death--and often enough, far worse. Its NOT a scientific debate. You libs wanna solve the "gun problem"? look at yourselves in the mirror and repeat after me "I am a liberal. I am a Capitalist. The social systems I benefit from are the social systems that result in the pain, exploitation, enslavement and deaths of the majority of humanity. Capitalism is evil but it is MY EVIL! I AM GUILTY!" P.s "ignorance IS violence" Emma Goldman
I wasn't able to be on live with this call, but I wish I could have asked if there is a way to lessen disenfranchised grief. I finally realized that I will never get my mother's love - or even have her like or care about me. The loss of the dream of having a mother after decades of hoping for it is horrible. Yet, I can't explain it to anyone as most people - fueled by endemic media messages - assume ALL mothers are loving and caring, not abusive and cruel as mine is. So I have to grieve the loss of my dream (and of a mother for whom I did so much for over the decades), yet I will never get the sympathy or understanding from others. I will never get a funeral or other rite to process the grief. I just have to disengage by myself and never get to say goodbye or even grieve. What do we do when there is disenfranchised grief?
I witness your pain. I wonder if deeply processing the anger and frustration over the abandonment and the death of your hopes, practice accepting your reality, and embrace and support yourself and the maternal figures you can reach toward and count on will help you heal?
I am interested but can’t finish watching because if the interrupting and not allowing him to speak. The interviewer was not very trauma informed when speaking.
This is me exactly trying to listen to this but am thinking what i will be eating for dinner then i get back to listen then am thinking about tiktok video that i made earlier then get back to listen then am thinking about my boyfriend why he didn't text me yet...... oooofu so i have ADD
